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college is about as idealistic as the marine corps
dj’s that hype and pander to teens
list of cults needed
`/moving doesn’t change you – you are the same person wherever you go. however experiences can change you. ny
/it’s not the place it’s the people.
/bout mid age you’ll begin to want to have more contact with your roots.
/maturation – slow process
/teens want atten first, later approval
`/maturity test
don’t count the days
make and play for the breaks
/the overconfidence of youth
when going gets tough,?
/popularity – cliques – humility
religion, sex, booze, drugs, – escape.
/don’t worship music
/we were young, but we grew out of it
/reason: collectivists feel that only thru self sacrifice for the comm can vals be found, not in individualism.
`/idiotic idealism of nat. serv. Of c
/i’ll different in a diff place. so will girls etc.
/urban plunge: hs? kids learning bout hmless, wel app, soup kitch. in an undershirt during easter break. 22.50/wk for food for a fam of 3? t-shirts. reported by world of diff. ch 2. send ll?
/girl: why can’t we always be happy
l‑l8 unigue, now more and all, more soph, fun lst, our teachers,
hair, worship, like movies ,
l8‑25 revolt
/gov and parents always wrong
/no one 40 was ever l8
/peace, love
/our insts must do all but are always wrong
/swept down
`/over i.d. with stars (& turn on em)
/flics for youth
`/turn out like folks
/empty adults worship youth.
/peace, love
/hypocrisy
/lot is kept from youth till ready
`/have to test yourself when young- list the ways.
/do sports challenge youth the most? stu say going to be lawyer.
/nat serv: ccc. l yr=l0k ? for ed. children’s crusade -vista,p.c.
`/more freedom = more resp
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/r. samuelson w post 4/24/89 not a good one
our teens live in dreamland. less than an hr of hmwk/dy.
an adolescent subculture that’s been evolving.
stus of similar backgrounds do better at cath hi schs. where stu do 50% more hmwk and have more math, eng, and hist. folks of pub sch stu don’t use as much auth. since 60s schs less demanding. folks of cath schs use more auth. [so cath schs do].
recent reforms in pub schs have made slight diff.
40% of hs stu hve jobs. most are mc.
our cul: rights. question auth. self-exp. [starts to blow it]
parental guilt contributes. [how] kids should enjoy youth. sch shouldn’t spoil it.
am stus score lower in [academic] achievement than asians, but they and folks are more satisfied. [as all are spoiled] #
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/youth- afs mobbed jfk
/two eating and hungry man comes to the window of the restaurant.
/donahue having russian and us youth link up, rock, sing, talk about dating [probably 5th grade or less], wave, cheer, fun, etc. for world peace. Barf
/do mil academies breed leaders or does biz. Sig
/won’t rent to younger gen. but said same of hippies
/young, crazy, wild, outrageous
`/m- the kids of today are diff
/insert: when bing, joey know far more about wi fi, smart phones, 4k hd tv far ahead of my even hearing about it. when
/youth – a conductor could feel the diff in energy in a young orchestra
`/ youth . the perfect love. worship ground she walks on
/jolana’s girl going to taiwan as missionary
/youthful vengence gives way to a broader perspective in mid age -= & can’t stay mad forever
/latch key kids 5? or 8-l3. 5% of us. mostly white upper mc
/if kid not resp in hm & sch, he won’t be w/ a car. it’s a privilege
/to be young is good. to be young with right guidance, advantages, talent? is superb
/lot of foreigners find it strange we boot our kids out at l8
/pri eye kids got into it more when turning l8 ???
/mid mang throws young wrkrs to the slaughter
/hair in the face heavy metal teens on tv defending their lifestyle, music, rebellion, adversity to reality [resp], groping, isolation? it’s all radical stage.
/youth in 20’s want to belong, charm, talk bout selves
/cat nuyen found in hi sch: the minority on top didn’t want to make waves and the bottom didn’t care. what was issue
/I saw the miracle. at l8. inspired. now I see it as adolescent idealism. But now 4/l8 the story on wiki looks like a tricky mix of rel and love, oh boy.
/youth – the time to explore
/vita craft girls wanted to prove they could make it on own
/too many articles on affect of stock crash on yuppies – youth worship
/youth is idealistic. so easy for them to think god picked them out
/youth: new beat, sound, interns, fam, sex, relationships, customs, clothes, cults, left, right, pol vs more they change, more the same
/too much glorification of college youth – darmouth weekend, harv/hal gam/ army navy game. what bout youth that do not go to college.
/teens: protest?, rebel, id, boredom, affected, insecure, unfillfilled, terribly self-conscious, hiding, testing, outrage, crazy, dribble
/i never thot much about those who didn’t go to prom
/so idealistic when I saw the miracle. didn’t get Don Quiote and was right. thot jon livingston seaqull = 0
/how did youth decide vw was wrong [& how much of this was draft evasion]
/I always got self-righteous bout rich next to poor – little realizing it’s the system.
/adolescence: feel they are only ones sensitive or can save world. touchy bout appearance. feel whole world watching them and is their audience. less of this after l7.
`/called men in cg. boys in college
/teen talk: world is wrong so be coddled, mess up, expect understanding & forgiv.. has em sitting with feet dangling
/l0 or l2 yr old who can lay lk bricks a day. -one of best things I’ve seen.
/catering to youth in the WAY they remember
/worshiping it is like worshiping bicentential? v-e day, opening of panama canal?, landing on moon? or march on wash, or
/ballet or sports game just right one night.
`/dressing up more doesn’t mean more fun.
/same person in diff location
/lot of dumbness irregardless of ed
/empty mid aged intellect flew to the young: greening of am 82-3 t of p
`/fads: sleep teaching
/what the young and the world of pop music [musicians? reviewers] want to believe is that music changes society. bull. it’s only a reflection of matters. which gets quoted. it’s all to make $.
[people think they want to see a fight]
/sig of fam and ed. even from a great distance: kids here [at l2] and folks in old country. kids obligated to do well for fam honor and to repay.
/some kind of war games would have been fun in scouts – capture the flag
/those who review rock bands, and pop’s music place take selves too seriously. music reflect; it doesn’t create. protest, love, flag, rebel
/become an adult and end of change
/can’t wait in 20s, but can in mid age
`/the young think they can change people.
/youth – girls in some area chase guys – romania? said meti
/your kid should know how to what at what age
/all that singing as a kid – fun or not?
/eval? my youth: sports, sunday sch, church, hobbies, friends, fam deals, trips, cubs, boy scouts, released time christian ed, museums?, anaconda, treesweet, back bay, dana pt. summer camp, jobs: lq, norman’s with jasper? waiting for me to come hm on cycle. parties in jr hi. sea scouts. bikes, cars, clothes, forts, fox holes. lessons for music [practicing], dance, swimming, phillips crusaders. bongos, bull whip. jamboree. beach. we didn’t know any victim of crime or terrible accident. or minorities? stuff on walls. which teachers, adults, etc stuck out, which exp? tests, traumas? ski trips, ice skating trips, trips to la, cliftons. aunt mabel’s, granny’s, cousins.
[4/l8: I must have left out a lot]
/boy scout oath. getting sworn in cg. vows of nuns. oath of office. hippocratic oath.
dressy keeps it from getting rowdy – for the young.
/roger daltry – saying funny how you become the establishment you were always rebelling against.one rev said the harder one’s life the faster the maturation. and reporter said the more mature , the more eager for academics??????
/tv is the 3rd parent
/former prost thanked cop for bugging her as it finally got her out of it. she gave him a peck.
/kids of today know more, yet are illiterate
/cal has highest teen ow births. and optional sex ed
`/their gen will conquer, save the world. all is diff, new
/l ronstad’s agent thot hanging round with j. brown was bad for her image
/hey the teen are going to outsmart the adults and point out inconsistency or hypocrisy or cheating. yea teens. adults should never have tried. defy them. we got the goods on you. ha ha. move aside. we’re new
/rock singers came out of same cookie cutter and same dumpster
/what love a hi sch kid has for his car
/l4 or l5 yr old can’t use a cooking grill. teen can’t work past 7? on sch night or 9 in summer.
/teen doesn’t listen to anyone but another teen
/gene burpo said in ‘47 he was l8 and swamped potatos for $l50. people made and could live in l5-25/wk. his fam worked fields for 3 yrs.
/love that joyous, celebrating dancing on music videos – latoya jackson, etc
/never tell you how age affects your views
/pc, vista = missionary idealism
/teens oblivious to fact adults don’t like their music at wk
/nicest paper boy, james, came by to collect $2.00. and left his dippy little receipt. americana – does your heart good to see a nice kid. a well behave kid is something to behold – paper boy
/sally kiest said her sorority sisters used to collect and dump one admirer after another
/girls banged into back of me, then were laughing
/teen gal that saw comp imaging for hairstyle and said isn’t that RAD? that’s awesome. moment of discovery.
example of how adults could live thru youth
/iraq and roll – take offs on persian gulf crisis. cute , exuberance of youth.
/funny how sports or something will cause a teen to come alive- that gal in v-ball on tv
/sports good for wc as disc, super, atten, tuffness, challenge, scrappy,
/youth: make allowances case you get into wrong field
/i never guessed at the respect middle age people have for young love.
/want to prove selves.
/terrible looking singers for we are the world, do they know it’s xmas
/teen with colored braces and teens in e. germ apprenticeships – LOOK irresp, but it’s their youth, carefree ways, humor, etc.
/sa hist & theories i told chet – clique into frats. gays, class, good 50s, conform, proms, $, talent, ends of town, religion, outgrow, college – obj. alc, crime?, pregnant, clique still successfull, later bloomers, psych?, be fun – have fun. yrs later still goodwill? or bs. newcomers who got in – melinda.
/some kid on cul de sac with cutest voice
/told afs, don’t come back and expect it the same
/beguiling – l deceiving 2 captivating, charming
/the young have never been old
/the energy, intensity, and passion of young musicians at moscow
/glad folks didn’t press any religion on us. and i’d never do it to kid.
parents should raise kid to be good, right, proper, honorable, mature, etc. and religion can help or hurt that
/nat serv. vs add to police aux. compare it to exchange student progams. or living elsewhere?
/college stu = child [when your own]
/media laps up katrerina vit and brian butano. live thru it
/young men going off to foreign lands to prove selves
/being in mass demo or rally gives the young [and others] the feeling they can change things, do something, make a diff, power.
/anti war grps need some new symbols and songs. old ones have stigma
/blk gal wouldn’t have had the courage to demo, had she not gone to blk college
/rockers would have cared for selves better if they knew they’d live so long
/dead poets showed the young always have to be testing, thus “plots” etc.
/those great and glorious years – finally free for lst time in ny – should have come earlier
/your brain has its own set of gears
/the commraderie of the service is bit like that of team sports
/mid age: things you don’t talk about around the young. this reminds me of same when i was young. mid aged people would ask me something, get answer, pause, and change sub. as couldn’t go into it
/guys dying to get home from gulf. i had forgotten the impatience and intensity of youth
/youth. your obligation to animals. junk about mental disc in sch.
/nothing like a kid to make you believe in life
/aud – the young feel they have to figure it all out. the older know you don’t and can’t
/m- the kids of today are diff
/youth don’t realize how valuable things can be later on.
/”the new class”
/kids of today know more, yet are illiterate
/get a bunch of c stu’s at a candlight rally and they really bond. means a lot to them. singing
/youth must figure it all out by 25 and then dispense it to world
/putting kid in marching band with big uniform = 0
/the older you get the more you question?
/mid age and older people encourage the young [under 25?] to enjoy life, be natural, not judge too much, as your young only once and love is scarce and precious, rare, only that way when your young. discoveries, lst time experiences, [ but to keep it wholesome, innocent?]
/the older you get the more you question everything.
/it’s all happened before
/the young feel they have to figure it all out. the older know you don’t and can’t
/youth believe in dreams
/mtv shows the originality of youth
/the warriors & macho flics: who can look the most sullen, wronged, mean, sour, scowlling, growing pains peaked, we’re the best, bigger leathers, studds, sacrificial on the front lines of life, self-engrossed, worthy of adulthood, sweaty, grubby, dirty,
/a veteran of combat knows the meaning of peace.
/unity = ?
/if they ever held the camera still, you could SEE the dancers
/who ever dreampt that cable would come up with so much – amazing – & shows the originality and energy of youth.
/fred smith? started fed express. he was captain at 22 and said l8 yr olds were just kids. [ me gen, hippies, yippies, tweeners,]
/stus more concerned with self than soc. – horrors. called silent gen
/yuppies. lost gen.
/tsar nicholas’ girls asking for permission to join a traditional? xmas dance around the fire with the soldiers, getting it and kicking up their heels.
/band called taxi dancer that came back from the break and started in the dark with a scream into the lst part, then the lights came up.
/you heard that lonesome train whistle in the middle of the night and dreamt of far away places.
/good parts of youth: parties, companionship, discovery, wholesomeness, camping, out of door activities – sea scouts, camping. sports,
/just knowing there was a kid like correy
/teeners want to be diff and the same
/youth thinks music is terribly sig, sign of times, the lst to express their feelings, will change world?, brings unity, it’s pure?
/being conceited
/so cute of kids 3 abreast crawling along on all fours on the playground.
/camp skit, spit out water from dipper, and throw confetti at aud.
[folly of youth – that success will be sudden [and [perm][it’s just about to happen]
/success, romance, etc are just around the corner
/l 800 teenage = youth for understanding. exh program.
/what health educators tel “children” about aids.
/only a few get into pro ball
/tell kids they won’t all be michael jordans nor einsteins.
/3 things delayed maturation for teens: compulsory ed, prohibition of work, categorizing juv crime separately. Tv sig
/i resent college, mil and church.
/you don’t know it till it happens to you. THUS teens should be exposes to morgues, wrecks, tapes on youth problems, addiction. that’s also an argument for disc.
/youth tests cops for what they didn’t get at home.
———— stopped here 4/l8 —— – – going up or down
/we were never tormented as kids. and didn’t torment others.
/youth – tawdryness of boxing, record industry, carnivals.
/hollywood: what’s worse thing about you – your nose …. = bo derick’s claim to be out of shape in l0. always praising ea. other. fit into this the record industry – on the road.
/everybody dance now. bout music videos. great. – to be young
./being middle age is seeing young musicians play with passion.
/youth is time to pass vs fill
/people in 20s want everything new. then in middle age they get nostalgic for their youth.
/adolescents criticize. adults build.
/rock concerts must give young a feeling of power and accomplishment to fill their idealistic void. escape, fantasy.
/so many forces asking you not to grow up – lib ….
/used to be: bury a kid when he’s l4 and dig him up when he’s 25. now you wait till he’s 30.
/tawny athletic teenage guys
/jr lifeguards develop maturity. refreshing.
/mid adolescence is age l6 thus l3 – l9?
/kids invented fun
/teens got out of the car at signal, ran around, and got back in.
/the magical moments of one’s youth tell a lot – hobbies, careers, adventures.- Long term introspection ……………………. nonsense.
/imagination good for kids as easy to be a step ahead of em.
/youth disappointed in mil cutbacks. best thing that ever happened to em.
/hi spirits of youth
/how to get back at kids. how to get even with kids.
/If you’re young and not a socialist you don’t have a heart. If you’re old and a socialist, you don’t have a brain.
– Use professionals and the book WHAT COLOR IS YOUR PARACHUTE to help your young people find what they are intersted in. Then assist them with a practical education towards those interests.
Unity …………………………… diversity.
/m you have to get even
/kids look up to cops.
/If you’re young and not a socialist you don’t have a heart. If you’re old and still a socialist, you don’t have a brain.
/sure is nice to have kids in your life. viets.
/wartime vs peace time. war makes bloods and crips and riots look like a pinic
/cul rev in china was adolescent gullibility mob violence.
/madonna’s holiday – a celebration of that age. expectations, infectious. no wonder foreigners go for lot of our stuff.
/youth – throw it out, start over.
/reporter in afgahanistan: saw the rebels romantically till learning of revenge cults, murderous paranoia, kidnaping, lying, treatment of women. 92
/travel and what else is so broadening.
/why not comics or photos of youth. how and how not to walk down the st. loud, jerky, pushing, put on, for atten, show, vs wholesome
/stu exchange: assc, 559 68l7. 800 733 2773. mex, jap, spain, prot, france, Italy
/ show were the power lies, how things get done, what works [cons]
/all artists, musicians have to be underground, trendy, etc.
/those who avoided vw faced: l) a less privileged boy went in his place 2) mil is one test of manhood 3) he missed a test of leadership
/when you ed kids, they’re obligated to be decent citizens.
/lot of the camaraderie in viet evaporated when guys got back here. ty of youth.
/xmas was ruff on esl students
/easier to be lawyer, dr, etc, than to get into nba. to young blks, gov won’t save you, blk leadership won’t; only you can. la t mag ll/92
/youth like images: jfk, c. chavez. older people like facts.
/all the “shoulds” of the past – holidays, weekends, vacations, summers, pop.
/kids celebrate life – joy. an otter too.
/sparkle plenty
/you have to go thru so much alone. even now I have no one to talk to.
/more or less smk and alc in mil. bob [alex…?] said glad he didn’t join mil as funnest time l9-25
/post adolescent dogmatism.
/it’s the vanity of every gen to see its problems as unique
/only one gang or slovely type in mall at a time.
/soc life judged you fairly.
/oh no, the kids are taking over the school.
/youths have obligations.
/alt music, underground … , contemporary … neo?, new
/finding out the dj wasn’t 007
/what’s in and out. underground. rave,
/you’re a man; you’re a kid.
/things last forever
/dancing youth = celebration of life. before settling down.
/look up. get to be a senior and look around
/discoveries of youth: johnny martin screaming, bill cipriano, guy on trumpet, mo, va dunn, ronny meyer, billy swisshelm.
/2 themes: sex and rebellion.
/that dressed down look.
/private eyes, dent assist. teacher’s aides, pol aides, nursing hms, media, think tanks. non profits
issues im reform, workfare, marches, lawsuits, picketing, boycotts, initiatives, referendums, and recalls. privatization, capitalism. sm biz.
Avoiding job quotas, charity, subsidies, and preferential treatment. no mil.
/kids don’t do what they’re told, but what they see.
/need small util meter or coin box for teens on refrig, dryer, etc.
/directory – careers in world affairs
/see skit
/capture the i of youth while they are still unattached.
/the little guy who follows me.
/2.5 yr old called 9ll when ma passed out.
/dumplings, little bug faces, jr.. elfenheimers,
/cue-pee doll.
/cute teens hadn’t found a valentine but said there are 2 days left.
/cutie-still-skin
/two l5? yr olds before valentine’s day. well we still have two days left. adorable.
/wasn’t it mary lu gundling who thot she should be more mysterious. cute.
/boomers, tweeners, lost gen,
/think songs were written for them. /flames shooting out of saxophone
/you can see how our parents thrilled for us.
/funny when viet kids got mad at ea other: cho ya vu nah bo !
/700-800 cults in us.
/when a kid on a trip, you want to sit in the front seat.
What school kids look up most often in the encylopedia:
l dog 2 cat 3 snake 4 president 5 bird 6 flag 7 horse 8 fish airplane ll baseball l2 whale l3 elephant l4 football l5 animal
/ our youth. need far more realism.
they can get carried away – radicalism, cults,
/finding your way instead of getting your way.
/teen flic. a girl was kissed and the world turned pink. when love was young. love potion opera brot this back.
/save our youth – kids going to inauguration need trans, clothes, etc. 93
/studies show when teens work more than 20 hrs/wk, their grades drop. tv
/k-am assoc of oc 530 4810 parenting sem.
/ https://www.google.com/#q=brokaw+korean+students+flashlights
/kids more soph than you think. – sch bus.
/walking behind appealing gal and wonder WHAT could she look like?
/youth l8-25 take themselves so seriously and are encouraged to save the world etc.
/pub insts: congress, org religion, sup crt, ed, big biz, org labor. conf in all declined last 25 yrs. 93 la.
/cat tuong nyugen? And david hartmand – 0
/teens don’t have the judgment.
/2500 cults in us?
/stu protests – testing
/skinhds in e germ: commraderie, strength, zenophobia, scapegoat, uib, envy, fear of unknown.
/kid in hm dep in trash barrels being carted out, kept popping up.
the faith, hope, and immortal confidence of youth. /buttons, pumpkins, bug meisters,
/paul mccartney said more hope in 60s. 93
/paul mccartney and ice t. bad world but youth can save us.
/which stu movements are legit.
/how many are stopped in tracks by becoming parents.
/life is expensive; drive defensive.
/if you can’t do job as cop or whatever, you’re wasting your time. ???
/puddy tats can feel how much you like em.
/the young want to think they came up with something new – that’s fine in sci, tech, art, but doesn’t happen in hum nature, pol, econ, crime, disc,
/the vanity of youth
/during one’s youth, too much time spent on sch, church, sports, military, and popularity, and not enough time on work skills, …
/don’t a lot of non-religious kids turn out as well or better.
/child labor – farm kids
/if you’ve invested a lot in kids up to teen years, they’re obligated to maintain…
/tear it down … grow up
/under 30 – red guards
/hearing and seeing vera lynn sing we’ll meet again. you can just visualize how the young pined away during the war.
/interviewing teens: nr adults in physical maturity, but youths in mannerisms, talk, way their eyelids move as they look up. very appealing. you see what it’s all about.
/ma said lot parental support in laguna bch. same was in sa in our youth. sig.
/parents worried bout robert michum?, elvis, guns and roses
/we thot beattles haircut was bad, elvis, david bowie.
/downtown freddy brown
/chills up my spine – tonight is what it means to be young. = great title of a song. should be the final number of a hi sch show.
/apprenticeships – making cedar box in willard. [loan it to a girl]
/smidgeons, dinky doos.
/in rock and roll you’re not allowed to grow up. billy joel.
/frats and secret ceremonies.
/boozed gal said why can’t we always be happy?
/tiny time, david bowie, boy geo, – all worried folks.
/jagger is 3 yrs younger than me.
/young people have to be something bigger than themselves until they mature. thus religion, cults, gurus
/ l/2 of denmark’s hi sch grad go on to apprenticeships compared to 3% of ours.
/kid under l8 can’t operate power driven machinery.
/youth labor: newpaper boys suffer the most injuries, then young farm workers. i got injured twice at lq. didn’t someone else?
/valor and courage are the virtues of young men.
/now talk of lost gen of l6-24 yr olds. 93
/mtv awards. people look terrible and act dumb.
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/boys may be boys, but gentlemen have restraint; respect.
/youth go thru an ideology stage.
/the way kid’s eyes, mouths, and faces move.
/itty bittys
/how many teens played chicken after seeing rebel without a cause.
/i didn’t think i’d recover from appendix in 5th grade.
/have a hot car so you could beat another hot car at a stop sign. how often did that happen. about never.
/the young feel invicible.
/as a youth i repeated scout oath, y camp stuff, the pledge – all it and a dime got me a cup of coffee. sunday sch.
/need list of all communes & cults: branch davidians, rahish?, moonies, jonestown,
/children of god – used sex to lure recruits. another grp in fl used pot. peyote. maharashi. hari krishna. some gain $ power and or sexual power over followers. consent, coercion, crimminality.
/FINALLY someone, noted columnist samuelson showed how jfk wasn’t so hot. he’s fed up with everyone’s worshipping him.
taking oneself too seriously
/teens love to compete.
/the glow of youth.
/love of dance: los tarantos, midsummer night’s dream, clog, break, la bamba, tarantella.
/slipping into the Golden Bear. hearing em tune up, blend, then start. the power of it. the gal could wail.
/itty bitties, tykes, rug rats, micro-dots, munchkins, tadpoles, thesaurus
/kidlets, jr. …muppets, frogs, wind up toys, tadpoles, tykes, jr bug faces, frogs,
/asian kids. dainty flakes, itty bitties, little tykes – junior tadpoles – micro munchkins – so many have bobbed hair.
/kiddy-stil-skins
/squirrel packages, puddy tats/mouseketers/dinky dow – crazy.
/kids more slender and hair is thicker so they look like tadpoles
/pixies, spiders, bug people, wind up toys, buttons, jr small fry.
tidbits/buttons, tykes,
/beatle fans were talking buttons off the pages, hiding in laundry bins, anything to get close.
/that NY reunion was seeing how sig one’s youth was to one – even in that awful place. why should that be so surprising
/much harder to get life insur if you have abused drugs or alc with some cos.
/some youth at olympics, etc. have to rebel, make a statement, define the times, start a trend, a new age. el cordobes. of course the beatles brot in a whole new era. mick jaggar. id, ego.
/how sig your word is. gave your word.
/kisses sweeter than wine. how important songs were when we were young – a vehicle of dreams.
/games: bear, man, gun.
/chickadees, sprouts,
/asian kids in paper crowns after medieval times
/asian kid who leaned low in thru the gate looking for my monster sounds
/young men want to be warriors and to protect.
/childrens museum for kids ll-l7 in ny
/there isn’t an older person alive that doesn’t envy youth a little.
/8th grade girls are mean. tv
/teen puts gum in mouth just to get the atten of the prin who calls him down.
/little asian tyke sitting in the bottom of a shopping cart being pushed, singing to herself
/older I get the more I can appreciate a good film: WILDFLOWER. the subtleties of youthful attraction. the slow unfurling. guy fell in love over the rose and didn’t know it. delightful. cute, touching, heartwarming.
/little polka-dots.
/little pumpkins fanaticism is ty of youth ag
/some red guards turned down ride. insisted on walking [for the purging effects]
/youth see an auth figure cutting up or willing to learn minority dance – sets an example.
/i felt like bill cosby around em.
/kids shouldn’t talk to strangers. shouldn’t have name stenciled on belongings and should use a code word with adults they know.
/if I got involved with asian kids, it’d best be a bunch?
/kirk cobain was an unwilling symbol who gave a voice to millions, the musical artistic expression of what a gen of latchkey kids, an icon.
/little toys.
/having a room in turmoil is part of being young. vs resp.
/youths have to have a cause, a movement.
/one venerates one’s youth. 50s 60s.
/holyfield looked for pa. saw him in boxing coach. so got into it so he could be with him.
/jr polka dot people.
/asian-pacific youth leadership program – mcdonalds
/crusaders: young, naive, take selves too seriously, ambush interviews, strident, self-serving, simplistic, change freaks.
/fly in the ear with little twee.
/marines wanted to go to desert storm or somalia [as challenge, test.] they could say [to selves] they’d done it..
/w.c. fields never met a kid he liked.
/debolts of aask: let ea kid contribute and make his contribution valued.
/ gorgeous 5 yr old was little snow. wonderful kid. escape in china. tv
/when young sports are big deal, music too, religion? heros, politicians. all sorts of things on the way to maturity.
/end up in rocking chair, you want to be able to say at least I tried.
/youth fallacy: have to know all to guide world.
/youth want short cuts.
/when a teen, you hear of distant places and dream of some sort good life with perfect honies dying to meet you. more true of people with imaginations, and more true of the unhappy.
/youth fallacy: have to know all to guide world.
/youth want to change the world. only their gen can do it.
/woodstock/heros
/summer camp has to be one of the best things for a kid.
/guy on deck crew of carrier came back after serving his term and ask his buddies what they had done. just hung out.
/kids not subtle. easy to read. you can quickly tell what kind of hm they came from.
/mosquitos
/kids under 8 are not [capable] of being safe pedestrians. their folks overestimate their abilities.
/little smidgens
/jr chipmunks
/bug like asian kid with real thick glasses. you feel sorry for him having such poor eyesight so early.
/in 5th grade I made fun our saying we missed bob finster? but sure appreciated the card they sent me in the hosp. was sure I wouldn’t get well.
/young men love competition, testing, proving via sports, battle
/hispanic gal l4? walks by part tom boy, part movie star.
/teens seek id in clothes, car, friends,
/little bixbies.
/the flic: the warriors: victims, wronged, menacing.
/kidlets
/xmas for asian kids.
/sports taught teen girl weightlifters long term goals, where as her friends only thot a day ahead. my nieces?
/if hi schs could get just the orchestral part of the yani at the acropolis and let some teen sopranos fill it – great. the stuff of dreams.
/give em the love and let em fly.
/pub sch is all, but scouts is selective.
/twinkle toes /wee people
/in hi sch personality also meant a lot of ints, gumption,
/mt climbing is like ultimate fighting.
/forget the soph. be natural and the cute stuff will come.
/afs: you can’t go hm again.
/when in hi sch I thot it was dumb for some people to date others exclusively for months and months. i still do. just have been a security blanket.
/dumplings
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ow births 2 “date” knowing to check time of mo. if she misleads, how would you prove it. then auto abortion? they have to marry? no, but mutual support. she has to id him or what? can fatherhood be proven? – what do others do? if she won’t abort then he pays less?
ma to wk where there is child care?
/most ams over 50 support the dropping of the bomb on japan. most under do not. us news 3/l3/95
/what I am to be, I am now becoming.
/asian sch kid walks by with little sister. i said hello and smiled a big smile. they crossed at signal? and came back on the other side of the street to riverton, then she waved.
/every youth bonds with his neigh. pride, defensivness, brklyn.
Everyone 40 has been l6. Everyone l6 has not been 40.
/some leaders browbeat aud to death. and they WANT it. then he controls them, gives em security.
/very amusing to see this junior in hi sch – youth in the computer age. new gadgets, etc. wished we’d had computers.
/bronson and eastwood’s formula: gentle, yet lethal.
dianna merril said something similar of cliff
/itty bittys
/tiddly-winks.
/shana got pregnant, then anna.
/their kids got to them – rusk, mcnamara, [zumwalt?]
/mtv – a collection of everyone who is trying not to fit.
/l5 yr old on tv wants to have baby so someone will love her. a selfish reason, not realizing being a parent is the most selfless job in the world.
/tammy spoon was given great deal on a truck at l7? she scraped? part and left oil out. so did i.
/kid stories should revolve around asian kids.
/mtv takes itself too seriously, does all it can to be goofy, non-conformist, odd, is unhappy, shades, camera moving,
/reckless youth
/jr mermaids, little lolypop boys?
/mtv: sparks, dim lights, smoke, water, fire, trauma, action, wind, litter, flames, spray, crime, violence, titilation.
/real good to get away from home after hi sch. [but not too far]
/small fry silouetted against the sky as they scampered across the walkway over a freeway.
/some of the little 3 years old girls have a bow or pin in the hair on top of their heads which sticks straight up. nothing could be cuter.
/you don’t know what a cute is till you see asian kids.
/little smidgeons/snippets/bye bye spy guy.
/little pudd in tanes; little pudd’n head wilsons.
/why is mt climbing so appealing.
/youth didn’t know who geo m cohen or walter winchel were.
/teens act the way they dress.
/adorable antics
/l5 to 25 is the time to look good, not raunchy, grundgy.
/inky dinky doos.
/asian kids have higher pitched voices.
/baggy clothes: not way to rep your fam; disrespect comm standards; not clean cut?,
songs of dreams – a driving force. it’s why we go to work. people live thru music. it grinds at them. sublime torture.
/keith teen daughter thru in jeans. then woman in formal. same person.
/asian kids sitting on hunches waiting for sch bus look like toadstools.
/how easily we probably could have dropped out of the guard
/little pud-n-tanes.
/one’s social life in one’s 20 is so much more important than it is later.
/vacuous daytime shows: she looked good, he looked good, i was looking good.
/best reason to not have another war is so we don’t have to hear about another generation of baby boomers forever.
/young asian women so slender, they bend in the wind like a sapling.
/mtv. camera at angle, moving, zooming, cutting to keep us dizzy. I guess that spell excitement.
/cute catholic uniformed kids col & h. se corner.
/god made asian kids the cutest
/youth need to know true heroes are not sport celebrities but people who meet the challenges of real life.
/teen want atten. from adults. reciprocating doesn’t enter their mind.
/young talk on to reassure selves.
/title ady = ad to youth
/was called hyperactivity. now it’s add. kids take ritolin.
/if i had kid: fam. shrink, career counsel for int, experiences in that line, practical courses, shortcut c.
/teen flic heros [elvis] – tense, moody, sullen, terribly wronged, impatient, rebellious, lst to exp these.
/young men want a big adventure before settling down – vw. k.
/woman agent? said lot of rock artists are irresp. tv program on joe cocker.
/every gen wants to save the world. morality play. so lst of all it has to be going to the dogs
/saying goodnight to some dates. remember the feeling. then kelly danced in the rain.
/a young man goes off to test himself – and the service is one of the worst places to do [as not real world]
/007 flics remind you of the thrill of those when lst out. came out feeling debonair.
/youth compartmentalized [in willard, i never remembered living on flower]
/if young? museum patrons had to dress up, they’d be inclined to show more respect for the items.
/mono on indignation/some asian kids – dainty.
/teens want child to care for as they are not cared for.
/little league might help on park water, lights.
/fosdick ‑ generalities of being young.
/little tykes on the way home from school discovered they could scream. scream, scream, scream. and somebody likes you.
/citadel, age l8? reminds me youth: want to bond, test, i, id, ed, peers, goals,
/brot up to assume sex was dirty.
/model kids: naomi, bug face that came to see firewood, pigtail on ea side – in market.
/viet neighbor came in with her kids. the 2 yr old is perfection. lst to be self-conscious, feel peer pressure, to know more than our folks, to be on the beach under a full moon with empty arms ..arrrgggggggg.gg. to have a crush on someone who didn’t know we were alive.
lst to gossip, have a secret, pass notes, lst to rebel [by chewing gum? staying up late?}
/folks were square.
/got idea that sex was dirty.
/youth and sex ad: happy medium on talking and doing, best when emotional, have to handle it like alc, porn, smoke,
/olympics infl kids to get into gym.
/young men take off to join the military and the world and the lst thing they want to do after boot camp is return home [a hero]. other young people take off see the world by going to a big city or whatever. Some experience real loneliness. I saw this with foreign students and others. Some churches have an Xmas program so these people don’t have to sit home alone.
/all that stuff of late teen and early 20s of not showing up without a date.
/l00k set out for klondike. 30% made it.
/6k mile journey of self-discovery by padding kayak?
/wonder if only teens could come up with easy entry
/things like that can’t happen. it can’t happen to me
/get out of service where you were made a ‘man’ and get job as a delivery ‘boy’
./you hear bout some guy who got all the women, without thinking of the TIME involved.
/recent col grads think that if there are still checks in the checkbook, there still is $ in the bank.
/young get far more deep sleep.
/dick clark said musicians are nortoriously introverted.
/when parents cross line from motivation to intimidation with kids, it’s bad. tv re sports, etc?
/a teen’s car is an extension of him or herself.
/amish kids cried at separation. 2 hrs later were happy eating ice cream.
/boxing gives kids a pa figure, disc, face reality, no bs, take resp, esteem,
/linda said teens are so hard to raise, you have to remember when they were young.
/samoan woman in thrift store had 8 kids and said she kept em in line. no trouble.
/youth is wasted on the young
/guy hit Houdini
/wouldn’t you hate to have anything to do with college or the military and see those poor young folks being made to waste some of their best years?
/l6 yr old guys on beach who couldn’t get over their muscles
/teens have terminal boredom, punctuated by explosive energy
/having a teenager here is fun, they need their food and sleep to have such incredible energy. the boxer too. he’s 22. soon as his head hits the pillow he’s asleep. funny stuff they do reminds me of being that age – unlimited horizons.
/the immortality of youth
/parents can never cry the tears of their kids.
/love adrenalin rushes – thus take risks
/woman on news getting booted out of air force said, lst time she doesn’t have a dream
/amazing that kids can get to those pix. we were lucky we couldn’t get to such stuff. your teen angst would have been worse !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/yr or 2 ago 9? teens from newport hi in some vehicle crashed. l killed i think, and one, amada, brain damaged. her story on 20/20 tonight. slow partial recovery. tons of help from friends. made honorary hmcming queen. pretty. tuff story.
/teens need it from outside the hm. sea scouts
/individual teens like to definite beliefs whether right or wrong. just to have em and claim em as part of THEIR id.
/$l50k to raise a kid up to age l7. then comes c. 97
/got to have thrills, rushes
/want to fall in love, but not be in love as resp…
/in explaining, start with extemes
/clip joint car dealerships right off mil bases take young mil guys. who default, and taxpayers pick up the diff. tv 98. mil used to taking orders, they don’t ask, nor question. hi int.
/mike wallace said he was very immature at 25 with b.a.
/showing kids drip castles
/their eyelids rise and fall differently than those of older people. very becoming.
/stinky davis, bobby green teeth
/graduated licensing for teen drivers in some states.
/l6 yr olds have 3 times the no of accidents as l8 yr old. tv 99. and they kill and injure more
/forbidden fruit is most attractive to young people.
/war is portrayed as training, equip, to rush off and quickly beat the enemy. The reality is endless walking and trans, logistics, gov bur, cya, hurry up and wait, alph order, boredom, see who can get out of the most work, no freedom, no privacy, mutual
for those on the front it’s being at a car wreck everyday, slaughter, expendable – lonely. Old men sending young men off to die. Fight for your buddies.
/many advantages to growing up in the same town. [But how big?] as you always have that frame of reference. Yet who did well: Melinda, Ralph allen, kay elliot,
/lightning strikes – you realize lot of teen yrs are about discovery and excitement, not resp.
/the eighty yard run by Irwin shaw
/amazing condition we were in: swim team went up greyback and down in one day and then I went out that nite.
/cracks me up – teens lead the way: Clique of Instant Messaging Expands Into the Workplace
By AMY HARMON
Instant messaging, long used by teenagers, is moving into the workplace with an impact that is rivaling rival e-mail and the cellphone. 2003?
/when young, you live in different worlds and never join the 2 or 3 or .. however many.
/seeing a kid of 7 glide out of hm dep on shoes with rollers on em
/Rock ‘n’ roll remains necessary because we need exhilaration and a sense of invincibility, even if it’s only now and again
/hap used to hang out at palmer’s gas station on l7th. I think that was the name. interesting how boys have to branch out, test this and that
/remember that white late teen in dc dressed like a black in some light purple outfit with a cape crossing some grass.
/google scours to find young brains, then caters to em. Sports, free cooked food of any kind which many take back to their desk to work. Trips. 3k workers. [They tap their incredible energy]
/they don’t know what quiet is. music everywhere
/groups in hi sch are: moving out of nest, testing, id, ladder?
/we said sq once in a while, never nerd.
How Hip-Hop Music Lost Its Way and Betrayed Its Fans By BRENT STAPLES
Rap music, which started out with a broad palette of themes, has increasingly evolved into a medium for worshiping misogyny, materialism and murder.
/our youth: we didn’t know of any gangs. Delinquents. No name calling,
/belonging to something outside one’s home as part of testing, competition – rivalry, attention, approval?
/ “When you’re 25, you can eat hamburgers and pizza and drink beer and stay out all night and come out the next day and drink a couple cups of coffee and just play. If I did that today, my heart would stop and I’d need a stretcher and an IV.”
MIKE PIAZZA, the 37-year-old Mets catcher.
Rules Kids Won’t Learn in School

/martha Hughes said the loneliest time for a new student in hi school is lunch time – you hang around by yourself.
/they should role play: start fires, see how fast they spread, then put em out.
/talked to cloie and her sister baby, 8 and 4, yesterday at the stables. For some kid time. Neat how they respond. Later at dance saw an l0? Yr old boy who’s the new brando. Amazing how youth can affect one.
/parents should do the parts of the family tree that will be meaningful to a kid – like, hist, inventions, parental sacrifice, vals,
/guy in a scion had in it: gps, radar detect, blue tooth, tv = electronic generation
/some teen boys are all adams apples. They’re growing so fast their mouths hang open to get more oxygen.
/you see white kids freaking out over elvis but never latino and black kids
/Wendell said when young, they’d have dress down days and the disc would go to pot.
/dressing up a kid in an expensive uniform to play in a band is too much. Santa ana winds
/ http://www.corazondevida.org

/wonderlust
/ 3 yr old on star wars – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBM854BTGL0
/as a teen, I parked with a girl along some river. Cops told us that was dangerous.
/youth – the time when great things fashion themselves
/how lucky those are to grow up close to the bch
/why do little girls carry little dolls. In stollers too. Do little boys carry anything?
/dr phil: teen don’t realize what their actions can result in. can’t predict the outcome of their actions
/ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMW1loCBKcs – sts of fire. Wonder if I could write about it
/need grounding etc before running into cults, rel,
/if I were a parent, I’d start my kid out on the net as soon as possible. Otherwise he’d be at a great disadvantage. Like jacky
/get pregnant as looking for unconditional love. It’s an ache in them
/love to hoot
/ The Pink Floyd Night School By MARK EDMUNDSON A professor hopes that his graduating students know that everyone deserves a few aimless years after college.
/freaking out over women. But still doing it now over asian babes.
/kid playing with new video game in bb – totally unaware of how lucky he is
/had influence on us: scoutmaster kirk, lund, engman, mcgee, coleman, beck,
/some bks were such big deals: should find a list of best sellers – peyton place, Kinsey report, elmer gantry?, status seekers, hidden persuaders, man in gray flannel suit, org man, exodus,
/search myths of youth: new lang – vocab, beat, look, vals, romance, music
/8 yr old prodigy said harry potter helped her connect with …….
Lot of child prodigies fade as adolescents
/g’s sis had to get out of pi. Not same for me but NY was similar. Who else had to get out. Some blk from oc from another class. Those teens in lena. wow
/you’ve been sacrificed for. From c dickens?
/ puppets and kids
/gal at party in cm said, why can’t we always be happy
/teens are moralistic
/they have a greater need to judge
/youth worship: trophies, tear up desert in dune buggies, moto-cross, footloose, the warriors?
/teens have to hang out to spread their wings, but have a place to come home to.
/your job and who you marry is sig for girls in s. korea. so becoming a flight attendant is sig.
/if I had it to do over: grow up in santa monica, playa del rey, pacific palisades, where is the best surf, marina del rey, yr abroad?, yr at Harvard?, an apt in ny?, wk in d.c. , eur. Hong kong
/tv rock the wall – 0 but rock and roll helped end the cold war – http://www.google.com/#hl=en&output=search&sclient=psy-ab&q=rock+and+roll+helped+end+the+cold+war&oq=rock+and+roll+helped+end+the+cold+war&gs_l=hp.3…1896.12304.0.12848.37.33.0.4.4.0.185.3648.18j15.33.0.les%3B..0.0…1c.1.9xA97A-KVWc&pbx=1&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.r_qf.&fp=1b5b849ef3dd5694&bpcl=37189454&biw=1280&bih=628
/mislead: student loans, ending up as homeless vets, cults, rel…,
/try to purify and live thru youth – kumari in Nepal = some child goddess
/shindig, hootnanny, hullabaloo , am bandstand,
/teens are dying for atten. No wonder some girls dress too …..
/hi sch? Girl at pancake brkfst – complete looker, but …………….tatoos
/youth are mislead by sch, mil, rel, gov,
/The Thrill of Breathlessness
By TIM WINTON
A diving death is a reminder that sometimes young people need to register the cold scorch of fear to feel truly alive.
/you go on to a schoolyard, the little boys with no dads come right up to you.
/youth is ready to give the world the full benefits of their inexperience. Paraphrase of ….oscar wilde. Make that c students. No leave it
/initiations: we had our paddling, gangs have their beat downs or jump ins
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/cath – heavy baggage
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Cats: intro – me, neigh, teen, teen myths, pro here? sch, c, I, travel, myths, young adult 20+ wk, young adult myths.

/mudd’s program on ed, 5 parts, said we venerate youth
/john silber
/rites of passage rebel? Search myths of youth youthful myths
/youth is wasted on the young
/soon as you get tatoos, people lose sympathy for you. ??? same with hair, clothes, manner.
/amazing innovations on tv. – that’s youth. 9/9l
/Go over this list with your young people once a year. They won’t believe it, but it’s our obligation to expose them to it.
/ duty
/Rule #1. Life is not fair. Get used to it. The average teenager uses the phrase “it’s not fair” 8.6 times a day. You got it from your parents, who said it so often you decided they must be the most idealistic generation ever. When they started hearing it from their own kids, they realized Rule #1.
Rule #2. The real world won’t care as much about your self-esteem as your school does. It’ll expect you to accomplish something before you feel good about yourself. This may come as a shock. Usually, when inflated self-esteem meets reality, kids complain that it’s not fair. (See Rule No. 1)
Rule #3. Sorry, you won’t make $50,000 a year right out of high school. And you won’t be a vice president or have a car phone either. You may even have to wear a uniform that doesn’t have a Gap label.
Rule #4. If you think your teacher is tough, wait ’til you get a boss. He doesn’t have tenure, so he tends to be a bit edgier. When you screw up, he is not going ask you how feel about it.
Rule #5. Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping. They called it opportunity. They weren’t embarrassed making minimum wage either. They would have been embarrassed to sit around talking about Fifty Cent all weekend. Myths
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Keeping all of this tho using some of it below:
/cults /youth believe in gurus – think more of others than of themselves
/cultists have low self-esteem. late teens, early 20s are when people are forming id’s and most open to changing their religious outlook. breakup of a rel, death of a loved one, etc. leave some vulnerable. people want the structure and auth of a cult. it simplifies life. you give up your worries. 24 hr structure. cults had big growth in tumult of the 60s & 70s – as a moral vacuum. la 3/93. the phil isn’t so sig. people join for the warmth and enthusiasm of members or the charisma of the leader. acceptance, belonging at the price of your thinking and id. joiners not looking for something spiritual. leaders become corrupted by power. sleep deprivation; limiting outside contacts, lack of pri and time for reflection. some critics say brainwashing [mind-control]. others say this is after the fact excuses to explain beh they [former members] are embarrassed about. mind-controlling techs also used by mil, frats, and catholic orders. people call it mind control when they don’t like it. if it doesn’t work, then deprogramming shouldn’t work. but it does. thus middle ground: control for those who want it. salesmen produce a mild hypnotic trance. majority of those in hi demand grps leave in yr or two. what does that say about mind control. # 3/l0/9
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/people in their young 20s want to be loved, belong. unity
/impressionable youth – religious flics a la Hollywood
/they want quick results: destruction is quick; construction if slow. Thus …war ……
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/rebel in your personal life avoid black and white statements and commitments – always, never, vows
/all want to idealize their youth 50s 60s. nevertheless I grew up in the wonderful 50s. They were like ‘HAPPY DAYS’ on TV. The early 60s were still good; afs here? then came the sloppy late 60s when the baby boomers came of age. Oh boy. Many things have been sloppy since.
/what never changes and what has changed
/5th grade, now I know everything, 6th…. Bankruptcy made easier – after 78?
Youth want to feel we all belong –
/conformity – l3. Need for atten.
/silber: window girls window l5-25
Intro: some items below are what I’ve read that makes sense to me and much is what can only be learned from experience. Thus much of this will be in first person, often as if talking to youths.
it is my opinion, based on a lot of the biggest teacher – experience. Had to get this started?
/lot can’t talk sensibly about sex, rel, war,
/if starting over I’d as a teen I’d want to work part time in computers, hm dep, re, cars?
I read that being in an all-you-can-eat contest is one of the worst things you can do to your health.
/trophies

hum nature – being used
/avoid gov: mil, gov agencies, jury duty.
/big lib until they have a kid sig
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/see life = what you need to get thru life.
/the real world is biz, ag many fields biz , and many other fields. The unreal world is sch, gov thus the mil, and in my opinion rel. you have to pay taxes, help defend the country [in a sensible way], vote [altho ……] and be a good citizen.
/didn’t have shrinks excusing criminals and …. Less bankruptcy, bailed out and stim bringing debt
/didn’t have to take as many remedial classes in c
/lgbt
/lot of temp jobs are to look you over
/eitc, eth, tower, oranges.
/recruitment ch. uniform
/a “specialist” in the army
/mil wastes some of your best yrs.
/war is glorified. Guys came back, not believed, so didn’t talk about it
/think they will be diff person in diff place. & not the place, but the people.
/wannabees wannabes , heartbreak, Klondike – 30% didn’t make it, but had the chance to try. many never have or take the chance to chase their dreams. where for sports, and who goes on the road?, who never gets off the road?
/ like to pigeonhole everything. They talk of the 70s, 80s and other decades as if eas l9-25 50s, 60s, 70s, greedy 80s
/terms, latchkey kids, throwaway kids, lost gen, gen x, gen y…
/youth worship. – only youth can save us d
/teen adolescent, youthful offender, delinquent, c kids
/cater to you as they missed or feel they missed a lot of their youth and seek to live thru you.
fads – ands across am. Olympics, /stigmata,
/youth – idolizing another cul. over id
myths – /fallacies of youth are l perfection/purity 2 last forever 3 you have to figure everything out.
/by moving to a different place, you will be a basically different person.
/youth pitfalls: new, unity, save, ed, sci, psych, etc.
/generation gap ……………….. not among well‑adjusted people.
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/ cults [and sects?] 60s & 70s – as a moral vacuum la 3/93 Some critics say it’s brainwashing [mind-control]. Others say this is after-the-fact excuses to explain behavior they [former members] are embarrassed about. Mind-controlling techniques are used by mil, frats, and catholic orders. People call it mind control when they don’t like it. If it doesn’t work, then deprogramming shouldn’t work, but it does. thus middle ground: control for those who want it. salesmen produce a mild hypnotic trance. what does that say about mind control. # 3/l0/9 Cults had big growth in the tumult of the 60s & 70s.
/skip vows and never or always – control
/morality plays see psych? Vows,
/language that offends doesn’t persuade.
/childish vs childlike
/funny how the young want reform etc. in ussr, while the old hold out – like watergate – the young would come clean; the old were corrupt.
/ disillusioned in wk: ed, sw, rel, pol, gov,
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/disillusionment in rel, ed, psych, sw, gov – mil,
/dirty secret of iq
/ your views are greatly shaped by your mentality and your experiences.
/resenting sch, mil, church …
/jargon: educationalese, militarese, bureaucratese,
/add cover to my bk
/striving for id: clothes, music, slang, trans,
/Olympics are part of youth worship
/watch out for stu drs. and paralegals
/tommy – the rock opera in the 70s
/many people miss opportunities
/a good part of luck is due to being prepared for opportunities
/how important were our bikes. Not as much as our cars
/Woodstock expected 50k and got l0 times that. 3 days and nites.
/ /fix cults, title?
/cs is rare in every field. That’s one reason people want independence.
/man studying g language on utube. His kids listening quickly surpassed him
/some l0? Yr old said ‘mom and dad, that’s gross/
/ https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=guerilla+gardeners
/you want an ed
/mature to handle alc, drugs,……..AND religion
/dream of a Chinese teen working at mcdonalds also indian teen working in a restaurant
Outlook – Your outlook is greatly shaped by your mentality and your experience.
/ What I meant was they make such a big deal out of it – the end of this and that giant change, his effect on the universe, his being the only voice for this and that, the world will never be the same, blah blah…….. The record industry loves to take itself too seriously, the media have to worship youth, the middle-aged weirdos who missed things try to live thru youth …………….
My term: /youth worship is the wrong term –connotes rel. try veneration, idealize
/ young – ga: tradval, ed, ment, c, i, job,
/try to be realistic about rel. fix
/ a lot depends on your parents or guardians, your neigh, eth?… = way you talk … thus ad to poor kids in one col, ad to mc , then to rich
`/comprehensives for a degree
/ your born free, free ed, ….sex ed
/soon as you can: get your folks to shrink fam. int tests, exp, apprentice, intern, vol wk. credit
/make flow chart: tradval to head off booze, drugs, gambling, radicalism, cults,
/minor: under l8
/afs was wholesome and sensible, not gooey, schmaltzy, hugging every 2 min, hooting
/secular guidelines for youth – 0
/have 2 diff characters go thru life: pri vs gov, rel, sch, mil
/disc and restraint vs lib let it …..
/when young, you have no idea of the mems you’re building
/sex ed
/indent the blues on the post
/shindig, hallabaloo, hootnanny, rock concerts, ? raves? Jams,
/prisons: sch, mil, debt, small town provincialism, religion, weather, no car, commute, some relationships, obligations…..rels?
/beautiful Iranian teens so cute – they love k-pop
/no one tells your about disillusioned students, mil, pros, parents?, clergy, parishoners, pols – all
/be careful as fanatics will keep you from abort….
/arbitrary, insular, narrow,
/some women and parents at their wits end. How can you make their families poorer or carry a heavier burden
/if you respect the burden of parenthood, fix, support abort
/are you ready to say goodbye to your child
/why not a field kit for boy scouts
/if in danger of a fight, fake a limp
`/go to reunions – perspective
/hootnanny, hulabaloo, shindig, hoe-down
Search youth fads
/great Asian kids at the end of moya
/flaws: mil, much of c, rel, nat serv
Definitions: youth, teen, adolescent, minor, juvenile, child, search synonyms
/when a teen and out single in a spec place, I thot would be great to have a date. When I did, it thot too bad as so many fine single honies around
/I resent parts of sch, mil, c, rel, jury duty, parts of voting etc, tax time, gerrymandering, electoral college, unions?,
/millennials think all owe them all
`/brand new car.
`/those news to the area, also foreigners
/think more of leaders than you do of yourself
/some want to join unions
/need tradval set before smk, peer pressure, alc, drugs, greed, sex, love, temp… ethics? Social climbing?
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/be true to yourself
/ church scandals
/ no magic person
/ mature
/ don’t think more a leader than you do of yourself – Malcom x, etc
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/ These young people working at computer stores like bb are not aware of how lucky they are to understand tech and have a job in it. they have a jumpt on the future.
/couldn’t find graph re movie attendance drops off after age, declines ……
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. Also extremism – https://www.timelessissues.com/category/politics/far-left-and-far-right/
/checklist for manners,
vals, – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=values%20checklist&qs=n&form=QBIRMH&sp=-1&pq=values%20checklist&sc=8-16&sk=&cvid=CF9A6BE703FB46B8AEB72669F8F34948
friendship, romance, courting, marriage, parenting, div
Work habits – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=work+habits+checklist&FORM=HDRSC2
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/skip: go to gan to find those 9 pts [from gates?] why is this so hard to write.
Passages, /several ways of contacting your love interest. / can’t be anything, What shapes a youth, checklists – 0 on net, leader, popular, merchant marine, sects, iq, , gov v pri: taxes & vote, mil, jury. Eth,
/7 deadly sins +
/what’s new: psych- rate-mmpt. Int test. Praxis, job hunt, rel,
/gov vs pri, pp searches lgbtq. Title: youth links – at end of or start of y…l3-25
/can make it this color? https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens
Title: advice to youth – links beat the game competition. Links to advice. Advice links to youth advice. Youth links, rate yourself, myers-briggs personality test
/summary: int test, sex ed, psych, i, mil, alts, job tips, rel
/not the real world: sch, gov, mil, rel. bad patterns as my fam had, I speak from experience
advice to youth 13-25 . you don’t have to be religious to develop good values.
– no kids – couldn’t have afforded it. can greatly set back your future. moks-see premarital
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/add career counseling to interest tests?
/integrate brookings with the other
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Youth links

To young people from 13-25: You need to hear about interest tests, sex-ed, psychology, idealism, the military, alternatives to college, job tips, etc.
You need good values as you will face smoking, alcohol, drugs, sex, romance …. https://www.timelessissues.com/traditional-values/
You can avoid poverty if you finish high school, get a full-time job and wait till you’re 21 to get married and have children.
Search and take ‘interest tests’. You’ll be happier doing what you like.
Sex education – https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens My youth didn’t have this.
Search ‘pro choice’ sites as an unplanned pregnancy changes can RUIN your plans. [I thank my stars I didn’t have kids.]
Psychology. A girl had a cold father. She was continually trying to warm him up. When she became an adult, she did the same thing without realizing it – finding cold men to warm up. Disaster. You don’t want to end up like that – unaware of bad patterns in your family. [I speak from experience]. Rate your family. https://www.generaladvice.org/rate-your-family/ Search and take the ‘Minnesota multiphasic personality inventory’ to get an idea of how you tick. You don’t want to end up in a cult or a sect. Or as an extremist -https://www.timelessissues.com/category/politics/extremism/
You don’t want to be narrow and idealistic as I was. https://www.timelessissues.com/beware-of-idealism/ https://www.timelessissues.com/americorps-idealistic/
Avoid joining the military. It’s not the real world. In my day you had to join. I was in six months full time and five years of weekly meetings and summer camps. Waste.
After school and before you settle down, you’re FREE for the only time. Travel or do whatever.
College – [which is not the real world] I was a serious student, yet half of the courses didn’t prepare me for anything. https://www.timelessissues.com/how-useful-was-college/. You’re up against students who are far smarter, spending great amounts of time studying, when half of it could be a waste. A far more practical approach is to search the net for – alternatives to college – competency-based education – comprehensive tests for college credit – credit for job experience – credit for what you know – equivalency exams – micro degrees, etc. I wish I’d had them. You and your folks will save great amounts of money and effort. One similar program, as of 2019, is http://discoverpraxis.com/.
At some point go over https://www.generaladvice.org/job-hunting-tips/ They were a lifesaver for me.
More about psychology. By the time I was a senior citizen I had gradually figured out the bad patterns in my family. My relatives and some friends never faced them and never will. Better you start early to face things.
Religion I went to church in my youth and later many times to hear the most famous preacher of the time – Norman Vincent Peale. Later I gradually grew out of religion and have been better off. I say be skeptical of it and back away. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antireligion
Think of the time you can save by taking interests tests to find your primary goals, by not causing an unplanned pregnancy, by becoming aware of your family’s good and bad points, finishing high school, not joining the military, avoiding silly courses in college, avoiding idealism, cults, and extremism, using some of the best job hunting tips, getting a full-time job and waiting till you’re 21 to marry and have children. How many older people wish they’d had or done these? # Longer version on ………..
some long*: self, fam, interests, psych, and not nec in this order, so no numbers
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save time, money, effort by finding your, and by being about, pregnancy, romance, marriage, religion, and work. By avoiding idealism, dreamy ideals by sensible steps, being realistic about the politics of family, relationships, liberal school and conservative life. Pregnancy, romance, apprenticeships, marriage, religion, tips, your primary ……, religion. Investment. insights into, family, friendships, and conservative values. idealism, Valuable tips family, friendships,
///Personality, interests & ability tests, the military, PRACTICAL education, therapy, values, work
– sent

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/number these – and not in any specific order
/avoid gov
/ Stanford-Binet – iq mostly? https://www.google.com/search?rlz=1C2PQHB_enUS688US688&source=hp&ei=jEodXPCQHNPC0wL4_rDACA&q=stanford-binet+test&oq=Stanford-Binet&gs_l=psy-ab.1.0.0.3355.3355..12091…0.0..0.81.81.1……0….1j2..gws-wiz…..0.nfhfSDAFXjQ
/ lot of chicken stuff in all, but more in gov and less in pri
/I think list of what you’ve done better in jobs includes outside of jobs
/wk: int test, job….tips
/avoid tattoos and most piercings
/avoid gov: sch, mil, jury, wk for gov, rel
/ gov, mil, sch, rel……are not the real world
/ sch, gov, which includes the mil, [and rel, / find a wholesome study sex-ed. Which will not instill the guilt and fear of the self-righteous far right. Don’t cause an unplanned pregnancy, We didn’t hear of the third in my day. / values – as smoking, alcohol, drugs, porn, romance /lifelong pursuits/ / avoid tattoos and most piercings. /beware of the self-righteous, control, deny,
/spoiled
/others don’t see the waste. You don’t want to be blind.
/greater waste if you are an average student. Public c?
/ self-righteous, fearful. Re sex ed, abort what else
/this one is validation of me
Think of the time and expense wasted: hi sch, mil, c, rel, narrowness, hang-ups you’re not aware of till years later. / wholesome sex ed. I was narrow-minded for years
You don’t want to be narrow and idealistic as I was
/government run matters areavoid gov when you
/ Avoid self-righteous fundamentalists.
Government run things don’t have the competition the private sector does
/Earlier the better. Some are lifelong pursuits. I added all the personal notes that fit.
* articles by me

You need good values as you will face smoking, alcohol, drugs, sex, romance ….
You’ll be happier doing what you like.
Search ‘pro choice’ sites as an unplanned pregnancy changes can RUIN your plans. [I thank my stars I didn’t have kids.]
Psychology. A girl had a cold father. She was continually trying to warm him up. When she became an adult, she did the same thing without realizing it – finding cold men to warm up. Disaster. You don’t want to end up like that – unaware of bad patterns in your family. [I speak from experience].
`/You don’t want to be narrow and idealistic as I was
/College – [which is not the real world] You’re up against students who are far smarter, spending great amounts of time studying, You and your folks will save great amounts of money and effort.
More about psychology. By the time I was a senior citizen I had gradually figured out the bad patterns in my family. They never faced them and never will. Better you start early to face things.
Religion I went to church in my youth and later many times to hear the most famous preacher of the time – Norman Vincent Peale. Later I gradually grew out of religion and have been better off
Think of the time you can save by taking interests tests, by not causing an unplanned pregnancy, by becoming aware of your family’s good and bad points, by not joining the military, by avoiding silly courses in college, by avoiding idealism, cults, and extremism, and by using some of the best job hunting tips. How many older people wish they’d had these?
For similar go to
https://www.generaladvice.org/youth-advice-to-youth/
https://www.timelessissues.com/youth-links/
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Music critic David Sheehen said Rod Steward and Elton John finally [in their 40s] had to grow up. Billy Joel said in rock and roll you never do – meaning the ever-younger audiences won’t let you.
They are designed by brilliant people who often don’t use common sense. You can finally catch on to some programs; then they change them.
/ . Football makes the most. If it wasn’t for football Notre Dame wouldn’t attract as much attention. If it wasn’t for Notre Dame, its town, South Bend, Indiana, wouldn’t attract as much attention.
/my fam needed fam ther
Notre Dame wouldn’t attract as much attention. If it wasn’t for Notre Dame, its town, South Bend, Indiana, wouldn’t attract as much attention.
Someone wrote, “What is it about Harvard that impels many of their students to look with disdain upon their upbringing, ridicule their parents, laugh at the institutions through which they have grown and prospered? Rebellion for the sake of itself shows contempt for the past.”
When you leave school, the real world won’t care about your self-esteem. It’ll expect you to accomplish something.
Utube
Only need holder from tripod to cam
/mistakes due to: rush, tired, tunnel vision, trying to impress someone
/see gan for eval fam
/pri sector vs johnny martin’s med sch – mil …
/psych makeup = outlooks, perceptions, ways of thinking, hang-ups, assets, liabilities,
/time you could save: mil, c, preg, right job
/I wonder if there is less justice for sexual misconduct in the pri sector. Search which fields is there the most. Sig?
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Idealism – impractical, unrealistic, utopian, dream schemes are not the real world. Don’t join cults, communes, or radical movements. Don’t go into any type of work with stars in your eyes. You may do more harm than good and become totally disillusioned. Religion included.
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Over the top of everything is the umbrella of your psychological make up. It affects your outlook and decisions. Are you mature enough for your age, secure, content, etc? take tests.
How well adjusted are those who are raising you? You need to understand their patterns. I have only a short evaluation sheet for this. More are needed. site
Be open to individual, group and family therapy.
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Being able to look up anything on the net. Lgbt. C – terrible as smarter and daydreaming, 3 yrs and pizza, ga and cab +. dysfunctional
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site
Psych makeup = um…
You 2 , Fam 1, Therapy -3 but we missed 3
Your p… makeup will shape you
Val
Sex – 45% preg – 42% abort
i…. , rel
real world
gov – mil, rel …
sch
gen vs trade, med, engineer
c – ½ thus alt
along the way
int tests, iq test, tips

never had: fam ther, sex ed, legal access to abort, anti-rel, alt-c, choice of mil, tips [cc, resume, interviewing]
Thus you have huge advantages and can save great amounts of time, money, and effort & become happier. site
/ your outlook. Some people don’t discover till late in life how it was shaped and affected them. I’ve seen tragedies . cc, apprenticeships, tips [cc, resume, interviewing]. The pill l960, but probably took a while to catch on? mature – well-adjusted, mindset, whether to include aptitude tests, or didn’t hear about, arrows. Lgbt
/idealism re c and mil. Save the world. In p
ublic colleges we didn’t have high cost or student debt
/add pix?
/i…….. bad as gloss over I, realism, cynicsm rel can be i
/anything to prevent but if late term, abort
/head on right: gay, class, eth, handicapped, mentors
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2nd vid: lites, glasses?, zip, change some? twice as big.
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Intro: site, items to…..
Mature….age
You 2 , Fam 1, Therapy -3 but we missed fam
Your maturity will shape your
Val
Sex – 45% preg – 42% abort l
Idealism, rad…., extremes, c, pc, mil
Other: int tests, iq tests
Real world
gov – mil, rel …
sch
skills: trade, med, engineer
c – ½ thus alt.
Other
career counseling, resumes, interviews

`/Sum….. we never had: fam ther, sex ed, birth control, legal abort, lgbt, alternatives to college, computers, internet, cell phones, Wikipedia, or a chance to avoid the military. Thus you can save great deal of time, money, and effort, find better work, & become happier. Site
/inner and outer circles – s martin
/bench warmers
/which icons could make an infographic
/short cuts for youth – none on net so far
/not sure bout: https://www.bing.com/search?q=most+successful+youth+programs&FORM=HDRSC1

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=become+a+lay+counselor&form=EDNTHT&mkt=en-us&httpsmsn=1&msnews=1&rec_search=1&plvar=0&refig=71c722a8b88542b3eac531878599aeae&sp=-1&pq=become+a+lay+counselor&sc=1-22&qs=n&sk=&cvid=71c722a8b88542b3eac531878599aeae

Lot of this must be dup of ‘youth’
o young people from 13-25: You need to hear about interest tests, sex-ed, psychology, idealism, the military, alternatives to college, job tips, etc.
You need good values as you will face smoking, alcohol, drugs, sex, romance …. https://www.timelessissues.com/traditional-values/
You can avoid poverty if you finish high school, get a full-time job and wait till you’re 21 to get married and have children.
Search and take ‘interest tests’. You’ll be happier doing what you like.
Sex education – https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens My youth didn’t have this.
Search ‘pro choice’ sites as an unplanned pregnancy changes can RUIN your plans. [I thank my stars I didn’t have kids.]
Psychology. A girl had a cold father. She was continually trying to warm him up. When she became an adult, she did the same thing without realizing it – finding cold men to warm up. Disaster. You don’t want to end up like that – unaware of bad patterns in your family. [I speak from experience]. Rate your family. https://www.generaladvice.org/rate-your-family/. Search and take the ‘Minnesota multiphasic personality inventory’ to get an idea of how you tick. You don’t want to end up in a cult or a sect. Or as an extremist – https://www.timelessissues.com/category/politics/extremism/
You don’t want to be narrow and idealistic as I was. https://www.timelessissues.com/beware-of-idealism/ https://www.timelessissues.com/americorps-idealistic/
Avoid joining the military. It’s not the real world. In my day you had to join. I was in six months full time and five years of weekly meetings and summer camps. Waste.
After school and before you settle down, you’re FREE for the only time. Travel or do whatever.
College – [which is not the real world] I was a serious student, yet half of the courses didn’t prepare me for anything. https://www.timelessissues.com/how-useful-was-college/. You’re up against students who are far smarter, spending great amounts of time studying, when half of it could be a waste. A far more practical approach is to search the net for – alternatives to college – competency-based education – comprehensive tests for college credit – credit for job experience – credit for what you know – equivalency exams – micro degrees, etc. I wish I’d had them. You and your folks will save great amounts of money and effort. One similar program, as of 2019, is http://discoverpraxis.com/.
At some point go over https://www.generaladvice.org/job-hunting-tips/ They were a lifesaver for me.
More about psychology. By the time I was a senior citizen I had gradually figured out the bad patterns in my family. My relatives and some friends never faced them and never will. Better you start early to face things.
Religion I went to church in my youth and later many times to hear the most famous preacher of the time – Norman Vincent Peale. Later I gradually grew out of religion and have been better off. I say be skeptical of it and back away. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antireligion
Think of the time you can save by taking interests tests, by not causing an unplanned pregnancy, by becoming aware of your family’s good and bad points, by not joining the military, by avoiding silly courses in college, by avoiding idealism, cults, and extremism, and by using some of the best job hunting tips. How many older people wish they’d had these?

/ gov: mil, nat serv, jury duty?, wk for gov, [cept for gov schs]
/the post is on net, but no longer, or hidden on the blogs.
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This was ‘youth links’:
To young people from 13-25: You need to hear about interest tests, sex-ed, psychology, idealism, the military, alternatives to college, job tips, etc.
You need good values as you will face smoking, alcohol, drugs, sex, romance …. https://www.timelessissues.com/traditional-values/
You can avoid poverty if you finish high school, get a full-time job and wait till you’re 21 to get married and have children.
Search and take ‘interest tests’. You’ll be happier doing what you like.
Sex education – https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens My youth didn’t have this.
Search ‘pro choice’ sites as an unplanned pregnancy changes can RUIN your plans. [I thank my stars I didn’t have kids.]
Psychology. A girl had a cold father. She was continually trying to warm him up. When she became an adult, she did the same thing without realizing it – finding cold men to warm up. Disaster. You don’t want to end up like that – unaware of bad patterns in your family. [I speak from experience]. Rate your family. https://www.generaladvice.org/rate-your-family/. Search and take the ‘Minnesota multiphasic personality inventory’ to get an idea of how you tick. You don’t want to end up in a cult or a sect. Or as an extremist – https://www.timelessissues.com/category/politics/extremism/
You don’t want to be narrow and idealistic as I was. https://www.timelessissues.com/beware-of-idealism/ https://www.timelessissues.com/americorps-idealistic/
Avoid joining the military. It’s not the real world. In my day you had to join. I was in six months full time and five years of weekly meetings and summer camps. Waste.
After school and before you settle down, you’re FREE for the only time. Travel or do whatever.
College – [which is not the real world] I was a serious student, yet half of the courses didn’t prepare me for anything. https://www.timelessissues.com/how-useful-was-college/. You’re up against students who are far smarter, spending great amounts of time studying, when half of it could be a waste. A far more practical approach is to search the net for – alternatives to college – competency-based education – comprehensive tests for college credit – credit for job experience – credit for what you know – equivalency exams – micro degrees, etc. I wish I’d had them. You and your folks will save great amounts of money and effort. One similar program, as of 2019, is http://discoverpraxis.com/.
At some point go over https://www.generaladvice.org/job-hunting-tips/ They were a lifesaver for me.
More about psychology. By the time I was a senior citizen I had gradually figured out the bad patterns in my family. My relatives and some friends never faced them and never will. Better you start early to face things.
Religion I went to church in my youth and later many times to hear the most famous preacher of the time – Norman Vincent Peale. Later I gradually grew out of religion and have been better off. I say be skeptical of it and back away. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antireligion
Think of the time you can save by taking interests tests, by not causing an unplanned pregnancy, by becoming aware of your family’s good and bad points, by not joining the military, by avoiding silly courses in college, by avoiding idealism, cults, and extremism, and by using some of the best job hunting tips. How many older people wish they’d had these? #
/search ‘agencies seeking advice for youth’. Found 0
/mark twain’s
/empathy test
/try it on zoom
/can help you find yourself and a better mate
/sig to settle as much as possible before starting a fam. Sig
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/vid link at bottom of youth post
/could add pix to youth post?

/ infographic advice to youth – Bing images

infographic advice to youth – Bing images how many are the same?
/l & r chart of media outlets
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Dj said: I haven’t had time to read it extensively. There’s a lot of good advice, but you take political positions some of the
time. That’s okay if you want to sell it to a conservative magazine. You express a lot of opinions, many good,but
I’m not so sure about others. Usually values are shown through stories, both for fiction and nonfiction, in other words
a story that shows the principle you are espousing. Direct opinions need specific samples. ex. For instance, when
Trump did this, (tell what he did), which was a sign of irresponsibility because …. You could pick a newspaper and write an op ed on, say, one of your principles or else use a title like “Why So Many Kids Don’t Make a Good Living,” and then list
ten reasons. Ex. (1) They don’t take aptitude tests, etc. Try a local newspaper, maybe. Never give an opinion without an example in the real world.
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`/Mark twain
/periodic tests for empathy +
/add link to save
/a teen is not a child
/work hard, but work smart
/ Mike Rowe
/title: misleading youth, avoiding bad advice, how youth have been mislead . search it
/shuffle dancing and longboard dancing are empowering

/

/l6 personality types
/ Advice for Teenagers | The Greatest Advice for Youth (timelessissues.com) – Bing = net page with tips
/16 per…types. I was the most indep but needed reality checks
/ Learn about your family. https://www.generaladvice.org/rate-your-family/ . [More sites needed]
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From the original:
Advice to youth 13 – 25 Earlier version on my blogs
2100 words

The age span 13 – 25 is a general guess; do what feels comfortable. Same with the items below; they are not ‘steps’ to be followed in order, but items – to be done when you’re ready.
Maturity
Become aware of how mature you should be for your age. It affects everything.
Take the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory (MMPI) and the Myers–Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) – to learn how you tick.
Learn about your family. https://www.generaladvice.org/rate-your-family/ . [More sites needed.] Be open to individual and group therapy. Also to family therapy; we didn’t hear of it in my day.
Your maturity affects
Your values – https://www.timelessissues.com/traditional-values/
Your view of sex – https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens. We didn’t have sex-education. Do most anything to avoid an unplanned pregnancy. This happens 45% of the time in the U.S. 42% of those end in abortion [which can best in the long run].
Your idealism – cults, communes, radical religion or extreme politics – out to save the world. I was in an early version of AmeriCorps. Too idealistic – too dreamy.
Other
Avoid joining the military. I was in when you had to join. Waste.
Take interest tests. Very important.
Take the Stanford-Binet iq test to be realistic about how hard college will be. No point in breaking your own heart.
Choose schools that teach practical skills. Much of college does not. Half the courses I was required to take in college were useless. All that for nothing. If you feel you have to get college degree or the equivalent, search for every possible shortcut: – alternatives to college – competency-based education – comprehensive tests for college credit – credit for job experience – credit for what you know – equivalency exams – micro degrees, etc. https://www.bing.com/search?q=alternatives+to+college&form=ANNTH1&refig=999d3a8968cb4ac3a6fb97e50dfd69d3&sp=-1&pq=alternatives+to+college&sc=8-23&qs=n&sk=&cvid=999d3a8968cb4ac3a6fb97e50dfd69d3. I wish I’d had them. One such program, as of 018, was http://discoverpraxis.com/. Another was https://www.mikeroweworks.org/ [I found it hard to navigate and some of the language rough].
Job hunting tips – https://www.generaladvice.org/job-hunting-tips/ The best ‘therapy’ I ever got.
The idea is to live in the real world. Idealism is not, parts of education are not, parts of religion are not, same with much of the government and the military when compared to the private sector.
Learn what makes you tick, steadily mature, take interests tests, avoid pregnancy, take iq tests if you want college – but know some alternatives are better. Do these and enjoy beating the game!
/your maturity shapes your view of religion
/ Evolve GTR Twin Peaks Climb – YouTube
/ www.generaladvice.org/youth = @@@@@
/cute clean well off teen girls at mv mall? So thrilled to be talking to the guys
‘/latest version of youth must be on ga.
/streetwise, soph…. , cops
/logo – have cluster with lines from the pix
/ such a sweet teen – you dream of being a parent to such: What a legend. #OperaCat #OperaSinger #catsoftiktok #bestsinger #talent #musictok
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/my ‘requirement’. I guess you mean where it should be sent. To the obvious: everything in the media that concerns youth of that age – general publications, mass marketing, everything.
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/Your co. must have a good idea of who could use this article. If I specify items, you might focus on them and miss the big picture. Market it to the masses through all sorts of media. your lst ? was too tech for me. al sent to yard 9/22
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/if bc, l0% better chance, abort l5, independ?
/most are living for others
/those who lead youth astray
Periodic therapy
Web developer: You may have to click under each pic
Advice to youth 13 – 25
Pers….test.
Therapy: valn, sex. ideal….
Other: mil, int tests, iq – practical ed, job tips
/sent it to paulkratxer@yahoo.com
/the one steo, two step, hesitation, trot, charlston, boogie woogie, jitterbug
/which fast music preceded rock and roll – Search (bing.com)
/net: rock and roll . ltge 40s was combo of gospel, jazz, rhythm and blues and country.
Jump blues, boobie-oogie, and swing preceded r and r.
Other: ragtime, rockabilly, r and b, ….rave
Ag: probably other countries had their versions
/ 2k words , 8 pages with l2? Pix l0/23
/ Stunning ’60s and ’70s Photos Reveal a Generation That Changed the World (msn.com)
/also beatles changes the world
/2000 words, 13k with characters and spaces. Should be woven into curriculums
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How much would it be for your co. to make a long list of organizations that would be interested in my article ADVICE TO YOUTH 13 – 25, and to send it to them. Organizations such as educational, guidance, religious, business, self-help, social service
What do you think of this as a cover letter?

Gentlemen:
My ‘Advice to Youth 23 – 25 is on one of my blogs. I’m submitting this to various entities to be published for free, with my retaining the copywrite. It contains hard-earned lessons that can save young people and their parents great amounts of time, money, and effort. It could be worked into curriculums.
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Draft to seo: I have problems communicating. /I probably wouldn’t agree with the writing in the newsletter. I guess it is the same idea as the cover letter?/……using the ‘blog’ I think you mean the ‘article’. /monthy management ….
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I seek a source that can
make a list of email addresses of educational, youth-oriented, self-help, counseling, social service, guidance, support, religious, governmental, military organizations and think tanks that would be interested in a single article on my blog – Mark Twain’s Satire in “Advice To Youth” – Timeless Issues, which has nothing to do with Mark Twain.
make a cover letter using the ideas below
send the letter and article to them
make a list of where the article has been published, if it has been
do this without problems for my blog or rewriting any part of the article.
put the article on Wikipedia
handle ALL the details [as I am 84].
What would be the fees?
al garner garner@comline.com
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Ideas for a cover letter:
Gentlemen:
We are promoting a single article – Mark Twain’s Satire in “Advice To Youth” – Timeless Issues, It is on a blog of Al Garner’s [and has little to do with Mark Twain.] Al Garner wants to retain the copywrite but does not seek payment. The article recommends tests on maturity, primary interests, and iq. It shows the hard-earned lessons of values, idealism, practical education, and job hunting. It can save young people, their parents and advisors great amounts of time, money, and work.
It is /pages 9 / words 2,092 / characters [no spaces] 10,847
/ characters [with spaces] 13,787 / paragraphs 123 / lines 294

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got note from enago. I replied:
It is an article on my blog, not a ‘blog’ per se. It is ADVICE TO YOUTH 13 – 25. They listed it as ‘Mark Twain’s satire’ to promote traffic.
When you say ‘develop the blog further’, nothing can be changed without my thorough review and agreement. Too much has been watered down and distorted in the past. Can you give me an idea of the fees? Al sent. their reply: checking on it
+1-980-294-0834 between the following hours: Monday to Friday: 00:30 – 18:00 (GMT) | Saturday: 04:00 – 12:00 (GMT). Bad impression so far. Who was this
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/ #11 The Birth of Rock ‘n’ Roll© AndrewLozovyi /Depositphotos.com.
Baby Boomers were there at the dawn of rock ‘n’ roll, and they witnessed its explosive rise to prominence. They heard Elvis Presley’s hip-shaking performances, danced to Chuck Berry’s guitar riffs, and felt the rebellious spirit of Little Richard’s music. Rock ‘n’ roll wasn’t just a genre – it was a cultural revolution that challenged the norms of society and gave a voice to a generation. Baby Boomers embraced rock ‘n’ roll with open arms, making it the soundtrack of their youth and shaping their identity for decades to come.
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Advice to youth 13 – 25 – generaladvice.org thus:

Maturity
Personality test, therapy, values, sex., idealism
Other
Interest tests, military, iq test, practical education, job hunting tips

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Pubrica.com ? 972 502 9262 sales@pubrica.com sent form w/o: 1 ready 2 choose any that fit the title 3 no, please assist 4 education, counseling, guidance …
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/8/2l/04 ny times a camp on the rebound by david brooks
The most successful institution I’ve ever been involved with closed down last year, and is now being resurrected. It’s the teen summer camp section of the Episcopal Camp and Conference Center in Ivoryton, Conn. It takes mostly New York area kids out of the familiar context of their lives and sticks them in tents in the forest, where they have to cook two meals a day over an open fire and socialize with people nothing like themselves.
I’ve never been to a place where race and class mattered less. For two years, while I was a counselor, I had Robert Rubin’s son in my tent. I knew a lot about that kid, but I had no idea who his father was or how much money he was making. On the other hand, we had poorer kids from Brooklyn and the Bronx who had never been out of the city before. One looked up at his first night sky and exclaimed: “Wow! It looks just like the planetarium!”
I went to and worked at the camp for 15 years, which was a not uncommon tenure. Such was our fierce love of the place that we just kept coming back. A friend returned while at law school and used to lead discussions on jurisprudence in a rowboat on the lake. I returned year after year from the University of Chicago to teach classes – absurdly – in machismo.
But over the past decade, the camp withered. Parents and campers lost interest. College kids didn’t want to work at a place like that. It fell victim to a series of broad social forces that are still devastating generalist camps across the country.
First there is the liability crisis. Camp was a place where teenagers learned to build courage. There was cliff diving. There were river rapids. There were survival-style camping trips, with kids sleeping alone in the forest.
But society has become more risk-averse, and liability costs have escalated. So in the 1990’s, the people running the camp banned most of the activities that scared and thrilled us. Camp became safer, but also more tepid and less meaningful.
The second broad social change is the professionalization of childhood. Parents have become more involved in running their children’s lives, even by remote control when the kids are away at summer camp. So over the past few decades, camps that promise to develop a specific skill – music, basketball, computers, video-making – have prospered while generalist camps have suffered.
In fact, the Episcopal Camp and Conference Center, which is the second oldest camp in the country, was self-consciously cultivating leadership and self-confidence. But these are cultivated through spontaneous and, often, kid-run activities. We used to mount elaborate games with bizarre names like Investment Opportunities in Zimbabwe. What’s a parent supposed to make of that? If parents choose a camp with a tennis or computer curriculum, they can sit at home and know what their kids are going to be achieving.
Third, society has become more stratified. Ambitious kids are supposed to do summer internships or work on skills. That means they spend their summers doing the sorts of things they do during the year, around the same sorts of people. It’s become harder to get upper-middle-class parents to send their kids to a place where they will be crammed into little tents and showering in outhouses 75 yards away.
In short, over the past few decades, parents have made childhood more to their liking. The side effect is that camp became less exciting, less meaningful and less compatible with résumé-building lives.
I’m happy to report, though, that the Episcopal Camp and Conference Center is now on the rebound. After spending a decade trying to adapt to the social forces, a new director, Peter Larom, has been brought in, and one of my former campers, Peter Giles, is running the teen section. They’ve got the blend of traits required of great camp leaders: they are mature enough to run something, but deep down they’re immature enough to get excited by the things that excite kids. It will take years to rebuild the camp, but this first rebound summer was a success. More than a quarter of the teenagers who went to camp in July opted to stay for an extra two weeks.
And it could be that even we boomer parents are finally acknowledging that we’ve become too obsessive about running our kids’ lives. There needs to be at least one place where teenagers can go, at least one month out of the year, that is totally different, where kids can build themselves.
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COMMENTARY not very good:
Our Kids Are Not Doomed
By Stephanie Coontz, Stephanie Coontz, author of “Marriage, a History” (Viking, 2005), teaches family history at Evergreen State College in Olympia, Wash.
For the last 30 years, rising rates of youth violence, substance abuse and suicide have been blamed on two social pathologies: divorce and unwed motherhood. We have been told that unless we can reverse the tide of family dysfunction, these trends will engulf us.

In 1998, a British economist claimed that the collapse of shotgun marriages was leading inexorably to a modern social disaster on the same order as the Irish potato famine of 1846-49.

And last year, after Massachusetts and much of Canada legalized same-sex marriage, Focus on the Family leader James Dobson warned that unless we act now to restore traditional marriage, Western civilization itself might crumble.

Tying such dire predictions of social decay to divorce and single motherhood seemed credible in the 1970s and 1980s. But a funny thing happened in the 1990s: Almost every negative social trend tracked by the census, the Centers for Disease Control and the Department of Justice declined.

/Teen birthrates fell by 30% between 1991 and 2002. The number of
/violent crimes in schools was halved between 1992 and 2002.
/Teen homicide rates dropped to their lowest level since 1966.
/Teen suicides decreased by 25%, and drug abuse, binge drinking and smoking all fell.

Yet the number of couples living together unmarried increased by more than 70% over the decade; the population at large increased by only 13% during this period. Gay and lesbian parenting became more common. The number of
/families headed by single mothers rose five times faster than the number of married-couple families.

Obviously, attributing the improvements of the 1990s to the continued increases in families headed by single moms is as absurd as blaming all the social ills of the 1980s on divorce.

Single parenthood does increase the risk that teens will get into trouble. But so do poverty, parental conflict, frequent school relocation, parental substance abuse and even an emotionally distant relationship with married parents.

Studies show that the majority of teens who exhibit serious behavior problems have five or more separate risk factors in their lives.

The 1980s were exceptionally traumatic times. ????? The massive entry of women into the workforce during the 1970s, followed by a surge in divorce, overthrew old family norms and gender roles before new social values had developed. 00000000

Meanwhile, real wages fell for male workers, job insecurity rose and poverty rates increased dramatically. Politicians shredded the social safety net. The purchasing power of a welfare check decreased by 42%. Stable families became harder to sustain.

Some of the improvement in the 1990s was because of a better economic climate. But some was a result of individuals learning better ways to handle changes in their lives. Men increased their share of housework and child care.

Parents in dual-earner families increased the time they spent with their children, even though they also worked longer hours. In 1997, kids in two-parent families spent about six hours a week more with their mothers and four hours more with their fathers than in 1981, according to a University of Michigan study.

People began to handle divorce better. More divorced dads paid child support. More couples settled their divorces amicably and worked out joint custody agreements. More unwed fathers remained involved with their children.

If only our pundits and policymakers could do as good a job of catching up with reality and adjusting to social change as ordinary Americans are doing.

Of course, there is much left to work on. But it doesn’t help today’s diverse families to be told their children are doomed unless they can shoehorn themselves into a traditional marriage.

Divorced and unwed parents need constructive advice on effective parenting, along with job training and education to increase their economic security. Their children need high-quality child care, which has been shown to help children overcome risks in their family or community settings.

It’s time to stop predicting social catastrophe from the transformation of family life and start helping every family build on its distinctive strengths and minimize its weaknesses. Refusing to recognize the real progress that has been made serves no one.

/ The New Globalist Is Homesick By SUSAN J. MATT People who leave home in search of better prospects often end up feeling displaced and profoundly depressed.
/ The Passion of Parenting By CHARLES M. BLOW Children must grow up and go away, and that is as it should be.
Sites
Try teen guidelines rated
/guidelines for youth – net had 0
guidlines for teens:
/ lousy -http://aimhigh101tips.com/?gclid=CIyZtpSz1cICFRCTfgod658AVA
– hard
/ fair – http://life.familyeducation.com/teen/discipline/39353.html & http://life.familyeducation.com/teen/safety/34464.html
/round and round – http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/family/parenting-tips/teen-discipline-rules-2 -=
/skip teen guidelines rated – it’s for flix
/best teen guidelines – mostly dating?
`/ slow – http://www.rd.com/advice/parenting/11-rules-for-raising-teenagers/ – good, after you close the ads. should be copied
/ http://www.rd.com/advice/parenting – 0
`/ how to raise teens ………thus
http://www.webmd.com/parenting/features/10-parenting-tips-for-raising-teenagers could be copied – potential
/advice to teens: http://drphil.com/articles/article/300 – so so. many other dumb sites
/advice for young people – so much junk on the net, better to go to youth4
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Why Children Need Chores

/to sir with love shows teens are curious, eager to grow up, yet reluctant. They have to find adult figs outside the home as well as in. role models. Reminded me of jack coleman’s impact

http://www.nytimes.com/2003/03/11/technology/11MESS.html?th
books deploring younger gen:
Vulcans at the gate – steve allen
Slouching toward Gomorrah – Bjork
Closing of the am mind – bloom
The codding of the am mind –
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The best advice to give to today’s youth
As we grow up, we realize that the things that we thought matter, actually do not. And as life would have it, our lives turn and shake so soon and so often, that it throws off the adults as well. However, there are certain things that we wish we knew in our youth.
Although we cannot turn back the hands of the clock, here are a bunch of valuable advice that every adult wishes they had given heed to in their youth:
Do not Rush to Grow up
Sure enough; every adult has heard this phrase while going up. Teenagers and youngsters should be advised not to try everything right away. Teenage and childhood come only once, and most of the kids may wish to imitate the adults and wish for the adult life, while in reality, they will miss being kids as soon as they grow up.
Rather than looking at the liberal nature of adults, why don’t you look at the undeniable amount of responsibilities that adults would have and the amount of work they need to do.
It is okay to ask for help
As teenagers, we intend to take care of everything on our own. However, as things stand, we cannot always know how to deal with things properly. Furthermore, there are times when things could just go out of hand. Although it may seem that doing things alone is the best way to go about it, there are times when you’d need help.
Getting an adult’s view on a problem or having them help you out can be the best thing for you. Do not be ashamed of asking for help, we all need help sometimes.
You do not need to have your entire life planned out
There are many kids that we know, who know exactly what they want to do in life. Having your entire life planned out may seem luxurious to you at this point, but in all honesty, it is fine even if you do not have your life planned out. However, it does not mean that you do not plan anything at all, all it means is that, whether you have a plan or not, just do your thing! Enjoy a little, laugh a bit more and follow your heart, you will surely find your way through the chaos.
If it is happening for others right now, doesn’t mean it won’t happen for you
Most of us have this bad habit of comparing our lives to others. With social media playing a huge role in our daily lives, not doing this has become hard. However, know this, everyone works at a different time and there is no need to hurry. Do not waste your time getting jealous at your Instagram feed. Be patient, you too will find what you want to do. It could be today, tomorrow, or perhaps 20 years down the lane, but it will happen.

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Youth5
Possible sites for youth
Summary: ed, career, sex, gov, rel, psych, alts to c, wander, single

/flow chart – hard to tell: https://www.google.com/search?q=flow+chart+youth&biw=727&bih=593&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwi_tb-Qzs3NAhUP4WMKHRpsDHQQ_AUIBigB#imgrc=B3B0eF9x_kPTOM%3A

/chklist for youth exposed to violence – http://www.ncjfcj.org/sites/default/files/A%20Judicial%20Checklist%20for%20children%20and%20Youth%20Exposed%20to%20Violence.pdf

/ http://www.hhs.gov/ash/oah/oah-initiatives/teen_pregnancy/training/Assests/pyd-tpp-checklist.pdf – not much

/teens l3-l9 vs young adults l8-25?

/ checklist for teens – mostly 0 – hard to tell. https://www.google.com/search?q=checklist+for+teens&rlz=1C2PQHB_enUS688US688&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjblpON-IDbAhWRsKQKHZl_C80Q_AUICigB&biw=810&bih=703

/for students. Hard to tell if useful – https://www.google.com/search?q=checklists+for+students&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjnx46wpoHbAhUD7WMKHY10BfIQ_AUICigB&biw=931&bih=598

/Skip smart sheet
/ Sex Education Gets Directly to Youths, via Text By JAN HOFFMAN Some health organizations and school districts are developing Web sites and text services to reach teenagers. [also on gan] done. Sites are:
/ teenagers can subscribe to Sex-Ed Loop – na
/ Sexetc.org – too cute and razzle
/ best sites for youth – 0
/manners checklist – mostly young –
/lifeskills checklist – young
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/worksheets for teens seem to have some good ones – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=worksheets+for+teens&FORM=HDRSC2 would take lot of work to cull thru them
Similar are https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=guidelines+for+teens&FORM=HDRSC2
Checklists for teens are probably similar . so skip lifeskills ……………
/might have to divide it: teens , young adults
/ ‘images for choosing a career’ – looks like same
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Random list of sites
/ http://www.teenhelp.com – so so

`/study abroad
www.intstudy.com
http://www.studyabroad.com /
http://www.iiepassport.org /
http://www.goabroad.com /
http://www.internationalstudent.com/
http://www.nrcsa.com/index.jsp
http://www.studyabroaddomain.com/
http://www.ciee.org/study/
http://www.tips4students.com/
/search how to find scholarships

`/ moving out on your own checklists – https://www.google.com/search?q=checklist+for+moving+out+on+your+own&rlz=1C2PQHB_enUS688US688&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwikupKG94DbAhWKGuwKHcsSAHEQ_AUICigB&biw=810&bih=703

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=bill+gates+11+rules&FORM=HDRSC1 thus
For recent high school and college graduates, here is a list of 11 things they did not learn in school.
In his book, Bill Gates talks about how feel-good, politically-correct teachings created a full generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world. but net said they came from Charles J.Sykes,

1 … Life is not fair; get used to it.
2 … The world won’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
3 … You will NOT make 40 thousand dollars a year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice president with a car phone, until you earn both.
4 … If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. He doesn’t have tenure.
5 .. .Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping; they called it opportunity.
6 … If you mess up, it’s not your parents’ fault, so don’t whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
7 … Before you were born, your parents weren’t as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you are. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parents’ generation, try “delousing” the closet in your own room.
8 … Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life has not. In some schools they have abolished failing grades; they’ll give you as many times as you want to get the right answer. This doesn’t bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.
9 … Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summer off and very few employers are interested in helping you find yourself. Do that on your own time.
10 … Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.
11 … Be nice to nerds. Chances are you’ll end up working for one.
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/ lists of rules for teens – only refer to it. better say search for list of rules for teens https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=list+rules+for+teens&FORM=HDRSC2
/skip: lists of rules for young adults: many are the same.
/searched apps for teens – didn’t seem sig.
/pp – looks good for sex ed but for which age grp
/fam.. worksheets – https://www.mylemarks.com/store/c7/Family_Relationships_Worksheets.html – sig?
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/ search ‘the cost of smoking’, then click ‘images’.
/ sex-ed – https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens –
/ search: ‘images of guidelines for teens’ and click on the title.
Same for ‘images of worksheets for teens’
/career guidelines – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=career+guidelines&FORM=HDRSC2
/ search how to rate your fam, how to understand your fam
/search advice for hi sch grads, c grads