here was valn which is still via search. But skip it.

Clafa lsent tradval to uci-tradval3, shaeffer?=tradval2,

/need psych vals

tradval on: lists, slums, tradval, sw, sub, val, lib?, adp

see 25, 50s, 60s, 80s? rights?

/search this for morality plays [which let us off hook]

Dear Abby, via fullerton police and cal dep of ed,

top problems in l940:

  l talking 2 gum 3 noise 4 running in halls 5 getting out of

line 6 improper clothing 7 not putting paper in wastebasket

  in l990: l drugs 2 alc 3 pregnancy 4 suicide 5 rape 6 rob

ery 7 assault. [but how can some of 90s’ be disc?] same said us news ll/8/93 said the same: top disc. problems, according to pub sch teachers. souce: congresional quarterly researcher

 

/the decline of val is tied in with the positive rubbish sig? roller derby

  (all of which relieve people of responsibility).

  rome etc

/cheating on games shows big scandal in past – chas van doren.

/violence in hockey and pro wrestle & roller\ lib conserv swings?

/sports

/rotc,

scouts, manners, (featured as novelties by lib press?) weak

/never would have torn pages out of lib bk

/shapiro’s stu. ea class sloppier ‑ talked to him in 8l ‑ but they would shape up

/taking loquats.

/self pity, porn,

/relative deprivation

/stress, depress….

/out growth of civil rights

/victim of porn

/did golden pond have to add profanity to get diff rating to draw bigger crowd? said ma?

/bums in the lib

/talking in lib and theaters

/m.f. #28 l0 pm 8/84

/mitchel bros. theater / 20K + spent by S.A.

/use hm town theme

/table manners on tv in last l5? yrs? skip

/giving em wht they want

/bump and grind rock singer ‑vs‑ elvis‑morning tv, anchors kid about

it ‑ 85

/can push a button to improve ed +

/abort..

/women

/smart ass 8:l0 sob, gd

/foreign countries

/job security

/Cher, Hey, I don’t bust my buns working out everyday for nothing.

/boy scout porno merit badge

/camera practically looking up girls dress on soul train or am. band

stand?

/lyrics changed after viet war

/mad max

/rd warrior

/child porn

/girl and gene wilder taking clothes off 4:30 pm

/cartoon violence

/HBO flic : Best legs in the 8th grade?

/mirv, dina, cavett,

/marathoner said prince chas has nice buns 4/86

/conrad on royal wedding night

/broken hm= single parent…; illigit = o.w.? or teen preg. ; less

stigma to divorce

/surrogate parenting

/class?

/min wage?

/welfare?

/Carnal Knowledge ll/84 on tv 8:00 pm

/also I married a Centerfold

/japan

= 4 yrs more of ed

/college faculty sleeping w stu

/sitting on planters, tops of bus benches, & newspaper stands

/tots in 84 yellow pages looking at their own privates to see if there is a diff.

/graffitti an insult?

/the frus of the common man

/cops afraid of kids

/radio porn

/9:30 am video sex shooters. girl showing l/2 her bosom

/Amadeus farting ‑ sneak preview 6:22 pm

/ 60 min on teen hooker ‑ intro sec. Yeah I was good ‑ 85?

/60 % teacher in l.a. dont feel save l/85 stan chambers?

/in prison can wear hair long, hd bands, shades, fu

manchus, and other affectations

/everyone’s rights : mi’s, criminals,

addicts, prisoners, winos, mr’s

/deerhunter: f..this and that

/helmets

for bikers ‑forbidding their jackets along the lines of bodenheimers

lines of total take‑a‑way approach

/forbidding the congregating of

felons?

/shopping carts?

/wholesome wisdom of country farmer w

/slingshot on carson ‑ audience

was touched but wouldn’t admit it?

/doomsaying

/gi bill = going to col

lege was a dream for many then.

/Sundance decision 78 : alc not crime ,

then crime went up 47% (along skid row?) p. l3 Brother’s Keeper, Home

less file

/librarian coughed into tel.

/MP’s feared and respected in the military and they LOOK like they mean business vs NY cops

/in 80’s so far member ship 8% in boy scouts and 3% in girl scouts ‑ u.s.

news 3/ll/85

/sat scores fell 9% from 67 ‑ 8l us news 2/l8/85 ‑‑‑

language ability has dropped ever since 50’s.

  Many coll grads have a weaker command of eng than their folks .

coll…watered down carrucula . rise of bonehd eng. texts dumbed down.

black eng gained and fizzeled. sat scores over 600 dropped 3% 73‑83.

/ death wish and subway vigilante

/ bikers do it in the dirt; teachers do it w/ class ; sit on a happy face; honk if you’re horny

/ playboy as an inst.

/ 2nd grade meagan yelling fagot

/ lic. plate: Does she?

/ douche bag on sat night live

/ popularization of drugs on same

/ cable porn

video rentals

/Apacalypse now = drug movie ‑ 3 stars ‑ masterpiece

/threatening panhandlers in Seattle

/people at all levels in the past had a lot less,

but were happier (partly because they earned it?)

/ looking up at girls crotch in Personal Best while she spots his bench press

/ japanese kids sure far better behaved ‑

/ d. suskind saying JFK had to have it daily or get a hdache

/ customers and help both worse?

/ custodian unwilling to do anything by himself bout guy sleeping in bushes.

/ salesman asking copymatic marge which co she is insured w

/ interviewers asking all sorts of personal questions

/ rona berret asking stars bout sex lives on tv

/ blaring radio on garbage truck.

  Flic: main event guy talked to streisand “thru crotch” as she bent

over. then she dry humped the air a ft. from him as part of an exercise ‑

a 77 flic

/ dirtier greeting cards

/fetus smoking on anti smoking campaign

‑ am lung? assoc?

/has disney changed?

/archi bunker worried his l2? yr old niece will date a guy who’s not nice

/85

/hope asian refugees at g.g. lib don’t pick up too many of our bad habits as they probably worked far harder in their countries. hd librarian talked of calling cops as they had no authority.

/ spying for $ , not ideology

/ guys flipping bird behind interviewer

/ keep you waiting on tel. longer

/ We’ll give you an hr. to stop your (drug) boat.

/ bingo ad on h.s. marquis ‑ played there?

/ drugs in mil down from 40% to under l0% now. almost wiped out in minor leagues.

/ raising drinking age ( 8‑2l? in N.H. cut teen deaths 75% 84 or 85

/ yet doesn’t work w/ trying to stop drugs

/ flic: Zapped ‑ flic in which Scot Baio zaps teens at dance which makes all but their underwear fall off. 9:50 pm

/big deal over polygraph / 85‑6

/slum dancing ‑ bump and grind

/all want day’s wages, but not a day’s work

/differ by region, class, ethnic

grp?

/ bumper stickers ‑ one with a picture prohibiting oriental driving

/hat’s on inside

/sexual harrassment up (donahue)

/ did church as a youngster ever cause me to lead a better life?

/ can’t legislate morality

/ kid can curse you and your fam.

/ talking of taking pass/fail in tex. to supreme crt.

/ celebrating xmas? by shooting into the air ‑ lot in buena clinton. falling bullets hurt people l2/85

/ looked like they respected police in A Tree Grows in Brooklynn /

  strippers on phil donahue

/ porn stars on other programs

/ the losers have all the counselors, etc., normals have zip

/ marilyn monroe

/ l2 yr old shooting loud starter pistol. smoke shot out. ‑perfectly legal. /playboy in lib ‑ lst complaint in l0 yrs.

/wholesome meggie in thornbbirds

/ libs tear down, tear down

/ silliness of police state

/ e.t. profantiy by kids, goblin drunk,

/ flic: silver sgreak ‑highly suggestive

/ cal said sign near gambling table said we cash s.s. and pension checks

/ obscene messages left on answering machines

/ less interest in truancy

/ no dress codes?

/ profanity of cable co. workers

/ decline on tv can practically been drawn as a line on a graph ‑show

/ the year of the crotch?

/ delayed stress syn

/ if police can’t stop noise, how can they stop crime?

/ pigs

/music video: drill to girl, grind heel into check, satanic, voluptuous, bizarre

/ hockey violence with organ playing

/l rm schse

/ jon lenon

/ not sig if there are heros or not

/mil insignias

/ lack of vals is worse for the poor and the slums

/ at the movies..used word horny a lot‑6:30 pm;started w/ porkies. lot of men never matured; cruel to women. no tenderness; the last am. virgin; going all the way ‑ 5/l/85 ; flics pitched at teens who are fat, virgin, etc. idea is don’t deal w peers; go find a prostitute. my tutor; the white

shadow ‑tv

/ lust‑hate relationship .; this was a spec show on teen sex

flics due to the no of these bad flics; male dominated, cept for valley

girl. women have no names

/ class romeo never got laid out of a bar.

/porn= we don’t respect women

/ why rock music for everything=johnson winning the downhill, documentaries,

/ handcuffing illegals when ours won’t even work

/ static kids give me when I break up a fight ‑kiner st

/big arguements over getting cable or satalite dish programs free

/ lst cath pres, rocky’s divorce, reagan’s 2nd wife, single parents, can see a birth on tv now, reproductive system?, incest discussed, place of women

/Former dir. of cia colby said, l0‑l5 yrs ago, secrets wouldn’t have

been given away for $

/ Cosby show

/ same w/ archie bunker’s place

/ faulkners gone l0 yrs ‑came back and no one resp, no wk, no one worth

salt.

/ Angeline #l8 En vivio 5/28/86

/ Love Connection=cheap 5/86 /

painting with brush in mouth

/thank god for immigrants vs. our flakes

/sexiest weatherman said M Shriver 5/86

/deep pocket outrageous insurance settlements

/Focus on soc. 5/7/86 telling how ghetto types virtually

luagh at the idea of work

  l37K machine guns registered to pri cit in u.s. can rent em. sickos

that thrill to em ‑legal in 37_states to own one. can buy semi‑auto over

counter an convert

/ hockey fight on select tv ad

/ N. reagan said hard to be parent in 60’s

/ an old Jose Ferre in sweats, could see his …

/ pre welfare stories of real struggle ‑ paper boys on corners ‑ t.j.

/jake, the snake on pro‑wrestling.

/ l.a. animal control said nothing could be done

/ rep of fam, honor, duty,

/ if foreigners had pro wrestling, we’d call them uncivilized

/ Larry Hagman: don’t you want to get your hands on my bvd’s

/ hooting

/put you on hold forever

/soap

/ grossly suggestive aerobics and comments on tv

/ lot of bump and grind

/ old don taylor at s.c. deal said stu would never rip pages out of book in his day ‑ older author

/ hey this, hey that

/ sig: decline due to soc. resp intead of indiv. resp 87 bpdf

Wednesday’s cars were the best in detroit

/ refugees shame us ‑ girl who spelled freedom

/ strippers on danahue; porn actors on suskind, and tom synder which helps legitimize it all

/ sado‑masochism of pro wrestle

/some place crime was reduced and people came back out at night

/another is patrolled by neighbs 2/wk ‑ it reduced crime

/ we have to take from youth gangs their immature smiles bout murder, drugs, getting caught, ma’s concern ‑ draft em.

/ the sex revolution

/care unit’s tastless ad bout 5% that die from alc s

/ people looking down into grave and then darkness as dirt is shoveled. “No one cares like we do” (nor as tastelessly)

/ wonder if they run in cycles like lib/cons

/ porn, gamble, alc, drug, crime, ed, wel,

/ 7/3/86 on #2 bout how youth

learned drugs from folks who drugged in 60’s = don’t deal w/ problems

/sig: thank god for immigrants ‑ most of which must be good

/ rather said now w/ am a bit more cynical, immigrants still believe this is the land of oppor…

/have come to pt a cop in an unmarked car drives fast thru the sts of

a bad neigh. for fear of being shot at

/can’t execute a guy who’s gone crazy since being sentenced

/ sexual harrassment

/ cops seducing gals

/ profs and stu

/ church covering for and repeatedly transferring a priest

who had molested kids for l0 yrs

/ Cosell says too much emphasis on sports

/ semi=sexy poses of l0 yr old model

/ locks on dr in ny

/ careful on halloween

/ parents hi in front of kids more?

/ slam dancing

/ death rate

/increasing only for l5‑24 yr olds

/ Menudo’s bump and grind

/ when stuff is bleeped out it may be obvious, but it gives an air of restraint? attempt at standards? a statement that not just any and everything goes ‑that there are supposed to be some limits

/ lot of folks don’t want to hear that ‑ they don’t have to wallow? in reality to know it

/ they like to leave something to the imagination like sex

/ big open mouthed kisses

/isn’t it private

/ tie in with rise of far right religion and klan and survivalists?

/ seems the workmen in neigh can’t get along without blaring radio ‑ trash

too ‑ baseball crowd too

/ white hse says we embarrassed abroad by our

reporters shouting questions to dignitaries ‑ and at times which are for

photos only.

/ talk about as day’s pay, but not about a day’s work

/ more liquor stores in so. cent. l.a. than in Penn.

/ get raunchy on The Love Connection

/ Positive: babies being born

/ reproductive system

/ incest

/ alc

/ drugs

/bootstraps

/mitchel bros.

/ doom ‑ self‑p

/ soc.

/ rise of right

/ civil rights

/ lib‑cons

/ intellects and burs

/ late 60’s

/ trad. val

/ last 20 yrs

‑ INTELLECT…

  disease,

/censor

/ stress, trauma,

/ soc

/ lib

/pro

/ all a victim

said Insight

/

‑ SOCIALISM

  producers and consumers

/ polarizing bottom

/ / job sec. /

‑ RIGHTS

  polygraph / pass‑play to s.c. / civil, women, access, gay,/ 60l/mi’s,

alc’s prisoners,/min. standards despite foolishness /

‑ WORK

  day’s pay / newark ‑ having kids / laugh at idea of reg job in ghetto

/ paper boys / paintbrush in mouth / menial /

‑ MANNERS

  chomping / on hold / press corps? / talk w/ mouth full /

‑ ED

  pass fail to s.c. dup / grammar: hey, at / shapiros / teachers feel

unsafe / dress codes / disc / sat scores / texts dumbed /snap courses /

paddle / open classrm; new math; dual admissions; put on schs who had no

tools; pass/fail; ungraded?; anything to get you to j.c. /Siposs’s class;

fundamental sch.

‑ LAW shoot in air / pig? / machine guns / l2 yr old ‑ starter pistol /

if can’t stop noise, what can they stop /

‑ POVERTY

‑ CRIME

  depression / neigh watch / death wish ‑dirty harry / hr to stop /

‑ SPORTS

  hockey violence w/ organ / drugs / cheating /

‑ GEN….

  immigrants shame us ‑they don’t fall apart, / fam’s rep / pro wrestle

‑ sado/masochism ‑ if foreign / into mil for disc. / faulkners / panhand

lers threaten / happier in past with less / spy for $ /conrad cartoons /

newark / playboy=inst / camera up dress / bingo on h.s. marque /

‑ YOUTH

  slam…/ drugs ..via folks / death rate / punk/ tear pages /

‑ UP

  rotc, scouts, manners/ drugs in mil down from 40% to l0% and almost

stopped in minor league sports / drinking age up and deaths down / wed

cars? / less: soc, min wage, union power,//

 

  20 yrs olds who can’t work

/ loss of faith in insts. and cops

/ mud slinging campaigns

/ wkman’s comp for all sorts of disabilities

/ deep

pockets

/ indians

/ single parent hms

fox? wrestle

/ lenient judges

/ coddling criminals

/ vandalism

/ anti soc

beh

/ s.w. myths

/ cheating in biz?

/ soc programs ‑ h.h.

/ rise? of

credit cards?

/ take a pill for anything

/ teen suicide?

/ job of ed to

pass on the cul

/ need drug test for stu. and search their lockers

/ race

/ good serv. for sake of self

/ can’t get good help

/ morals?

/ sports: drugs, violence?, cheating?

/ toynbee’s challenge and response

/ lyrics after viet

/ cops vs m.p.’s

/ college was a dream

/ something from nothing

/ librarian said she has no auth

/ slingshot guy

/ anything goes

/ win at any cost

/ crotch

/ style article

/ topless?

/ all that’s fit to print

/ rock?

/ gablers

/ wife swap

/ value survey by ___

/ attica

/ w. williams ‑ hope

/ late 60’s /

  End: worse for poor

Better: “broken” hm; “illegit; surrogate parents; adopt; cath. pres.

  divorce; hair?

Resentment of immigrants?

/ soc. programs and still bellyaching ‑ bond,

donahue?

/ resentment of those who don’t work

/ excessive litigation /

‑ SEX

  Teen: best legs in 8th grade; no feelings, no resp, older, as

objects; menudo

  Entertainment figures: mirv, dina, cavet, mittler, suskind, synder,

hagman, welch ,

  TV: graph, soap, eye on l.a. porn stars, cable, b&g ‑ anchors, dating

game, love connection, aerobics, stripper, fannys thru screen

  Flics: golden pond; deer hunter /

  Gen: its private / lice. plate holders, bump stickers; sex revolt…;

playboy as inst. / profanity

  scofflaws / drugs undermine / illegals too / profanity

/ fringe benefits

/ all want security ‑ job security /

 

  In discussing these, references are often made to the last 20 years.

It seems about the early 60’s, we began a very destructive liberal

period. All authority had to be questioned, discipline was a no no, pun

ishement was medieval, psychology was everything with endless indulging

of any sort of behavior as some sort of “right.”. Any personal problem

had to be a “trauma”. Nothing was simple ‑ everything had to be

technical, which could only be understood by professionals.

  I see the reasons for these problems as:

  l decline ‑ espec sex

  2 the growth of intellects and bureaucrats.

  soc = wel, min wage, stamps, rent subsidies,

  3 Exagerated “rights” Misconstrued

 

  ‑ A little attention was given: education, work, pride, hygiene,

getting ahead, appearance, and self‑control.

‑ Only mentioned: respect for property and authority, foresight

  (thrift, saving, planning), responsibility, self‑reliance, and moder

  ation.

‑ Not mentioned: manners, proper speech, health, public service,

  quietness, privacy, family life.

‑ Seen as destructive: censorship, conformity, authority, disci

pline, punishment, and tradition=?

About the early 60’s, we began a destructive liberal period. All author

ity had to be questioned, discipline was a no no, punishement was

medieval, psychology was everything with endless indulgence of any sort

of behavior, “rights.”.

  Any problem was a “trauma”. Everything had to be complex.

 

/ rotc/

frats

/ demos

/ dissent

/ sit fl.

/ me gen..

/ media indulged em

/ campus

takeover

/ Soc= resignation in No. eng’s youth; newark

/ esl stu stood

up

/ sex=respect

/ where’s my reply to cmc question

/

firm=strict=repressive

/ decline in mil ‑ cya / less “comm” /

  videos = grind heel; power drill / in bed: profs, cops, clergy,

shrinks

  Ma: what’s diff? alc?, prost?

spineless: hr to stop; comm relations?; rights; polygraph; hoped the kid

wouldn’t sue me / Young men didn’t go around in undershirts./ slam dan

cing/ food fights in cafeteria/ guns/ myth ‑ slums are hopeless/ getting

a bit firmer w/ homeless mi’s in calif., can be kept longer/ censorship

(certain words, extreme tastelessness, military secrets)/ , and clean up

professional wrestling./ I was never taught the obligation I had to my

folks as being sacrificed for

 restraint, planning ahead, hard work, being clean cut, some confor

mity and tradition, proper speech, and respect for self, property, oth

ers, and authority.

  responsibility, self‑reliance, hard work, authority, discipline, mod

eration, fairness, honesty, thrift, saving, respect, the golden rule, man

ners, good faith, wholesomeness, deferred gratification, some censorship,

some conformity. No porn or gambling all covered by list/ need article

tracing lack of vals all thru juv justic system ‑ also pointing out how

other communities and countries are never looked at./ lot of it is test

ing but no one will stand up to anyone/ Ky: we’ve been here long enough

to know you protect the criminal/ putting it all on schs like they do on

the gov/ gen gap in roomers/ invertibrates: importing crime: viets,

cubans, jamaicans, haitians?

 

/ avoid libs or is this inherent/ add tradvals/ rolling

boom boxes

 

Dear Rev. Miller, 4/88

  I appreciate your letter. Police Times has had The Decline of Values

about a year and plans to use it. A local paper, The Orange County

Register …………

  I retain the rights. If you can still use it and have the rights

revert to me, go ahead.

 

  I prefer this ending: “Things have improved a little, but we have a

long way to go; and the path lies in returning to traditional values:

responsibility (the primary value), restraint, … ”

  send improved version?

 

Dear John Miller, of soc.. jus.. 5/88

Here is a list of other articles you might be interested in. If so, I could send them by computer disk: for an IBM XT that uses wordperfect or ascii.

  Yours truly,

go into psych, soc, / siposs/ last emperor: kid on potty, smell and see turds, 3 in bed, blood out of head at murder, blood in 2 other scenes, mouse against wall, spit in face, wet nurse, wedding night

 

  Psych overindulgent psych in trying to trace every hangup back to adam and eve relieved people of resp. soc relieves us in many ways. deficit spending econ postpones or debts. screwball ed theories: have to be liked lst. 60’s theories: sex rev. pos, easy, fun

former col gov richard lamm am sure I have this somewhere. U.S. inferior ed insts, and uncomp inductries./ we spend almot l2% of ghp on health care – more than any of our comp.. / most vilent crime ridden soc in inducstrialized world. most litigious soci. 2/3rds of world’s lawyers in us. no other soc spends as uch tie in court ro as much defneding and insuring against lawsuits./ no moder soc has our rate of drugs abuse, teen preg, and func illiteracy/ winning off comes down to $./ hang from ceiling/ sugar coat allrespect = no name calling – tolerated far too much in our soc/ -should nip it in the bud. finishing schfinishing sch./ sex on tv w/o ratings puts too much of a burden on folks – no way they can know ahead of time which movies and programs are going to be on sex or whatever – current affair. what do donahue, opra, and geraldo talk about on monday’s? sex, every other day = sex. every change they get – sex. everytime their ratings slip – sex. every time they get a new or “cuter” angle on it – sex. boring – juvenile, etc. and BAD for kids. what will be their most repetitive this yr. next yr. how bout divorce court – sex. current affair? / black gal on 2? 8/29 said hist shows vals swings down and up throughout hist.Record albums weren’t packaged with a picture of genitals engaged in sex acts./ the good ol days

vals for kids: boast, brave, cheat, courage, deceit, disobey, forgiv, complain, hate, irrevernce, jealous, patience, quarrel, rebell, repent, selfish, stubborn.—– really bad./ ucla spends l00k/yr? to test its atheletes for drugs. / stigma of illegit is fading/ jackson – sex w/o love is bad. / can they be injected? later? shouldn’t be nec./ if our kids were subjected to a day of schooling like the kids in japan have, our shrinks would have a fit./ natural law/ used to dress up for flics and planes. go to movie palaces in la, nor as many psychologists with their patients.It’s for emotional involvement and it’s private. H. fonda as father of the yrpeter got psych 4-f jane was a bulmenia – eat and purgeh. fonda married 4 times -lst suicided? 2nd half his agetoo much p.r. in police work

article la ll/8/88 lst p of view. morality crisis prods some schs to START teaching vals again. this was highly controversial in the not to distant past. they did teach em 3-4 decades ago, but stopped due to sep of church and st. idiotic. tv, rock. [then article got funny with theory]

privacy, auth, justic, resp, freedom, diverstiy, property, participation. name calling, excuding l from grp activity. listening to handicapped stu tell of teasing resulted in drop-off of incidents. bullying. adopt a needy fam. animals

said kids aren’t born with vals=crap. anger, irritation, frustration and aggression = non-caring. crap. yelling at kids = out of control.

one said character development sounded holier than thou. get kids to do it when adults aren’t around. asked to draft own plan brought: self-esteem and worth in hi uib … and … cheating, plagiarism, in hi comp area.add contemp vals? good ol daysvaln if herm’d see a bad incident, he call police and “bail”, he saidduty-stewardshipbumper sticker: don’t like my driving, dial l 800 eat shit/teens under pressure in 70’s to have sex as soon as possible said tv/the ams that fought in viet can’t make it, but what about those from other countries that fought there – including viet. never asked/interview women from bout the collar bone up -often/hired campus guards in late 60’s/donahue having russian and us youth link up, rock, sing, talk about dating [probably 5th grade or less], wave, cheer, fun, etc. for world peace./ barf//marianne moody said her l8 yr old didn’t know basics in ed and was more immature than we were//dr. beck says to stu. no eng is your problem./ said vals have slid last 25 yrs – no question//increase in security devises, measures, etc. I bet insur cos would know. / strange they complain bout tabloid and trash tv now on reg tv, but didn’t complain bout porn on cable when it came out. to the best of my memory.need guide on what folks shouldn’t let their kids watch/ la ll/88 3 or 4 decades ago schs taught vals, but sep of church and state helped stop it. auth, privacy, juistice, responsibility, freedom, diversity, property, participation. no hitting, name calling, or excluding a child from a grp activity. students istened to handicapped kid tell what it feels like to be teased – this cut incidents. help animals. cheatint, pagiarism, /people better during wwii-ma/reason any individualism=lack of val; only in self-scrifice for the commm can moral value be found. sig . [individ somehow means greed]/canda’s cities are clean, safe, and almost slumless. canadians are non-violent. muggings asre rare, gun laws are strict. murder rate is l/4th ours./ wall st week – wattenberg? greed was never in. individuall and as a nation [false now] we are the most generous people on earth./the non profit sector of our country is stronger than any other by 5 to l over the next which is eng. other call us greedy out of jealousy envious. wattenberg said we’re not a nation of mood swings – didn’t have such as malaise in 70’s as was thot. [same of me gen, yuppies, hippies, yippies, tweeners,]/why blank out license plate of the johns/one rock drummer uses ear plugs/ins can’t stop and search those who seem to be latino, have a lean and hungry or dirty and unkempt look -la 8/85 said a court./ child labor. 2 span boys ll and 8. foks work three jobs. kid make meals, interpret, and care for baby. boys get up at dawn on sat. lot of im kids work and skip cartoon, ball games, visiting freinds, scouts,litle league. some help folks illegally with jobs such as paid hseclening. they do luandry. tend to talk behind in hmwk. one rev said the harder one’s life the faster the maturation. and reporter said the more matuere , the more eager for academics??????/] more a sense of fam. / more resp in latino fams?older guy at stater said being and older worker is zero vs the young who coming late, high, boozed, undependable, sick, etc./ ted hunter of situation mng inc in tustin: runs drug programs for cos. said vals dived since viet./banned porn in cincinati and olk city and sexual violence and rape went down 20% and 80% .They’re proving the American dream more than most Americans. They do it through family teamwork, hard work, education, thrift, saving, and other values we’ve lost sight of./used to say shame on you/drug war, like viet, like sw – got hands tied/obligation of entertainment industry re: tatoos, earings, none of this on foreigh channel.their singers don’t look like they crawled out of a dumpster/flint said falwell did it to his ma in an outhse and supreme court upheld flint’s right/worry that we’re falling behind other japan and other countries – of course we are. they don’t indulge the foolishness we do in the name of rights, free expression, lst amend? etc

/if sportstars have to be drug free as they are models, then how bout rock stars, movies stars, other entertainment starts./cops few times have told me neighbs can make all the noise they want till l0 pm/im said this country had good laws; tenants couldn’t buy their way out of abusing ll’s./foreigners, refugees have seen dead people. we fix em up and rarely see em/foreigners, refugees have seen dead people. we fix em up and rarely see em/tabloid tv – current affair, the reporters, cops, am’s most wanted, that robert stack one, etc – don’t always HANDLE their subjects right, professionally, but they bring out stories that need exposure – some comm’s ordeal because the cops overly tolerate an informer.

/used to wait till they could afford it to have a child /pub ed etc. means you should be able to give em a drug test

/married with children- blu collar comedy, sun, would have been unacceptable before cable tv. sig gross scenes: babe in underwear than man in woman’s underwear. gal wrote 45 cos. protesting and some cos pulled ads. what one person accomplished.

/girl with t shirt with “shit” printed in big letters

/4th graders feeling pressure to drink

/everything has to have a graduation – rehab…

/of all the alumni, the one you hear lst of is medley

/drugs tests for entertainment stars too, pro wrestlers

/any other vices: tobacco, guns, anthing on lib list. wholesome =? no neg-so say you’ll call and don’t

/dom.. worked better than herm

/your didn’t have to fear your things being stolen from repairmen or domestic or nursing help

/big is bad

/val. people comment about the elegant, stylish b & w movies at night. steve garvey fathered 2 illegits and pete rose gambled tons. and the fans go into depression.

/kids buying rubbers in sex flic at 4:30 – l4 yrs old.

/white hse staff suing bush over drug testingsex in media: sit coms, movies, r.d., mags, books, and some in the papers and local news. ‑ singles.

/crt gave 3 mil lottery win to women tho ball popped out

/valn dismissed charges against blk who provoked wht cop in lb, who could get a yr and l/2.

/baseball games never show fans run out on field – to not give viewers ideas?

/we brought out bad lunches and envied anyone with a tuna sandwich. lunch in the sch cafterria wsas a rare treat -early 30s

/scouts – idea of duty, resp, challenge, character building, improvisation, a calling?, honor, same with what other youth orgs. and the mil

/do shs have safeties like we didfundamental schs

/anyone showing disrespect for teachers, police can be put against a wall, frisked, detained, hassled, and detained till they learn it

 

 

/scouts – idea of duty, resp, challenge, character building, improvisation, a calling?, honor, same with what other youth orgs. and the mil

/biz and sch must do all – vs fam as trad val!

/will transfer violent stu to another sch w/o telling his new teach and 0 on record to keep it clean as a right?

/would you be as safe in your old neighborhood and old school or in the major cities now as you were 30 yrs ago?

/STARTING to talk bout resp.

/wk and save. buy only when you can afford it.

/forbidding drug testing of those who can endanger us [??] means they have a right to trans

/give the drug boat and hr to stop

/why not have kids help crossing guard with batons and vests – safeties. – insur?

/dalton: pas are mas and mas are sisters

/mennonites [and mormons] believe in something

/yankee tradition

/r. samuelson w post 4/24/89 not a good one

our teens live in dreamland. less than an hr of hmwk/dy.

-an adolescent subculture that’s been evolving.

-stus of similar backgrounds do better at cath hi schs. where stu do 50% more hmwk and have more math, eng, and hist. folks of pub sch stu don’t use as much auth. since 60’s schs less demanding. folks of cath schs use more auth. [so cath schs do].

recent reforms in pub schs have made slight diff.

40% of hs stu hve jobs. most are mc.

our cul: rights. question auth. self-exp. [starts to blow it]

parental guilt contributes. [how] kids should enjoy youth. sch shouldn’t spoil it.

am stus score lower in [academic] achievement than asians, but they and folks are more satisfied. [as all are spoiled] #

/sellick on vals w stubble. kid gets hit from behind and 0 done. of course called em children

/old kirk douglas and some young gal spreading her legs in gym. same with michael ……. eng guy

/why should a cycle be louder than a truck. a car stereo louder than the muffler

/give a youth a solid grounding and he won’t get on drugs or will get off quicker

/people won’t push a broom for 20k

/right to read porn for most prisoners – where

/iowas: fed crt stated prisoner have the same access to sexually explicit material as everyone else. – cept for sex offenders or others shrinks ban. no sm, bestiality or kid porn.

/us news 5/89 subway graffiti had to go becasue ihad become symbol of decay and unleashed adolescence. cost 52 mil/yr, but they thot should spend it on causes. ty city sadder w/o graffiti. some of the “artists” earn thousands by big gallaries for their work. the people’s art movement” brilliant graffiti jungle. bouguets of color from the caribbean. graffiti’s exuberant beauty.

/la 5/2l/89 biz can’t grow w/o clerical help. can’t find it.

25% not ready for lst grade in us. in inner city as hi as 70&%.

/comic books: gore, crucifying a prostitute – green lantern. decapitations

/tabloid tv panders. took geraldo only ll min to get all yelling. another time on staying young [lalane] and sex right into it. stop watch.

/auto thieves treated like petty criminals said david horowitz

/serpico complained how for cops held in greater esteem

/medals on fatigues of viet vet protesters

/feel you almost have to tell people how to do their jobs

/repair man didn’t steal, use profanity, play stereo in his truck

/domingo said 75% of people here cheat. more in mex

/debbie boone, pat boone

/serpico complained how for cops held in greater esteem

/diff twix right to do it and what is right to do.

/siposs

/I don’t think rock singers should have tatoos showing

/specialist 4 in the army

/cable tv is a lot dirtier

/censor: idea is: it’s healthy to have a buffer zone on language, restraint, conformity [eton], privacy, modesty, civility, re women, kids, etc. profanity, fantasy, lust, greed, hate?, rage?, rights? could be darn, cripes, and espec need this in one’s youth

/some decent anchow women on local news look a bit uncombortable after a story on sex. others like kellylang seem to join in

/someone else complained bout their sloppiness in fatigues

/when do you hear of shame

/all pos. to say you’ll call and don’t

many college graduates today know less than former graduates,

/test prostitutes for drugs and vd

/when young: don’t fight kid with glasses, don’t hit anyone while down. don’t hit girl. don’t pick on anyone smaller, don’t kick, don’t fight a drunk, no 2 on l

/valn coddling em at waxter so jail and prison probably same.

/fundamental schs, and not putting paper in wastebaskets One report said if we could trace the decline of education to a foreign country, we would consider it an act of war.

/lot of my roomers and others think the schools are a joke

/vals – go to lst grade and see what kids are getting away withtrash truck w/ radio – small

/a civil tonque. edwin newman. howard k smith said the same.

/vals: we think rich, but act poor ??????? find that.

/little white lie = kids on tel say my parent’s next door

/2 men dancing the tango together #5 in aft. nuryev

/shouldn’t be able to hear other people’s car radios when pulling up at a stop sign

/bizman learning bout jap cul. he had a 4 day stubble.

/when do you hear of shame, remorse, someone wanting to make up for it

/us illegitamacy from ll% to 22% in _____ yrs

/old man youn gal in deathwish 3: bronson

/d. raffin. others: m. caine, and kirk douglas.

/bump and grind at mobilization for youth

/could shake a kid in the past

/more hit and run?

/geraldo: did you do the whole band. who was your best lover.

/2l yr old and friends tilt 800 lb coke machine in trying to get a free coke. it crushes him. his fam sues coke

/dirty dancing lessons on evening news. felt embarrassed for gal

/fame: crude, mena, st, jungle, ny, tough

/val? tom and randy getting pot in mail

/you used to hear more about kids working to help support the fam

/hi profits a

/val sex in luv’s diaper commercial [ coitus interuptus]

/val 4.2 congrat, you’re doing great

/ feel good bout self

/work vice into valn

/val. no resp, never wrong, can’t admit they dk, pro, tech

/used to wait to have a baby

/The Seduction – nude in sch comedy. 8 pm. Private Sch. bout same. 8 pm Private lessons – same. impossible to anticipate all the sex on tv so you’d know when to not let your kid watch it.

/val. police had to get man’s written permission to look in his car

/69% illigit in baltimore. 80% in watts

/val. a humility and wholesomeness, and realism about a kid who does chores

/was the man the ostensible hd of the house in I love lucy & honeymooners

/less than l0% of the couples are virgin on wedding night

/how awful to be called a name out front

/if our kids had to spend a week in jap schools, our shrinks would lose their mind, our aclu would sue japan, our teachers would ,

our sociologists would coddle them upon return – packing them off to summer camp, our ….. would study it, donahue + would insist they’d been victimized, dehumanized, traumatized

/recepe for speed in pub lib. also how to make bomb?

/name calling should be a crime. toy guns

/foreigners #l8 don’t make a spectacle of talking with their mouth full

/maflower madam on talk shows, radar detectors

/ky: we’ve lived here long enough to know you protect the criminal. 85?

/the let kidney patients die in eng. l/2 ? do.

/ mr hemeophiliac -tons of $

/william holden banged? young one in 60’s flic Breezy. also Joe

/having to join mil to get disc

/didn’t assault little league umpires in past

/smooth talk = dirty teen flic

/drunk driving deaths dropped 80-84

/love voat,, 3’s co, elvira. h. rosenberg. rock music over bombing of embassy? in beruit.

/liberachi died and that night koppel? was asking if he was gay

/top disc problem in the schs in 40’s: talking, gum, noise, running in halls, out of turn in line, pmproper clothing, .. now its drug, alc, pregnancy, suicide, rape, robbery, assault. 85% shape up when disc; rest are crime waves.

/5 days in jail for 3rd time graffiti wroter. steal paint. rap music in background.

/working your way thru college was more common in past.

/val wholesome vs fame. jap kids have a protected? inocence. jap love to bath said jane seymour on electronic tribe.

/basketball coach in so surprised at media atten for returning trophy

/can now write of gambling loss if a pro gambler

/there are such things as abstinence, restraint.

/ok to curse police. supreme crt

/extremely explicit on miami vice, jextaposed w/ murder. I winced at dr. ruth’s comments

/eur thinks we peaked in early 60s

/if teacher can’t do jobs, some of same w/ cops, others.

/mormons: dutiful, diligent, conscientou. so plodding its unimaginative, dull, anti intellectual. wholesome but tedious. their religion too tech. no subtlety nor understatement.

/have to go into mil to get disc.

/the rich and famous couldn’t have been done 20 yrs ago

/in eng they let l/2 the kidney patients die

/getting surfers out of water

/val- blood sports. eskimos believe in euthanasia

/immature & young are attracted to vice. and we legitimize them. gambling on blood sports is worst of both worlds

/hippies want to throw away what we are trying to get. esl

/val ow kids, living together,

/only takes one bad kid or fam or dog

/in ’65 7% of teachers wuldn reenter field; in 84, 24%;

in 87 4l% of la teachers. course ny’s a joke/we put up w/ garber. 30 yrs ago wouldn’t have

/us used to save a lot

/cheer leaders dragging good luggage across pavement

/feet on pillow. shoes on couch, feet on seat in theaters. tilt chair.

/vals can degenerate: pow’s, ny singles pushing to get food, the good earth

/all the trouble to send hi sch bands or cheerleaders on long trips to compete. renting dinner jackets for a capella.

/gunman kills l4 then self – people say, thot that only happened in am

/when okla loses football? entire st goes into mouring. women wear blk armbands for a wk.

/car radios come down st like a sledgehammer

/menial work – if wrong why are senior doing it

/average am saves less than anyone in world – a l williams

/decline of vals draws lines of contention deeper and promotes stereotypes?

/moderation in vice?

/feet up on seat in front in theaters. gen gap

/food fights in cafe…

/peer pressure on l2 yr arnold to get laid. lil darlin’s

/vals guide you when young or have lost perspective

/could sleep in cent park and bike wouldn’t get stolen. repairmen didn’t steal

/cig ad on tv stopped ‘7l

/sex wax, naked juice. moslems see us as sex crazy

/prison only thing that shaped up la motta said wife.

/the much? older tenants [clegg, phillips] repair, the younger ones replace and throw the old object in trash, not even put it aside for thrift shop-

/old man and young woman in death wish III and diff strokes – sickening.

/menonites, mormons, + solid vals. pecos. m. webb. church of the light? that has l0 yr old wk. 7/29/86 why ever cover these

/pride, envy, lust, anger, gluttony, sloth

/pri lessons. flic. french maid. l5 yr old. 8 pm she’s a hd taller. asks him to sleep w/her. sickening. not good for the boy actor. 2/88 she in tub w/ him.

/complexions, contentment of farmers, country people. unspoiled, unpretentous, peaceful

/was it gary coleman’s dad and mary ann mobley.

/deline in vals leads to less caring

/importing crime: marielitos, viet gangs, nigerians, jamaican possies, yakusa?, israeli mafia?, latins?

/selling lottery tickets at thrift shop

/that ll? yr old – hard worker. taught it by ma.

/gave up looking for wk -probably diff from past

/nervous bout calling bout a job /

/courage, justice, prudence

/clean = hosp clean, mil clean

/j val more fun in past – gross said that too

/super at bld emp said can’t stop males from wearing earings – fact jr his can’t – parents have to

/some reviewer found death wish hideous. carolynn see hated the criminal personality.

/radios of cable, wall duilders, trash truck, roofers, baseball grp

/media = in too much of a hurry to have kids grow up. sexy little models and lil darlings?

/wrestling and porn pander

relative values

/booze permitted at some beaches and parks

/more int in resp and accountability – finally 89

/divorce court – sex

 cops see the decline. worse crimes.

/1 alc said he’d been jailed 600 times – sundance?

/dating game made guys strip to waist

/fame: talent, hd wk, but hard, ruff, callous, crude, mean, nasty, snide, scoffing, rude, crass, lcd, slick, raunchy, affected, overdone, pretensious, animalistic, hairy, try to grow up too fast. far too wordly. adults are buffons, props.

/kinsey said sex revolt of 60s never happened

/which would you be a teacher now or 30 yrs ago … same cop now

/hoffer and guy at bus stop.

/auth – bob mcgrath uses it

/60% of kids w/ single parent hm

/illigit… costs us tons tv

/hbo would have scared me as a kid. also try to have kids grow up too fast

/our vals make a mockery of our forbearer whose struggle built the country

/gates: gov can’t protect the people

 /you see a lot more graffiti on the news than ever before – even internationally – has slowly crept up on us. 9/89

/mayflower madam

/boy in grammar sch gets to wear pony tail. urinated on rock concert crowd

/viet said her friend got depressed from having been forced to wk

/gangs might give kids the disc they need

/cor and nat get too many honors, etc

/sex 9000k times on tv in 85

/stu sitting on tops of desks with coats on

/am admire success whereas in eur, they resent it. princ liz oxenburg?

/repairmen and domestics didn’t steal

. cal has 2nd highest rate of illigit in us

/l0 or l2 yr old who can lay lk bricks a day. -one of best things I’ve seen.

/l6 candles – teen sex film

/good old days – see mod of tradvals

/ted hunter of situation mng inc in tustin: runs drug programs for cos. said vals dived since viet. quiz with him.

/prohibition: the most lawless and cynical era.

/didn’t have obscene bumper stickers

/cable = get to pick the trash of your choice

/early 60s: considered disgraceful to apply for wel. l07 t of p

/illigit rates lower when minorities were poorer in 40’s, 50’s 223

bvi – far less tol of crime. thus safe. usvi is opposite.

hurricane hugo hit both, but only looting in usvi.

/a soc that tolerates motorcycle gangs & gangs period.

/see equal

/blame alc, blame drugs luxery is more ruthless than war.

/moscow on hudson -have to expect mugging as price

/bk: The Flip Side of Soul, Bob Seager or seagram? blacks had more hope yrs ago and were highly reluctant to go on wel. wel and drugs are ruining em.we have lowered ed goals for soc justice. sig

/dir of cent for .. alt said lot of …. don’t read and interns have no conception of job tips

/some young reporters use poor eng

/see cc we have lowered ed goals for soc justice. sig jack anderson. /little jerks wearing a pony tails to sch

/winning is all promotes me lst

/fewer kids on halloween said dr. gilmer’s sec

/cop wrote no job satisfaciton, meaningful accomplishment, sense of being valued in police work. spiritual erosion in pub. people don’t feel safe. more suspicious of strangers. rehab in prison doesn’t work. failure of prison job training programs. /hit sen jon glen and cap cop could only pull the guy by the arm

/decline in val since mid 60s – said gal in denmark and they combat it by having em live w/ grdflks and w/ kids

/old marines di’s think new ones are too soft

/shoes off and feet up on upolstery on seats in front. another guy had his sneakers on top of seat. – in a church – uci talk

/people get more embarrassed over grammar or ed, etc. now as less poised.

/willard scott said if [tel lines] all jammed up , use prune juice ’89

in past we’d send kid like that to office to have his mouth washed out.

but now shrinks and aclu wouldn’t let us

/folks made us face problems. no thumb sucking, no pacifiers

/4 days after hurricane hugo, pr’s bitching that fed aid not fast enuff. 9/23/89 la.

/ever remember how some crisis taught you a lesson you never forgot – like big debt, no $ or whatever. well, libs want to protect you from such a crisis.

/underwear ads

/in like flynn =

/ paper tiger

/jap bashing fits into decline of val

/used to be you came here to struggle and get ahead. now it’s come here, we owe you a living.

/20% on assem line can’t read manual at gm. 80% of applicants at motorola couldn’t pass 5th grade math test. only 3% of the applicants for ops and repairmen at Ny tel qualified for job as …

qual of applicants keeps falling; the skills needed keep rising. biz getting involved in ed out of nec…

/eds worry bout commercialization of sch. but this is trivial compred to benefit. biz involvement holds more promise than any other trend in ed. in one area biz said drop voc ed if you want out help. it worked. biz ed explosion in boston. ny life airlifts its claim to ireland. ibm’s program has worked. pizza hut, ford, polaroid, zerox, burger king sponsor programs.

now flaws: biz must learn results won’t be quick, teacher must be better preped and paid, and need changes in hm.

ed must learn corp principles equally valid in classrrom: standards and accountability. [don’t hold your breath] [could do it all better w/ mw] wrong title was sending [0] cos to sch. gergen ll/6/89 us news

/put hm resp on schs who blew it, now biz has to help schs.

/hi sch in my day: open campus. no security guards. no weapons. no grafitti.

/kids today taking longggggg time to get ba’s. few do it in 4 yrs l2/89/22 of the 40 ’88 finalists in westinghse hs sci emp were foreign born or kids of foreign born. in sd, l of every 4 valedictorians and salutatorians has rcently ’89 ben viet. in boston l3 of l7 valedictorian of ’89 wer foreign born.

/l3% of our kids – 40% among minorities – leave sch illiterate. us news l2/25/89

/people didn’t shoot guns into the air as much on new yrs, which injures people and hurts property

/only 6% of those making over $50k think they’ve achieved the am dream. but 5% of those making less than $l5k think the same. harpers let l/90

vice = bad values

  Vice: (victimless?): gamble, drugs, alc, prost…. porn.

sloth, gluttony, greed, lust, commandments? drugs, sex, profanity, booze, vice, violence, etc. self-pity, envy, jealousy, [Modifications of some traditional values – for which liberals deserve some credit]:

 

 

‑ Using (sensible) psychology to get to the roots of one’s problems

instead of “keeping it all in” and enduring “long suffering”.

‑ More openess about public figures instead of putting them on a

pedestal.

‑ More openess about battered spouses, homosexuality, addiction, child abuse, incest, abortion, impotence, etc.

‑ More openmindedness about premarital relations in long term, responsible relationships.

‑ “Diversity” rather than “singularity” (one course of study, one

type of work, one spouse for life, one set of beliefs & friends)

‑ More acceptance of separation & divorce.

‑ Progress for minorities, women, homosexuals, the handicapped.

– More questioning of religion.

 

/kathy lee gifford said someone in aud wisher her water would break – on with regis philby

/moonie doll on tv

/duty of wife to become interested in and support husbands work + ints.

/single parent fams doubled 70-84 tv

/illigit… costs us tons tv

/viet stu who excell vs gangs. – didn’t have girl gangs in viet

/viet stu who excell vs gangs. – didn’t have girl gangs in viet

/roasting marshmellows over burning doll – mtv – 0 is wholesome, cut some is cute, clever

/tv: sports reporters didn’t report the priv lives of stars in 20s 30s.

same of movie stars?

/l2 yr old accidently shoots and kills girl in mall. only gets yr in juv hall.

/people won’t push a broom for 20k

/cabs will take drunks hm free. cab care l 800 422 4l43 also civilians will

/undershirts called tank tops?

/if you get pregnant, it’s sch’s fault. if vd, same. drugs,

/why is it people with little or no ed can raise kids better than highly ed ones.

/idiots on nightwatch with caps, shorts, sneakers. -hash … hats on during formal awards on tv.

/democratized college and thus lowered standards

/labada dancing – from brazil. dirty. and rather smiles

/hats on in classrm

/keith says kids today think nothing of saying “totally pissed off” in pub.

/old flic w/ cop pulling in front of the guy

/woman told fam ther 3 nights

/wk nec. for alc

/drug son of 29. made to feel a victim of him AND system. pros were no help – only guilt.

/we’ve become a caretaker gen. as have to take care of our aged, our kids, and their kids -so no time for own lives.

/geo jefferson in boxer shorts

/ad w/ water squirting guy so he looks like he went on his pants. tv 2/90

] boom box car shook the windows

/excuse industry. samuelson l2/ll 89 newswk. it was all econ #

/survey on how much sex people’ve had in last 30 days. 5 pm #4 jon beard?

/hbo girl in nude covered with hair, had pouch gave birth to monster – it was spellbinder or the howling 3

/you never hear: you shuld be ashamed of yourself

/50’s clean, respectful, know ones place, manners, deferrence, propriety, courtesy, quiet youth on way up,

nowadays: let it all hang out, acting out problems, pos, love, understand, gloss, tolerate, real,

/gg com cent chime = 0 – also one nr hm depot –

/st run liquor stores in w. va.

/20 yr olds who are over the hill vs mary at phoenix: girlish, femine, delightful, fun, cordial, pleasant

/all the good people who never get on tv. simple minded thrift shop woman who takes the trouble to ask the back room a question. have to be careful to not cause them extra work. touching

/gene burpo said in ’47 he was l8 and swamped potatos for $l50. people made and could live in l5-25/wk. his fam worked fields for 3 yrs.

/jon leo us news 4/2/90

/sig: schs are de facto soc agencies. teachers expected to deal w/ wartime conditions: pov. discrim, crime, drugs, broken hms, child abuse.

[police are supposed to be swers, biz is]

/calif had a task force on self-esteem for $735k. idea of this as a pub policy issue. it’s the dom ed theory around the us

self-esteem stuff [theraputic massage, pos think & psychic boosterism. [est?]] is terrible idea.

[l] no research says it works.

beh is rarely changed by thus self-esteem stuff. it doesn’t raise grades, parental hoovering and fear of failure do.

[2] its hostile to learning and intellect, comp, achieve, success. after all if we’re all perfect, why strive. have to accept all kids as they are. don’t criticize, nor challenge which could end in failure. no hard work. keep dropping standards. vs

real self-esteem come when kid learns something and masters it. it is a BY-PRODUCT of real ed, not a sub for it.

how much this brings up donna, viets, crystal,

/gene burpo said in ’47 he was l8 and swamped potatos for $l50. people made and could live in l5-25/wk. his fam worked fields for 3 yrs.

/if you can’t have a loud muffler, why boom stereos

/in ’65 7% of teachers would not reenter field; in 84, 24%; in 87 4l% of la teachers. course ny’s a joke

/kids had to carry 5 lb bag of flour around re kid

/dwight jackson – black who came to see rm. said when young he got switched by everyone on block or pulled by his ear to his folks. He and bros & sis all grew up w/ no trouble, and not about to be the lst. said no child abuse mania then

/decline of val +? due to:

-pos thinking, hd in sand, ignore, – wrong feelings – feel good, – irresp promoted by these and soc. – psych. – simplisticness of fund religion. – media exaggeration? or their being suckered into these.

-shallowness? of am cul? – too much winning. – pro = disease, complex

/how did our society ever come to the conclusion: some never have to wk, look for wk, get out of bed, etc.

/huge bosomed gal teasing guy thru tv – flic amazon women on the moon 8-l0 fri night

/ didn’t have girl gangs in viet

/tougher and more realistic on smoking and alc – [actual good news]

/madonna

/ma to famous aquarium. spoiled kids in a public place. crowded in [took over] wrecking it for others.[no respect for elders] in the past it was an honor, on good behavior, got more out of it.

/who credits inventors of computers, answer machines, vcrs, etc – vals

One strong early yankee tradition was or virtue was making something from nothing. Nowadays, people expect something for nothing –

/l0:30 some gal’s hands an another’s breasts and someone walks in

/homos can dance at d-land

/lot of ams won’t pick crops, wash dishes, be cowboys – they import em. put this with notes on gene’s picking. and connect with pity

/some dr holding a newborn on tv – his tatoo showing

/phil not getting his kids to do reunion names – in our hse, it would have been done in a wk

/carlos luna vs jerry gillaspy

/a that us workers can’t compete with jap as us prefers jap cars, but many jap cars built by us workers, here. thus it’s mng. our big three in d down, last yr. 25%, but jap big three making 53% more IN us last. yr. w post 6/ll-/90 sig

/jb and so africa are diversions as are our excuses for every criminal, and all our ed nonsense.

/marion barry = shades of ptl-disease, god, rh

/soc is judged by the way it treats minorities, women, kids, animals

/individuality, but not to point one infringes on the rights or

sensibilities of others.

/the rich and famous couldn’t have been done 20 yrs ago ’89?

/heros

– ancient myths had heros who dramatically returned from long exile

– heros cross frontiers: lindberg, salk, daniel boone, ike, fdr

– celebreties are diff.[-heros are for youth]

/lets to ed. us news: fed up with viet vets who cried bout no hmcomng parade and so called flashbacks. k vets came back, put war behing themd, finished ed and started fams.

/ no pols and very few generals are to be trusted. #

/ nicest paper boy, james, came by to collect $2.00. and left his dippy little receipt. americana – does your heart good to see a nice kid -obviously came from a good home where – tradval

/gal on arsenio pulls out latex chest set she used in flic

/decline. thus people went for bronson and eastwood

/farcical course by siposs

/no wonder viets get ahead in sch – it’s so damn easy

/boxing and casinos go together. help ea other make $.

/fewer voting as their vals not represented. k. phillips?

 /engman pulled couple of dirty jokes on reunion tapeaffected ………natural

too worldly …… wholesome

 Work hard, but work “smart”.

/arranged marriages

/i complained to gg lib bout playboy +? . they said lst complaint

/lot more hugging in ads etc. than 30 yrs

/brokow; are we still no l 7/90

/every 3rd talk show wasn’t about sex

/belly dancing in israel. infront of l2 yr old, who’s turned on by pelvis and brokaw smiles

/the Monkeys says eru leaves stars up, but am whittles em down

/sex 9000k times on tv in 85

/why the silent majority is a perfect expression

/older tenants will close refrig dr while talking – burpo

/purple heart for heat stroke in panama

/how often to you hear of the real role of sex in a relationship

/kids then only needed a ball, some cards, & bottle caps.

/shouldn’t show on tv: guy catching bullet with mouth, guy’s neck on machette, pile driver wrestling thing, snake, trapeze w/o net

/guy dropping pants to get ride on tv 9:30 pm ch 2

/daytime tv talk shows = public exorcism. my genes made me do it. the live at five defense.

/some law that since target is open to pub, people can solicit there, even tho it’s pri prop. so fraudulent guys do it in gg and anh target stores said dav.

/no 2 on a bike. no lights = cardinal sin

/guy w/o shirt lying on park bench in wm civic cent. in front of maintenance workers and police sta.

/mormon youth, cath. youth, jap youth.

/can’t be told anything; you have to walked thru it – valid?

/cops didn’t wear bulletproof vests

/steve allen said, due to comp, networks are dropping standards 9/90/bac of guild envelope: have you signed and endorsed your check

/me so horny song on mtv/

/we probably didn’t have the sexual harrassment we now have

/t. sellick on youth crime, but he didn’t have time enough to shave his stubble

/sex tit… on 3 channels 8:30 cross my heart. flic

. some sec. guards were surrogate parents [making sure kids have left their hms for sch] in palos verdes? for weak parents

/

/oldest profession, but oldest taboo. anti porn l 800 453 3900

/val – the pill

/take out?: Bill Moyers passed no judgement on welfare mothers that had child after child. jive Please do not return this. If you can’t use it, no need to reply.

/act in good faith. keep lot of irons in the fire In l964 they created a “poverty line”                             College Credit for This?

Around l980 I took a writing class at a two year college. It was suggested we by two books, but few students did and no assignments were given in them. Some writing was assigned and almost anything could have used. It was gone over gently in class. If anyone had done a poor job, it was never brought up.

The classes were mostly discussion; there were few notes taken and no tests. I missed many classes and assignments and easily earned 3 units of college credit.

A survey from the administration was taken; it was designed to elicit positive pablum.

Compared to l7 years before when I had to work hard to get through college, this course was a joke.

/pic worth a thousand words today – with vals being so bad. surfers carrying casket

/stever allen said networks getting dirtier due to comp

/real nice clean cut, wholesome, gorgeous republican gals with big smiles, nice hair, dresses, manners. happy for their men. at 60 conven. just real honnies. i have to get back in pol. men had short hair, thin lapels, ties. /grace and self-denial = 2 parts of manners, or good breeding

/poor richard’s almanac [exerted big infl for almost 200 yrs.

/blame it on rio? the one where michael cane goes for friend’s daughter?

/”cut the cheeze?” comment during pro wrestling

/stu in hi sch – 2 w/ basebal caps, one in an undershirt

/many channels weeping over jon lennon’s 50th birthday. even un honored him

/in i love lucy, desi permitted her to do things

/sorry, there’s not that much to sex – no wonder the skinheads are ticked/tish baldridge said manner kaput since mid 60’s

/testing has stopped drugs in mil. somewhat in sports. more at work

/we didn’t get many awards in sch. now that’s all you get

/tons of sex on sat night on tv on many channels

/hats on in class at harvard? or berk..

/barnes and kondrake said vals down [need rel revival]. germond laughed

/if it feels good, do it

xmas madness: k-mart jammed with merchandise, goofs, and music, and over eager mr? bellringer outside, and more music outside – tis the season to go ape, frenetic, in debt,

/prosperity’s right hand is industry, and left hand is frugality. samuel johnson

/honor is the reward of virtue. cicero

/illegal meant wrong when growing up – porn

/puritanical: prosperity = reward of good life

/older gen thot saxophone was too sensual – early 20th cent? rumble seat

/prohibition = the noble experiment

/have to watch repairmen more – and more in not so hot neigh. tel man who ran up big bill for chas johnson. another who tore my ivy off. sprayed and killed hedge. called bout another … cable installer jerks. edison guys who changed transformer: radio, asked em, called it in twice and 0.

/see midway

/the naturalness of it all – pat streetz

/thou shall love thy neigh as thyself

-sensible how prost makes sense now in ussr. gals bribe way into western hotels, take only hard currency, and need it to get by. this on koppel report which turned out all right-sensible how prost makes sense now in ussr. gals bribe way into western hotels, take only hard currency, and need it to get by. this on koppel report which turned out all right

/white lie: saying carlos has moved. santa

/tanktop in tv aud

/table manners just as bad during cid ceasar bit in b & w. margo kidder with her boot on couch

/have to tell people how to do their job – tel pole, mc sch.

/sex at the office. stupid as most have soc and biz life separate. just look at how office parties get out of hand. one two hrs long with alc at welfare was plenty.

/real bad bum outside luckies. they chase him off, he comes back. they say cops won’t do anything [ pub nuisance, blight?, disturbing peace

/anti premarial is directed toward youth

/more stuff in poor taste on tv – spitting gum, but crack, cleavages all over, steaming scenes on soaps, entertainment tonight.

/rape on campus . admin shucks it off as boys will be boys l2/90 tv

/i don’t ever want to eat with asian or any hoods again – late at denny’s.

/pro hockey shows em fighting while all stand around on tv – real sport

/las vegas: glitzy. nothing subtle

/lawyers drinking more now. l2/90. blame job dissatisfaction and stress. [oh ok, go ahead and drink then]

/safer to hitchike in eur than here ’58

/trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, reverent. had to earn the $ to buy your uniform.

/some forms of life worse than death, thus causes worth dying for. severeid.

/the truth is its own justification. severeid.

/”but crack” during prime time?

/woman spits in another’s face at l0 pm on ch ll

/las vegas = am excess and decadence

/nobody wants to be a cowboy. 4/90

/4th grader with earing l/9l

/all must be pos, hugs, and feel good

/divorce, single-parent hsehold, 2 gener wk force, teen parenthood, latchkey kids. you learn more about the am fam from l0 grandmas than from l0 fam experts.

/family obligations are a pathway, not obstacle to fullfillment

/[surfer?] buddies carrying casket in jeans, tennies, hair to shoulder, t-shirt, chain, knee length pants, jacket, thongs, shorts, cap backwards 9/90 in r

/after a report on porn on news, they sometimes return to the clean cut anchorwoman. it’s an embarrasing moment as she takes us on to the weather or whatever. shows the old double standard

/erica jong said women won? right to be as free in bed as men and discoverd what men knew all along: recreational sex ain’t enuff = growing up

/hippies wanted freedom without resp

/see 60s?

/i don’t like parties where folks due all and folks sit around

/no marxist profs

/grubby table manners – victor mature + in early flics

/all in the fam shows how we used to think of things then. how we were challenged: boys where boys

/guys hand on woman’s breast in an opera. farting with hand under arms on funniest videos

/blk boys the mil is often their lst job.

/never credit the guys who invent computers, programs, walkman’s, hi tech weapons

/younger gen can’t be neg. so they click off tel when they don’t want the rm. weak

/ought to be a law against unnec shaming criminals etc. on geraldo. worse than mccarthy

/jim said no cigs in saudi arabia.

/one guy calling bout rm said when young his bro beat him for trying to smoke and later, could never thank him enuff. stories you don’t hear of

/think tanks. the sudden ascent of the expert in the 60s. jfk liked em. legacy: viet, wop. they had gone for facts. [here comes the bias !!!!] the new cons tanks went for ideology [instead]. w post 2/ll-/9l

/the way of the wasp. r. brookheiser? wasps wrong on slavery and prohibition. eurs that went to latin am became mercantile; those that came here became cap…. he lists wasp char…..======= this belongs under valn? ===== hardly worth working on ====

-Bad taste is a liking for anything that is fake, shoddy, cheap, imitative, gaudy, ersatz, or false. garish? tacky?

for example ….. what.

There is an encly of bad taste. [so what is good taste]

-Kitsch is art of a pretentious but shallow kind, calculated to have a popular appeal. it is a product of bad taste. ???????

/la is the capital of kitsch.

this was more an excuse, or attempt to be aloof

stopped as article was 0. by jack smith

don’t forget jerry lewis’ telethon was called kitsch.

so was ramona.

was milagro? ice capades. vegas, circuses? that collection of music that barriga didn’t like.

unsubtle, lower level ?……. mundane?

 

/In those days (which?) they spoke of the “evils of idle

ness”. also that “activity of the hands would relieve the brooding

mind”.

/ma – the satisfaction of saving a long time for something and finally getting it.

/wholesomeness (no porn, prostitution, alcohol, drugs, gambling),

moderation? in porn, prostitution, alcohol, drugs, gambling?

/girls lot safer on college campuses when we went

/6 pm ch l3 sat “bastard”

/some viet folks in viet or camp tell kid to do well. he comes here and does. vs am handholding

/those who deliever papers at night remind me of all who are commendable./studs

/madonna – whorish number at acad awards 3/9l tired of sub

/on radio: if you break up with a girl, sleep with her friends

/”shit” on t shirt

/mtv on “casting” [the private parts of] rockk stars 4/9l

/we don’t give recognition to those who develop computers and software./taking pot on an old sat night live

/no better way than renting rms to learn what guys will and won’t learn bout resp re all: diet, ex, their prop, your prop, noise, immaturity, class, tv for a mo. drs, all – see lease, etc- the absolute realies of resp

/9:20 pm frog ask terry carr if he can sleep with her 9l

/do people not keep appointments more these days?

/lifeguards learn self-defense now 6/9l

/showed baseball player with his fly open – during eve tv. reg ch

/i wouldn’t want to have been in the same outfit as some of these viet vets. look like hell. also memorial being milked

/jeff and scott getting the shaft from all on the standard property

/valn my hm town: jack fisher, santiago, willard?, hi sch, gen rep. all-am award.

/cop trying to talk teen? girl with 2.5 bld acl level out of kicking window out in cop car. she was cuffed and hobbled. tv 6/9l wonder if the more crap she pulled, the worse it’d be when she sobered up.

/l/3 of biz that fail ia due to employee theft and dishonesty

/julie andrews did bump & grind in flic

/increase in gated communities?

/the character ethic: integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance, courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty, but shift in 20s to

personality ethic: personality, pub image, attitudes and beh, skills and techs.

/being here after l2 yrs away – people judged by their income.

/being here after l2 yrs away – restaurants, tennis, vacations

/kooky appearance ….. un, wall st., establishment, biz, diplomacy

/total recall: entertaining but profane, she grabs him in crotch, something up his nose, 3 tits.

/ad for perm arts cent – bmp and grnd . 930 am

/flic: look who’s talking. pic of sperm swimming up something and attaching while they talk?

/org st fair

/do people not show up for appointments more?

/people asure me they will show up to see room or call. they do neither.

/they don’t call later to apologize. would they give up ever getting the rm as a weak person would? tim furgeson didn’t.

/viet gal here lived in Philly and reading. and prefers em. says far too much crime and brusquesness here. she’s right. it’s getting like ny. she called fire flies, “light bugs”.

/noisey programs for kids in library – heard by all?

/cher’s dirty video 7/9l

/when carlos lst got here, he couldn’t believe the stuff they threw out at wk. but he’s thrown out some.

/fam videos ? on tv farts with arm pits

/aud – death wish, dirty harry

/we’re all capable of bad but vals, disc, etc. hold us back

/$ making has never had the moral legitimacy in eng it has had in us. distain for industry.

/at marie calandars, you have to pay at table now. 8/9l

/bet you can find top foreign cops who are scared here because of so many guns

/dress code for guy who’s COMBINATION of tatoos, hair and fatigue pants were blight, spectacle. unsightly according to comm standards.

/In those days (which?) they spoke of the “evils of idle

ness”. also that “activity of the hands would relieve the brooding

mind”.

/natural, real and wholesome, decent, etc. people on am’s funniest videos

/didn’t put feet up on seats in front of us in theatres

/stripping ch l3 8:l5 pm

/service improved during recession. la 6/30

/9. op ed bit by biz prof.

/jun shows the sig of vals – cause if he were alc, jd, etc, we’d never hear the end of it.

/drawer full awards

/drawer full of awards

/cross “bloody” dummies of freddy kruger on mtv ch.

/in swiss, they respect your privacy.

/fewer than l/4 qualified for low level jobs with ny tel over last seveal years. 9/9l.

/afs er dianne of australia said when she learned to act immature, she got along fine here.

/down from mimi’s was teen deal: jeans, leather, bandanas, etc. grubby in nice hotel.

/gay protesters in front of wilson getting away with throwing things etc. some place else, the smashed a door, threw a potted plant, hit a female? cop. she was laying down. only 2 arrests.

/i remember the fun of football, NOT being no. l.

/sex harrassment vs saying leslie easterbrook is sticking out.

/bloomingdales paid $75k to woman sprayed with perfume. tv l0/9l

/not selling cigs to underagers dropped their use 30%. tv.

/now and then you see something put together by love for posterity – museum, music, quality, scholarship, desert of iran?, cartoon of classical music, afs

/introduced all tabloid tv reports one night on tv and they were all hard.

/our “children” in college [bottom line] who want to be treated like adults.

/arsenio hall with cap on in pulpit

/guy with pony tail and cowboy hat talking to some class. and funny bag in front. beard.

/smoke detectors for mi’s, non smokers, etc. d. gergen us news aug l9 9l

/in past they could run a school w/o security guards, bullet proof vests, police substation

/sluts on dance party on tv

/look at the no of our folks that wouldn’t want to be a parent today. is this ty?

/doesn’t the appearance of bums disturb the peace.

/stupid mother weary bikini on stupid s.j. raphael show with daughter. trash. never grew up. spectacle. should be law against that.

/didn’t spit on ea other on tv. pro wrestler did it. cobra bites macho man. valn

/boomers, once enamored with counterculture, are returning to am verities: [realities] moderation, hrd work, self-=reliance, less depend on gov., devotion to fam.

/chas kuralt type people

/one middle sch in plainfield, Ind has policy: no stu is ever cut from a club or team. [great prep for life] us news leo. l2/23/9l

l) max participaton, equality, self-esteem, avoid elitism & tracking, ability of all kids to achieve high results. leo says this is too cavalier bout effort and results, too suspicous of brains and individ success.

2) excellence, striving, merit, raising expectations and standards, avoid happy emptiness based on feel-good [learned] self-esteem, rather than earned self-esteem.

dropouts. checkouts [mentally absent] ================

/montel williams wearing short robe. a stripping couple on. trash. day.

/hire an am l7 yr old then an illegal l7 yr old

 

/88% of folks think it hard to be a parent now. they have less infl over kids than ent.. figs. 2/3rd thinks fam vals are weaker. 87% have trouble making ends meet. blk folks 2-3 times more worried then white folks that kids will get pregnant, use or sell drugs, get vd or aids, or get shot. hispanic parents 5-l0 times more worried than whites bout same. l2/9l. la?

 

/jim roberts said since 60s teachers and parents backed off trad. vals. want to be friends of kids, liked by kids. those hippy kids are not parents. the most sig infl is the fam – just like gilder. all sorts of counseling groups.

/jim roberts: l/2 are single parent fams. many fams barely holding together. many too busy for tradval xxxxxxxx. he preferred teaching but being veep is vehicle to personnel.

/are my comments on gg hi sch ir festival written down? on edn? or valn?

/jillion metals for gulf war. way out of proportion. like sch.

/halberstam: we simply got spoiled.

/which val teach and which impose

/plantiff’s buddy wearing undershirt. – people’s crt

/silber: whims are needs, then rights on the assumption that

sincerity creates values.

/shit on a t-shirt.

/silber finds many girls stu exceedingly scruffy, dirty, ill-kempt, trying to be repulsive.

-90

/broward county da says no resp

/guards used to have upper hand at rikers island. 2500 violent incidents in 90.

/one auto mag [rd & trk?] rated cars. of top l0 9 were jap and l germ. tv l/92

/girls couldn’t wear pants in hi sch

/tv is better and worse. but far better. worse as far as language, sex, – as it’s bad taste. bad for kids.

/mc val: indiv resp, hard work, equal op, merit, supporting one’s fam. leo

/mtv – dirty.

/you couldn’t kid the pres. then the album, the lst family.

/why is it premarital relations are wrong only for the young?

/j. leo: broken window theory: lst window, then it snowballs [cs] thus la after graffiti, phil after litter, ny after subway graffiti. starting to stop begging on subways. tired of 25 yrs or rights and compassion. us news 2/3/92 and use poor judgement

/territorial pissing. name of song mtv l/92

 People spied for beliefs, not money. Cable and video porn portray people as hungry slabs of meat.

/in france, if you fall into a crevace and are rescued, you have to pay according to the depth of the crevace and the distance down the hill they take you.

/sig mw would take pressure off wel and put it on illigit = !!!

/roats: is the truth, fair to all, wil lit build goodwill & friend.., beneficial?

/not a word on whose fault it was in the wreck of james dean or if the other party was hurt. similar to m. ali

/20% of kids watch 5 hrs of tv/dy 92

/dick clark said same thing happening as when he was young: folks complaining bout music of youth, dancing,

/80% of ams think insanity plea is a loophole. gal on tv 2/92

/arsenio hall had a cow shit on an article he didn’t like. 92 ll pm

/male models coming down runway in jockey underwear.

/miss manners said 60s cop outs were: do whatever you want, [drop out, turn on, let it all hang out, be natural, never having to say your sorry.]

she’s surprised how entitled all feel and how crass they are. she says bad to think you can return rudeness.

/people more interested in her bk since 60s bull of don’t be bound by tradition. boss goes lst, not the lady at wk. good humor. miss manners.

 

 

/us falling faster from inside than outside ’67.

/suit like jacket over bare skin on hi sch stu. 2/92 one guy with bandana.

/we work a month more a yr than we used to. tv 2/92

/kids sitting on top of desks – shoes on seat, heavy coats, terrible earings, terrible hair, caps, -bklyn. talking bout ethnic tension in hi sch. tv 2/92 stubble.

/nix: to college during depression when steak was a big treat.

/vanna white is wholesome, sweet, , compared to hollywood.

/cynical in la times mag: some people actually have fond memories of their [home towns]. 2/92

/ambition, honesty,

/w post l/92

lat am: cent auth. hierarchy. wealth is to be distrib.. rather than created. easy one shot sols.

am: wk, walth, independ, individ, punctuality. shared power. innovation, entrepreneurialism.

asia: save and invest.

 

/what do foreigners think when they see cops?

/youth is time to pass vs fill

/nix said have to tuff it out

/ed: ethics: taking flashlight and glasses back to store. passing stranded? motorist. seeing someone taking shopping cart hm. helping viet with flat. paying an extra $30 at comic bk store [little thanks from them]

/newark. might start: teaching values, have curfew, vol work, make parents resp. ’92. irv schs will too. 92

/relations: ethnic, hate, gay, ir, vals, im, sex, crime, boom box, drummer in neigh, 20 visits to steve,

/hv 1 bit on sex symbols

/fights and rodeos

/fight films banned for a while – espec when interacial as they provoked fights.

/linda chavez: l/3 were shot gun marriages in past. she said it was your resp to marry gal. thus rise in ow since.

illigit in past. now it’s ow.

/media looks to rock, folk singers.

/rock is a staple of western culture. bull tv 92

/sen rudman said ams don’t want to cut back on anything.

/teach vals vs instil, demand, drill into,

/kids into spoons apricot tree and my loguat tree – broke branches. one of jr hi says sch lets him wear earing.

/kennilworth had to fight for curfew, landscaping, clean sts, rules and regs. these didn’t come from money

/dennis miller has guy from band on: no shoes, torn t-shit with no sleeves, tons of disgusting tattoos. says he’s one of the most real. aud applauds.

4/92

/can’t export dem and cap and can’t impose your mid class values ..

/can’t say the song cocaine promoted it

/sitting on the backs of bus benches with your feet dirtying the seat where people sit and get their clothes dirty from your shoes.

– they don’t do it at home

/shoes on furn.

/il teens can work circles around our teens.

/profanity on bumper stickers.

/I want your sex. i touch myself.

/why is it premarital relations are wrong only for the young?

/brot the moral majority

/my sub exp

/bad neighborhoods had more hope in the pastwhat did I do with this:

  The importance of values can hardly be underestimated in any discussion of poverty, crime, illegitimacy, drug abuse, mental illness, or radicalism. People fall into these because of poor values.

  When in teaching, politics, and social work. I saw a great need for defining traditional values.

I can list them after having worked for many senseless social agencies, living in slums, living with mental patients, renting rooms in my house, and tracking the media for years.

  These became traditional because they worked. Responsibility is the one many people try to duck. Scratch a criminal, bum, addict, or mental case and you’ll find irresponsibility. Scratch those wallowing in self-pity on daytime talk shows and in tabloids and you find irresponsiblity. Scratch a socialist and you’ll find an idealist taking responsibility from the individual and family and putting it on the government. #

/can I tie in excessive rights obligation and reciprocity.

Some students could be allowed to leave school at l4 if they have a job, as it is the orientation of the working class to do this and start a family early. Many are wasting everyone’s time by being forced into two more years of school – a requirement brought about by organized labor years ago to lessen the competition for jobs.

To say this has no connection to the increase in sexual harassment, illegitimacy, sex crimes, and professionals in bed with clients stretches the imagination.

add pos?

Was the rioting worse than ever before? Are people less responsible than they used to be and thus more prone to act up more during a riot?

If so, it must be because we’ve gotten away from traditional values.

 

‑ The dramatic rise in crime the past 20 years is mysterious ………

  …… (and somehow not connected with the decline in values)

Don’t judge by appearance …….. clothes & hairstyle say a lot.

/dont for get all these were blended into lists.

/wasn’t this list integrated into lists? so is this still relevant as an article. yes

, birth control

Rights …………………… responsibilities

tradval no good as old, neg, don’t feel good, [resp] accountable, psych, punitive, rehab?, inhibiting, dull, routine, not warm loving hugging, not smart aleck logic, not fun, not ed ,menial, confrontational, not self-pitying, disease?, short range, centered on you, sexy, imposed, auth, regimenting, permissive

/trendy, pop-psych?,

/tradval for ams of eur decent. not for hispanics or blks, said who?

little things [disc, stick, prevent.. police wk]

risk

/sw and lib teach you that tradvals come slowly and are worth gold. mature.

/tradval reguires disc to instill

I can list them after having worked for many senseless social agencies, living in slums, living with mental patients, renting rooms in my house, teaching, working as a political aid, and tracking the media for years.

need up dating or covered in lists?

 

Contemporary values of liberals. Traditional values of conservatives.

 

Liberal Contemporary values Conservative Traditional values

 

/tradval. be a parent, not a friend.

/non pro: bury kid when l4, and dig em up when 25. but now 30

/baseball caps at all kinds of angels at meals and in class at olivet college. 92

/teach vs instill vals.

/undershirt – respect

/in past bus drivers were safer, teachers, visiting nurses

 

Wholesomeness = modesty, some censorship, restraint, decency?,

idea of hard work to earn rewards – nothing shallow and superficial,

sound, upright

 

/truck of marines and a guy in boom box car pass. they can’t even stop that.

/baseball violence, hockey violence, soccer violence, some in basketball, football

/big hearted white ex-pros kissed black cop jackson whose getting on her case had gotten her to stop. on cops.

-touching moment

/in order to raise money thru “Comic Relief V” 5/l7/92 for the worthy cause of helping the homeless and others, is it really necessary to use such unworthy language of the lowest order?

/silk stockings – lewd

/troubles build character

/problems can make or break you- Every job is a “profession”, every field a “science” …. nonsense .

– Vice is tolerable (porn, prostitution, drugs, gambling)

  ………….. vice is cancerous.

– Do enough to get by ………….. hard work.

/pet me papa

/had to beep out half a conversation on one blk flic [… leather] 9:08 sun pm

/initiative

/moral appeasement

/guy in jockey u wear 8:09 flic on tv ch l3.

/guy in jockey u wear 8:09 flic on tv ch l3.

  Love means never saying your sorry ……………… nonsense.

/did people ever blame radio, or print, the way they blame tv?

/i blame bad 60-70s vals, but don’t buy that 80s were bad vals.

/un news 6/8/92. [do mc (white, mainstream) vals affect ghetto and visa versa]. this page will take a lot of work.

/more illegit, drugs. greed, selfishness, indiff to others during 80s. /cons say no that pov has it’s own cult.

/single ma’s mean problems. but larger grp of divorced mom’s doesn’t.

/tv [mc] influencing us as to gays, environ, anti smoke, but not in sex, violence.

/poor kids watch more tv. and blacks kids even more. blk parents especially believe tv role models warp, said polls.

/apa says watching tv rarely means copycat violence, but heavy watching is “linked” to more aggression, mistrust, and insensitivity to pain of others. /reasons for illegit [uib, wel] in pov don’t explain illegit in mc.

/polls: ams far less willing to marry or not divorce for kids sake. so if mc have illegit, poor can too.

/ l/5 white fams are single ma’s [never married?]. l/2 for blks – never married [so not same?] – 60-70% in inner cities.

/kids of single parent fams more prone to alc, drug, illegit, jd, mh, suicide, dropping out. they are more prone, than kids of divorces, to pov, no child support, & crime.

/decision of couples to marry or live apart aren’t much influenced by gov – policies re taxes, birth control, and divorce. big growth in female-headed families. #

un news 6/8/92 un news 6/8/92  un news 6/8/92 un news 6/8/92

/super cheap geraldo – man is he cheap. titilation in aft.

/forcing people to carry car insur is forcing resp?

/23% will like bout where they keep their car at night. 32% will exaggerate insur claims. 20% will conceal income from irs.

– cc 5/92

/initiative, pride in work,

/what is decadent

/tradval to dan quayle 6/92

/comic book confidencial showed how uptight adults were long ago. ch 29 .

/jfk was a hero and ike was not? fickle ams.

/2 football coaches. both with earings and long hair. canaga pk? vs ?

/not where you live, but how you live.

/talk differently on campus, in locker room, on st, with boys at stag party, grp ther, fighting words. night club humor, around kids, board rm, protest

/if everyone wants a job, why hire those with earings, etc.

/too much sex on vh-1 in the aft. sex symbols [program]. earth girls are easy.

/prove how long it takes to learn tradval. by looking at how much a kid does not know????????????

/people stealing from libraries [more?] 6/92.

/religious grps back quayle on vals. la 6/20/92 but ty: not specific:

cul elite vs [man in st]. all should be free to do whatever. deval of hum life and fam rel. failure in pol, soc, and financial insts. loss of conf and trust in hollylwood, networks, dc, biz leaders, and some religious insts. too much sex and violnce on network tv. the only ones not is the sack are the happily married. profanity, porn. abortions, ow births. drugs. i have to have it my way. #

/fair play, raise a fam.

/people stealing from libraries [more?] 6/92.

/apple pie and motherhood. bill press said … pile of crap 6/92

/promiscuity, affairs, dugs, noise, violence on tv

/i’ll beat boogie woogie was considered dirty.

/the dirty boogie.

/birth control info.

/vals always blamed on papers, radio, tv, music. doing what comes naturally.

flics take credit for: undershirts, t-shirts, long hair getting caught in machines. flics till 27?

flics – smoking.

some ad agency made smoking for women?

sat night live in 70s made drugs more acceptable?

jailbait. under age drinking. braless. open mouth chewing kisses. faye dunway barechested in chinatown. clockwork orange.

/suggestive

/legion of decency

/hollywood is in the attention getting biz? takes self too seriously. others take it too seriously too.

/slasher stuff. it’s driven by $, not ideology.

/hollywood is lib.: less religious, interacial dating. gay rights.

media inevitably run by elites in all countries. as literate, talented.

an elite is not nec a cabal. [mono?]

elite is loaded or not.

/ingrid banned from us

/scandals in 20’s made people call hollywood the greatesf fleshpot since babylon. 37 states introduced censorship bills. could do it as filcs not protested by lst amend. anna karenina couldn’t have an illegit kid. dead bodies could not be shown. drunkness too. damn in gone with the wind.

i just don’t think flics are that sig.

/self-indulgence

/see traffic2

/cleavage

/european attitudes: french ads for u wear. statues./twin beds

/something for nothing ….. making something from nothing./hollywood says they mirror am cul. quayle says they are a cul elite that distains tradval. like agnew.

come first. venerate hold deep reverence for

paramount/$700 bullet proof vest for principal in seattle. and the assist princ wouldn’t go on camera.

-6/92/tv seen as vast wasteland yrs ago.

/cops: egyptians who owned store said if thief who broke in got caught in their county, everyone would stomp him.

/where did the hooting come from.

/clinton saying both? gov and citizens must assume resp. 7/92

/val – tatoos, earing, dreadlocks, bump and grind, bully, strutting, macho, /wagner – artists. gay rights. putney swoop.

 law and order). /chasing women

/social class might? be a tradval? /not disturbing the peace/duty, honor/obscene comments in yrbks nowdays said keith + 92 We can recognize vice (gambling, pornography, prostitution, & drugs) for what they are ‑ a cancer . /val: fisher park, santiago park, willard, sahs, like linwood. sec guards at sch with bulletproof vests. blked off st. gangs.

/val – imitating the president. vauhgn meader

/trucks etc. didn’t leave their doors open with the stereo blaring when making deliveries 92/compassion as tradval?/compassion – chop wood before eating/when it comes to traditional values, a lot of ims are better ams than ams.

/val: studs. sexual harrassent by navy officers.

/holland has lot of sex ed and low pregnancy rate.

/hope/from self-reliance to self-pity moral vals /judy j. doesn’t like hats on in doors either./selfishness is such a horrible thing, we invented politeness to conceal it – schopenhauer.

the function of courtesy is to curb instinct. you don’t gobble your food just as you don’t pounce upon an attractive woman. courtesy is not a lux, but necessity.

/jap: caste, hi respect for rank. in france, all are thrown together and codes of conduct fade away. a? democratization has broken down social barriers. a?/after all these years what is sin? peyton place /why manners never taught on tv; nor soc life, dating in grps, or sex as wholesome, parenting,

/tradval listed under: lists, tradval, sub, sw?, val, lib?, adp/super dirty rap song by blks. baby got back by sir mix a lot. on mtv

/i don’t think 30 years ago, we would have had on tv and aud made up of men who had been molested by priest and repressed it for 20 30 yrs./ prohibition? what did other countries do.

/fam vals are amorphous said la during rep conv./fam vals: abort, divorce?, single ma’s, working ma’s vs hm w/ kids – day care, cohesivness; orphans?, sex, sex ed. anything about gays – gay parenting, teaching, housing, /see dem/grafitti on trucks – some around here. 92/franklin’s l3 virtues: temperance, silence, order, resolution, frugality, industry, sincerity, justice, moderation, cleanliness, tranquility, chastity, humility [imitate jesus and socrates]/rugged individualism – self-reliance/ clean cut appearance, hygene

/the “fam” as a val. fister said long hair was an instant passport to getting along with youth.

unity, community.

 

theoretical ed phil, esthetics, ethics, humanities, anthro?, religion?,/compassion as tradval?/dem and cap are tradvalclean cut appearance, hygene

//gabler: buchanan declared holly col war on feminism, homo. rock, hollywood, media. 70 yr cul battle. why 70?

/val flap in 20s: jazz, flics, flivvers and flappers, bathtub gin, dh lawrence, the shimmy, the charleston, tabloids. many thot it was plot by jews and catholics/belt tighting goes without saying.= work sheet ================

‑ Using psychology to get to the roots of one’s problems …

  “keep it in, endure – long suffering”.

‑ Probe into public figures … put them on a pedestal.

‑ More openess about battered spouses, the gay world, addiction, child

  abuse, incest, abortion, impotence, etc. …. don’t talk about it.

‑ More openmindedness about premarital relations in long term, responsible

  relationships. ……. no no

‑ “Diversity” ……………… no, “singularity” one course of study, one type of work, one spouse for life, one set of beliefs & friends.

‑ More acceptance of ethnic diversity. …. keep to your own.

‑ More acceptance of separation & divorce. … less.

‑ More rights for minorities, women, homosexuals, youth, the handicapped. …… real slow and reluctant.

‑ More questioning of religion. …. no.

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– “Relationships” are basic to rehabilitation ………….. nonsense.

– Fires, floods, etc. require mental health teams …. not necessarily.

 

/”over”commercialization of lourdes – scacrilege. but people’s tastes are that.

/you paid your debts./media caters to the bored, immature, lonely, unfulfilled, etc. like sex, boxing, … idiocy sells. ag. as bk r said in w post 9/7/92, “… soft porn, dumb news, and nitwit intertainment ahve always been the coice diversions of the mass of an pop … “/dem and cap are tradval /profanity in locker rm, etc. doesnt disturb the peace.

/val. trigg’s hair.

/can sign up for your wedding list at hm depot or a down payment for mort.

 wk ethic. a latina teaches it but doesn’t use the words. it’s a turn off for [blk?] stu. how to act at wk = diff cul. for those uib for yrs or always./no short cuts/when being confronted for something he did wrong, a person’s reaction counts for something, but what counts for more is his willingness to make up for it – in deed.

/tradval as tedious, etc. not trendy.

 compromise /disturbing the peace/abstinence should be part of sex ed.

/radios on trash trucks, const crews, jons, thumper boxes.

/dem and cap are tradval “Diversity” rather than “singularity” (one course of study, one type of work, one spouse for life, one set of beliefs & friends).

 

/no short cuts/tradval as tedious, etc. not trendy.

/i took modifications off tradval as that is suited only to a longer piece./am workers, on average, are, the most productive in world. postrel la 92 business experience,

/feel safer walking in downtown tj than la. tv 9/92

/juv hall is like summer camp for asian kids compared to refugee camp. you threaten em with it and they don’t care. imported crime

 dumbed down text bks./after you’ve seen results of drunk driving and talked to parents of kids killed by it, you work on prevention. cops

/fam val – anti sex and violence on tv

/young black testifying before sen. dodd? with baseball cap on and jacket. 8/92

/our biz to promote tradval within and export them abroad – dem and cap – self int in this.

/food fights/teacher in t shirt. another with pony tail. probably everything … 3/92

/lst booming car stereos, then little packs of young meng with lewd gestures, menacing blances, catcalls, gang graffiti, needles.

/sep 28. tv said xmas decorations up already./no one knocks tatoos. why not

/valn. la l0/l/92 ma bot t shirt with pigs fornicating for 6th grade boy. he wore it to sch. made him turn it inside out. victory.

secular standards as vals scare some as rel or pol.

honesty, courage, civic duty. resp, compassion, perseverance, respect, coop, courage, citizenship. trust, justice, fairness. sportsmanship. conf. health.

rampant cheating on exams. moral vals turn people off. so does vals for some. so they use character ed. better done as a sch than as a class.

 

/manners: can’t approach judge, witness stand, beyond certain point w/o permission. what about jury. but TV does. said darrell erikson.

those horseshow shaped panels should do the same.

/calm asian family walking out of midway city sch – seemed like a calm sensible unit.

/saying pissed off on tv 92

/fiorello la guardia abolished burlesque. it went to jersey city.

/irving kristol is for local censorship.

/tradval: irons in fire, good faith. proper speech./tradval – biz sense.

/viet said hong kong is loud with shopkeepers trying to outdo ea other over their pa systems like carnaval barkers./disturbing the peace = 0 in ny

/ blood sports: bulls, dogs, cocks, no violence, cheating, drugs.

sportsmanship

teamwork, fair play, play by the rules. shake hands afterward to show.

accept rules. agree. accept decision of officials who are to be obj. rules to determine who played the better game, had more skill, persisted. so those things are rewarded. no bullying, beat, but not humiliation.

don’t take unfair advantage.

Traditional values vs liberal contemp vals. this is hard. easier to say libs are

-new

-casual,

-nothing to inhibit free expresssion, creativity. a la blank slate.

-put it way back on the back burner.

tradvals not instilled, they somehow happen.

 

/Responsibility (the most important). starts at bottom, jd, crime, bums, mi’s,

/Foresight (thrift, saving, planning, keeping a number of irons in the fire). — now

e/Golden rule – do your thing.

/reliability —- relax, casual. ex: something else came up.

/honesty — relax, sit.. ethics?

/good faith, holding up your end of the bargain, fulfilling your obligations — something came up, wasn’t what you wanted, changing circumstances.

/fairness —- partiality, pol, circumstances.

/manners – not sig, do your thing

/respect for property —- use and discard, always more, doesn’t matter, insur..

/respect for authority —- why? they caused the problem. same for Law and order – authority itself,

/the individual

/disc, and

/punishment.

/respect for elders

/respect for ethnic groups — yes, libs are lopsided on this.

/family teamwork – what’s a fam. anyhow it’s the problem, the sch should raise your kid.

/hard? work — no, relax, other things more sig. career

/moderation — not nec.

/wholesomeness – corney

/patriotism ….. corney

/self-respect —- under resp? esteem,

/practical education —– for the real world.

/(clean cut) appearance, hygene

/fam — make up your own fam or friends

/copy place: 22 people said they’d go to barbeque. bot lot of food. only 2 showed up and only l called 4 hrs into the gathering to say they couldn’t come.

/if recession so bad, why aren’t students learning how to grow veg in back yard, put on a prom for less than $600 ea. tune up cars, etc.

/we have more violent crime than any modern nation. 93

/guy walking down st with cerebral palsy vs junky teens in malls etc. tradval

/dressed bad at pagent of masters. 93 said ma.

/geo’s boss never hires under 30? can’t trust =.

/valn entitlements

/chet said whole gen of irresp.

/we didn’t have the gang problems when I was a teen.

/couple on tv said we’re not going to talk about sex cause it’s personal.

/tradval vs change, future.

/poverty meant poor planning, said early protestants.

/security measures were not as big. no car alarms. fewer security guards.

/rep? fabio?: conf in gov is at an all time low. 93

/church vs state as tradval

/farce of lady cop and blk. profanity. grabbed his pri. wrestling black to ground. into car. kicks out window, starts getting out of car. hi patrol 9/l7/93 spit? my taxes going for this. worse than sw. if you want to know what’s wrong with the country, that’s it.

/Geo – 25 yrs in syrian army and not afraid. works in gas sta and is afraid.

/one poor boy taunted so much at sch, he recorded it., he developed facial ticks. you sure felt sorry for him. tv 93/we didn’t have sexual harrassment in sch in our day./sexual harrassment: leering, sucking noises, catcalls, cornering, bra-snapping, groin grabbing, coping a feel, slam books, [suggestive, lewd, ribald] sch admin don’t like to admit it.

/tradval – self-improvement.

/didn’t have car alarms in past/more hit-runs than in past?

/cop chasing guy in oc as he threw machine guns out the window. 93

/monyhan: we accept what used to be considered deviant beh. thus one parent families are seen as normal.

/boys may be boys, but gentlemen have restraint; respect.

/myron magnet, ed of fortune. did I send him tradval?

/looking out for one’s neigh – tradval. brother’s keeper.

/lcd/anything but self pity//cheapskate article says cutting way back isn’t so bad after all.

/pro off talks to kid who chews gun, leans on table and has cap on backwards.

/wholesome is not vs premarital/elvira on kid programs – sun morn.

/cops have given up on a gen of youth in ft worth. 93 tv

/they used to tear down goal post a lot more. 93

/talk to the people that serve you the food the way you talk to those you eat with. talk to those who work for you, the way you talk to those you work for.

/rooming hse has reinforced my belief in disc.

/parents worried bout beatles. 90% girls at shea stadium. so much screaming you couldn’t hear music. 60k.

/no articles against tatoos, shirt out, hat backwards, pub profanity. 93

/dirty stuff in r & j ballet – object twix legs as penis.

/how many teens played chicken after seeing rebel without a cause.

/a spoiled person doesn’t appreciate things. hasn’t earned it, paid the price, been there. put in valn.

/the amount of TRAINING i’ve had to do: slam doors, cupboards, messes, noise, – geo, mingo, steve3

/industrial giants had higher status before the depression. sig?

/porn and the qual of life. vs my change of views on it.

Stiffer sentences are being handed out, more criminals are going to prison, and s Some crimes have declined. /the good old days

/which programs support tradvals, which hurt them

/tradval be prepared for emergs. pers and nat.

/mtv: aerosmith. pa gives 9th? grad kid a condom. he throws it in bush.

/caps in class at notre dame. and backwards on campus.

/self-disc nec for emerg.

/living together. bing crosby was super anti./denmark: 8th grader buys porn, beer, cig easily, his class goes to porn mus. l2 & l3 yr olds go to discos with condoms from folks. 38% of pop smoke.

/mtv = dumpster rock

/mauray povich to show how to make hm porn flics with help of marilyn chambers. ll/93

/friendship, loyalty, faith,

/wfb says too much use of lst names by strangers [and in biz]. 93/more security at games. fan violence.

/whole lot of shaking going on. j lewis. seen as obscene.

/pub wants to go back to tuff prisons. tv 93.

/mathau in preview said eat my shorts. 93

/anyone ever ASK cops how they feel bout lack of disc in schs?

/defining deviancy down. 93

/freaking out over soccer and other sports in foreign countries.

/tradval – don’t waste; give to thrift shop, church.

/when in sch we didn’t have dare, etc. esteem,

singapore low crime, orderly, no pov, hmless, nor uib. no traffic congestion. clean subways. detectors for urinating in elevators makes em stop. no guns, cept cops. no spit, litter. flush toi. something bout gum. death for drugs. indef detention. censor: no playboy, no cosmo. no mobs. say go hm or they will open fire and they do.

/soda pop and strippers for teens in eugene, or. 93

/hm videos show people at their wholesome, natural, mid am. best.

/i am growing to dislike driving by jr hi’s and hi schs. 94

 [the IMS had it al in their countries. THEY don’t go for counseling]/vals. say a friend needs a loan and says he’ll pay back in 2 weeks. he should not have to be reminded and should pay it back promtly, and later do a favor for you? this vs bad tenants.-like they will show up for sure or call. and do neither. then later have excuses./friendship, /norman rockwell. critics say he painted a world that never existed. [jones is taking it hard. [oh boy, just what we need – screwed up intellectuals who miss middle america. touched a raw nerve in me. that’s all NY was – a bunch of scoffing and sneering asses.- vs lawrence welk. vs kids, souders, 50s,

/30 yrs ago when putting an ad in the paper about renting a room, you didn’t have to put no drugs

/SIG aren’t rights vals? re whose values.

/ski boarders/no one’s as mc as a mc blk. is that why i’m a nut on tradval, as i’ve seen what’s wrong with the ghettos./see valn/traffic sch in wm in 92                              They NEED tickets./fair play lost out to greed long ago. violent. anything goes. kill your folks, ravage your wife, maim your husband, kill an exch stu, and find a jury to let you off. thus tonya harding reps am. she’s the victim, not resp. when jap girl messed up at olympics, she apolgized to jap. vs tonya [before olypics]. eastern libs say it would be elitist to keep her off the team. as she’s wc. which is elitism run wild, as it says, wc don’t know fairness, sportsmanship. a w post 2/94/crude bumper stickers

/what is mid am: no panhandling./crime up by 700% since ’50 and punishment down by 60%. p gramm.

/schs reflect the cul. do courts?, flics,

  sports reflect our vals./in 62: 2% of white births were ow & 22% blk. 94: 2l% w & 68% b. & browns? tv

/what reflects society: schs, crts, restrictions on cops, tv, sports, emergs? go thru lists.

/cnn mentioned star at harvard’s hasty pudding thing adn that she again faked an orgasm. 2/94

/charity means meeting people only half way.

/burping a song out – a cartoon character.

/Things change: Midnight Cowboy came out with an X; now it’s an R.

/are tradval “hard core”?

/rap singer touching himself. sammy davis too. lc in front of lady cop on cops.

/sleeze on daytime talk shows.

/maybe our parents had better values at 25 than us.

/hi patrol has rock on hold.Some countries are poor, think poor, and work hard – (China).

Some are rich, think poor, and work hard – (Taiwan & Hong               Kong). Americans are rich, think rich, and sluff off. – The lst generation of immigrants works hard, the 2nd generation gets the education, the 3rd prospers and sluffs off.

/don’t disturb the peace./vice, maturity/expand tradvals.

/pledge to the flag never meant a things. the nat anthem only meant something at the olympics. the flag meant something when abroad.

 police times use it/soc jus-als/hardcore tradval? vs others?

/tj’s folder: in these days of mediocre service and lack of atten to detail. 94.

/in movie theaters, people put feet up on the seat in front of them more? 94

/resp to get involved where you can – good sam./too much bear huggin at hi sch. ag

/ford has to teach 3 r’s to new workers with hi sch dips. 4/94 didn’t use to have to. costs em a lot.

/indiv vs comm virtue and moral obligation.

/adulthood is doing what you want to do, not what you are supposed to do. us news 4/25/94 s roberts = 0.

/making a baby is a sign of status. caring for one is not. right and wrong are old fashioned. 4/25/94 s roberts = 0.

/self-improvement = tradval.

/hippy type sat on sidewalk doing her makeup. all had to go around her. ty.

/unimaginable amount of sexual harrassment in sch now. 94 and admin do zip. on sally. all ages.

/l0 am ricky lake. french kissing.

/we didn’t know of gang areas when we were teens.

/how can madona use terrible lang, bleeped out, and not get fined.

/70% of inner city kids are ow?

/tastelessness: take the bandage off your wounded arm on tv. verbal details are the same.

/basic or hardcore vals?

sent tradval to uci-tradval3, shaeffer?=tradval2, jo ellen …

/black music videos are about as dirty as you get. animals. worse than white. 94

/no cosmo in singapore.

/tradval: punishment is part of rehab.

/wk is where you learn a lot of tradval/dj, you can’t believe how terribly dressed people are in hotel lobbies out here – shorts, sweats, baggies, tennies, undershirts./prospect said she used to set up appoints for hm sec for att to come out to hms. 75% didn’t keep appoints. 94

 the moving “frontier” meant the constant creation of new land and wealth and its accessibility for those endowed with initiative /mtv crase, coars, irresp, cheap, vulgar.

/ma said people don’t thank others like they used to. sent contributions to pp and 0. 94

/kid in back of interview gave finger [and got away with it]. 94

/people want harsher prisons like in 30s. tv 94

/baby boomers, notorious for their self-sig. have 0 in their exp to compare with the selfessness of pa’s dispalyed at omaha bch. and their ma’s showed on the hmfront. olders reticent to talk bout selves. and not happy with the self-congratulation of boomers. us news 6/94/some gay hot line had to be kept clean. that’s encouraging./vets owed a living.

/t shirt: button up your fly 94/prestige of gov. is way down. 94 g will.

/mtv: i want to dip my balls in it. 94 affected, corny, awkward, piss on life.

gandhi did something like this in here. el cid

/saw kid on bike at chief auto parts give woman in car finger. 6/94/any countries ban boxing?

/bump and grind cheerleaders during pro basketball. 94

/dropping curve in sat tests. 94 tv.

 /domestic help in hms and motels steal, hosp help steals. also at pic your part? /cabbies too/baby boomers – notorious for their self-importance. me gen. thot to create new world. their elders reluctant to talk about selves. elders never liked the self-congratulation of the boomers. d day made boomers more int in elders.

/ridiculous orders in mil. eaton./grads from pre sch get a diploma [which they can’t read]

/dershowitz said celebs are treated special – one reason oj got away. they’re difficult. they’re used to being coddled and getting their way. especially in the lst few days. more worried bout their career. don’t realize the gravity of what they’ve done. /we discuss incest, etc. and all more now than probably ever. did this come from civil rights? and other rights movements.

/gov can’t protect you. tremendous growth in priv security firms./link twix effort and reward/oj – now no heros left. crap.

/bleeped out mf on rap songs ch 33 94

/mex turned radio up incredibly loud across st when building. must have thot he was in the desert./when a kid, adults would tell justice scalia to take his feet of the seat in the bus.

/hi sch guys who cursed me called children. 6/92

/public property more sig in singapore than here. thus vandalism was more sig.

/more fan violence

/grungy mtv.

/preventative measures: maintenance, police work, disc.

/growing vigilatiism. 7/94

/another talk show where poor teen embarrassed by ma’s sexy clothes. jenny jones 94

/social critic or satirist? dennis miller in interview with maria shriver had baseball cap on.

/mtv awards. people look terrible and act dumb.

/youth crime, workplace violence rising. 94 la/curfews, pot, self-disc vs self-indulgence. fam love vs free love. [interacial dating on tv]. reps big on crime and wel. wonton image of hollywood. condoms in sch. baby boomers finding the do your own thing doesn’t work in child rearing. being a parent makes you cons. ow births up 82% 84-94. divorce up 4 times since ’70. kids won’t live as well as folks. [so what] m – need stabilty for fam vals. so it’s up to gov. – crap. stability of 50s at cost of women and minorities. but lib [60s] went too fr in undermining auth, glorifying indiv over fam.

pers vs soc resp. individ vs comm. freedom vs sacrifice? us news /schools paid out in damages as they didn’t take care of sexual harassment. 93?

/one poor boy taunted so much at sch, he developed facial ticks. you sure felt sorry for him. he recorded it.

/we didn’t have sexual harrassment in sch in our day. leering, sucking noises, catcalls, cornering, bra-snapping, groin grabbing, coping a feel, slam books, [suggestive, lewd, ribald] sch admin don’t like to admit it.

/living together. due to laws?/tradval vs change, future.

/didn’t let baby cry in restaurant in past.

/parked right in front of crosswalk.

/separately 2 casual guys went into dr. off and didn’t close dr to waiting rm.

/is am hockey more violent? decline.

/LL’s probably didn’t have trouble 30 yrs ago they have now?

/if we had trouble talking bout gays then, what are we having trouble talking about now.

/sen byrd walked 3 mi to sch and back when young.

/didn’t call us children when young.

vals implicit econ and racial bias in debate on vals. few taking about divorce which tends to be a mc problem. and few discussing econ strains on wc, mc which compel both folks to wk.

/cons anti crime. libs want root causes. cons think wel causes crime. death penalty. cap on wel: 2 kids only. wkfare. boomers more int in vals. [ah ha] breakdown in fam. [gen gap]. sch prayer, man as pa, child support. morals, virtues. [cul war] [pluraism] [nimby] sex harrasment, death penalty. [gun control] trying l3 yr olds as adults. la 8/l/94/see sub

/test scores down, grafitti,. definining deviancy down -moynihan. [but tabloidish tv just shows [poorly] what was always there.] self disc. commitment. infidelity.

see am it’s soc that wrecks vals.

/virtue is its own reward.

/tradvals are “facts” of life.

/resp = boostraps./heros and vals.

/bal budget/don’t tear a fence down, until you know why it was put up. robert frost.

/conrad drew 2 with middle finger.

/breakdown of fam: ow kids, single parents, gays? no resp.

/ma’s friends see lassie and say, at last a clean movie./rel right not apocalyptic – prophetic. these delcines were foretold by monihan, murray, & w raspberry.

/madona. m jackson grabbing his crotch. bump and grind. rush’s vulgarity.

/a-z store shouldn’t have pic of gal with big clevage.

/fate helps those that help themselves. the spread.

/basic or hardcore vals?

 

/heros: babe ruth, jim brown, jo dimaggio, jackie robinson, vince lombardi, gen patton, ike,/messed-up ir fair at gg hi sch. irv.

/anyone ever ASK cops how they feel bout lack of disc in schs etc.? same with merchants, ll’s, etc.

/w bennet: since l960:

-violent crime up 6 times

– ow births up 5 times. -divorce up 4 times, – teen suicide up 3 times. SAT scores own 80 pts., single parent hmes up ….

pop up …./l9 soc indicators. obligation to others.

[lib:] self-expresson, indivi, self-realization, personal choice. /compassion, tolerance, civility, fidelity

/nothing free

/instill vals. best way is via work.

/protestants looked on pov as a sign of improvidence.

/rap artist couldn’t keep his hand out of his crotch. l:30 am ch ll.

/friendship, loyalty, compasson, corage, faith, self-disc, resp, honesty, perserverance.-bennet/women wearing pants./realism?/$3 mil for burn? from hot coffee spilled on woman at mcdonalds. 94.

/barb bush said not marrying ok, career ok, but if kids come, they come lst./full time cop at sch, no lockers, parent vols, sec guards? in sd ’94.

/teacher in short pants.

/quale says sports and hollywood promote a value free enviroment. /quale says sports and hollywood promote a value free enviroment. /val – women down./chasity?, humility/healthy skepticism – from poor richard. buyer beware is another./meet half way/don’t stare, don’t yell. don’t make fun of the way others speak, act or pray. don’t point at people.

/virtue is its own reward.

/claud brown: in 40s 50s violence was normal. killers in harlem usually acquited. profanity is the language of violence. he blames its acceptance on the ‘hip’ media. la 94/gypsy kids taught to steal.

/lola falana said some hi sch girls look older than her and hard.

/also rise in lawsuits and settlements?/stigma attached to having kids with polio. kept out of sight. in fdr’s time/loren bacall said skip the love scenes. she doesn’t want to see em.

/even with dave hutchens shuting em down, still lot of radio at kb. and some squeeling tires./l979 article in Newsweek said the u.s. is more optimistic than Eur, especially the western u.s. funny, I seemed to notice that in flying home several times.

/average am carries 7 credit cards. 94. 1 in 8 has a hm equity loan or 50k. both developed in last 30 yrs. 94- it used to be cash on the barrelhead, but went to charge it/play radios at kb const, EVEN tho neighbors have moved in./play radios at kb const, EVEN tho neighbors have moved in.

/can compromise on issues, but not vals.

/pregnant women in bathing suits on jerry springer.

/I feel sorry for androgenous guy who works at jack in box at night.

/ma’s friends see a good movie and praise how it used to be. vals./shouldn’t tolerate heckling from sports fans. field of screams. fans are getting bolder. 94

/interesting piece on primetime? on how good looking people are given preference by babies, lst graders, juries, those hiring, those donating to charity. 94./with decline of vals, good neighs are more sig.

/job interviewers say they’ll call back prospect and don’t. 94

/can you imagine graduating from college in DEBT ? !!!!

 graduating from college in DEBT ?/grad from c in debt/i left calif in 63 and came back in 75 and calif had become a little more like NY – hi workman’s compensation, lst to raise the minimum wage, rise in crime, more regulations, anti- business, “rights”, handouts, “disabilities,” the government owes people a living,

/const music at kb has to bother the people that live THERE.

/more cheating in sch, and on tax forms, more porn. less satisfaction from pers. rels./breakdown of fam: ow kids, single parents, gays? no resp.

/madona. m jackson grabbing his crotch. bump and grind. rush’s vulgarity.

/instill vals. best way is via work.

/rap artist couldn’t keep his hand out of his crotch. l:30 am ch ll.

/see 25/we didn’t have a sch cafeteria in grammar sch.

/compassion, tolerance, civility, fidelity

/endurance, forbearance, courage, fortitude, long suffering, tuff. foreigners better at this.

/lawyer approach is win-lose. the biz approach is win win.

is this ty of christian civs.

/guy on tv said armored car turned over, he returned the $. aud snickered. 94

/girls could only wear pants to sch once a yr in my day.

/as scouts we were supposed to earn the money to buy our uniforms /crap on daytime shows is so bad it makes you wince: reunite girl with old bow she was dying to see. her lst love. and he married, and his wife is in the aud. /ow births, single parent fams.leisure spending in 93 in bil movies 5, sports 5, gamble 34, pubs 47. /in 40s? 50s? you didn’t say pregnant, and if you were, you didn’t go outside./you were an old maid at 35 in the 40s./lesbians didn’t have kids in past. now there are more chances to./joe namath did a lot to chang the image of pro athletes in late 60s

/are sports too sig in some countries?

/disc. vals. when it becomes not worth it to mess up. guy lost car for dui, said as much.

/pee wee herman got crucified. end of his career in 93?/people put in jail or prison for stopping tb medication. 94

/living with your mate. Peyton Place./fallen women, but no fallen men./bruno bettleheim put dick cavet to shame.

/ow kids: corine’s, laura’s, jessie jackson, lawrence of arabia./single parent kids don’t do as well – trad of am comp/a “living” wage./decline of punish in 60s. man in st. knew it. pros never got it. wattenburg. wilson

/guy flipped off aud – daytime talk show. l/95

/daytime tv: aud as bad. want to see a fight. kind that go to cockfights, dogfights. blindfolded. aud booing. scum. hooting.

/western welfarism and strife vs asian order.

/some stuff on talk shows must be illegal.

/girl they dubbed bambi on talk show vs when lund chewed us out for laughing at dogs when girls could hear it.

/lot of the asian kids are clean cut – means they come from good families. 95.

/suffering brings character, character brings faith. j jackson/on front of brouchure: kid with coats on sitting on top of desks

/singles can adopt, so why not resp gays. nancy hull.

/alt lifestyles: gay parents, vs dan quale. resp, mature, committed, loving. foster fams, grp hms. this at midnight on 28. lot have it ruff./who’s church to say middle age divorcees who care for ea other can’t go to bed. try it on lst.

/parenting by foster hm, grp hm, dual and single adoptions,

/people get spoiled: oj. that’s what wrong with tenure, unions, monarchies, security,

/surfers getting one warning after another. mockery.

 k graham used tit, quoting mitchel. /had to walk miles to sch here barefoot. no safety net.

/tradvals vs foster care, grp hm?, n hull, gay adoption…

/neighborliness. vals do not have to be virtues. virtues are not relative. vals are. #$%#$% much maligned victorian era./right sees ow births [il..] as not a family val.

/living in sin = unmarried?

/rule of law. justice,/put feet up in movie theaters. talk,

/vhl interview – wouldn’t DARE hold the camera still.

/2 parent fam?/mid victorian society saw the heyday of industrial c ap. lat vic times saw the beginning social conscience of the mc. [l880s?]

vic soc was less egalitarian than ours. and more cohesive. la bk r 3/95- Be the client’s agent, not his friend. this should be a tradval

/kids should be ed enuff to be able to break out of rel. a dershowitz. hassidim were totalitarian with their kids.

/so is the lack of scrambled porn channels BETTER for me?/jamie lee curtis grabbed guy’s crotch 9:l8 pm award prgram.

3/95

/fair play

/blamed all on cars, rumble seat, drive in, boogie woogie, rock and roll, the song: doing what comes naturally, the sax, drums,

/kids should be ed enuff to be able to break out of rel. a dershowitz. hassidim were totalitarian with their kids.

/self reliance is under resp/maturity is a tradvalaccountability, hygiene, manners,/howard stern on radio – filth. and that outfit he wore to mtv? or something, showing his rear? in 92?/leave something better than how you found it.

/howard stern/if no vals in prison, then not in society, so worse since 60s.

/being a child of divorce was stigmatizing in the south prior to wwii.

/not 24 hr perfect love, reaching out, compassion,

/diff cameras will get people’s reactions. probably wouldn’t have done that in 50s.

/gandhi forgave. el cid too.

/don’t forget the man who greeted each mr as they got off the bus at dodger stadium. /some studies way off. …. the truth and who stole feminism are 2 bks on this. one on chewing gum in sch in 40s was made up. you have to go to original source. oat bran, men beating women after super bowl, hunger, hmless. junk statistics/l/5th of am schs have metal detectors. 95

/d sawyer’s report on goofing off at sch: how does that make cops feels, ll’s, merchants, pols?, sensible adults, 95

/girls gets shot in music video. ch ll.

/it’s a privilege to serve in the U.S. military in time of war. it you get thru it without a handicap the country doesn’t owe you a thing – pension, va loan, gi bill, nothing. said andy rooney. 95./senior center says seniors are 55 on. i’m not sure bout that/tradvals all the more sig – glamour slammer

/if no tradval in prison, then easy to see there aren’t enuff in society.

/mtv – a collection of everyone who is trying not to fit.

/you make your own bed/it’s a privilege to serve one’s country in time of war. it you get thru it without a handicap the country doesn’t owe you a thing – pension, va loan, gi bill, etc. said andy rooney. 95/i might try to make resp the grandad and put cap, less gov, etc. under it/dirty dancing, lambata,

/adults were addressed as sir or ma’am. didn’t leave the din table till excused. opened door for all women and olders. kids stayed out of adult conv unless invited to.

/mtv takes itself too seriously, does all it can to be goofy, non-conformist, odd, is unhappy, shades, camera moving,

/shoes on the furn.

/ims in the past had to PROVE they wouldn’t become wards of the state.

/epidemic of irrespon. no one stands up and says it’s my fault. cept for hugh grant and m. mantle. old sch was you made yourself and thus were resp. few believe that now. but freud [changed that]. psychobabble. narcicism. n gabler. 95 la./absolute disgrace to have teens on with overly sexy ma’s.

/truancy vs red eye sch for ims late at night. weak.

/m jackson can’t keep his hand off his crotch on mtv.

/why rate movies and not tv 95 [tabloids]

/no pa in l/3rd of am fams. ’95

/father knows best. the waltons. wise and patient folks. contankerous and controlling grandfolks, but revered. ma in kit with unconditional love. the cleavers of leave it to beaver: ma stayed home and pa handled all the problems. my 3 sons was another program. all the sisters got along in little women./what public figures were or are wholesome: pat boone, debbie boone, julie nixon, jacqueline smith, /disgrace to be sent to the principal’s office in early part of cent.

/jon mcclaughlin – was a leading clergyman. in nix day? what a joke./tamara said ams do things europeans would never do [re appearance & manners?] re culture./madona/whore complex: latin countries, veiled women and belly dancers,

/radio on bike, on cycle, over mower, work crews/feel good: graduations, awards.

/cops on campus

/keith thot it ok for a bro to go along with ma in secret./corps now teaching table manners to young ex’s. chet. /jo said this gen raised with all done for them and so expect it. 95/to love, honor, and obey. is part of marriage vow?

/The less you had to do growing up carries over. /when l & o go down, vigilanteism goes up, said da./funniest home videos: wholesome, cute, natural [vs hollywood]/The less you had to do growing up carries over. thus send lc and val/funniest hm videos?/chas kuralt and mid am.

/grubby dress: prep for job, mil, esteem, respect, good beh?

/lynn cheney was pres of nat endow for hum.. during bush. she wrote telling the truth [bout counter cul]/jerry ducat said life is hard.

/7 fold increase in ow births in us. also big increase round the world. 95

/joe arpieyo, sherrif of some tent jail outside phoenix. 95 ch 7? ll/95 on 60 min?

/cops put up with more than 40 yrs ago.

/beards/what sells: sex, love, compassion, ed, i, rel.., making lot of $,

/sun 6 pm teens talking bout climaxes on fast times at ridgemont hi. ch 5

/mtv: someone’s tonque being pierced. sun night 8?

/daytime talk shows are as low brow as you get. pandering, side shows. kitch, sleeze. no thot of tradval./feel good is superficial & out of proportion. life is hard.

/were brot up to offer to do the dishes.

/kid worked for me and got bored. broke my heart.

/trash tv vs soaps

/rate trash tv, like flics.

/in boston, you don’t talk about yourself.

/things sublime: moks, cr, ballet,

/prevailing standards

/everything had to be sugar coated and spoon fed.

/more in debt, more crime./midwest has better manners than ny. jeff greenfield.

/jesus love. carved into picnic table.

/funniest videos vs reg media

/used to be wednesday cars were the best.

/ww: esteem comes from achievement, not visa versa.

In the 40s the top discipline problems in school were: talking, gum, noise, running in halls, out of turn in line, and improper clothing. In the 80s they were drugs, alcohol, pregnancy, suicide, rape, robbery, and assault./churches deafingly quiet on trash tv. ll/95

/at sp, teacher said it started in 62: no spank, shirtail.

/vacuous daytime shows: she looked good, he looked good, i was looking good./mid westerners have better manners than nyers. j greenfield.

/waltons – l934.

/marriage no longer viewed by elite as a crucial social inst., but as a purely pri act. thus more freedom. 96 this vs breakdown of fam, nec. of 2 parent fams, crime./unmarried people living together.

/mtv going on about tatoos: how to get em, etc. 95

/karim: vals in sports have gone down. 95

  ir fair at gg sch. /super loud band, cops came, and warned em. tv.

/xmas sinking to what it should mean. 95.

/mormon kids, julie nixon, debbie boone, mid am.

/kemp said: expand lib dem to world. exactly what i said.

/arab guy came to see room. small, walked with cane with difficulty. rain on his glasses. separating from wife & kids. is a cashier in a parking lot. nice guy. felt sorry for him. whole side of life we never see.

/janet leigh said in past, you couldn’t show any? cleavage We could be realistic about the slums and the immaturity of bums and criminals. This would call for stricter law enforcement.

 Scouting, manners, fraternities and ROTC are back after their decline in the late 60s. There is some good news. Drugs in the military are down 30%, and are almost stopped in minor league sports. Raising the drinking age to 2l has cut teenage deaths from drunk driving.

/we’re supposed to be our bros keeper vs sw.

/there were the let er rip romantics, followed by the victorians. epstein./growing up in 50s here: climate, 2 parent fams, tradval, auth, schs better, growth, good neigh, good crowd,

/mayflower co say people are leaving fastest: ny, nj, cal. 95

and loving idaho, wyoming?, & …..

/i object to: immaturity [mtv], irersp, ego, incompetence, no tradval, i, hubris?, ego?,

/all the heros work for the gov: cops, firement, teachers, vets, – morality play.

/fam vals anti: divorce, gays, single parent?, abort.

/blkbd jungle skip

/can’t honk horn in slc – aman.

/they didn’t want harry belafonte to touch white actress in 50s?

/because you’re in a fam, you have to love em. marry into another and have to love them. etc.

/empathy – pets

/neat shop at save-on screen. been that way since a kid. even his dust was regimented.

/lot of respect for law and order in hong kong. cops work closely with the mil re smuggling.

/wholesome aud [and some giddy] on funniest videos.

/idleness = sin in l9th cent.

/got to be honest to be cute, sweet, +

/not getting pregnant. studying, skills

/chinese dancers said subway car too clean – i resented that.

/if they offer a card, you should.

/humility: you’re no better than anyone.

/kids on tv wondering how they’d get to school and back safely.

  They can get assault rifles and machine guns. S.A.T. scores have dropped dramatically.               College too is easier. When I graduated from college in the early 60s, I had to work hard to pass a course. When I took one in l980, it was easier than a course in jr. high.

e many of the poor have limited goals, and some persist in gross immaturity. We can stop trying to make social agencies out of schools, employers, the police, and courts and let them do their jobs. /m howell said smith’s getting engaged [3rd time] was exciting/at least at the oscars, they dress up. finally. 96

/if young? museum patrons had to dress up, they’d be inclined to show more respect for the items.

/helen curley brown, ed. of cosmo, thinks it’s alright to date married men. what a jerk !

 /teachers and stu should dress better to show ea other and sch more respect.

/senior talking bout sex for seniors on local access.

/lac protect kids – where are they re trash tv.

/heston did commercial for budweiser. 96

/sally j r: near fight, walk off, bleeping out tons.

/we’re more realistic re our insts, gov./vals in NY.values kids cutting across lawn. kid punching bread in market. your kid can to no wrong – spoons? divorcees playing kids off against ea other. civility. boomers wanted all looser, freer, liss disc. thus kids on control. victims vs resp./what gov should do about divorce [if anything], child support, more wel for more kids, marriage penalty re taxes, stay at hm spouse breaks, parents need more time to raise kids. censor tv. said 2-l. uniforms for sch kids. [great at talking AROUND the subject]. people don’t like gov intrusion; fewer don’t like gov protection of things that run against fam vals. 93% say folks don’t teach kids good vals. v chip. la 96/no fault divorce [started in 69]: spouse can leave any time for any reason. wrecked homes = wrecked society. a.

/matrimony is notarized dating.

/kids of single parent fams drop out, become preg, drugs, crime, poor rel with folks,

/vals = virtuie = morals = ethics = standards = civic mindedness /honesty, fairness, caring, resp, respect, self-disc. kids think it’s ok to cheat on tests. tolerance, acceptance, respect, indulgence. discuss forever & come up with little. schs will teach it as a subject, not drill it in. just like ethics at cmc. eaton. guilt, shame – sig [as all pos]. self-esteem mania of 60s-70s.

/character ed. partnership – dc

/character counts coalition

0 bout PRI schs.

/values clarification was value free & didn’t work.

/it must be only the faright that doesn’t want the schs to teach SOME vals.

/josephson i of ethics – marina del rey. teaches vals.

/great reluctance to be judgemental [didn’t work] = total emptiness

=================================/ultimate fighting in and out of prison./modesty, restraint/assertive vs agressive. jewish vals. jap work ethic. jap grp vs am individ./some rock video while woman’s giving birth. mtv? 96

/people showed up in shorts at wedding jo went to.

/mtv had cock fighting with padded feet.

/gibbon: wrote of the decline of the greek civ: in the end, more than they wanted freedom, they wanted security; when the freedom they wished for most was freedom from resp, then athens ceased to be free and never was free again.

/daytime talk shows are sideshows, freakshows.

/mtv is feel good? great indulgence

/am leads the world in divorce

/hong kong: some of lowest tax rates. no wel. no leisure time nor long vacations.

/woman with younger guy. b walters asks was it mostly sex? 96

/vals ‑ every problem is a disease,

/you find the value of things in buying, selling, and giving em away.

/gentlemen’s agreement flix – gal had shoes on couch/guy on tv who made smoking acceptable for women.

/keith and jeff: ea gen does things a little diff./lst thing wrong with talk shows is having such enemies sit next to each other. cheap.

/june bright is in NY. i sent a letter with ideas, leads, tips, etc. do you think she could thank me? /all conversations have to be peppy and end on a hi./man seeking man ads in paper/if modern atten span is so short, how come movies are 3 hrs.

/howard will fly the flag, but not clean up his place.

/greed at pyramid games/they made over hippy slob husbands on tv – you wouldn’t believe the diff./over past 20 yrs. ams trust nat media far less, will execute criminals more, spend more to fight crime, far less for wel. ’96 w post.

/bup dow said one of her friend forced? to work and got depressed.

/thanksgiving and some of these other meals are gluttony./lot of women feel more respected than 25 yrs ago. tv 96.

/kept 80% of income in ’60.

– Postpone maturity …………….. nonsense.

– Have a child ……….

………… when you have the time, money, and commitment.

/ed rollins pulled some shadies. changed when adopted a kid.

/rudman doesn’t mind vals, but minds they bring em in under the cloak of religion.

/family crap has brot to the fore how much tinsel there is in life. i only have a little in common with 2 relatives. xmas has meant less each yr. you realize lot of GAMES in all this.

, ===/you think about society’s values. you’re supposed to fall in love, marry, have a family, etc. so much baloney./when we were young, no one, not even the sleazies lived together before marriage. one of keith’s gals doing this. he anti, becky more flex

/why doesn’t white hse or SOMEone come out against tatoos? 9/96

/tradvals re 2 fams in same neigh.

. without resp… it’s all talk.

/family expects me to do flunky work in circles, so does reunion committee, so do tenants and others. stupid./lot more sexual harrassement at sch 96. grabbing, profanity, etc.

/lot more sexual harrassement at sch 96. grabbing, profanity, etc.

/end of prohibition hurt mob bad said tv 97/possible to add this to val: kept 80% of income in ’60. ?

/fans throwing lot of stuff in pro wrestling

/sig fam. reunions on tv – guys in t shirts and jeans

/NY parole workers were swers, but now they are tuff. tv 96.

/scandals: babydoll, last tango in paris, burt in buff, doing what comes naturally, elvis, stones?,

/as long as tradvals, then lifestyle ok?

/bad $ drives out good. gresham’s law.

/prohibition created a disrespect for law which we may have never gotten over. tv drugs too?

/losing well is honored in eng.

/wm library: feet on couch, u wear, run /cheap blk gal on cheapo jennie jones with boobs, 40 HH, ea is l7 lbs.

/no man can make another man in early am. have to make it on your own. /is the u.s. moving ahead fastest with puters? who’s 2nd, 3rd, and why./feel good so never admit mistakes./names DO hurt. said dobey jones, who followed jackie robinson.

/at copy place, gay said someone put on bar b que, invited 23 people. one couple showed up, one later called to say they couldn’t.

/xmas is something to get thru in this society/defamation, disturbing the peace /don’t you dread xmas. so much b.s. older i get, the more hypocrisy i see

/posture/50 mi walk of kennedy’s

/fergie – duchess of york doing commercial for ocean spray.

/jimmy steward: straight-arrow child of the heard-working heartland, quintessential boy next door. aw shucks charm, plain, ordinary. underlying decency.

/revenge never ends

/had to earn $ to pay for our lst scout uniform – later cg/dr. laura offers ad to those who are unaware of basic social rules their grandparents took for granted.

/prohibition was against selling alc, not against buying or drinking it.

/ a fallen woman/int in beauty pagents is stronger in the south.

/women traveling alone are not hassled in buddhist countries. sig. tv 97

/vals and paparazzi

/guy panhandling right outside courthse

/what about one woman with lot of husbands. reverse polygamy/can judge a socity by how it entertains itself./dicken’s said remember you’ve been sacrificed for. only the mormon’s are obvious bout youth having duty.

/dirty dancing, lambada,

/friendship – a recipe for gluttonysuperficial appearance of your car, clothes, hair, gift and card, tea party conversation, pressed on smile, giddy titter and froth.

feel good, cards, ribbons, trinkets, tea party conv – always the right thing to say, giggles, forced gaiety, superlatives, kids, all cept what is sig. forgive, charity, freebees, relatives, donna’s big wedding for daniel. solutions to all,

/food worship is another form of superficiality.

 i don’t believe in scholarships for grunge/gal on comm asked me, aren’t you glad you lived away for l2 years? she and hub had too. she was right !!!!/learn how to talk/radios on trash trucks/more freaked out over sports in other countries?

/asia: conform, consensus, order vs here: debate,

/no connection between tv and violence said … ? tv

/eating with self-distructive fat people: alc, nic, caffene, oil, cholesterol, grease?, sugar, salt, too much, too fast?, only talk bout it, time, vs therapy.

/roy rogers/the old flics didn’t have the profanity, but they sure had the SMOKING and drinking. and violence?/you look back and see how you got roped into sch, mil, church, sports, work, loyalty to the co. marriage, kids, charity – all these roles, vows, covenants – org man

/barbara streisand and fiance interviewed – too clingy – immature, no class

/more $ means: relax, ma3, vision, mng it, beat game, cocky. – bigger toys

/clint thinks we’re whiners 98

/crap of caskets, plots, etc.

/decline of manners on airlines. tv. 98/funny how your outlook and attitude is affected by

– not having to work [ever again].

– financial security.

– figuring out with your health covered, you can finally begin to spend. NEVER even considered it before.

You think in bigger chunks, more vision, of $ in terms of having enuff for investing in projects, …

You try to maintain basic frugality.

the more $ you have, the more marge likes you.

/kneejerk forgiveness negates vals

/conrad: lady di’s wedding bed – kleig lights. one with the finger. semen? stain on presidential seal. stars leaks at toilet, no panhandling./attitude is changed by: not working, $ independ, secure health, control, and can finally spend, ratchet up, bigger bites, less time for saving small amounts – impractical, but try to watch the fast food,

 then moved to calif and started to sub. quit after l5 min. [there was someone to take my place]/i worked a few days as a substitute teacher in d.c. terrible. then once in mont. county. bad. kids got away with far more than we ever would have thot of. /some places bill you for [search and] rescue. cg needs it.

/j jefferies story bout penny was probably to protect her.

/sexual hypocrisy eroded in the 60s

/bio seems to say wasn’t it great bill gates married and started a fam. and gave to charity/sex harassment at sch covered up. /poke needle thru both cheeks. on tv

/how did NYers drive ea other nuts: tension, no manners, rude, coarse, fans, animals, survival. better under rudy?/you miss the people here, but you’re NOT missing some of the provincial, conforminst, prejudiced, narrow outlook of being around some of those people who’ve never lived anywhere else. i wonder if you notice it when you come back. the older i get, the gladder i am for my values and experiences.

/early days culdn’t say pregnant on tv. j carson

/day after thanksgiving now and you can feel it’s being the starting gun for xmas. [full of good and bad: excess, foolishness, overkill, opening of pandora’s box. the happy people are happier, the sad, sadder]. some are glad when holidays are over./i don’t like xmas as from thanksgiving to new yr’s, everything is out of joint/self-esteem: trophies without winners. like selves but can’t spell, feel good. when they grow up, their bubble bursts and they turn nasty

 

/permitting pix of dr. laura and pam anderson on net/ katarina witt/crime rate steady till 60s, then went up.

/didn’t have fem hygene ads on tv.

/mirror in front of person being taught table manners.

/if you treat animals bad, you can do same to people?

 

/l97l all in the fam. never thot it’d make it. risky.

/roosevelt said higher priced hotel guests are more demanding, less polite.

/peyton place banned in canada.

/canadians watch same tv programs & have far less violence [but far fewer guns]

/bill russel [b ball] would not sign autographs. nor nader?/abortion, dog fur, rodeos,/if soc is bad for vals, eur should be worse off.

/championship balroom dancing = vegas, show, sex, flaunt, forced, vs fred astaire

/another thing: someone dies and the BIG rush is to get em buried soon as possible. great disruption. silly./we had a religious service when my dad passed away. why? we’re not religious. just did it as a matter of custom./aunt’s funeral: middle of the week and in morning – so lot of people lost a day of work. [silly] service, then drove to gravesite, said a few [silly] words, then drove to counsins home and had fun. why all the driving? all the superficiality of life seems to come home when someone dies/during clinton’s st of union adres, everyone applauded some woman in a burgundy? dress around 30? she had such sweetness and unassuming poise and dignity in her own quiet way, she put all those politicians to shame.funeral vals i reject: rel, ritual?, burial, casket, guest book, trying to comp for in death what was missed in life. emotion over fact ==========/this mortuary stuff is so never ending, ridiculous, and they’re always taking on new fees, it makes you mad. i’m donating myself to a med sch. if not that, create and scatter. skip all this BALONEY. and only way to , is to plan it all out AHEAD of timefunerals anyone who doesn’t plan ahead is a fool as: a death throws everyone into a tailspin, can’t think, want to do the right thing. you’re vulnerable, they have their jargon and add on fees every time your turn around. builds resentment. fees for

– viewing the body

– ‘direct cremation’ ;package’ which includes a bunch of services. extra are

– container for cremation, urn, vault for urn, ‘setting’ the vault, burial, headstone, ‘setting’ it, setting up tent and chairs for service, pastor, extra on sat. they won’t do it on sun.

/about funerals. viewing the deceased helps people accept the fact their loved one has passed away. My dad’s skin was like hard rubber. I hear many people have a graveside service and leave before the casket is lowered. heard funerals for kids are the worst.

/donating bod to med sch is sweet revenge/food fight costs $

/qual of life: j springer, boom boxes.

/la has uniformed cops at jr hi and hi schs. 5/98

/colorado city has polygamy in utah

/bankrupcy affects l of every 70 fams. as more gambling, divorces, aggressive credit car marketing. gone up 60% last 2 yrs. ’98

/adultery accepted in france

/everything has a graduation. cor had drawer full of honors and blew it here/lst do no harm val

/if we are collapsing like rome, then eur should be gone.

/jo on joann .. she’s still lovely, but what she is inside is what is really beautiful. i miss her.

/a guy is a playboy, pervert, predator, molester, leacher, ; a woman is a bimbo, slut, cunt?, whore, pros.., bitch,

/d agrees: not showing up in mex is bad too. il/scot and dennis had pecker tracks all over as teens. /poor taste in caddyshack, blazing saddles, animal house,

/how do you teach your daughter self-esteem when you had to buy yours thru implants.

/it bores me when it appears that the only thing some people can talk about is kids, grandkids, relatives having kids, kid this and that. there is more to life that that. they go to college and all they do is have kids, raise kids, worship kids. /i’d never marry if it meant being in a straightjacket. it’s taken me years to get rid of the ones i’ve been in. i’m for an open, trusting marriage. freetel has moved me in this direction. if i were to go with nancy, i’d want us both to be to other relationships, as long as we were open to each other about it.

to hell with straightjackets.

/rockfeller lost his son, remarried, had a roving eye.

/unhappily ever after

/in singapore you can’t even dissent [publically?]/ultimate championship fighting/youth should dress, speak, act responsibly.

/open-minded, dig, caring, /what I learned in living away l2 yrs: ethnics, unions, w ++, customs, qual of life, how much is mental….

/my neighbors of 22 years are blue collar and NOT phony. that’s 22 years of not ‘hi, how are you?’. ‘fine, how are you? fine.’

/rich rushing said same: yrs ago he would have gotten involved, but now afraid of guns. 98

/dr. talking loud [blk] to patient in emerg room

/the formalism of marriage messes it up. ann richards sig

/morality plays or roles: courtship, marry, kids, grandkids,

/monarchies have to be fairy tales. chas goes to wedding with cap? bowles as a guard. the man who’s wife he slept with.

/soc is held together by beliefs: awol, jury duty.

/camilia paglia said ed in early 70s was hurt. joke. called profs by lst name. 98.

/folks should have never let us crack the whip, put speaker out. b-ball too?

/from thanks… to new years, lot of stuff is put off. after, some are poor.

/baroom brawls. told if you charge the stage, you will be escorted out.

. I remember we had to watch the game new years day. Who cares about a fucking game !!!!!!!!!!

It’s Greek to Them
He’s popular, fit and full of himself. He’s the archetypal frat boy,   : guys who radiate youth, exuberance, confidence, sexuality, athleticism and smugness. In advertisements, TV talk shows, movies and politics. vaguely lascivious-guy jokes and his self-consciousness about his hair. on daddy’s dime. men who use hair-care products and fret about their clothes but still retain their “guyness” in the eyes of peers. striking good looks, inexplicable popularity, unearned self-confidence, pervasive charm and a hint of self-deprecation.
     Not all frat boys are rich, but all frat boys act rich. Not all frat boys are violent, but all frat boys exude unchecked machismo. (Downside: date rape, criminal hazing)
     Why is the frat boy so captivating?
     Maybe it’s an effort to dust off the “clean-cut” white boy and reinstate him as the linchpin of our society. Maybe it’s part of a backlash against feminism and civil and gay rights.     Abercrombie & Fitch. — a step up from the Gap, a step sideways from Banana Republic perfect abs and sly smirking grins. The look in their eyes says they know you’re looking at the photo with lust or envy. Adonises.
     proportioned muscles and a strong jawline golden-boy.
athleticism–real or perceived–the cocky attitude, the smirk. a fundamental “tolerance and commitment” toward other people–even ones you despise.
     “That’s why fraternity men make such good brokers and congressmen,” he wrote. “They already know that in the real world one has to cut deals with cretins and idiots.
     In other words, a gift for balancing conformist, self-centered and often thuggish behavior with their warm personalities, arresting good looks and endearing masculinity. They come across as honorable, American, charming. their broad appeal.

====== la times 2/24/00 ===========================

CONFORMITY in s.a.

Israel, food, gays, tennis, minorities, no talk, no heart, women’s status, platitudes, in crowd, ed, c, mil , religion, 2.4 kids, pta, l2 yrs gone, bircher, phil and mary =, deal with reality, new ideas, entertain?, rock boat, r2, never know where you stand, vacations, cr, $, success,

/life is all the compromising you have to make [relatives] while putting your dreams on hold.

/sauder farm: folks told kids you can select any tree, if you have to carry it out to the truck?

/afs – across the us without one word of profanity. No wonder sw was so bad.

/rocky hurt his pol career by divorcing. Can you believe how uptight we were then?

/beginning to hate restaurants, fine dining, elaborate dining, – how can people have such values. Is there ANY other way to socialize.

/hygene, grooming, attire,

/ed, burial, rel,

 

>/do you think your kids had it as good as we did growing up?

jo: Certainly not. Although much better than today’s generation. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate growing up when we did.

/the academy awards – some of the foreigners have more grace, poise, charm, polish, presence than the americans.

/barker: could never have a radio on the job in 50s.

kids could go out all day then and folks not be worried. And they’d get rides home as people knew ea. other. Kids less loyal today to folks.

– – – – – – – – – – – – –

/sweetness comes from the qualities of being: vulnerable, sincere, kind, diligent, conscientous, heart in the right place, very considerate and thotful, tender?, a purity, wholesome, some innocence, manners?

/sweetness comes from integrety, diligence, sincerity, good heartedness, innocence in the sense of sincere intentions,

down to earth

/sweet = vulnerable, sincere, consistent, no games, real, childlike, heart,

childlike, natural thus: vulnerable, human, childlike

diligence, no pretentions, airs, ego

genuiness, consideration and regard, a purity of purpose?, no games, consistency, manners, a regard for what sig?, good values, compassion?, humaness, earnest

empathy, some innocence- vulnerability. Cute

moks, kids, miriam, devotion to ….

/afs !!

/at lst thot I’d take stairs down at moks when leaving real late.

/Vermont farmer who said some parents say their kids will never work as hard as they did, and …… spoil em.

/reggie party at park Newport. So half lived there? Couldn’t believe bored – at loose ends – guys who showed up looking dressed like they were going to work on their cars and getting drunk. 20-30s.

/so let me say: TO GROW UP IN SO. CAL IN THE 50S WAS INCREDIBLE LUCK.

  Amen! Amen! We were so lucky. My children would like to have lived then.

/ron’s wife – can’t ask her granddaughter to be quieter when playing. Thus 3 gen. Incredible. Violation of my sanctuary. Called bout music and it’s still up. sue em. 9/0l where are rest of notes. Mc?

/easy to destroy, hard to build. War, ins, prop, taking care of things.

/keep up with the joneses.

/one of regil’s big things was virginity. He’d brag that if a Cuban guy found out his bride was not a virgin, he could return her to her father. What shit. How narrow.

/I wonder if the bros or any parents I know talked to their kids bout unplanned pregnancies.

/people go to crthse dressed terrible. Ll/0l

/be prepared – as good times and bad are sure to come and you’ll need all your resources.

PSYCH VALS: approval, acceptance, love and love in return, aware and accepting of ones sexuality, purpose, not controlled etc, realistic,

/superficial: festive, perky, positive, so wonderful,

/They Want Their Mean TV

 

The unbridled meanness in shows embraced by teens and

college students represents the flip side of the optimism purveyed in the network prime-time dramas followed by graying audiences. http://www.nytimes.com/2002/05/26/arts/television/26MARL.html?todaysheadlines

/we didn’t need boot camps in our day

/bit ty of the east to find a sec on the arts daily in the n.y. times on the net. East more iq too in a theoretical sense.

/dumb alienated foreign teens on tv as dumb as ours – hair, inadequate, less talent, goofy, anything for atten. Like ricki lake – tap into the bottom. How stern, j springer,

/just in wal-mart: as things improve for me, I feel sorry for people that work there, yet I held jobs like that and was glad to. asked directions from 2 with poor pronunciation. I feel sorry when the system screws such little people with bad schools, poor justice, paying others to NOT work.

/when going gets tuff, the tuff get going. Very gentle and civil on the outside but you do them evil and watch out cause they have their lives in order, full of resources, been there

/junk: anna Nicole smith, crock hunter, steve corwin, daytime talk shows, stupid dating programs, girls gone wild, wild on this and that, beach countdown, real tv, E channel – all the Hollywood stories are the same, terrible judges in court programs, maury povich?, ricki lake, jenny jones, wwf, divorce court with terrible blk woman judge, [vs what’s good – cops]

/smith and keith in their cookie cutter lives of extreme? Conventionality.

/never rock the boat with petty people: fam, smit-k, civil rights.

/british soccer fans bad, phil’s fans worst in nba, ny sports fans, rock fans, hockey fans, wwf fans, Oakland raiders?, ny fans the rudest and most heartless, boorish fans

/rudest fans on net has all kinds of surprises.

/just saw parts The miracle worker. [the story of Helen keller]. Got so much more out of it. such depth and wisdom in the teacher. So true about discipline.

/mingo and I couldn’t think of anyone who ate breakfast here cept him, me,

/dynasties probably easily disprove monarchies: barrymores, Rockefellers, duponts, vanderbilts, kennedys, bushes, search am dynasties

look at how Julie Nixon was finally glad to dump the secret service. Dynasties in sports, pol, ent, $, media,

/one channel sex; next channel, don, you ARE the father of the baby. And 0 bout abort.

/having a kid is easy; raising one right far more sig.

/Susie mckague – being a granny for lst time validates having raised her kid well. as it’s a big resp. she wasn’t pres of ibm, she was a hsewife. At party, what are you, a hsewife and ma.

/need maturity as the vices.

/never know what you have till it’s gone – youth

good weather, health. – enjoy what you have. – vacations

/so glad to not be thinking of presents, wrapping them, etc. what a relief. Xmas carols seem tedious. Xmas seems a tacky compared to what’s important.

/when you think of wall st. greed or any sort of greed, after 7 yrs of cruelty from you bros and their trying to take you, you’re more realistic

/we’re brot up to think xmas should be so euphoric. THAT is why so many are depressed.

/we’re brot up to expect excess during xmas. More in am?

/running of the bulls

/remember when guy in p.r. smirked at the idea of pr’s ‘working’

/morality play – scouts? Moral rearmament

/xmas: some get holiday blues and don’t need to. excess, overweight, join gym, quit.

/would have fewer holiday blues if they weren’t so overblown.

/thot this guy lyons was ok with farmers, yet he rec bb which boxed me in with lumber etc without a contract.

/the quiet courage of guy from mali at sams. With his speech problem.

/odd how both be prepared [scouts]. Always ready [cg] turned out to be part of my vals. For fire, etc.

/garners: insecure so never face, conformist, superficial, control, never enuff. Similar to smith, scot, keith,

/ OP-ED CONTRIBUTOR

Fairy Tales and a Dose of Reality

By CATHERINE ORENSTEIN

Those who wish for a real-life fairy tale romance as seen

on reality television might want to read their fairy tales again.

 

http://www.nytimes.com/2003/03/03/opinion/03OREN.html?th

/free means: lust, porn, net, mas, pre-mar…,

vs control

/if you disturb my peace I’m not free enuf to enjoy the peace.

/guy bot oj simpson’s prop and tore down the hse. New owners bot mine and tore down the veg.

/so many trapped in their jobs and fams. Guys in trucks at end of santa maria. But lot satisfied. And I did all that and worse for my peer grp. Never self-pity for that. nor did family pity me.

/the 5^th wheel – disgusting dating program, nothing but sex. Before 5 pm. Kids shouldn’t see that.

/anna nichole smith – pig of the century

/no noise as could be sick, studying, has company?

/oscar de la hoya’s wholesome innocence, honesty, naturalness.

/was or is being gay a vice?

/your income goes up and you see people on tv in court contesting sums that aren’t worth your time. but the pt should be easy, quick, sensible justice.

/snoop dog’s entourage: armed guys and bullet proof van? With gun ports. Most detained or arrested?

/forgiveness is a morality play

——– – – – –

“Something extraordinary is happening in American society … American life is increasingly characterized by the plaintive insistence, I am a victim … The mantra of the victims is the same: I am not responsible; it’s not my fault … The ethos of victimization has an endless capacity not only for exculpating one’s self from blame, washing away responsibility … but also for projecting guilt onto others … The new culture reflects a readiness not merely to feel sorry for oneself but to wield one’s resentment as weapons of social advantage … The route to moral superiority and premier griping rights can be gained more efficiently through being a victim … [SYKES, p. 11] … Tragically, a victim’s rage that is redirected from the oppressor toward rival victim groups ultimately turns against the victim himself. For self-hatred is the final destination of any attempt to yoke one’s sense of identity and power to one’s weaknesses, deficiencies, and perceived victimization.”
Charles Sykes,
A Nation of Victims. The Decay of the American Character, St. Martin’s Press, NY
1992

/super – ‘remorse’, apology, forgive. Found god in prison

/people waste time and money on food, then barbeques, then barbeque equipment.

/love is never having to say you’re sorry.

/no one condemns the fornication of elvis, ali, 007, Charlie sheen, grace Kelly?, middle aged people.

/probably no boom boxes in Singapore

/afs – not one curse on the trip?

/grafitti vs painting water tower – leaving a mark.

/the peaceful confidence and enjoyment of murray marin’s nurse and another nurse at st. lukes.

/shit customers in music stores: sam ash, good guys,

/live next to blake not good re cars. Live next to trig – far worse and no excuse for that appearance.

/you never know what greed is till someone close passes away.

/dream of teens calling me fag, throwing rocks, getting ready to chase me, fear. Reminds me of being called names in m.c. cop saying ignore it. trish doing it. the boxer, d’s repeating it. here in l.w. there is none of that and tons of other things – see bad.

/when you think back, did one of our girls spend time ‘abroad’, why there? and what do you supposed became of the child? Put up for adoption? Where? An abort… could have avoided all that.

/gov making it hard to abort in Russia in 03 as pop… going down. Not their biz.

/gambling and monarchies contribute to fatalism. Sig

/$l.25/hr at Normans. Pride in earning one’s own $.

/when you have $ and your friends doesn’t, maybe your credit is far better than his. Experian etc. [mine’s above 90% of ams.!]

/where are the fields of religion, academia, law, sw, counseling, psych, etc, when it comes to jerry springer +, rodeos

/ben stein saying baby boomers never learned to save, don’t live in reality and their old age is doomed. Need to save save save. Annuities never run out.

/some guys have plucked their eyebrows. 03.

/apologies, forgive for accidental, intentional

/gal called for rm. Wks for Hollywood writers for l0 yrs, who won’t give out their names, as they get bothered. I feel the same since here in lw

/xmas meant less every yr.

/I used to save ideas for gifts for xmas and time all that so xmas would be special. Few noticed.

/feel freer with not sweating xmas holidays. Glad when they are over. what else. Can’t think of a thing.

No wild bout holidays, but I don’t work.

/religion a waste, xmas is off there and other ways, lot of sch a waste, thus bitter bout c, idealism is a waste – thus religion, lot of sw?

/xmas is so much excess – gluttony, gifts, debt, strain, overkill

/I wonder if every cul doesn’t have a ‘xmas’ etc to blow off steam, etc. I wonder if those who say it’s their fav time of yr know what they are talking about. Wonder if some get sick of xmas carols. Wonder if similar in other culs. Foreigners always had a charming way of telling about theirs.

/I see things on tv bout the corruption in vegas and think, do I know about that after the bros, scot, smit – little Watergate

/RADIO playing stones, supremes, commercials in dr. lombardi’s off. with the bass turned up.

/all have to be buxom: weather gal, steve Edward’s bimbos, aerobics gal, gals for ads – cars, all, travel, vegas, dating programs, newscasters,

/some of these petty losers here, super, conformist, conventional, etc, would be capable of being jealous.

/her brother is up for child molestation and janice jackson bares a breast at the super bowl. How’s that going to help her bro? paper said there was crotch grabbing too.

/my theory on janet jackson: did it for shock etc. lose some ground, but now more know her name – janet jackson. then she apologizes. Oh, how touching, then redemption. Same with madona,

/don’t think I’ve been to a #$%#$%^&*(&* restaurant since I’ve been here and hope I never go again. When I go I eat wrong things and too much, am a prisoner and often sit with someone who lives to eat. also against ‘fine dining’. Both are counterproductive

/grammys – see who can dress the worst

/when I went to grammar sch: no lunch, no nurse?, no trans, no after sch stuff. imagine we walked to Jefferson sch starting when.

/clothes so tight on a woman you can see an indentation there.

/concerned citizen yet picked his head thru the talk.

/traditional values make you free?

/wonder if polygamy is an excuse for sex. Colorado city, ariz traffics in teen girls with bountiful, b.c. so there won’t be inbreeding. Called rel… but it’s all about sex. Wow. on opra 3/23/04

/that delightful nurse at murray marin’s seated next to the d chair

/wonder if some think: sw is 0, out of wk, inherited it. = 3 strikes

/female whores are bad. Why aren’t male whores bad? Because that’s all a world that is never talked about, a world that is seen by many as bad to begin with.

when your new worth goes way up [by luck] you can’t tell many as: some make less, some jealous, some are wasteful & want you to blow it, some are greedy, some are too concerned with status, some gossipy, none of their biz,

/going to the dentist is bad enuff with the RADIO playing the top 40 – teen music – in 2 places.

/no bare midriffs in Indonesia. Some thing bout no sleeveless the office.

/turn channels from elimidate to celebration of balanchine

/opened account at b of a. poster things all over, phil Collins music and whitney Houston but softish. Complicated as hell: asked me amounts of ira, market val of all my r.e., my income, what bank handled my mortgate, how much it was, my place of birth. Ma’s maiden name. took over an hr. sent out with lot of lit. glad this is the last BANK change. zillion options, superfast Pakistani woman, another gal greeting everyone who came in. 5/04. kept bringing up saving account. They will put my $ in a cd making l.3%.

/amazing cruelty on springer. Shocking, inexcusable, jungle. Where is the outrage

/power is equated with sex and visa versa ?????? said faright.

DO YOU REMEMBER WHEN…?

All the girls had ugly gym uniforms?

It took five minutes for the TV warm up?

Nearly everyone’s Mom was at home when the kids got home from school?

Nobody owned a purebred dog?

When a quarter was a decent allowance?

You’d reach into a muddy gutter for a penny?

Your Mom wore nylons that came in two pieces?

All your male teachers wore neckties and female teachers had their hair done every day and wore high heels?

You got your windshield cleaned, oil checked, and gas pumped, without asking, all for free, every time?
And you didn’t pay for air?  And, you got trading stamps to boot?

Laundry detergent had free glasses, dishes or towels hidden inside the box?

It was considered a great privilege to be taken out to dinner at a real restaurant with your parents?

They threatened to keep kids back a grade if they failed.  .
.and they did?

When a 57 Chevy was everyone’s dream car…to cruise, peel out, lay rubber or watch submarine races, and people went steady?

No one ever asked where the car keys were because they were always in the car, in the ignition, and the doors were never locked?

Lying on your back in the grass with your friends and saying things like, “That cloud looks like a ..”

and playing baseball with no adults to help kids with the rules of the game?

Stuff from the store came without safety caps and hermetic seals because no one had yet tried to poison a perfect stranger?

And with all our progress, don’t you just wish, just once, you could slip back in time and savor the slower pace, and share it with the children of today?

When being sent to the principal’s office was nothing compared to the fate that awaited the student at home?
Basically we were in fear for our lives, but it wasn’t because of drive-by shootings, drugs, gangs, etc.
Our parents and grandparents were a much bigger threat!
But we survived because their love was greater than the threat.

Send this on to someone who can still remember Nancy Drew, the Hardy Boys, Laurel and Hardy, Howdy Dowdy and the Peanut Gallery, the Lone Ranger, The Shadow Knows, Nellie Bell, Roy and Dale, Trigger and Buttermilk.

As well as summers filled with bike rides, baseball games, Hula Hoops, bowling and visits to the pool, and eating Kool-Aid powder with sugar.
Didn’t that feel good, just to go back and say, “Yeah, I remember that?”

I am sharing this with you today because it ended with a double dog dare to pass it on.
To remember what a double dog dare is, read on.
And remember that the perfect age is somewhere between old enough to know better and too young to care.

How many of these do you remember?

Candy cigarettes Wax Coke-shaped bottles with colored sugar water inside Soda pop machines that dispensed glass bottles Coffee shops with tableside jukeboxes Blackjack, Clove and Teaberry chewing gum Home milk delivery in glass bottles with cardboard stoppers Newsreels before the movie P. F.   Fliers Telephone numbers with a word prefix… (Raymond 4-601).
Party lines Peashooters Howdy Dowdy
45 RPM records Green Stamps Hi-fi’s Metal ice cubes trays with levers Mimeograph paper Beanie and Cecil Roller-skate keys Cork pop guns Drive ins Studebakers Washtub wringers The Fuller Brush Man Reel-To-Reel tape recorders Tinkertoys Erector Sets The Fort Apache Play Set Lincoln Logs
15 cent McDonald’s hamburgers
5 cent packs of baseball cards – with that awful pink slab of bubble gum Penny candy
35 cent a gallon gasoline Jiffy Pop popcorn Do you remember a time when…

Decisions were made by going “eeny-meeny-miney-moe”?
Mistakes were corrected by simply exclaiming, “Do Over!”?
“Race issue” meant arguing about who ran the fastest?
Catching the fireflies could happily occupy an entire evening?
It wasn’t odd to have two or three “Best Friends”?

The worst thing you could catch from the opposite sex was “cooties”?
Having a weapon in school meant being caught with a slingshot?
A foot of snow was a dream come true?

Saturday morning cartoons weren’t 30-minute commercials for action figures?
“Oly-oly-oxen-free” made perfect sense?
Spinning around, getting dizzy, and falling down was cause for giggles?

The worst embarrassment was being picked last for a team?
War was a card game?
Baseball cards in the spokes transformed any bike into a motorcycle?
Taking drugs meant orange-flavored chewable aspirin?
Water balloons were the ultimate weapon?

If you can remember most or all of these, then you have lived!!!!!!!

Pass this on to anyone who may need a break from their “grown-up” life.  I double-dog-dare-ya!

/the only meaningful efficiency in publishing is excellent taste.

/I miss that part of academia, ny, dc, the east? Develop

/too many parades after Persian gulf war.

/home is where they have to take you during emerg

/always seemed as if the hi sch crowd put too much emphasis on fun. Any of em go into serious work? Teaching, law, med,

/forgiveness nonsense. See lot less of em; think lot less of em.

/women who want implants can’t hold a candle to moks, rp, tina

/broken window theory applies to j springer, road rage,

/today’s dressed-down egalitarianism

You Shouldn’t Have
Gift-giving can be tricky, especially if you fail to weigh the enjoyment a gift brings against the annoyance, inconvenience and wasted time that may also come with it. L0/04

/Sinbad: everything’s the same except for the money.

/red sox won the series after 86 yrs. And they talk of curse, fate, luck, superstition, faith, symbols, mystical things, coincidences …… more of that back east. Here you are more resp for yourself.

/feels good to put xmas behind me. ‘xmas’ is the jackhammer, gar dr, paint job, etc. during the yr, not just at the end of the yr

/Feed the Billionaire, Starve the Students
By BOB HERBERT
The very politicians crying poverty as they deny gyms to New York City schools are the ones handing out public funds for a stadium.

/oscar de la hoya – wholesome, like born yesterday.

roles church, ed, gay, corp, sex, mil,

superficial vals: all is fun, lite, roles, gloss

 

/all complain of economy etc ll/04 but wouldn’t dream of dressing up.

/thanksgiving etc are too often pig-outs. What if take $ saved and send it to charity.

/not the real world: art, sports, ent, xmas, gov etc.

/ll/04 la times getting raunchier, w post too.

/amazing they stopped smoking at airporter.

/xmas, like death, brings out the worst

/competition brings out best and worst, but the best survive in long run?

/more on cultural decline by lou dobbs l2/6/04

/who of everyone ever had a serious moment like dave gibbs saying, ‘another day above ground’. Foreigners did, anna rouco, 57 must have when they had kids. Scott when saying ‘that’s what it’s all about’ mm did, how and dj did, tj on the water tank,

/cold war gone, lot coming out, but seems like we have to feel at war with islam, what else

/Innocents Afield
By BUZZ BISSINGER
High school sports have become an epidemic of win-at-all-costs in too many places. L2/l6/04

/dr’s assist, Jackie, said in buffalo she was raised to have home clothes and dressier go out clothes.

She said now people so loud you can hear every word 4 tables down.

/genes to church?

/dad used to talk quieter and quieter till they turned the tv or radio down.

/clean like bob the mechanic, cg

/tj’s card of pix shows some values.

/pecos, sofi’s Indonesia – lot of jealousy

/Shirley went to beach l0 yrs go. Couldn’t believe the profanity from the men and women.

/$ is power.

/You don’t tell those less fortunate [gills, Pridham]. Nor bros, smit?, women. Nor those you do biz withr;

ju nor employees, nor tenants,

 as their perceptions change – jealousy, resentment,

/rowdies: some in each sport: skiboarders, snowmobilers, jet skiers, surfers, base jumpers, motor-cross, bikers?,

/why a scholarship for a kid who can live at home and go to c. why for one who dresses like 0 all thru sch. Or gets in trouble.

/a cruise sounds to me like vegas

/even ny didn’t have rock and roll in the dentist chair. Or morbid tv in waiting rm.

/allowance it to teach kids budgeting.

/ownership to teach resp – bike, car, hse, biz,

/so easy to slip into medicare or ins will pay for it. Wasn’t that way when I paid part of blu. I remember shopping around

/all those years I didn’t collect uib. So a bit more entitle me to collect from the gov.

/CHUCK COLSON – The greatest lesson I learned in prison is that great adversity can produce great blessings.

/ultimate championship fighting = barbaric. World championship fighting is same? Octagon. Ufc. Program is the ultimate fighter, on spike tv

/howard stern

/albinos bunch – his working 3 jobs and her working 2 for pri schs etc and to fly fam and friend out here twice now for d-land, sea world, etc.

/sweetness means capacity to be embarrassed, shy?

/can’t afford to get sick, can’t afford justice,

Decline: dress code for teachers too, j springer +, ultimate fighting, blood sports, boom boxes, attack dog journalism, paparazzi, loud music everywhere, tv in ashby’s,

/traffic2 [sch]

/wayne Newton epitomized vegas – kitsch

/sin, salvation, redemption

/Cybercreeps Run Amok
Internet Libertarians Should Learn Civil Discourse
(The Washington Post)

Many Going to College Aren’t Ready, Report Finds
By TAMAR LEWIN 8/05
Only about half of this year’s high school graduates have the reading skills they need to succeed in college, a study has concluded.

/growing up gotti. Tommy lee at college. Dog. Am choppers

/all the bodily functions on tv. Spitting, going to bathroom, sex, wetting pants, toiletry?

/groin shots. Words butt and ass. Kicking both

Pam Anderson being fondled in joking manner by comic at her roast?

/huge sound sys at mason park thumping out big beat – boom boom boom

/if xmas is the worst holiday, what’s 2^nd – thanks?, easter? 7 major: xmas, thanks, new yrs, easter?, mem day, july 4, labor day.

/all you ever heard about as a kid here was Hawaii. Why? ………. tourism. All you heard about later was new Orleans. Same reason? Now it’s been vegas in recent yrs – due to cable?

/best part of larry king’s day is walking his kids to school.

it was NOT the senior citizens who took:

The melody out of music,
The pride out of appearance,
The romance out of love,
The commitment out of marriage,
The responsibility out of parenthood,
The togetherness out of the family,
The learning out of education,
The service out of patriotism,
The religion out of school,
The Golden Rule from rulers,
The nativity scene out of cities,
The civility out of behavior,
The refinement out of language,
The dedication out of employment,
The prudence out of spending, or
The ambition out of achievement,

And we certainly are NOT the ones who eliminated
patience and tolerance from personal relationships and
interactions with others!!

/best thing bout the holidays is when they’re over with. They meant less every yr.

/Tyson knocks $lk of teeth out of old woman. Caught, pays for teeth, lk

/vanity is: doing one’s make up ever 2 hrs. combing hair over the top? Appearances? Hrs before the mirror. Can’t have one hair out of place.

/vanity – Excessive pride in one’s appearance or accomplishments; conceit.

Vane – same

Conceit – unduly high opinion of one’s own abilities or worth.

Synonyms: conceit, egoism, egotism, narcissism, vanity
These nouns denote excessive high regard for oneself: boasting that reveals conceit; imperturbable egoism; arrogance and egotism that were obvious from her actions; narcissism that shut out everyone else; wounded his vanity by looking in the mirror.
Antonyms: humility

grudges mike Tyson hits you, takes your $, is caught. You hate him? He should pay for your tooth, the time it cost you, the anquish – all = restitution. He should go to jail also? Then he’s paid you and paid his debt to society. No pt in hating him; he’s paid for what he’s done. What if you come out ahead? Lb of flesh. You don’t hve to love him. Or see him. Where does forgiveness fit in. but if it still eats at you. But why …. Then you have a problem.

/turn the other cheek

/when young I never saw on tv or anywhere women or minority cops, doctors, lawyers, judges, pros, profs, pols,

/xmas is a morality play with guilt, redemption ?

/jerking the camera all over – even on nat geo….

/Sharon stone idiocy. She said her career was stalled so got in playboy. It worked. Later her scene …… oh boy.

/lib l2/05 – Newly Bankrupt Raking In Piles of Credit Offers
By TIMOTHY EGAN
Credit card companies are soliciting the more than two million Americans who rushed to file for bankruptcy this year before a tough new law took effect.

/pros is victimless: bkk and mustang ranch

/trouble with the way lot of women get implants is that their chest comes out too high. Unnatural. Made worse by wearing tight clothes.

/Truman said ingratitude is the cardinal sin. So went to funeral of pendergast [when veep]

Tons of booze and cigs in this flic bout him. Why not have a flic just about booze and cigs.

/ethical concerns over face transplant

/mcneil Lehrer report vs slugfests of hardball, mcgloughlin interruption and yelling contests

/those into status have a stake in the status quo vs rebels gain their kind of status by rebelling

/can’t chew gum in Singapore. Ban started in 92. l2 yrs. But they plan to lift it due to u.s. pressure, said …………

Schools Avoid Class Ranking, Vexing Colleges
By ALAN FINDER 3/06
Many high schools have stopped providing class ranking information to colleges, fearing it could harm students’ admission chances.

/must be a zillion morality plays around sex

/an article proved what I feel: every yr some things mean less: Oscars, grammies, …….

But they said the superbowl doesn’t diminish.

Holidays mean less to me, Olympics too

/Singapore which does live up to it’s reputation as the world’s cleanest city. with just about the lowest crime rates anywhere. … giving tips is neither expected nor well-received; it is thought that a person should always be doing their best and not need additional monetary incentive to do so. drug trafficking there carries a mandatory death penalty; signs around the city announce that jay-walking is not permitted; and the punishment for vandalism carries a jail sentence and caning–a painful practice used to deter many offences.

Keeping Singapore clean to the litter of the law

Singapore, Justice, Human Rights, Politics, Social issues.
www.singapore-window.org/sw01/011223af.htm – 9k – Cached – Similar pages

/elimidate

/some doll with private parts that was ‘anatomically correct’ in 70s?

/former prosecutor says many say to cover up is worse than the crime.

/what’s with all the Alaskan crab fishing on TV also all the building of choppers by tattooed machos.

/real housewives of orange county on bravo. Trash. / the o.c.

/courage is when you do something you are afraid of. Disc and endurance in the face of trepidation, risk.

/do weather gals have to have big ones?

/morality play: trying to save ed. Like kung fu – the enobling search.

/quieter on cellphones in bkk than here

/forgiveness can be enabling the wrong doer

/out in public: peter profane, sean shirt tale out, tommy tattoo, peter pierce, terry torn jeans, obese?,

Surgery With a Side of Fries
By ANDREW WEIL
Fast food has no place in hospitals.

/have read now and then that ams are poor savers

/from so many dirty jokes on the red carpet to next channel playing the end of Tristan and isolde – [pure love]. What a diff. glad I bot that album with all the highlights. Same as classic comics.

/again: prohibition helped the mob. Small timers became big timers

Brooklyn Museum Graffiti Exhibit
Through September 3, this exhibition of twenty large-scale graffiti paintings from influential artists will explore how a genre that began as a form of subversive public communication has become legitimate.
Learn more

/forgive and forget. Not till justice and can never forget death of a child. Denial

/75% drop in the no of viewers of the miss universe pageant

/lance Armstrong – hero to millions of kids and adults. As mc on for a big something and telling dirties.

/forgive – offenses and debts.

/so many grubby people at the mall. One asian family looked more presentable.

But haven’t seen pin curlers

/contest to see who can push their hair back the most

/mad money with Kramer. He yells, camera zooms in and out, he presses sound effects. He was a yeller when on with kudlow. Who is sep and a little louder?

/cyclists ride to Sturgis, ride thru town, park bikes, talk, eat, drink, talk shop, ride up, down

/dr phil is getting gimmicky, using too much emotion. He shouldn’t have shown those kids’ faces on tv. Those cams tape ‘crimes’ but skip.

/laws against oral sex – on net. Amazing. Vs moks, gene

/brides in gowns with tattoo.

/makeovers – gals in nice dresses with tattoos on legs or wherever.

/ed can partly? Be a morality play

Reading the Coca Leaves By JOHN TIERNEY Drug prohibition in Bolivia and Afghanistan has done exactly what alcohol prohibition did in America: it has financed organized crime. 9/06

/‘sensual’. Everyone on TV killing themselves to be, but little moks was moreso than all of them put together in her femininity, purity, wholesome innocence …..

/end of sep 06. the thot of xmas and xmas music is sickening

/design etc of memorials can be big morality plays

/morality plays? academic pol are vicious because the stakes are so small. In religion, they’re even smaller … or non-existent.

Amish Schoolhouse Is Razed
By SEAN D. HAMILL
The schoolhouse where 10 girls were shot last week was demolished by heavy machinery on Thursday in the hope of easing the community’s pain.

– School should mean: social success, guidance, mental health                                                          ……….. should prepare one for work.

/forgive Hitler, stalin, mao, saddam?

/it’s not even Halloween and I hate the idea of the xmas holidays coming up. Everything goes a little nuts. I dislike it more each yr.

Give the Vixens the Day Off
By JOHN TIERNEY
Oct. 31 has become known as Slutoween and Dress-Like-a-Whore-Day, much to the distress of moralists on both the left and right.

/forgive so don’t have to deal with it. No empathy so don’t even know what it is. search knee-jerk forgiveness

/forgiveness becomes meaningless. And lets criminals off hook. They’re going to be forgiven anyhow.

 The Heyday of Snobbery
By DAVID BROOKS
We have entered a time when we can gather in large groups and look down at our mental, social and spiritual inferiors.

/it the econ, stupid, it’s the demography, stupid. Look, this, look, that

/I like sweet people cause you can trust em vs dj, rp

/thanksgiving, like xmas, brings out the good and bad – grotesque overeating, traffic jams and airport delays, endless sports on television, and family squabbles —

/out of prisons: sch, mil, debt?, xmas, rel, bad relationships, neigh?, work, climates,

/see Kennedy curse file

/bruce jenner – talks just like trig. on 3^rd marriage. 4 kids from lst two. 2 from 3^rd. acting didn’t work. Didn’t need work on his nose that he got. Looks ok to me.

/blind date: body builder in undershirt pick up his date.

/jim carey taking a dump on a lawn. Next scene – brownish stuff flowing down, like a bm. Cam pulls back and it chocolate frostie stuff flowing downward out of a frosty machine. Must be the grossest thing ever

/people wearing jeans in church – the minister too.

/search our dressed-down culture. not finding much. the norm for travelers. In NY, they dressed up. San fran too?

/super ….. no one dies.

/chest thumping boom boxes

/forgiveness faddle. Thank goodness lot of the country didn’t agree with ford’s pardon [forgiving Nixon with a pardon, as his ratings dropped 40 pts on 2 weeks.

Middle School Girls Gone Wild
By LAWRENCE DOWNES
What surprises me is how completely parents of even younger girls seem to have gotten in step with society’s march toward eroticized adolescence.

/regil’s morality plays: take the girl back to her dad

/Bronx tale vals somewhere

/Donald trump nasty about mirv griffin, rosy o’donnald, ed koch.

/after the shootings, they tore down the old sch hse and now build a new one – After Shooting, Amish School Embodies Effort to Heal By MELODY SIMMONS Amish residents banded together to build a one-room schoolhouse about 200 yards from the old one on an acre of land owned by an Amish farmer. l/07

/incredible fuss over death of anna nichole smith – pig of the century. Channel after channel. Could be worse than Natalie Holloway.

Illegitimate Complaints
By STEPHANIE COONTZ
The Anna Nicole Smith story hardly represents a more depraved morality than the “dignified silence” that surrounded deviations from the family values and marriage customs of the past.

Human Nature Redux By DAVID BROOKS Over the past 30 years or so, our belief in natural human goodness has been discarded.

/hat off indoors –

hat off indoors

same for an out door garment – jacket, vest, or coat that is not a suit coat. Ag. Looks like they don’t know better. looks dumb, looks ghetto

/misogyny – hatred of women. It’s part of hip hop

Assignation – secret meeting of lovers

/entertainers used to be embarrassed to perform in vegas. More acceptable now.

/asked someone on red carpet of Oscars if another had to wear butt padding.

/Anderson cooper travels but doesn’t like to go on vacations

/audience for judge exteme akim worked up, then he enters with his bat. Exactly the wrong atmosphere for the judicial process.

/showing a lot of butt cracks

/ Sweet Chastity By ALEX KUCZYNSKI Hanne Blank looks at virginity through the ages.

/Life in the Mean Seats By JOE QUEENAN The concept of booing visiting players or the pathetic home team does not need to be re-evaluated.

/ Lacking Big-City Luster, Junior Miss Carves a Niche By JESSICA KOWAL Not a beauty pageant but a scholarship program, Junior Miss has been all but abandoned by city and suburban girls, who favor bustier, lustier, Trump-owned contests.

Everybody Hates Don Imus By FRANK RICH In the wake of Don Imus’s racist and sexist comments, there’s been an astounding display of hypocrisy, sanctimony and self-congratulation from all sides.

/ Why Don Imus? There are racists all over the media 09:36 Neal Boortz, Rush Limbaugh, Glenn Beck, Ann Coulter, and Michael Savage prove that racism, sexism and bigotry exist in our media on a daily basis. Why isn’t there the outrage over their comments? Why aren’t they fired? Why Imus?

/ Ann Coulter calls Al Gore a “total fag” but said it was a joke. 01:23 More at http://media-pundit.blogspot.com – Check it out! [ and Edwards a faggot] our favorite Republibitch Ann Coulter.

/Media Matters for America – a group that monitors some of the excesses of talk radio.

Signs of Infection By BOB HERBERT The coarsest, most socially destructive images and language are an integral part of our everyday discourse.

/can’t believe how formally kids dressed in rebel without cause. And those with jeans, boots, leather jackets which was diff, were at least very clean compared to today.

/big deal over a teacher taping a boy’s mouth shut

/stuff I dislike: cruises, vegas, door prizes, food, pledge, prayer

/male and female whores

/crudeness of trump and rosie. She motions to her crotch and says eat me. shown again on tv. He repeats it. 4/07

http://www.city-journal.org/html/12_1_why_we.html

/amazing how asian and other women dressed up to be so elegant and guys in the pix look like shit.

/Shock Radio, Playing Rough, Shrugs at Imus’s Fall By JACQUES STEINBERG Talk radio remains insidiously untamed, full of coarse, sexually explicit banter, despite the firing of Don Imus.

/rosie odonnel ‘eat me’ and put hand to her crotch

/not safe at libraries. Remember the one in d.c where my complaint made the guy spring to life.

/dressed worse than I ever remember at so c plz 5/07.

/haven’t seen any shopping carts left around so. County, like at mc

/Catalina complained that the weekend after the fire, a big tourist weekend, ma’s day?, tourists were not allowed on the island. Lost l.5 mil. But they had almost lost their town to fire.

/vegas, cruises, fine dining, boats

/ http://www.rd.com/content/good-manners/2

/closure to me is like forgiveness

/Hypocrisy is the homage vice pays to virtue, as the gloriously gay Oscar Wilde said.

/travel ch had program with girl showing torture impliments of span… inquisition and telling details

/sweet one of having a dog. But included: dog chews dried bull penis

/ mayor in the US state of Louisiana says he will sign into law a proposal to make wearing saggy trousers an act of indecent exposure – http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/6751777.stm

/Erasing Tattoos, Out of Regret or Simply to Get a Fresh Canvas
By NATASHA SINGER
A growing industry caters to people who may not have thought about the implications of “forever.”

/comics aren’t dirty in front of kids; they can control it – so control it on tv. And if they don’t, tv should bleep out whole sections

/dirty: bathroom humor, barnyard, locker room, adult, niteclub, sailors, sex, bodily functions, emissions, pri parts, pri matters, degrading, denigrating, coarse, demeaning,

/forgiveness, closure. Should we forgive debts?

/older gen sacrificed so we could get an ed. And didn’t show their emotions

/all bimbos can do is squirm

/sports and entertainment stars struggle hard to make it do, then fall apart. Having a kid changes the more mature ones

/good comments condemning ann coulter – they also explain her psch… refreshing, sensible. she keeps running her hand thru her hair.

/why such int in anna nicole smith, ann coulter, paris Hilton

/guy at la? Sch bd meeting at podium with baseball cap and casual polo type shirt

/so much trash on TV, you wonder bout the aud.

/why so many pix of staff with shades on. On dig.com

/promoter of mma took pride in not patting out and getting his arm broken

/nurse at spitz had tattoo on her back below her neck. Dyed reddish hair

/tv: lot of guys made a lot working on the Alaskan oil pipeline, went into town and blew a lot. Where else did I hear that? during the calif gold rush

/vegas on globe trekker – pure shit. Average person loses $500. place of dreams

/the yelling and screaming on tv has maybe paralleled the growing filth.

/I wonder what happened to the legion of decency

/brits gave kathy griffen a 4 column list of words she couldn’t use

Coach’s Toughest Drill Is a Grim Lesson on Life By CAROLYN MARSHALL Todd Walker imparts the importance of staying away from violence by taking his young athletes to graveyards and mortuaries.

/staff guy in best buy said the loud displays sell

/why so many people on TV eating with real bad manners

/… rowling and whole potter interview on 4 showed me how brits have better manners and more dig…

/search decline of sportsmanship.

/hooting, clapping back at aud

/macdonalds had a mcclean burger. Didn’t go over

/kathy griffen walking in front of hillary and 2 who were posed for a pic, just to get in pic with hillary [a pic taken by her photog?]

/ It’s a Female Dog, or Worse. Or Endearing. And Illegal?
By MICHAEL M. GRYNBAUM The New York City Council, which passed a symbolic citywide ban on the use of the so-called n-word earlier this year, has turned its attention toward a different slur.

————– – – – –

Hospital noise and ‘business’… Cellphones rang day and night. Patients, nurses, physicians and visitors talked loudly. Outside our window, cranes whined and clanked on a construction site, and workers’ voices clearly carried up five floors.

Add to this the daily crowd moving in and out of our room. Someone asking if I wanted television, phone or Internet service, a chaplain, phlebotomists coming to take blood, the young woman changing our linens, orderlies, the janitor and ever-changing nurses.

Almost everyone had a question that needed answering, and quickly, not easy when you’re scared, tired, in pain or heavily medicated. Each encounter required my attention, a decision and my civility at the least. it takes a lot of energy to be friendly to so many people.

Every interaction, no matter how brief, takes energy, something many patients have very little of, even while we try to be as pleasant as our pain, weariness and fear allow.

Then there were the all-day, high-volume conversations of my deaf roommate’s family and friends.

My exp: tubes and blankets tangled, phone, tv remote, [didn’t I write about this?] curtain this way, that. ‘nurses’, aides,

/today’s youth the most narcistic.

/cabbage patch doll, tickle me elmo, teenage ninja mutant turtles, potter, Nintendo, play station 3, iphone,

/elvis – after some performances, they’d go back to the hotel and sing all nite.

/constructing new islands in dubai or wherever must be the most obscene waste ever

/the rat pack was sold out in a few nights from then on and soon vegas was sold out. They played for 6 wks.

/search jerking the cam all over

Gunman Who Shot Wallace Is to Be Freed By BRENDA GOODMAN Arthur Bremer, the gunman who tried to kill Gov. George C. Wallace of Alabama, will be released from prison.

/common themes: good vs. evil, star-crossed lovers, beauty and the beast, unrequited love, kids vs. folks, anti establishment.

/funerals should be like phil’s natural to the end

/I only go out to dinner with fat friends, cause they’re the only ones that know how to eat

/people think lot of mm. she slept all over

/how most dressed at big reunion

/hub told wife what to do in 50s – far from heaven

/homework hotline: a teacher in blue jeans, short sleved shirt not tucked in.

/broken window theory fits in with the way people dress, bkk,

/andy rooney took license plate slogans down a few notches

/bouncers in vegas on tv said when people dress better, they behave act better. sig

/ http://www.nytimes.com/2007/10/15/opinion/15mon4.html?th&emc=th

/kitsch: vegas, radio city music call, cruises, parades?, [going to Hawaii and back]

/American conservative media watchdog group Parents Television Council

/so park is disgusting – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/South_Park

/frontline’s ‘cheney’s law’ was too gimicky – spooky music, drumbeat, sirens in the distance, night shots, cloak and dagger

/aretha franklin is a blimp. 07

/I wonder if bitterness is tied in with forgiveness nonsense.

/don’t cry, get mad, be depressed

Just gloss over, festive, forgive, feel-good, closure, food [really makes me mad]

/stan ashbaugh vols at so cst rep….. where all dress down

/all the biting off too much at once on tv, chomping away on their food, [talking?].

/search law returning products

/churches probably don’t bring up dress codes as it could hurt attendance

/reality tv.

/ll/9 and I don’t resent xmas yet. When will I – from thanks… on?

/Bob Dole’s Viagra ads. Gorby did 2? Ads

/Sunday movies were taboo

/monarchies are allowed to be a deep as playboy mansion

/scouts had to earn the $ for their uniforms

/if you reject someone’s food, you kind of reject them.”

/you hear the bleep far more than 20 yrs ago.

/ cheapo with camera tricks, drum beat, spooky music, repetition, EMOTION,

/plastic surgeons on tv for ego etc. I say judges are the same

/kia commercial with guy humping

/funniest vids with dog trying to hump a kid, people getting injured

/old black and white movies have more class, style, manners, dignity.

/I’d give kids allowance add to it with smaller holidays! And eating in.

/la times: rules [at good bars, not sports bars]. No standing at the bar, hats off, don’t use c phones, blackberries, name dropping, hooting, hollering, screaming, shouting or other loud behavior, cursing, smoking, getting drunk, gum, flash pix, more than 4 to a table, don’t interrupt other guests, men introducing selves to women, game playing, ll/07

/3 day stubbles, shirts unbuttoned and hanging out, tennies, blue jeans, bodily functions, underwear, bathroom humor, locker room humor, tattoos, piercings, bathing daily, torn jeans, scruffiness, being disheveled,

Women dressing up and their dates looking like they are going to work on their cars.

Fact that ‘clean-cut’ is rarely heard of.

Men should wait for women to offer their hands to be shaken.

too much cleavage, tight clothes, implants, vanity. The decline of values.

 

/biting off far too much to eat at once. Talking with mouth full. Washing food down.

/women constantly pushing their hair back

/rosie o’donald vs donald trump

/jerry springer, maury povich,

/in the past: ricky lake, jenny jones, sally jessie raphael

/gal in dr. m’s off had dark red hair and SHINY.

/forgiveness is great way for both parties not to deal with it

/gal with problem dog on ‘the dog whisperer’. You get to see real nice average family on there with their beguiling kids

/h. potter interview = class. Some asian productions on tv – far more class.

/ Health and education are forms of wealth, too, essential to happiness and a strong society

/boom boxes – chest thumping, window rattling

/disappointed to see history ch using sound effects during program on cold cuts

/parades as kitsch?

/most happy countries and least – http://www.physorg.com/news73321785.html

http://www.technovelgy.com/ct/Science-Fiction-News.asp?NewsNum=893

/judges on tv

/should creditors forgive debtors? Should we forgive prisoners and let em all out?

/took the civil rights movement to get white to begin to get empathy

/jeff corwin experience – animal guy has a staged? Bit about some real or imagined animal that flew over and craped all over him. l/l3/08

/dancing with the stars. Mc mentioned body odor

/ Morley Safer Loves His Vices, Says ‘Saints Are The Most Tedious People , humorless and lacking in imagination’

/all this stress on TV on being hot, etc. all 0 compared to when you care for someone. Spec if she’s demur, cons?, feminine, womanly, sweet, ….

/people get married in vegas. the whole wedding industry there. TACKY

/there was a ‘cliché count’ at a sport talk

/the hayes code [sp] for Hollywood. Legion of decency

/long ago: brook shields wearing jeans with her legs open and knees toward the cam showing her grotch. ‘know what gets between me and my calvin kleins? …………. Nothing’

/kid and animal droppings, stars with no panties exposed

/people almost getting their eye put out by a popping champagne cork

/pull up your pants

/seeming normal programs using snot, piss, throw up – hurl, orgasm,

/millionaire matchmaker – patty – the worst. she must be from NY eth?

/ short pants in bkk

/feel good must be patronizing? That’s what makes bkk exciting

/do premarital … and living together cut down on divorce

/one tenant, d?, blew his nose on his hand

/why not more wholesome things like man vs wild and dog whisperer

/ike wanted us to find a national purpose or something

/is gambling greed?

/when you have less and are thrifty; that’s fine. When you have more and are thrifty, you are tight, greedy,

/the nutty prof flic; who’s sucking whose titties. Chapel saying he cracked up eddie Murphy so much while drinking water, it came out of his nose.

/tj with it ear-splitting volume

/tv: lot dress far too young

/inventory workers at hm dep in the parking lot looked like gang bangers, beyond being minorities

/baggy clothes etc don’t teach self-respect

/sweet:

pleasing or agreeable; delightful.

8. amiable; kind or gracious, as a person, action, etc.

9. dear; beloved; precious.

lovable, charming.

/tv: snot, jock itch, orgasm, bladder leaks, boogers?, nose picking?, ass crack?,

/masturbation –

Masturbation

/AskMen.com – Masturbation Q&A

Masturbation is one of those activities everyone enjoys, but few are comfortable discussing openly with a friend, or even a family doctor. …

How bout the old men who wish they could

/ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vice – superb.

/Stephen Colbert showed ‘jon steward’s catheter’

/the huffington post – nasty. Proved by o’reilly

/ Time Out of Mind By STEFAN KLEIN The misguided notion that time is money actually costs us money. And it costs us time.

/jim carey on letterman: said paparazzi won’t leave him alone – pix of his gingivitis & colon

/college not worth it. lot of work not worth it. to med lab at 7:30 am. Saw everyone scurrying to work. Reminded me of when I did that. often to lousy jobs. So lucky to not have to. You wonder if all that was worth it.

/search when return policy changed. When audiences began hooting, clapping back

/ On cable TV, our young people can hear all the profanity and sounds of hard core porn and catch glimpses of it through scrambled images.

/glad I’m not the godfather to anyone

/peggy flemming’s got depth

/forgiveness: do you forgive a debt? Does the bank?

/I wonder if small biz like sally [beauty supply] and other have a ruff go. But they have independ… and that’s how some expand like macdonalds.

/ revenge – http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.emotionalcompetency.com/images/revenge.gif&imgrefurl=http://www.emotionalcompetency.com/revenge.htm&h=360&w=485&sz=11&hl=en&start=20&tbnid=ArG4m7ua_Zb9JM:&tbnh=96&tbnw=129&prev=/images%3Fq%3Drevenge%26gbv%3D2%26hl%3Den

/’what happens in vegas,stays in vegas’. – like tons of suckers losing their money.

/white house correspondents dinner. The dignitaries come in and all kinds of yelling from spectators behind the rope, some in shorts.

/I wonder if dubai doesn’t parallel vegas somehow

/calling cheerleaders children. Must have been hi sch. Contest

/guy, a stu?, wear a t-shirt when speaking to the lauds. Another youth in aud wore one

/teacher on homework hotline in blue jeans, dumb short sleved shirt, hair a bit diff doing complicated math quadratic functions/ equations

/barabara walters carried on an affair with sen ed brooke for several years, but they broke it off because he was married. Of course

/people lose weight and get divorces. [fits with my backing off when they gain?]

/Disney owned part of Lorimar – adult ?

/martina matvrolova said you can’t just focus on the final win, you have to enjoy the process

/Boo! Boo! Boo! for the Home Team By FRANCIS X. CLINES Booing, once directed only at the visiting team, has become the dagger du jour as hometown fans bestow blame on their team’s players.

/schmaltz patriotism: worship symbols – those in uniform, big weapons. God in any form rehashed over and over. other schmaltzy emotion – you are my friend, chain letters will keep evil away.

/I’ll never forget I worked for 50 cents an hr

/killings in eng. They tore down the bldg where it happened. didn’t want the mems.

/ intervention on tv pulls no punches

/teen girls bumped into me and laughed about it.

/In 2006, for the first time in U.S. history, a majority of all births to women under 30 — 50.4 percent — were out of wedlock. Nearly 80 percent of births among black women were out of wedlock.

By comparison, when John F. Kennedy was elected president in 1960, just 6 percent of all births were to unmarried women under 30.

Since then, the percentages have risen across the ethnic spectrum. One-third of white, non-Hispanic women under 30 who gave birth in 2006 were unmarried. For Hispanics, it was 51 percent.

/sure is good to have my leg back after trouble with L knee

/grad from kindergarden, jr hi, all kids of awards

/dog whisperer – one of the most refreshing progams ever on tv. what would be next?

He uses dog pscyh, not human psych on dogs

/marry wonderful person, so natural to have a kid. What if mr. what if later into crime, etc. or off to war. Penny lile.

/irresponsible fun vs resp

/graffiti creates fear. Bums people out. blight, disrespect, slap in the face

/ deteriorating civility of our society’s younger members !!!!!

/0 ref to bodily functions – bathroom, bedroom, locker room,

/tv: l7% of those who get tatoos regret it.

/tyra has daytime tv judges on. All about justice. Then asks em their favorite curse word. Cheap! David young is the lst gay TV judge. Alex is the tall guy. Clapped too much

/jerry springer as narrator of the miss universe contest 7/08

/bruce cutler as a tv judge

/The Culture of Debt By DAVID BROOKS America once had a culture of thrift. But over the past decades, that unspoken code has been silently eroded.

/woody allen incapable of being happy. 60s

/Risks in Shanghai

expatriate in Shanghai, expatriates, expats, Shanghai, risks in Shanghai, … No jaywalking. 3. No swearing. 4. No littering. 5. No smoking in public …

/”It’s man’s ear. When you get cauliflower, you’re really a man.”
NISAR LOYNAB , 15, a mixed martial arts trainee who hopes to get cauliflower ear.

/why are all the ugly ams on tv

/gross stuff on am’s funniest hm videos

Forgive [re fam]

1. to grant pardon for or remission of (an offense, debt, etc.); absolve. 0
2. to give up all claim on account of; remit (a debt, obligation, etc.). 0
3. to grant pardon to (a person). same
4. to cease to feel resentment against: to forgive one’s enemies. 0 but not dwell
5. to cancel an indebtedness or liability of: to forgive the interest owed on a loan. 00

–verb (used without object)

6. to pardon an offense or an offender. same

/more pettiness than I remember in campaigns so far 7/08

/thailand has kids l5 and younger going into their type of boxing

/I live where the men tuck their shirts in, ….. paradise … lw

/clean cut. Not in ny

Some Britons Too Unruly for Resorts in Europe
By SARAH LYALL Malia, Greece, is the latest in a long list of European resorts full of young British tourists on packaged tours offering cheap alcohol and a license to behave badly.

“They scream, they sing, they fall down, they take their clothes off, they cross-dress, they vomit.”
KONSTANTINOS LAGOUDAKIS, mayor of Malia on Crete, about young British tourists.

/Olympics – wholesome values.

/Beijing olympics one cost $40 billion said dr simms

/esl student said hippies throw away? what we want

/abc: good looking black guy told 3 kids in sitcom to get off their ass 08

/patients at Harvard: t-shirts, short pants, jeans, heavy hair

/police chief dicks of flint [Michigan] – one of the most violent cities in am. Those with underwear showing. La times wrote against it. aclu too. [mostly black?] newsweek? 7?/08? Crass

Same problem in gardena on tv 9/08 [with blacks]

/sanctity of life vs j springer

/winning a beauty pageant in venezuela + is big deal

/big foot, another in china, yeti in Nepal,

/search no movies on Sundays on the 50s?

/early springer saying he wouldn’t allow any hitting. Has become a freak show with dwarfs, half guy on hands, dominatrix, flashing,

/home repairs are bettr than xmas. Make you feel great.

/spread out vacation days just like spreading out xmas

/don’t know better than to bring up religion

/tess wants her girl to come here but not stay as the values here are too permissive.

/someone unconscious in hosp on disc.. health. Doesn’t need med person raising his voice at him [like he doesn’t know eng] and we don’t need a drumbeat in the background. Cheapens it

/dr became a patient and saw things diff

/guy testifying at la cnty bd of super with a t-shirt over a sweat shirt

/some bar on TV called ballbusters

/reverend run , white collar, wears a hat on tv. former rapper

/no divorce in pi, have to get it annulled.

/young Indians impressed with how am’s think of what’s good for them as individuals,

/wayne brady flies back from vegas to l.a. daily so he can pick up his kid from kindergarten. Sometimes, he drives it – 4 hrs. said having a kid changes your life. Is a single parent. His kid cries over the phone about missing him.

/sympathy falls between shit and syphilis

/Rwandan gal with far more dig and charm than us. C span.

/the staff at health food stores wouldn’t dare be clean cut

/la bd of sup… on tv. 2 cameramen in short pants with shirts out

Confessions of a Phone Solicitor By GAIL COLLINS If you can come up with something that would send a telemarketer over the edge, you have really overachieved on the offensiveness front.

/spain allows gay marriage, abortions ….

/can’t jaywalk in Singapore?

/ john walsh: “it’s not about closure; it’s about justice.”

/pols here have to support the death penalty, said dershowitz

/guy a I know won a settlement from the gov. , ran out and bot a new car. dumb

/jim carry and partner both been married twice. they like skipping that and co-habing

/ Up, Up and Go Away By ANN HOOD A former flight attendant feels the decline of airline service, especially since she remembers the days when to fly was to soar.

/at this late age I wonder if the clique was and is about keeping others out. seemed to get that from tj and maybe jay [but do I dish some out too?]

/wisdom born of long suffering

/remember in the 50s some would get a new car every yr. anyone still do that?

/sally Kirkland had implants, got sick of the whole thing

/sweetness more valued in asia?

/marriage is useful or designed for having kids?

/Janine turner, holding her head high = her bk. Bout unwed ma’s?

/The Costs of Negligence People who venture outdoors and find themselves in trouble thanks to their own lack of responsibility should pay the cost for being rescued.

/obama’s inaug was the most expensive ever –

cost of obama inauguration

Got sickening with idealism, yet tons of litter –

inauguration trash

some talk of a litter-free inaug…. Yeah, right

/dunno what to do with this one – http://www.abutterflyemerges.com

/stupidity of blk and white morality of latin women who have to be v when married. She has her honor, virtue, rep only once

/boom boxes are audio graffiti

/the scarlet letter

/Jerry Springer speaking at Northwestern University Law School’s commencement

/also he was mc at the miss universe pagent?

/Search the vices

/black actor, ocane? Cornilus, in orange t shirt in fancy pulpit in classical church.

/postal workers with their shirt out

/blu jeans and tennis shoes all over – even among seniors

/char said dressing grubby now in bev hills, Hollywood hi

/c span. Good talk. Skr and most of aud dressed up. c kids in blue jeans , t shirt

/discretion is the better part of valor

/nancy of comics said her temp agency for 8 yrs was awful. People didn’t want to wk

/sweet people are genuine, don’t manip, no games nor need for games

/gal on talk show at nite with torn jeans. ‘

/ice cream truck covered with grafitti

/don’t spoil kid as he will run up against: food, smk, love, alc, drugs, cults, radicalism, speed, risks, peers,

/miss manners, Judith matin, said 60s had no respect for tradition

/quick talk on probate forms on each table

/if you had shapely daughter would you want her to appear in underwear ads?

/stu in class in undershirt, short pants, leg out. hi sch?

/good vals as smoke, food, gamble, sex …

/in jap… hi powered ex’s have mistresses, bar girls, etc.

/jap tykes cleaning sch, serving meals. All wait till everyone’s served

/guy has his dr lic suspended 500 times. Sundance arrested 300? Times for alc

/some jap… tourists afraid to come here re guns, crime; likewise some of our tourists feel far safer over there

/our criminals disrespect the police. The il’s don’t. they don’t give em lip.

/Asians in 90s had 1% ow births. Eur 20%, us 30%

/vince mcman’s wrestling big, then turner cut into his biz, so vince went into the gutter in themes etc. to beat him

/worst drivers: ny, boston?, another, l.a. best – seattle

/bad things happen to good people all the time.

/guen said ams are: me me, lazy, think they’re it, irresp, blame fast food, sue mc donalds.

/sympathy in the dict… is between shit and syphilis – meaning what? No one cares? Or it and a dime will get you coffee?

/less hair, but wearing black t shit – yani . 2^nd time

/el Segundo hi sch principal: end of june when still not hot [and he’s near bch], no excuse anyhow – irrelevant, wrinkled short pants, short sleeved polo shirt handing out, tennies, hands on hips, open necked. As if he’s just gotten up from watching tv at home. Out, sch for kids, adult in pub?, prin!, prin of a landmark hi sch. broken window….

Do the teachers dress worse? Most foreign principals in for… countries, even the poorest, know better than that. pride, example, perfect ex of the decline

/now we don’t tuck the belt in

/STUPID: Michael, a Foreign Affair By GAIL COLLINS While America mourned and the media circled, the House Foreign Affairs Committee was weighing in on a 1,500-word resolution in Michael Jackson’s honor.

/Op-Ed: The Day Obscenity Became Art Celebrating 50 years of the “interchange of ideas” in D. H. Lawrence.

/dr. vu grew up in 70s. said vals down since then
/Korean TV programs are sure more wholesome than ours.

/asian newscasters, sit coms, dramas more wholesome, pristine

/when I was young, people didn’t leave shopping carts all over.

/how bout an invitation like: let’s NOT go out to eat

/some hermits I india reject work and fam [and resp], drop out, become hooked on pot, become ‘holy men’

/someone likes s.s. yet is off to Alaska

/smit said skiing has gone down – noise, etc

/some people on diets go on cruises. Xxxxx

/Bill Gates says the best advice he’s ever gotten from his friend and fellow billionaire Warren Buffett is to keep things simple.

/whiney voice judge toller

/ ‘He was not perfect, but my father believed in redemption. And he never surrendered.”EDWARD M. KENNEDY Jr., at his father’s funeral.

/show up in court looking awful, whiny voices interrupting, but no bleeps

 /terri schaivo – www.terrisfight.org/index.php

/Kennedys: $ so noblesse oblige, h, fun, style, rites of passage, reckless but redemption, curse, catholic, theory, cheat on wives, alc, untouchable, discrim in past so need to be worshipped as comp…? team, rep, caroline tried for senate, legacy, noble goals-theory, image-cover up,

/thai’s see ladyboys as a 3^rd gender. Sig?

/noblesse oblige here?

/a guy that sends stuff, good and bad, just sent something disgusting, revolting.

/Big Food vs. Big Insurance By MICHAEL POLLAN The American way of eating has become the elephant in the room in the debate over health care.

/gal couldn’t get out of way so others could get off the elevator

/frumpy staff at irv. park

/weak: Where the Wild Thing Is By MAUREEN DOWD Tom DeLay on “Dancing With the Stars” is a reminder that in our lowbrow-loving culture, a scoundrel can do the redemption tango simply by being a good sport.

/bimbo jillian? Next to steve Edwards – bigger now? More cleavage, during daytime, more make up

/guen said only in am do walmart people dress like.

/drew Barrymore had NO disc as a kid

/program on bout samuri. With drumbeat. Cheap! Insulting, wears on aud

/presenting … to the la sch bd. in t-shirt. Another in dark glasses in aud, inattentive, sweatshirts. Gal on bd could not push her hair back

/schwartenegger didn’t have a phone, [indoor?, flush?] toilet, [or frig?] till he was l4

/tattoos

/guy on tv advertising mccormack mort. In a sports shirt

/more spices in all – frozen spaghetti and meatballs

/guy testifying in court wearing outside jacket and hand to chin and mouth

/ramsey’s kitchen nightmare. Lone coyote bar – dreadlocks

/divorce make he and wife better parents

/in pi, men have women on the side

/guy calls for rm, ruff, why so many rules, can’t have cold beer after work, not really. fuck you then. 12/09

/3 times as many assaults in Scotland % wise. No guns, so use knives

/$6 bacon guacamole burger is spicy. More TV dins are spicy

/my 70^th birthday was the best. – cause I’ve beaten the game – rather than the usual shallow whoop de doo.

/pitbulls and parolees like rescue inc

/being able to verbally abuse parking meter attendants/ticket givers

/aud dressed up, orch too, but violin soloist in jeans, hat, coat, poney tail? Stuble

/many don’t know how to fail. Football taught guy how to keep going

/the rockettes all over TV. tacky tacky what corn. How can people fall for that

/eastern virtues of patience and inner calm

/’fight quest’ more savagery on tv

/guy who found my wallet, others who return too much I’ve laid down – humbling

/obnoxious characters on TV: on red eye on fox – Greg Gutfeld , morton graham, ramsays kitchen nightmares, repo, dog?, springer, cheaters, web soup, world’s dumbest criminals, g-spot on cheaters? ,

/hist bit on tv re battle of midway. Older guy has dress shirt tucked in. younger guy has t-shirt hanging out. they’ve done many programs.

/2 guys in eyestyles: jeans and shirts out. 2^nd button on shirt open.

/but, hey …..

/look

/’blind date’ to learn what NOT to do

/tie loose and button unbuttoned

/wearing jeans on bk notes on c span

/puritanical: pee wee herman, senator gordon smith?, towing the cars of ‘jons’, putting their pix on the net

/ New York Seeks National Effort to Curb Salt in Food By WILLIAM NEUMAN After initiating prominent campaigns against smoking and harmful trans fats, New York City has a new target: the food industry’s use of salt.

/steve jobs in front of big aud in jeans and some sweater

I wonder why blue jeans are the big deal. In dr’s office. Lst one guy comes in in them, shirt out. then another. Is there a law you can’t tuck your shirt in. it’s on tv. all the time. comedians in t-shirts hanging. Travelogue guy too. even steve jobs before a large audience – jeans.

Then lot of youth with pants so low, you see 5 inches of boxer shorts. The aclu stuck up for them. welcome to social work. That’s how it was. Teaching too.

3 day stubbles, baseball cap on in college classes, the list goes on. My dr. chewing gum and so loud I use cotton puffs

/dana carvey in t shirt hanging out. olive drab – dark.

/no work: va

/courts should insist on proper decorum from the start. It adds to ‘justice’

/good to see pee wee herman coming back l/l0. he fell in 90?

/no socks, tennies, short pants

/that prin is the ugly am

/music goes off when they page someone at hm depot. Awful for it to come back on loud then trying to talk to sam

/dog whisperer is one of the best programs ever and they cheapen it with .

/no work: wel, f stamps, ss, ssi, uib, vets, farms sub, medicare +, pensions, prisoners, dj’s, alcs, drug addicts, alkies, gamblers?, students, ins? Illegals, paramedics?, wk as part of resp…

/plagues at sch, stolen, another l0k, ceremony inaugural

/ Once Stigmatized, Food Stamps Find Acceptance By JASON DEPARLE and ROBERT GEBELOFF A program once scorned as “welfare” enjoys broad new support from city, state and federal governments and from neighborhood groups that recruit clients.

/What’s Hot on This BBC Podcast? The Siege of Munster (1534-35)
By ADAM COHEN There is talk about how the Internet is driving culture ever lower, but it also makes a wealth of serious thinking available.

/yell so much on tv you have to keep turning the vol down

Free: f stamps, phy and ment disability, tax prep, medi-cal, Medicaid, medicare, pensions?, all the subsidies – farm, etc.

/ag: Absolute total western decadence – vegas on the water. Oasis of the seas – cruise ship carries 6k passengers. 3/l0

1. / Is The Power Of Positive Thinking Bullshit? – Barbara Ehrenreich …

Sep 28, 2009 … Barbara Ehrenreich is looking through a half-empty glass in her new book, Bright-Sided, which takes a critical look at America’s culture of …
jezebel.com/5369467/is-the-power-of-positive–thinking-bullshit – Similar

/homework hotline: pony tail, slicked back hair, goatee, dressed in blk.

/rescue place saves dog, gal from there takes it to radio sta to ad it, she’s wearing torn jeans

/mckenzie phillips, 35 yrs with a needle in her arm. On tv with dad yrs ago, I saw: all was a joke. Incest. Now she’s free.

/exposed underwear is indecent exposure

/dumbing down, junk food, virtually no good dress code, rock during meals – L hall., bullying,

/no wk: scholarships?, ed

/gloss over, airbrush out ….

/ Why Do Smart People Swear? A Room for Debate forum on why swearing in public or on the Internet is not going away anytime soon.

/buzz aldrin – on dancing with the stars 4/l0

/senate hearing on ariz border with mccain. Cameramen with shirttails out.

Search grubby informal cameramen on capitol hill

/sig one on civil war, slavery, hist of struggle for rights….. with a snare drum in the background. I don’t remember that beat in c.

/search grubby, informal, casual cameramen on capitol hill, at congressional hearings

/drumbeat is like what? In the nude?

/guy behind senator is chewing gum

/stater: ghetto music as ghetto volumn whose lyrics never repeat

/tru tv: city councilman subdued with pepper spray, later city awarded him $65k 5/l0

/no wk for free food, or pensions. Food banks.

/ape the ignorant/k

/tina turner concert with muscle types. One of em, a sax player, humped while playing his solo

/why this? Supremely Girly Girl By MAUREEN DOWD A word from the vice president: Elena Kagan is not even a little bit gay. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. 5/l0

/ The Pajama Game Closes in Shanghai By GAO YUBING Lamenting Shanghai’s crackdown on the local practice of wearing PJs in public. 5/l0/

/s Jacobs said they call their teachers by their first name.

/free: pensions skip

/ shirttails out, 3 day stubbles, profanity, bad table manners, piercings, tattoos ….. torn jeans.

Grubby clothes of sch principals, teachers, students …

/due in part to worship of baby boomers

/soc has to fit in with decline of vals?

/all fit with viet gal who was in detention for 5 yrs in hong kong and had to go back

/you can tell which kids come from good homes

/miserable drumbeat in all the mil programs, war programs, hist too?

So much that war must be about smoking and drums

/even in prison they wear their pants so low their u-wear shows

/fan violence

/patriotism is being realistic about the good and the bad. It’s about the war docus, the un?

/special [blue collar] hamburger or pastrami or …restaurants: Amazing how they always show crude, obese people, poorly dressed, wearing their outdoor coat, with their hat on indoors, in a noisy restaurant, opening their mouths as wide as possible, biting off far too much, chewing once, grease around their mouths, and talking with their mouths full, grease around their mouths. [and if you’re lucky the burger sauce is dripping on the plate or maybe the table. Must be the peak experience of one’s life. dripping on to the plate. Ist that the big luxury for blue collars who’ve never taken care of their health and who’ve worked hard all month – to gross out. They’ve worked hard at ruining their health and this is their desert.

/tv: something effing ….. . the g spot. Movies that don’t suck. Repro, billy the exterminator.

/trashy guy in pharmacy: tattoos, short pants, no socks, grubby t shirt outside, stubble, muggish face

/ch 114 it’s eff’n science, g-spot on 114. Movies that don’t suck on ….

/celebrity is as transferable as chicken pox

/repo is a good example of the deline of val

 

/kick buttoski? On the Disney? Channel

/some teacher in jeans and a polo shirt with product brainetics

/taking matters into their own hands: repo, cheaters

/forgive debts? How fair is that to those that have to pay? Same with crime, foreign aid

/ Obesity Rates Keep Rising, Troubling Health Officials
By DENISE GRADY Nine states, led by Mississippi at 34.4 percent, have rates reaching 30 percent or more, as opposed to only three states in 2007.

/cheaters, repo, disorder in the court, dog?

/ spoil kid out of perverted sense of ‘protecting’ him.

/Vermont farmer who said some folks never want their kids to work as hard as they did so make it too easy.

/curses, evil, luck, fate

/are tattoos vain?

/men offering their hand first

/what compares with bum? Frick, ford found?, d-land?, google?,

/forgiving a debt is not fair to the others have to pay

/suspect wearing very long undershirt. Others with 5” on u-wear showing.

/more undershirts back east

/you might say part of empathy is tuff love

/mark twain said travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, narrow

/Asian newscasters not showing cleavage. Bbc too

…ve the drunk, ge, why don'[so very hard to tell which would be/see feel good file on ibm

/cap hill club on TV and everyone taking big mouthfuls – cspan

/faulkners came back from eur and found ‘no one wanted to wk’

/5015 runs their air conditioner even tho no one’s home for months.

/jack germond left the mclaughlin grp. Said it was a food fight. Wiki said mc is loud and forceful…. Parodied by dana garvey

/guy on news program from ny mag: loose tie & collar, 4 day stubble

/locked up abroad , in mex. Simulation: cig cig cig trying to make mex look bad?

/if you want to appre

/fidel on hold vs hm dep.

/I won’t watch anything unless they repeat it 6 times, never hold the camera still, ever stop smoking, or without a drumbeat. Espec bad during sig things – cheapens them

/fast dancing – swing – benny goodman

/3^rd time I’ve hear pro… entrenched the mob – like drugs now

/how often so you see wholesome teens on TV like those on america’s funniest vid… or the dream who was rescued

/look at the flac parking attendants who ticket cars have to put up with.

/wholesome Elizabeth smart

/recreation of pol [baath party] 5 men – all smoking, on etyping with a cig between his fingers, 6 more in another scene and THEY are all smoking

/$l6 for side dish, $40 for meal, + tip = 60+ but saved $75 by not getting showerhead

/the trouble they give parking officers – meter maids

/bratty kids on flights in restaurants, buses, stores, ir there doesn’ne

/religion is a tradval

/don’t run hands thru hair or scratch scalp – men and women

 /finally: l2/l0 – Well, Hush My Mouth: Congress Is Moving Against LOUD Ads

Couch potatoes of America, listen up. Congress may be just days away from turning down the volume on ear-splitting TV commercials. [tv sets should have this period and also all chs have same vol]

/mythbusters – lighting a fart, love dolls,

/protesting at edwards funeral

/never heard ‘play to your strengths’

/live in sec guard at a grammar sch. And a jr hi where they had a fire? Or theft?

/folks of kids in sport push em too much now. didn’t used to . said nat alliance for youth sports

/hearings with kefauver re comics contributing to jd

/pol, religion, weight raising kids. Search this

/the immature at a traffic school

 /premarital rel… help prevent divorce

/oprah tv is geared to the lowest common denominator

/bitch’n kitchen – some program on tv

/search to find if there has been a growth of hm owner’s asscs and why

/cheap sound effects when showing oc jail and similar …

/shouting matches on tv, food fights

/postman has shirt out

/

Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior

/how can an extremist church, the westboro baptist church, picket funerals. l/ll

westboro baptist church

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/kids told they’re fab for yrs, then can’t get into right c. they dk why

/making fun of robert byrd in senate

/tv: some am in serbia at a festival. Only one wearing an undershirt.

moustache contest . another tour type turned a local woman toward the cam

/guy in colored t shirt hangning way down goes to pick up deion sanders’ girl who’s all dressed up.

/gandhi’s 7 deadly sins:

Wealth without work

Pleasure without conscience

Knowledge without character

Commerce without morality

Science without humanity

Worship without sacrifice

Politics without principle

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/one from sahs: We have a home in Palm Desert where we go during the Winter and Spring to play golf.

/tv goes to lowest common den……..said oprah. True of judges on tv?

/poor part time guy who sold me micro is across from boom boom elec dept. goes hm and his ears are ringing. Dirty

 / Transfer of Jobs to Asian Workers Feeds DiscontentA9

As unemployment grows across the Arab world, jobs are increasingly going to one group from outside the region—Asian guest workers.

/after quake and tsumani jap… didn’t LOOT! They don’t do that. Other countries do. Sig

They are stoic – gaman is the word. No sub teachers. Kids look after their class when the teacher is away. Big clean.

/parenting has gone downhill said a guy

10 things to learn from Japan’ 0ll earthquake and tsunami

1. THE CALM

Not a single visual of chest-beating or wild grief. Sorrow itself has been elevated.

 2. THE DIGNITY

Disciplined queues for water and groceries. Not a rough word or a crude gesture. 

3. THE ABILITY

The incredible architects, for instance. Buildings swayed but didn’t fall. 

4. THE GRACE

People bought only what they needed for the present, so everybody could get something. 

5. THE ORDER

No looting in shops. No honking and no overtaking on the roads. Just understanding. 

6. THE SACRIFICE

Fifty workers stayed back to pump sea water in the N-reactors. How will they ever be repaid? 

7. THE TENDERNESS

Restaurants cut prices. An unguarded ATM is left alone. The strong cared for the weak. 

8. THE TRAINING

The old and the children, everyone knew exactly what to do. And they did just that. 

9. THE MEDIA

They showed magnificent restraint in the bulletins. No sensationalizing. Only calm reportage. 

10. THE CONSCIENCE

When the power went off in a store, people put things back on the shelves and left quietly  

This makes the nation great.

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/that marine explaining his tattoos on the mil ch

/now wolf blitzer has raised his voice

/no closure means people appreciate things more.

/folly: closure, forgiveness,

/morality plays: bullying, dumping on gays,

/campus pd shows how bratty some stus are these days.

/search anything goes

/parked in middle of sidewalk on parking wars

/pi cg’s etc dying to come here and be here to wrk. Search why ours don’t – some

/entitlements have to contribute to decline

/if criminals feel remorse are we supposed to forgive em?

/drama desk awards, formal dress, profane comic

/ingrid said ams spend. She’s from g

/don’t cry

/I want to think that only the brits could do harry potter so well.

/am dream is owning a hse. 000

/ The “Millennials” Are Coming – CBS News Nov 8, 2007 … 60 Minutes on CBS News: The “Millennials” Are Coming – Morley Safer On The New Generation Of American Workers.
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/programs testing borders of area 51 as if that’s a worthy thing to do

/was talk soup, now it’s web soup – snide nasty. Like world’s dumbest criminals – making fun of people in a cruel way.

/some movie star learned she was no better than the little people she saw in church

/k’s are the 2^nd most hard working people in the world. Said tv

/if people spend half the time exercising as they do eating, they’d be better off

/ Miss Manners says it’s still rude to wear a hat indoors. Cowboys too

/search dressed down culture

/more common in print +: pissed, big ass fans, smart ass in cartoon la times 7/ll, screw,

/steve croft of 60 min in sport coat and jeans 7/ll

/faux hawk is that stick up tuffs junk. And all had a 3 day stubble. 7/ll

/laura ingram says the 20s that apply for work want work scheduled around their vacations etc. she can’t believe it.

/st. senator in blue jeans, which shirt, dress coat. In wis? 7/ll

/what happened to ‘clean-cut’

/miserable drum line at warner? Middle sch on newland.

/wendell appreciated lower rent a lot but they eat out all the time, never cook. Has 3 cars – 1 of which is a 64 rolls.

/ something sig on dog whisperer and keep changing cams. And adding sound effects. Cheapens the hell out of it. exactly the opposite of calm submissive

/Margaret cho has an open marriage. They have their little affairs. Cause she’s slutty. She thinks sexual monogamy lasts 5, 7 yrs. Vs cheaters

/cheaters shows people cheating with siblings, baby sitters, hmless friend taken in, lying and banging while the other is working. Some very decent, sweet, trusting people cheated. Why no charges for assault?

/ Sears said l:45 – 3:45, but at 3:40, they were on l2. I was l5 of l8 for the day.

/search how do women feel walking down the st when guys make comments

/when it’s a sweet gal on cheaters seeing tapes which break her heart, it’s so touching – young very decent maiden at the height of her appeal, devastated, not losing poise or dig –

/more attacks in the e.r.

/search how natives of pi, thai …..notice returnees are chubbier

/jap… older man said kids born since ’80 have had all done for them. They will study but that’s it.

/live in security guard at a grammar sch. – m.c.

/ Accepting, Appreciative, Balanced, Clean, Cheerful, Content,

Creative, Considerate, Courageous, Disciplined,

Dedicated, Enthusiastic, Encouraging, Efficient, Ethical, Fair,

Flexible, Friendly, Gentle, Generous, Helpful, Harmonious, Humble,

Humorous, Impartial, Intuitive, Joyful, Loyal, Merciful, Moderate,

Modest, Nurturing, Orderly, Peaceful, Polite, Playful, Practical,

Powerful, Patient, Principled, Purposeful, Peaceful, Respectful,

Spiritual, Spontaneous, Steadfast, Tolerant, Thoughtful,

Trusting, Tender, Unassuming, Unselfish, Understanding,

or Welcoming.

/good: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Family_values

/no list of tradval on net

/movies we love knocked up, movies that don’t suck, the g sport, effin science

/sub teaching for me

/Olympic judo champ said what makes a champ [beyond talent] is disc, wk habits, denial

/bob marley sang for freedom etc, and had 22 kids in and out of marriage

/coats and ties to baseball games during wwii

/ken burns said prohibition lobby, anti salon grp, was huge. Narrow, doctrinaire – single issue thot it would cure all. Resisted by the u.s. gov as would mean no more taxes from booze. Entrenched the mob. Didn’t work. After l3 yrs, it was repealed. Showed how fanatics blow it.

/electrician out with helper with low pants and tattoos

/guy at rite aid with low pants and shirt out

/calm manners of p. allen smith’s garden home on tv

What Happened to the American Work Ethic? Millions of people are looking for jobs, but aren’t jumping to be seasonal farm laborers. Why is that? L0/ll

/we didn’t have bullying

/scofflaws

/dependence on prescription drugs. Abuse of

/sweetness involves integrity

/if some people spent l% of the time they do flying the flag in charity work, they’d make a diff

/regis philby took shirt off on tv l0/ll

A Last Bastion of Civility, the South, Sees Manners Decline By KIM SEVERSON “Yes, sir”? “No, ma’am”? More and more Southerners are skipping such niceties. And ladies, if you want that seat, you had better go grab it.

/tattoos – if you get em and go to a dr, dentist, lawyer, or other pros – they don’t like that. You can expect poor service from all as people are repulsed and unconsciously repulsed and want to get away from

/ingratitude is the cardinal sin said harry Truman

/tailgate party in the SNOW

/real heroes are whistleblowers like that stomboli on nyc police corruption. dowd

/tv: Gordon ramsey’s f word. G spot. Effin ? sci

/Why We Spend, Why They Save By SHELDON GARON Europeans save more than we do. What can we learn from them?

/the dead would not want us to gloat, said ernie pyle

/free speech: what is it? confederate flag on lic plates or flying, yelling fire, defamation, libel, inciting a riot,

/walmart shoppers.

/brokaw: americans are the most generous

/2 asians dressed well on cctv and a brit in a black t shirt

/chevy ad – guy with a 4 day stubble

/over a romantic dinner, a guy in a 3 day stubble gives well dressed woman a diamond. Ad by zales diamonds

/Spanish art On tv. Brit with blue wrinkled shirt, 2 buttons opened at top, shirttail out, very worn jeans, hair that needed trimming and combing, touring Escorial in spain, private rooms, pushed back a few inches curtain of king’s bed, in sacred chapels … put hand on top of chair. But actually clean shaven. To avila.

/cities of the underworld: am guy, whips it up, grubby jeans, very worn, and coat, dark gray t-shirt, 3 day stubble, the foreigner is more clean, calm, intel, respectable, balanced …. & cheapo sound effects

/Viagra – 3 day stubble

/is a symbol of kitschy excess

/shirttail out, top 3 buttons open – dragon, naturally speaking

/tired of gangsta, ghetto music in hm dep – screaming, yelling

/reporter at t….. sq in egypt

/new café here and 2 guys, old, wearing baseball caps.

/at the seoul olympics brokaw saw from his hotel window, jr hi students studying by flashlight and hr before school opened.

/ag: minimum standards keep going up due to entitlements soc.

/dirty vids mixed in with those about soldering copper pipes ….

/not a single swear word on afs trip

/am driving death hiway in bolivia – 3 day stubble. 5 day? Hist ch. Do

/search 3 day stubble not in asia 5 day.

/search grubby tv public personalities

/ellen degeneras with that famous kristy alley who lost weight. 4:30 pm . tatoo man is waiting back stage. l/l2

/jerking camera all over

/lowest common denominator

/forgiveness. Lot to be first in line. Don’t even know what they are talking about

/email sent: beer, cars, naked women, accidents that insur, and some guns

/other countries restrict boom boxes?

/bayer aspirin – 5 day stubble, dark gray t shirt and a sport coat

/the way some of sahs dressed at a memorial service

/abu graib, marines urinating on dead Taliban, one on tape saying he hates all af’s and af.

1. Marilyn Monroe Sculpture Unveiled In Chicago (PHOTOS)

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/am guy interviewing those in Chinese opera – shirt out, grubby pants, sideburns

/The Gingrich Question: Cheating vs. Open Marriage If more couples considered monogamy optional, would divorce and cheating be less common, and unmarried cohabitation less attractive?

/ the death of the grown up by Diana west http://www.challies.com/book-reviews/the-death-of-the-grown-up

She worked for wash times. Now for united media.

/biz and all have then entitlement ment……….so never ashamed

/constantly moving cameras, swirling images

/sweater, with shirt and t shirt sticking out at the bottom.

/3 day stubble – Subaru. Liberty mutual – same. l/l2 & shirt tail out

/l.a. ink, Miami ink

/if too moralistic about prost, they maybe too too bout abort, stem … porn?

/Cialis ad: 3 day stubble 2/l2

/fundamental schs – in s.a. folks would line up for them

/farm kids

/my cat from hell. Billy the exterminator, ancient aliens, celebrity ghost stories, river monsters, storage wars, shipping wars.

/walmartians, walmart shoppers

/eur countries with such classic palaces, formal gardens, music, art, cul …… all that and couldn’t stay out of war.

/billy graham: – We have exploited the poor and called it the lottery. We have rewarded laziness and called it welfare. We have killed our unborn and called it choice. We have shot abortionists and called it justifiable… We have neglected to discipline our children and called it building self esteem. We have polluted the air with profanity and pornography and called it freedom of expression.

/disorder in the courts.

/more running from cops?

/search the def of sweet – lovable, cuddly, scrumcious, delectable, charming, gentle, dear, adorable, wholesome, ingratiating, polite, respectful,

/hi sch teacher on tv had a tattoo on her upper arm. 2/l2

/entitlements goes with social promotion

/search the % who don’t have a will

/Italian cruise ship grounded – cheapened by spec effects

/never thot some could trade such crude email

/how can sam with such a heart have a mean streak – thing that threw squirrel off a railing. Also one of Michele Obama as a ………………?

how $ can help you:

/long range goals,

/invest,

/health, better neigh in terms of safety, quiet, grace = -schs-ed, bkk, beat game,get ahead-better yourself, move to far better climate, bigger tools, pass people – not in a petty way, but just as a matter of course. Help your kids and rels and friends, better soc clubs?

How it can hurt you: drugs, vanity, excess, waste = …. Ego,

 

Give the Ref a Gavel By ELDON L. HAM The real obstacle to prosecuting excessive violence in sports may be our culture’s macho conception of athletes, who are expected to “man up” in the face of threats to their safety.

/hm dep’s music has to be hard on staff and bad for biz. Bill said Atlanta governs it. store mng can only drop the vol a bit

/parking wars

/hillbilly handfishing

/river monsters

/larry the cable guy

/Kathy griffin

Hospitals Aren’t Hotels By THERESA BROWN We might like to say it shouldn’t be, but physical pain and emotional suffering tend to be inseparable from standard care.

/how many teachers quit. How many would advise ed students to change majors

/whatever happened to clean cut

/dwyane Johnson, the rock, explaining his tattoo. Gosh, how good for a role model

/decline of val adds to aa

/klan member killed blk, tearfully asked forgiveness of blk’s ma in crt. She forgave him. Not a dry eye in the courtrm. 00000000000

/resp big for kids: break it you pay for it. then less vandalism. Fix

/1. How complex are the questions and considerations of prices at the pump, what factors are involved and the global process that is constantly in flux.

/2. The civility of the proceedings as compared to what we normally see when the network cameras are doing the coverage and the posturing and partisan bluster that goes along with the photo ops. It almost restored my faith in the political process.

/is moto’s stuff degrading

/why not more outrage at graffiti on subways in ny in 70s

/terrible sneeze in pt, not just air, not into fist, no excuse me. Someone yelled god bless you. then she did it again. Shock

/ Youthful Tattoos Turn Into Grown-Up RegretsWMUR

/these tuff street fighters in hi sch every step into a ring with gloves, headgear, a ref,

/globe trecker – shirt out, jeans …

/these dr. ben notes bring out the mischief then. I wonder if that was by spoiled ones? Too much for now

/I bet some patients want to return home from hosp without any fanfare.

/ bullying. Some movie called bully

/g says ams spoiled by entitlements

/ever a survey bout foreigners here being better workers, ils, same with gender, age, ethnic

/7 deadly sins: wrath, greed , sloth , pride , lust , envy , and gluttony. Ag: greed the only one to hold up

/TIME had a cover of breastfeeding may? 012

/

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/miami ink, ny ink, la ink

/hockey violence, soccer hoodlims

/la st racers on nat geo

/capital of kitsch

/how do women feel bout comments on st

/will allen author of good food rev. on cspan? With hoody type sweat shirt, baseball hat, sleeves rolled up to elbows. Ty of blks

/niall furgerson said eur u’s have been rubbish since ’68.

/Anchors Get Giddy Around The Crown By ALESSANDRA STANLEY

Why do American television anchors make spectacles of themselves when covering events that involve British royalty?

/critics didn’t like dirty harry, but public loved it. [had to make amends with magnum force?

/clint e was rep… but a social lib…

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Am’s tops in trash. Poor savers, obese, many run down menial labor,

/world is getting overweight. In the west 1/3^rd are. Guy on british panel was. You think. What a waste. Same with pawn stars

/bruce cutler as judge on tv

 / French Diplomat Accused by Wife of Raping Daughter

NEW DELHI–Indian police questioned a French diplomat after his wife alleged he had repeatedly raped their almost four-year-old daughter. 6/l6/l2 wsj

/skip: idiot abroad

/ http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702303410404577466662919275448.html?mod=WSJ_hp_mostpop_read

/search vows, foolish vows

/forgiveness is a morality play.

/even with hyenas making a kill at night, they keep switching from infared to nite vision

/verbally abusing parking enforcers

/outside the lh mall code of conduct [circle of respect] 6/l2 l5 pts.

/having your own sm biz is like having your own hm, blog, etc – independ…

/ex soldier said war so bad he never complained about anything since

Open shirt looks better with a t shirt underneath

/trashy

/repo with all the threats, fights shows you how far we’ve fallen

/gated communities sprang up in the 80s. said tv. Confirm it

/2 asian women touring shanghai. One a local, the other – probably an am of Asian descent. Lst one had the grace, manners, class. The am was put on, role playing, ….

/outdoor kit on tv – $$$. There are barbeque stores

/Wisconsin Killer Fed and Was Fueled by Hate-Driven Music By ERICA GOODE and SERGE F. KOVALESKI Wade M. Page, who the authorities said killed six people at a Sikh temple, was a white supremacist who performed in a racist rock band.

/fam is the least valuable thing, said sigorny weaver

/compromises: Normandy over on its side, then coop with mob? Got g sci after war for our rocket development. Let off some jap.. officers in turn for info on chem weapons? The new g and the old nazies. Using the mafia when taking over scicily. So compromise on abort…

/what animals did vs elvis.

/if they took all the ed bs: music, art, sports, esteem …. And taught a trade, grads could get a job

/3 day stubble – purina dog chow

/white castle had all kinds of regs for staff’s appearance etc. lst time I’ve seen such

/repo on tv. You wonder if we are civilized

/terrible language of blks on hardcore pawn. Lizard lick. Disturbing the peace, disorderly c….

/ladyboys as flight attendants in thai –

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6CRdqiW4p8A

/manners mean no ego

/gary spoon sent kids to pri sch as he wanted good kids

/guy talking to lausd In short pants,

/Hollywood plays to a younger aud and thus has to bring up sex: vamps, butterfield 8, pretty woman, a woman of pleasure with Catherine dunavev,

/search hand on crotch touching selves

/a city councilman was creating some problem. Chief of police and officer there to remove him. Sprayed and removed him. City had to pay him $65k. on tv

/bullying wasn’t an issue in sch for us

/polygamy when women are so monogamous.

/joe scarboro even ate while others were talking

/2 postal workers in short pants, shirt tails out. The weather wasn’t hot. One with baseball cap backwards with postal logo on it.

/jerry springer is inciting a riot on a minor scale. Fix

/peter Jennings said of some traffic problem out here, ‘during the whole day, not a single horn was blown’

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 / What Hong Kong Workers Really Want

Workers in Asia clock more hours on the job than any other continent, and with Hong Kong as one of Asia’s hardest-working places, a new survey says the city is sorely in need of better work-life balance.

/mingo didn’t know not to buy a new car. Go too. So maybe same for bing.

/dog the bounty hunter never mentions tradval, nor do all such programs

/as much vulgarity as possible re Asian beach or whatever – http://www.secondose.com/another-ordinary-day-at-the-beach-in-china/

/how many theaters have sec guards

/moto sent a dirty-seedy one to Kathy gerrard

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/ – trim till you get to huge am fatties at the end.

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/ Super cheap mex program with gal hanging out of her dress – couldn’t find it

/ fernada tapia of almohadazo el noti

/studio 2, larry hernanez – mex ch. Raunchy. Big t and a.

/madona in a outer bullet bra on ‘ellen’ . recent? l0/l2

/why not ratings for the most disgusting programs on tv. Idiot abroad

/big interrupter on morning squawk with betty quick

/lucky are the young couples that are natural without hangups. They can enjoy s….

/how does mika Brzezinski put up with insufferable joe scarborough obnoxious joe scarborough –

obnoxious joe scarborough

 or betty quick put up with the interrupter on morning squawk

/howard stern private parts. His bare rear outfit on tv

/if so much forgiveness, why have courts, jails, etc.

/discretion is the better part of valor.

/grace is …………under pressure

/forgive: comfort women, the disappeared, grudge, resolve?, vengeance

/luck is when prep meets op said the roman Seneca?

/jap: it’s the effort

/3 day ……. Fab.com

/images. Search stubble vs clean

/not r & r out of nowhere: swing, lindy?, boggie woogie, jitterbug

/faux ha hair style

/moto + in a contest to see who can go the lowest – some culture? eats turkey testicles. No wonder I didn’t have much in common with them in hi sch. You wonder if his bro, billy fell out due to this

/thinking that prayers and flying the flag makes a diff.

/sweet people are genuine

/you’re born with talent, but not integrity

/geo. Jefferson said something bout ‘if there isn’t love in it, skip it.’

/disorder in the court

/oc urology waiting rm: short pants on 3 guys in dec. longish gym shorts on a woman, kid and ma with shoes on furn. Woman in sweats

/forgiveness, amnesty

/sympathy is found between shit and syphilis

/whatever happened to clean cut

/strapping a xmas tree directly on top of a Mercedes

/male hair style brushed so it peaks in the middle.

/l000 cams at one casino vs big bro.

/the hair of latest mass murderer in newtown, conn, full throttle saloon,

/tell joe biden to forget his tragedy or Daniel inoye to grow a new arm.

/amish slaughter: tore down the sch, built new one. Same with other places. Sandy hook thinking of it. Library at columbine torn down and atrium built

/belt hanging down

/search dressed down culture

/see xmas

/ blk congresswoman with hat on in? congress – Frederica Wilson

/that slut jillian reynolds with the cleavage next to steve Edwards. She’s on some commercial

/I think in sch it was no gum

/is the sugar bowl gone from the breakfast table

/ever heard a spoiled kid or person thank anyone sincerely?

/that miserable greg gutlick? Said something about buggers boogers. Wow, I turned the ch. l/3?/l3

/huffington post headline l/5/l3: divided and pissed off

/too much concentration on heros, legendary …

/real housewives of NY, NJ? Really show the cul there. Real ones of Miami are bad. Of Atlanta – probably the same and blk. Bev hills?

/direct tv has a disgusting ad

/the hayes code for flix in 40s?ruff and abruptear from me. erelissimorewing?] scholarship to kansasas id looks up – endearing

/flic the jerk. Kid’s t-shirt says bull shit

/ ‘Amish Mafia’ is a shameful, unrealistic portrayal of plain people …

www.washingtonpost.com/…/amish–mafia…/dd10e6fe-3a68-11e2-b0…

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Nov 29, 2012 – New Discovery Channel show is latest mockery of the Amish and Mennonites, says a D.C. writer. Also: http://blurbrain.com/discovery-channel-amish-mafia-virtually-fake/

Pauline Phillips, Flinty Adviser to Millions as Dear Abby, Dies at 94 By MARGALIT FOX

With her comic, tart-tongued yet fundamentally sympathetic voice, Mrs. Phillips helped wrestle the advice column from its weepy Victorian past into a hard-nosed 20th-century present.

/terrible ad by direct tv j!!!!! disgusting !!!

/that statue of kid taking a leak. A Naughty Little Statue in Brussels Turns Into a Big Marketing Hit

This city is home to the NATO, the European Union and countless priceless works of art. But for promotion, Belgium’s capital increasingly turns to a tiny, misbehaving boy.

o Video: Belgian Statue Is Making a Splash

o Photos: Fun With the Manneken

 

/could you say smoking is vain, combing hair over the top?

/maybe some don’t have cc’s as they know they run em up

/motorcycles are vanity for some. Leather jackets too? Being in a biker club?

 Platform shoes, big hair, affectations

/why make fun of a limited guy with idiot abroad. Then send along a dwarf to, in effect, rub it in for the aud

/search pandering

/yani in china – in t shirt. Members of the band in blue jeans

The Land of the Binge By FRANK BRUNI With sequestration around the corner and bacon on every plate, America could use a dose of moderation.

/freedom within a framework – my rules?

/weapons screening at entrance to superior court here, pull out c phones? and all

/churchill’s quotes – http://jpetrie.myweb.uga.edu/bulldog.html

/harriet beecher stowe lost a child. Something about that giving her an deeper understanding of suffering which she …….her to write uncle tom’s cabin.

/idiot abroad.

/simplicity is the height of sophistication

/steve kroft on 60 min in sport coat over blue jeans 2/l3 but on tues nite

/rednecks with pants down showing 5” band of u wear. If we saw this in a for… country, we’d wonder what’s wrong with em. Animal control off had a piercing thru his brow

/michelle Obama now in bangs in the 2^nd terms.

/mailman: 4 day stubble, shirttail out. Hmless?

/dr ben stuff is sick; you don’t even want to know seniors spend time on this, much less guys you went thru school with

/some scenes from dirty dancing

/have gated comm’s grown due to decline of values

/infectiously calm = clint

/ The Brutality Cascade By DAVID BROOKS In some competitions, the most brutal player gets to set the rules

/l965 – sc strikes down laws banning contraceptives

/l973 – am psych assc drops homo… as a mental disorder

2003 – rules that sodomy laws are unconst…

/repo is cheapo

/search the am dream

/everyday looks like casual Friday

/eye place – scrubs and tennies

/dentist – assist had t shirt hanging out couple inches past his scrub top

Teaching empathy: 1 did they ever suffer 2 were there some who should have seen it. 3 those that did and did 0. 4 those that did? Accidentally stepping on a spider half way. Have someone stand on corner on one leg. Or the check out line get real long while staff is around

/Gloria alred said tiger woods should 1 take resp 2 aknowledge the wrong they’ve done to the person 3 make amends to that person

/ a world in which jeans and golf shirts are acceptable at the office, celebrities have to be reminded to cover themselves when appearing on the red carpet and the attire in airport terminals looks better suited to a track meet than to air travel

shoulder-padded power suits, windbreakers in neon colors and frizzy hair — not exactly a time that will be remembered for its classic elegance. One of the most polite things you can do for other people is to dress nicely, because you’re not being an eyesore. I sometimes see guys with jeans, flannel, and baseball caps at the symphony in l.b. like they just rolled out of bed or looking like they were cleaning out the garage or coming from the gym. .

/the old ads show how the times have changed – status of women, drs rec brands of cigs, baby drinking 7up,

/bouncers at clubs said dressier crowds are more cooperative

/much of reality? Tv is made up of several cameramen, soundmen, drummers and men to keep jerking the cameras all around , switching cams, zooming, panning, jumping cheap tricks to make everything worse.

/why I ran. Should be required in schools, jails, etc. same? With I almost got away with it. And runaway squad. Animal prescient

/all standing when arguing on steve wilkos

/ag: raised on trophies and entitlements

/said she didn’t lead with her chest, but look how she dressed on a big date

/never hold the camera still

/house hunting in rome down beautiful narrow alleys with graffiti on the walls.

/wsj, 7/25/l3 what really happens when you flush on an airplane

/scaring people to death. Probably on am’s funniest hm vids

/around the world in 80 days. Condescending? Too staged

/all these have to talk macho: secret service, all mil, swat teams

/Google Glass: An Etiquette Guide

/storage wars: out to celebrate. She dresses up. He puts on his black shorts with a t-shirt

/pi cg’s vs am cg’s

/ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/An_Idiot_Abroad search ‘cruel’ torture, etc. I don’t believe this – ag. The guy has no int in this. Set up. Guys at hm pull strings. Poor guy

/g said am is so individualistic that it’s loneliness is worse – spec for foreigners as in pi all know all.

/time mag has had as man of the year: hitler, stalin?

man of the year 1938

And person of the year:

/insensitivity toward filming animals in the wild. Elephant and vehicle with cam

/jerk camera, everyone yelling and panting, drumbeat and other spec effects

/2500 episodes of maury – so cheap. = mma

/sweetness is unassuming and in no way egotistical

/ India Needs a Sexual Revolution How to stop the constant harassment? Change the country’s puritanical culture.

/ the American Dream. It promises equal opportunities and the chance for everyone to prosper through hard work.

/how much law breaking goes on during repo, springer,

How many deplorable destructive tactics on murray

/traditional secular values . wow. Sig

/tv: it only hurts when I laugh. Injuries. Had one baby being terrified

/wearing baseball cap backwards –

why wear baseball cap backwards

/ to k and smit? a  3 day stubble,   shirttail out, tattoos,  piercings, that dumb faux hair style with little puffs sticking up, scruffy jeans bunched up around sockless tennies,  and you chew gum, are loud, unwashed,  razzle dazzle, with dumb patronizing jokes.   Also LOUD country-western music, bawdy stuff on the walls, and bawdy tales of all the 12 step programs and encounter groups you’re in as a ‘seeker of truth.’    Work into this the redneck TV you’re watching – repo, maury, jerry springer, duck dynasty, lizard lick towing and hillbilly handfishing.  – – – – -#

Baseball cap backwards. Cameras jerking

/program red eye with greg gutnek?

/howard stern on am’s got talent? With leather coat, shades, hair, and probably smart aleck comments

/bud krogh: convicted felon, 4 marriages, yet man of the year at principia

/search by some men wear a hat on tv

/’rotten tomatoes’ is some sort of review of flix. It’s title = 0 and ty of hippies

/is smoking vanity?

/worker at best buy has a quarter sized disk in each ear lobe

/a town in nj made kids pull their pants up, said don imus

/gal with natural eyebrows on tv looked sooo much better. Search natural eyebrows

/the redneck-ization of am

/some new series called honey boo boo …… on tv. Kid blows a fart

/accepted in thai for men in hi positions to have young girlfriends, said net

/ saggy pants –

saggy pants

/m sent ans mach msg or maroochydore hi sch, queensland, oz disputed? Hoax? –

maroochydore high school

/far too much razzle in describing k-pop. How to get the teen market

/naked and afraid

/Art That Turns Both Heads and Stomachs By ERIK PIEPENBURG Seeking thrills in entertainment that makes us faint, swoon or vomit.

/ California did not repeal its sodomy law until 1976

/lizard lick towing, guy picked up cycle, fell off, friend came, pushed friend down, friend helped, pushed him down again 7/l3

/farmers ins: clean shaven older guy, sport coat, tie, vest and …………..JEANS 7/l3

/tv: the art of bout graffiti as art. Oh boy

/world’s fair like the Olympics?

/animals doing a bump. M Jackson with jockey strap, and crotch grab. Vs elvis

/ben moto sends around eth stuff, but not the ones about the comfort women

/nat geo: bad @ss animals

 /Europe Walks Fine Line With Lawsuits

Some businesses are worried that as the foundation for class-action lawsuits spreads around Europe, the culture of litigiousness and big damage awards prevalent in the U.S. could follow.

/mike rowe + saying ‘pissed off’ 8/l3

/hooligan TV: outlaw bikers – with the lo voice

/redneck TV

/we used to save wrapping paper

/so bch tow is the worst

/the growing lack of empathy in the cul said a guy on fox news

/vals down, less empathy, more macho guns.

/scaring hell out of people on tv, probably utube

/larry the cable guy. Off color

/street heat high speed justice

/la street racers?

/ author of THIS TOWN said the shouting matches on cable

/has anyone written anything against tats

/dumb facial foliage, spec effects, cam tricks, bleeping out ….., yelling,

/amish mafia – designed by jerry springer?

/spoiled kids more prone to hurt pets? Ag

/south beach tow, lizard lick towing, repo,

/hard core pawn was in Detroit. another branch in chi

/values at annual picnics: boats, fluff, not health

/tv exploits people on maury, jerry springer, amish mafia

/we’re tuff on ils but let our people do anything: live off welfare, going around in saggy pants, ….

/am. Slang. Narrator has terrible hair

/mistreating each other makes it easier to mistreat animals

/gator boys on tv. Also bad ink

/pets on the couch

/gills said st parks have gone to the dogs

/tattoos: juries will be less sym….. employers

/loud car sound sys are rude, but also distracting, thus should be ill. More so for seniors

/few or no mentions of what the animal must be going thru on tv: crocs, snakes, Wildman,

/kardashians – cheap: kim doing some moves in vegas while bruce gets his colon….

/Roberta graham had terrible time with hired help. Olders didn’t know computers, youngers were lazy.

/sex saved ………… and sure helped g

/ program? Called lottery changed my life

/how can walmart let their staff go around in tight clothes

/kind of felt sorry for itty bitty Asian worker putting things into bags

/tommy lee goes to c

/the Nairobi trio

/youth suicides: bullying not discouraged by j springer, mauray, wipe out, most shocking?, dumbest criminals?

Callous , desensitizing shows

/ea day is the lst day of the rest of your life

/masturbation lessens sex crimes? Ag

/operation repo: pushing, spraying, 2 guys on the ground….. mayhem. Why do we have cops. Muscular guy , bald, on continual ego trip.

/l.a. street racers – program. Glorifies it. indulges having stolen cars, adrenalin rush, burn outs, donuts, were in gangs, addicted to speed, [blurred their faces but ….]

/long star legend – on tv. Blond guy with black 3 day or beard

/search punish success

/ginger? – the shape on gilligans island = trash

/from all the moto mail, it seems our youth sure ate out a lot more than I did.

/search forgiveness

/ sweet person

/search punish success

/what people say they want and want in the long run are diff: mcdonald’s mclean burgers were sot. Flopped big time. If people wait more than 5 min in a drive thru, they’ll never come back. [so why not have those without accents?]

/forgive and forget so you can later have ptsd

/ forgive –

forgiveness

/blue laws: no stores open on sun

/those who tell you to forget it, trivialize it

/some delight in bad moments for others: ben: models in heels falling. Wipe out, talk soup, world’s dumbest, fear factor? Other people’s misfortunes. Laughing at people getting hurt.

/freedom, resp, spoiling a kid,

/kmart’s ad jingle balls –

/imagine hutch’s folks – how they must have felt about their grandkids

/before political correctness, unpoped kernels of popcorn were called old maids and spinsters. Tv

/569 variations of the f word in the wolf of wall st. about Jordan Belfort – an all time record

/spoiled: billy carter. Those who spoil selves: cris Farley, j balushi, whitney housten

/pete seeger – conscience of a nation. Oh boy. Was also in the commie party

/scofflaws

/search why wear baseball cap backwards or to the side

/mrs. Faulkner said when they came back from eur, no one wanted to work

/page on net of girls that sure looked under age.

/3 day stubbles, tattoos, piercings, torn jeans, tufted hair on men that sticks up, scruffiness, people on TV taking GIANT mouthfuls of food and chewing with great effort

/even jo’s kids wished they’d lived in the 50s

/failure is the fire that forges the steel for success. Marble helped me

——————– – – – –

Pridham:   We are in a sense, prisoners in our own home because of the needed care that Mom requires just to survive.  We can’t leave our home unless there is someone her to watch over her that can give her the same loving treatment that we would give.

But we wouldn’t trade our situation for anything.  She is my mother and both Camy and I love her.  She is our responsibility; not the responsibility of the government nor a “professional staff” of ‘care givers’ (who would not be caregivers if it were not for the paychecks they receive for their services).

One last thought.  When Mom came to live with us, we had (up till that time) a nominal friendship with many Muslims.  When they found out that Mom had come to live with us their attitude toward us changed remarkably.  They were extra friendly and somewhat amazed at what we had done.

You see, the world looks to the U.S. as a great land of financial opportunity, but very few want to come to America to become “Americans”.  They want the American dollar then “get out”.  The perception of Americans by the rest of the world is that they don’t want their elderly “hanging around” any more.  They don’t want a Grandpa or Grandma living with the family to have their wisdom and input into their grandchildren.  They don’t want their children to see their grandparents getting older and feeble and die.  To the rest of the world, growing old and dying are as natural as a new birth and living.  But all this takes place within the family life.

We, as Americans, should be ashamed of the way we have turned against the elderly and toward the unborn baby.

But, that’s America of the 21st century as perceived by the world.  It’s no wonder, in one sense, why we are hated by most foreigners.  We have become a most selfish and uncaring society.  We give our money – but not ourselves and that simply won’t cut it.

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/charming natural girls of l3 on boat with fam with ceasar milan. Kids to be crazy about.

/ Video: Thrift Store Shame, Then Pride Clare Connaughton, a high school student from Mineola, N.Y., reads from her college application essay about how shopping at thrift stores with her mother has gone from necessity to cherished pastime. Related Article

/why wear baseball cap backwards

/ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forgiveness

Forgiveness is different from

/condoning (failing to see the action as wrong and in need of forgiveness),

/excusing (not holding the offender as responsible for the action),

/pardoning (granted by a representative of society, such as a judge),

/forgetting (removing awareness of the offense from consciousness), and

/reconciliation (restoration of a relationship).^[1]

 

In certain contexts, forgiveness is a legal term for absolving or giving up all claims on account of debt, loan, obligation or other claims.^[4][5]

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/feel good is somehow similar to forgiveness.

/catcher in rye how to doc that you have never grown up and ensure that you don’t

/brokaw – jr hi stus, flashlights –

brokaw

Sagging pants:

http://forajulproductions.com/metropolitan-etiquette-authority-signs-of-civility-hitting-the-streets/

/search new car every year

/ the 50s – a time when the performers were happy, enjoying themselves, respecting their fans, dressed appropriately and their lyrics could be understood.
They did not feel obligated to scream, eat the microphone, mumble inaudible lyrics or trash the set.
/the rock, Dwayne Johnson, was being booed, couldn’t be creative. Then allow to be bad guy, did, and became an overnight success. In flic with Michael Clarke Duncan – huge blk guy

/The Habits of Highly Annoying People

/the 90s decade: bad report: tupac shakir, rapper killed by …. Vanilla ice is a disgusting rapper, so is ice cube. Tonya harding was a big fake said connie chung. She came in 8^th, nancy Kerrigan won the silver. Tonya’s ex hit her knee [and got what penalty?] the skating assoc said tonya knew of it [before?] and barred her for life. Pac man, vcr, macrona,

/we didn’t put our feet on the furn, or sit on the back of bus stops, or sit on the ground,

/count the number times they switch cameras. Notice the spec effects – often a drumbeat

/marriage at first sight? Naked and afraid

/you learn vals from sports, scouts, Sunday sch, ….

/what gills said bout the wash mon…. in d.c. sick. Like web soup. No one wants to hear that or even learn that anyone would think like that? what about all the obelisks in Egypt

/gills, m, – the farther out it is, the more they buy into it

/ la sch disc., etc – there’s a higher offense of “battery” which goes to city

/community rather than school officials. and of course even higher offenses such as assault is handled by police. fighting may be scuffling – pushing around etc…it’s up to the police officer to determine the level of violence

/harm involved.

/evil and heros

/poise of brit commentators on bbc

/ all the swings are being removed from Richland schools.  Richland, Washington.  The insurance companies have been lobbying for it because they are causing too many injuries and the injuries are costing the insurance companies too much money

/you don’t call people names: fatty, retard, short …? 4 eyes, punk, dummy, freak, gimp,

/tv: parking lady says they can curse her, but not the cops

/ tv little fockers – a flic with d’niro and lorna dern

/Anthony bourdain parts unknown. Could he ever tuck his shirt in. and wear something besides super scruffy jeans?

/to jo: Times are diff… things better and worse and I should know, but I get sick of so many of our schoolmates being sour grapes about the youth and times.

/ag: farm kids probably have lower dj and better mh due to wk ….

/far as I know ims don’t go around with pants so low their underwear shows

/something on tv about shared …… young gals with married sugar daddies

/naked and afraid, live free or die, legend of mike ……

Live below zero?

/ Most sexually satisfied country: Switzerland
Switzerland might just be the most progressive and least sexually repressed country in the world. Between liberal views on pornography and prostitution, and sex ed that starts in Kindergarten, over a fifth of the population consider their sex-lives “excellent.” They even recently opened up a very successful array of tax-funded drive-in sex boxes in Zurich . Bonus, in spite of all this, Switzerland also holds the title as one of the lowest teen birth rates in the world.

/what did I learn from sea scouts, sch, cg, sports,

/is it lust when you’re with your wife?

/ the real program with blk bitches. How they talk – worse than any redneck

/tonight show with jimmy fallon – had a vulgar rap band. Guy in orange leather jacket kept grabbing his crotch

/the little guy is patriotic cause that’s all he has

/teamwork, hygene, attire, grooming,

/vals for cr: intuition

/unskilled work is now menial and demeaning

/pawn stars: dumb corry shot his dad with a bazooka toy. I turned channel. Later came back. black eye and still the bazooka

/moto takes cute, sentimental stuff then craps on it

/still after gays in the early 60s. wow. dean rusk said they don’t have? em in the st dept

Apa said it was mh. Shock ther…. Stonewall- l969. 4 yrs later apa took it off the list of mh.

 

/ Video: Johnny T on ‘Manspreading’

The viral video star Johnny T, from the Glove and Boots YouTube channel, talks to The New York Times about “manspreading,” the bane of many New York City subway riders.

Related Article

/taking one’s family for a wk in Tuscany. Dj to Italy – didn’t like it

/this xmas – tons of feel good in the media

/staying out of debt and

/earning $ just to pay bills is blood money

/some schmates get so much out of schmaltz – flag, auld lang zine, mil, plaques at sch – also bear, cars, naked women, raunch, radio city m hall, vegas,

/I notice the chubbies coming thru the check out country were buying the sugary stuff

/the queen of versaille

/paternity court terrible whiney nasty yelling voice raised way up of judge

Disgrace & insult to judicial sys and vals. Banchi , putting on a big show. Ego, rant, bitch lauren lake. Tabloid talk – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lauren_Lake’s_Paternity_Court street talk, should have never been given a bench or even a case

/polygamy. polyandry –

polyandry

/$35,000 per nite for a hotel rm.

/simplicity is the ultimate sophistication

/baggage with j springer. Disgusting

/the arts: art, sculpt, music, dance, pix, writing, flix, tv?

/ even a poor person can be spoiled

/we could walk to sch safely at jefferson vs

/polygamy considered slavery by the fed gov. sig

/lisa ling? On tv re sugar babies & sugar daddies

/search youth worship

/courage is doing what you’re afraid to do. Me using self-disc and self control to do what

/I can’t see marriage at this stage. Too restricting. Too much about betrayal, cheating …

/when young schools didn’t have to have live in guards

/never explained french kissing.

/appreciate this country more re curbs, sidewalks, overcrowded motobikes etc of ….

/how sub teaching declined for me

/some of moto’s stuff – unbelievable schmaltz over funeral. I guess that how some people fight their battles.

/little girl scouts in f & e were secure, calm, CLEAN-cut, natural, well-behaved, polite, not figeting – so refreshing, you rarely see kids like that.

/search british tradition of fair play

/super clean subway stations and train in Moscow. Sig

/

Op-Ed | Pamela Druckerman

Decoding the Rules of Conversation

By PAMELA DRUCKERMAN

The French love to land zingers. The British live in the land of irony. And Americans? It’s all about reassurance.

/tv: acid thrown on girl. [Odette said could have happened to me]

/blk muslims

/ capitalism’s core values: discipline, education, work habits, thrift, prudence, adherence to routine, and the relation between effort and reward’

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No Kids for Me, Thanks NYT Now

Whether you call it a “childless” life or going “child-free,” it represents a demographic shift.

/our youth was less permissive, trophies, entitled, stu loans

/someone else that ….. b. trembley

/search how many movies have the underlying theme of sex

the journey

/does einsurance on tv have something about kick-ass

/if we forgive gunman at Charleston, then why have a trial, let him go

/why are baseball caps worn backwards or to the side . dup? –

baseball caps

Why do some guys wear stocking caps indoors

Why do band members wear hats

Why do blacks wear hats indoors

/search polygamy in other countries. Also female polygamy

 

Disillusioned: The Long Decline of Trust in Government, and Why That Can Be Patriotic

/go thru 7 deadly sins and l0 comm…

/new Louisiana law: fine anyone sagging their pants

/guys with worst voices narrating the running of the bulls. They legitimize it.

What Are the Consequences of Our Cultural Obsession With Newness?

Siddhartha Deb and Anna Holmes discuss what we gain and lose in the onrush of the new.

 

/ we used to teach kids manners, but got the idea it was wrong [in 60s]

/ sr yr costs at palos verdes penisual hi sch 0l4-0l5: colle apps and visits – about 5k prome, hmcm, wijter formal l460, pest prfep and fees 980, grad 853, teacher giftgs 365, senior pix 300, hrbk ll2, other 5860 [but no ring] total l4,882 la times 7/l5

/ polyandry

/2 sisters or twin girls around 21 on antigue rd show. Wholesome farm types. Sounded same, finished ea other sentences. Decent, well-manered with tiffany lamp. Went on about bot for $200 and told it was no tiff…. Appraiser interjected , told details, then said worth 80k-l25k. their faces clouded together and they began crying. They appraiser hugged em. Nothing cuter, sweeter.

/in civil right movement they were dressed up [and got beat up]

/k pop etc – CLEAN vs return of motely crew

/slouching toward gamorrah, closing of the am mind by bloom?

/sch disc is far more important than sch prayer

/ wedlock kids

Search same for shotgun marriage kids

/should be proper courtoom attire, decorum, big bad d

/rocky music to the new world trade center is TACKY

/homework hotline on tv – a teacher in blue jeans

/ Woman Hears Over 100 Cat Calls Walking Through NYC mostly blk? In

Hollaback ! is a harassment awareness grp http://www.ihollaback.org/

/seeing moks or anyone being kept alive when no right to die

/don’t be tardy – miss implants

/lot of women wearing hair long, natural luster ….. nice l0/l5

/ on cops sometimes they keep moving the cam

/picket never forgave Robert e lee for ordering the charge.

/feisel never forgave l of arabia

/tv: am’s most badass

/bowling for columbine

/drums before dawn in Griffith park, continuing for hrs. la times ll/6/l5

/search every year a new car

/kim fields, blk child start, now blond – terrible

/reciprocity vs handouts

/does any grp make movies without tons of smoking?

/Vaughn meader’s the first family

/why do blacks wear hats indoors

/married at first sight should be illegal

/foreigners seem to be more genuine

/the very human repairmen – some guy who checked something at my hse after the fire, saying it was too bad, you don’t need to start the new yr this way.

 art loya who wanted my tel lines in so I could rent rms and loved my empty garage which his wife would love.

/some foreigners seem more real

/ Good judgment comes from experience, and experience comes from bad judgment.

/in the old days schools didn’t have live in security staff

/sweet people have no concern with ego, ostentation

/debbie boone – put on. Implants?

Married at lst sight – ever in your life heard of a worse idea? Should be illegal. Playing with other people’s lives. Think of the legal implications

Words I don’t want coming to my blog: badass, ass, ass…, cunt, twat, pussy,

/how much $ does Singapore save by banning gum

/that society celebrates jim Harrison ! for his poetry, fiction, reviews, and writings about food is beyond me.

jim harrison

2 yrs older and a WRECK

/search what % of tabloid stories were proven true

/sweetness – means no ego, vanity, … they are genuine, consistent – like a kid

/foreign tour guides or whatever dressed up, ams who interview them are not, nor as polite

/the person who glosses over a wrong is worse than the wrongdoer. No reality, empathy, compassion, humanity. No justice, blame the victim, let it eat him alive and lose faith in people and the system and rel too shows you what rel can do

/ ted cruz spoke of NY values.

/sul: sbfj = sweet boneless fucking jesus tmi = too much info

/purpose of marriage is kids. Not nec

/ma would say some stay just within the law

/if people spent as much on healthy as they do on food, they’d be ahead

/snoop dog was with Martha stewart? He was with cloie

/no white knows what it’s like to be black, Hispanic…… etc animals, blood sports, pets, ims, prost, poor, lgbt,

/be flex: Nimitz + made mistakes and were adjusted for

/palin’s moustache

/they don’t run debates right, nor the trump rallies. Cops looked asleepe

/your work is one of the least disappointing parts of life, said betty davis

/some film reviewer named ‘rotten tomatoes’

/to ape the ignorant, lowest common denominator

/search values that have changed

/like many celebrities, prince died without a will

/setting people up for conflict , jerry springer, should be a crime

/homework hotline ……………pony tail ….

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/ * Japan prevents the use of mobile phones in trains, restaurants and indoors.

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* For first to sixth primary year Japanese students must learn ethics in dealing with people.
* Even though one of the richest people in the world, the Japanese do not have servants. The parents are responsible for the house and children.
* There is no examination from the first to the third primary level because the goal of education is to instill concepts and character building.
* If you go to a buffet restaurant in Japan you will notice people only eat as much as they need without any waste because food must not be wasted.
* The rate of delayed trains in Japan is about 7 seconds per year!!
The Japanese appreciate the value of time and are very punctual to minutes and seconds.
* Children in schools brush their teeth (sterile) and clean their teeth after a meal at school, teaching them to maintain their health from an early age.
* Japanese students take half an hour to finish their meals to ensure proper digestion

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/those who believe in self-reliance: Mormons, rural, search

/search hat on indoors cap on indoors blacks and hats

/world’s deadliest catch: young guys started, made big $ and blew it on cars +.

/$63 mil proposed for hi sch football stadium in tex. 2 others already built for 60? mil each 5/l6 tv

/ I’ll never go on a cruise. They are only floating hotels. Such tinsel. No interest in vegas either – the capital of kitsch. Also super luxury fine dining.

I also hate ‘feel-good’ and stupid movies. I love to hate. Did I leave anything out? Blood sports, rodeos, special Olympics as well the Olympics

/re collection = mostly pablum: smile, heart, good deed, prayer, nerves, rest, ad nausium

/ people take too big a bite

/no divorce in pi. What about for protestants

/Nixon didn’t like all in the family?

/search how common is open marriage –

open marriage

/bot a new car every yr

/even if you have too much in your room, to have it orderly rm is good for moral.

/how diff societies treat beggars

/no empathy means no credit

/time does not heal all wounds. Forgive, revenge,

/to afremov: few things in life touch it’s depth like your art – dr. zhivago, rodin, Irene pappas, russell crowe, brando, it’s vital to those of us who feel and think deeply. eternal thanks

  Anthony quinn? Heston? ——————– – – – https://afremov.com/help.php?section=contactus&mode=sent&keep_https=yes

/good seats for ‘hamilton’ in NY are over $800 6/l6

/we had sugar bowls on the breakfast table

/forgiveness flies in the face of justice. Ag

/ http://simpleandrefinedwoman.blogspot.com/2015/08/steps-to-becoming-elegant-woman.html

/you don’t often find adults who are as sweet as kids

/why these big: cats, ….Virginia wolfe, plot of the grad…, man of la mancha

/will Viagra make you LUST? Could this be the work of ……..SATAN ? !!!!

/hero rides into rome in big procession. On chariot with slave holding a golden crown and whispering all glory is fleeting –

conqueror’s entrance into rome all glory is fleeting

/80s the decade that made us. Our pop culture influenced the world: It went to ussr and marked the beginning of the end.

/defining deviancy downward – monyhan?

/I didn’t mean to interrupt you by talking

/guy in casket wearing a baseball cap – looks blk

/search how long it take to develop good work habits

/I heard some women buy a dress, wear it, take it back.

/when young cops didn’t have to wear bullet proof vests. In eng the cops didn’t carry guns

/everything happens for a reason

/prof sailor gave me 2 b’s I might not have deserved

/ people hate hippies –

people hate hippies

/ vidangel –

vidangel

cleans up flix

/cap punishment – morality play

/dinner is lunch and supper is the eve meal

/who gets hired: grubby or clean cut. Seach pic

/how do clubs, places discourage riff raff

/fake casting agents, etc

/cloriformed and killed. What about snuff killings, rapes

/debates not run right again l0/6/l6 brits ++ could do it better

/ list of traits of an educated person

/sweet – pets, kids, innocence, genuine goodwill

/live in security guards at schools – in trailers

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/slutcast. Sleep assault,

/the first l00 days of a new pres

/shark said don’t mistake my kindness for weakness

/tv has tons of oddballs, hair, etc,

/bing crosby’s fam – tons of problems. 2 of his boys commited suicide.

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Lw: sec 40 of 3^rd –

CONTRACTOR’S CONDUCT: Member’s contractor’s, their personnel, and sub-contractors shall refrain at all times from using profanity, abusive or loud language, and must wear shirts at all times. Radio, MP3, CD or cassette players are not permitted on the project site. Contractor personnel will, at all times, extend and exhibit a courteous demeanor to residents.

/desire under the elms

/spendor in the grass – the flic in which the ma told the teen women don’t enjoy it

/target – clean and NOOOOOOOOOOOO music. [gum on front walk]

/search 2- 3 things you don’t talk about

/Claire bloom had natural eyebrows

/c. chaplin pushed simplicity

/viceland and fusion = underworld?, substrata – hats and hoodies on. Affected speech. eating around table with hats on, gross table manners, dumb clothes

/when’s the last time you hears of clean-cut. Take off your outdoor jacket and hat

/excess at the tomb of the unknowns is too much

/obits in register with add ons for flowers that look like part of the details of the services

/take on the energy + spent on death and spend it on life. Sandy’s funeral

/lot of ims have better values than the sa click

/couples on tv holding hands

/couples sitting next to ea other at dinner parties

/ infantilization of america

/some will even protest at a funeral

/Nimitz, sailor and others were flex etc. with

/talk show titans

/spoil – helen keller

/pix on bing are dirty, same subject on chrome, pix are clean

/town halls – screaming, booing, interrupting

/steve wilkos …….

/apologies need compensation

/the Robert Irvine show with biceps

/kids sitting on stop of desks in sch

/giving parking patrol tons of gaff

/fred goldman says there is no closure

/sweetest possible fam with one pre-teen and another young teen girl adopting a hedgehog. How could you love your kids more. Geat job of raising em. Not often seen, and never on tv. Wholesome.

/my cat from hell

/billy the exterminator. There was some other kook to that …..

/nyt, 4/l7 : As suburban malls fall to online retailers, the challenge is to ensure that remaining jobs and new ones are better than those that are lost.

/parking wars

/religion as a tradval – past. As many get by without

/bot v recorder which wanted a charger. Bot, didn’t need it. the r was too complex etc. sent back. On net to find best. @@@@@@@@ again. To bb. They didn’t know products, bot one, complex check out, complex way to get it out of package in car. Apparently you have to turn it on after ……min. then when you press r, it waits 3 secs before beep and r. model x560 was l00, down to 79. Most recent?

/rotten tomatoes

/in 50s nice girls didn’t color their hair. Then Clairol. Does she or doesn’t she

/curiosity, energy, persistence, imagination bring luck

/nyc subways used to have cushioned seats

/grudges –

holding a grudge

/forgiveness – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forgiveness

/compassion – a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering

/shit bands – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=Violence+Band&FORM=IRIBEP

/pow’s know what the flag is. at end of wwii? One was in bad shape [as they were liberated?] he asked him buddies to stand him up. They did. He saluted the flag. The next day he died.

Ask ims what the flag is. not this banty rooster hannity

/l0/l7 it’s about time –

ban list of items at protests

/nat parks may raise fees. So I sent: Charge away. People should have to pay for their pleasure. National parks should be run by the private sector. Loud mufflers shouldn’t be allowed, nor ghetto blasters.

At Irvine regional park here in orange country, the ‘rangers?’ that take admission fees wear their uniforms as if they were drapped over them.

Many things have been ‘dumbed down.’ That’s all there was in my years iin social work.

/ national park services facebook page –

national park services facebook page

/baseball cap indoors, backwards, to the side – ea step lowers your iq

/girls wore loose gym pants in our day. Now skin tight at sahs during alumni day

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=why%20do%20african-americans%20wear%20hats%20indoors&qs=n&form=QBRE&sp=-1&pq=why%20do%20african-americans%20wear%20hats%20indoors&sc=0-42&sk=&cvid=0950C2CF99E04DB5AE8E9D269F3F238A

/worshipping the mil

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=dressed-down+culture&form=EDNTHT&mkt=en-us&httpsmsn=1&refig=3d111331851843d6efef36bf1eac2beb&sp=-1&pq=dressed-down+culture&sc=1-20&qs=n&sk=&cvid=3d111331851843d6efef36bf1eac2beb

 

/search fast food costs more than eating at hm

/empathy and dogs’ tails

/some place they make you marry your rapist

/no undershirts here so far

/tired of seeing terrible table manners on tv

/who’s afraid of Virginia woolf – the sickest plot summary I’ve ever read. Reminded me of the lion in winter.

/ I wonder what I love you, alice b Toklas was about. Quick look at sum: stupid

/jesus Christ superstar, godspell, hair, oh Calcutta, the greening of am. sidartha, Johnathan Livingston seagull, billy jack, easy rider,

/mc vals vs wc vals etc.

Forgive

Start a file for this?

misconstrued forgiveness

/larry king, evander holifield?

//forgive: excuse, pardon, acquit, exonerate

vs blame, condemn

/magnanimous: forgiving, big hearted, charitable, generous

/forgiveness and guilt and introspection

/forgiveness vs magnanimity. magnanimous – forgiving, big hearted, altruistic.

/you own a bank, big loan unpaid. Forgive it? keep doing it, hurts your bank and all your customers that did pay back their loans.

/when did some work become ‘menial’?

/muslim? Who washed his feet in sink next to me

/am’s get a tv or appliance as a matter of course. Poor ims value such. This couple

/disgrace – http://bestteensex.net/

https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=do+not+expectorate&FORM=HDRSC3 /

/the more outside, the less inside

/guy with dumb hair – Giorgio A. Tsoukalos

 

/search def of lust

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/nyt story by Walter Thompson-Hernández 1/27/l8

 / https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=saggy+pants&FORM=HDRSC2

 

Face Tattoos Go Mainstream Until recently, even among tattoo aficionados, the face was a canvas of last resort when the rest of the body was covered. By STEVEN KURUTZ

/steve Hilton – sport coat over t shirt

 

/rick Harrison of pawn stars: customer 9/22?/l8 brot in something, wanted 1k, rick knew it was worth more, said he couldn’t live with himself for that little, called in someone to appraise it.

Did he do something like this before? I think so. like the pickers who donated the dinasour bone.

/ https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=shallowness&qs=n&form=QBIRMH&sp=-1&pq=shallowness&sc=8-11&sk=&cvid=73888BB1EC1C46098F9F39C584D091E7

 

https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=Superficiality&FORM=IRMHRE

 

/fun vs happy, fulfilled – tj, the grp

/what’s so good about st car named desire his other plays: cat on a hot tin roof., night of the iguana?

/Asians dress better, tuck shirts in?, fewer short pants, end of oct. better as tourists?

/all you need is a makeover

/boys save on using microwave, but …….but a new car

/howard stern, tommy lee.

/on one hand our decline, on the other, great praise for mil, youth, sports …..what else

/punish success

/award shows: Oscars, grammys, tonys, golden globes – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_awards

/ingratitude is the cardinal sin Truman?

/pop, fun, appearances, witty, say right things, festive, no waves

/greg gutfeld, with tyrus and the odd blond.

/Sport jacket over t-shirt

/$ on chest and not on face and neck

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Headband, ponytail, hairstyle, slouch, ya know, dreds, table manners, on tv, slang

Job interview, relax – be natural

————————— – – –

To minorities, lgbt, youth, and others.

If you want to give yourself an advantage: take off your outdoor jacket when going indoors, and your dark glasses. Men, take off your HAT.

=============== = = = =

/casual Friday at the er

/have to be an idiot to get on tv – Giorgio A. Tsoukalos

/do we need rap music as a background to everything

/shameful

/5/l8/l9 – nyt – British reality tv is a theater ok cruelty

/you go to bing for pix of little girls of japan….. scroll …then some without clothes. How offensive !!!

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Decline of vals,

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liberal vs conservative

homeless solutions

bad neighborhood

american characteristics

how the news works

poverty myths

privatization

education myths

religious scandals

idealistic americorps

living in slums

mental health system

political extremes

social work myths

hazlitt on poverty

cheapo car auction

/huang’s world

/wells fargo ad – but they want user and pass for complaints via @

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Amphitheaters

/ny’s voiding ban against natural hair – https://www.independentsentinel.com/mayor-de-blasio-has-a-new-anti-hair-discrimination-law/

/search the am. box

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=self-righteousness+compassion&FORM=HDRSC1 add it to psych?

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=abolish+the+olympics&form=EDGSPH&mkt=en-us&httpsmsn=1&plvar=0&refig=16732155b60c4e7398969b0ff249fed6&sp=1&qs=AS&pq=abolish+the+oly&sc=4-15&cvid=16732155b60c4e7398969b0ff249fed6&cc=US&setlang=en-US

 

`/could add link of sub teach to decline of vals

/David schaef: people donn’t take pride in their work. The day he doesn’t; he quits

/norman lear: all in fam [which Nixon didn’t like], good times, jeffersons, maude, – remember how controversial those were.

He’s jewish – such talent. Sensitive. They have a way of talking and thinking. Reminded me of ny. so offended at anti-semetic fr. Coughlin. Super righteous Moral majority https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moral_Majority so he founded

 people for the am way. http://www.pfaw.org/

/skater tom had to marry, being a celeb. Rock h too, Gordon too?

https://www.infoplease.com/calendar-holidays/holidays-america thus

/mem day, July 4^th, labor day, Halloween, vets day, thanks, xmas, new yrs, ml king day, easter

St pats, groundhog day, jewish, Chinese new yr, [tet?], valentines day, presidents day, mardi gras, ma’s day, pa’s day, flag day, lent

 

https://www.bing.com/search?q=is+life+heavier+back+east&form=EDNTHT&mkt=en-us&httpsmsn=1&msnews=1&rec_search=1&plvar=0&refig=09c00b9accdd44c9b576702671bccdfc&sp=-1&pq=is+life+heavier+back+east&sc=0-25&qs=n&sk=&cvid=09c00b9accdd44c9b576702671bccdfc

  vs oz

/repairman with bad teeth ………you wonder about his youth, priorities, choices, etc [and your luck]

/bruce spreenstein said there can be a little ….. in a neigh, that exists for a little while, then changes and is gone forever. Just like preston wilcox and that ballet dancer

/discrimination …..based on hair. Nj is 3^rd state to ban such discrim l2/l9 – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=discrimination+based+on+hair&form=HDRSC2&first=1&cw=1117&ch=572 blks. Ag: but it’s done against whites + and 0 on net about this butg maybe some here – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=%20problem%20hairstyles%20of%20whites%20&qs=n&form=QBIR&sp=-1&pq=problem%20hairstyles%20of%20whites%20&sc=0-29&sk=&cvid=A741D48758BD487B93325B25534C66C2 and here

 

https://www.bing.com/search?q=+problem+hairstyles+of+whites+&FORM=HDRSC1

 

/discrim based on age, religion, gender, socio-econ statue, nationality, skin color, hair ag: hippie hair,

/ jerry springer, and him as judge, bruce cutlere as judge, hot bench, judge jerry springer

/grammies each yr, which I don’t watch, seem to get cheaper with more hype, more endless, boring rhythm, more flash, in your face black obesity, rap, yelling, some hands on pants… can’t even watch it. outdoor jackets? Hats? Something in paper about old timers staying away from it.

 

/risky interview with black gang with their guns, obscenity, in your face, gang signs, outdoor coats, doing a vid.

/nj is 3^rd st to ban discrim based on hair. 2020. – https://www.bing.com/search?q=discrimination+based+on+hair&FORM=HDRSC1

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Go go music in shaw. What next: it into howard u, hosp, schs, churches, saggy pants, hair, gansta rap, glorifying criminals, profanity, double lparking, sights, alc, drugs, pimps, https://www.bing.com/search?q=washington+dc+go+go+music+protest&cvid=c43746a3cea5405cb2f9a88ddd63bfac&FORM=ANSPA1&PC=U531

Dovato for hiv, stupid hair…..to attract those?

/ https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=why+so+many+frizzy+hairstyles+on+television&cw=1117&ch=589&FORM=AWIR

 

https://www.bing.com/search?q=do+some+cultures+flaunt+big+rear+ends&form=ANNTH1&refig=53ac8c2e3f9749488770c4078163ca66&sp=-1&pq=do+some+cultures+flaunt+big+rear+ends&sc=1-37&qs=n&sk=&cvid=53ac8c2e3f9749488770c4078163ca66

 

/I’m not better than others and visa versa. Why didn’t anyone mentions that before? maybe more pop……or smarter, etc., but not better

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=which+celebrities+had+ow+kids&form=ANSPH1&refig=285e60d15f94414389b1c59bd1fefb21&sp=-1&pq=which+celebrities+had+ow+kids&sc=0-29&qs=n&sk=&cvid=285e60d15f94414389b1c59bd1fefb21

 

http://www.commercialsihate.com/

 

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=americans+won%27t+pick+crops&form=ANNTH1&refig=99abdc83a687402a9a211f136ebd1360&sp=-1&pq=americans+won%27t+pick+crops&sc=0-26&qs=n&sk=&cvid=99abdc83a687402a9a211f136ebd1360 I lasted 45 min

 

/search cultural fads, music fads, fads

 

/all sex….prohibitions are for the young

 

/ https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=celebrities+with+kids+out+of+wedlock&FORM=HDRSC2 thus

 

 

/impossibly wholesome, clean cut, decent, sweet, delightful kids, well behaved. Shows what well brot up kids are like. in London’s John Lewis foodhall . a surprise opera …….[overdone]

/celebreties with out of wedlock children – https://www.bing.com/search?q=list%20of%20celebreties%20with%20out%20of%20wedlock%20children&qs=n&form=QBRE&sp=-1&pq=list%20of%20celebreties%20with%20out%20of%20wedlock%20children&sc=0-48&sk=&cvid=7F6BBCBDBA6642C7A2C3BE6538EA179D

/celebreties with love children

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I can’t add this to blog pix

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How did I develop my vals

/ depth: chella, marry lu, ann blythe, julie cristie, mary ann moody,

/ https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=no+expectorating&form=HDRSC2&first=1&scenario=ImageHoverTitle

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Laws passed banning discrimination by hair. So we have to put up with

https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=people%20with%20frizzy%20hair&qs=n&form=QBIRMH&sp=-1&pq=people%20with%20frizzy%20hair&sc=4-23&cvid=7F25CD0EB65C4BADAC0F095C4EB25150&first=1&scenario=ImageBasicHover

what’s next – saggy pants, crude language, ghetto blasters, sloppy work,

microaggressions, threats,

/yrs ago parents lined up to get their kids into FUNDAMENTAL schools !!!!

/we have to worship vets vs what andy rooney said

/don’t forget I got greedy with rms in gar + bob a?

/apologies have to take resp for the harm done [=comp]

/thanksgiving, blk fr, 29 days till xmas: gifts, decorate hse and tree, cards, parties – office and reg, food, ….new yrs eve, parade, game. ……. [bills, let down, cold]

save wrapping paper, leave gifts out [worse in a shallow family]

/all happens for a reason?

/celebreties who went broke sports stars too

/dinner = lunch and supper = the evening meal

/badass, pissed customer, b.s., filthy rap music added to tik tok babes

/life is boring for many, thus the continual search for more exotic food

/depth: greta garbo [ who lived near me], ann blythe, vicky

/shallow: no emp. Selfish, unreal

/the am. dream –

/dogs on the furn…

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beach culture – Bing

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Tiger Woods Was Clearly Speeding, So Why Didn’t He Even Get a Ticket?

The crash, which occurred after Woods drove well above 80 miles per hour in a 45 m.p.h. zone, raised questions about how law enforcement treated his case.

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Middle of the nite. Reading the front page of NY times, as I do every day. bright, but smart aleck. Too many catchy titles, introspection, bored intellects overinterpreting, counterproductive, negative – typical of Jews? Anything for attention, counter culture, always questioning

/what’s with boating on water? Isn’t their something better to do?

/study found that very happy people are pereceived as naïve, gullable sig

 

/nyt: Inked Mummies, Linking Tattoo Artists With Their Ancestors 7/7/2l. such a profoundly stupid title.

 

 

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7/28/2l economist:

Skateboarding’s ascent to the Olympics has prompted artists ?????? to reflect on the pursuit. “No Comply”, a new exhibition at Somerset House in London, explores how the subversive ????? pastime took hold in Britain in the 1970s. “All The Streets Are Silent”, a documentary released in American cinemas last week, looks at the

 

/ confluence of skateboarding and hip-hop music in Manhattan in the late 1980s and early 1990s. Both subcultures were edgy, dismissive of authority and set off a kind of moral panic in the press. As a result of that rebellious ethos, many skateboarders think the activity is at odds with the rigour of the Olympics. Others are pleased that its athleticism and creativity is being recognised at last.

 

/courage is doing what you’re afraid to do. I’d add diligently discipling yourself to do…..

/objections to women’s volleyball in bikinis at Olympics + 8’21

/ People with Good Hair – Bing images ‘good’?

/fairness doctrine repealed under rr. Thus rush

/ how do out of wedlock kids feel – Bing

/Portland and seattle, thus ok to riot, thus blm, thus jan 6, objectivity way down, fairness doctrine, fox news,

/ Vintage Ads You Won’t Believe Existed (gazillions.com)

/the old crowd here: tennis, golf, vacations, food, some service clubs

/ what do americans think of the graffiti on new york subway – Bing

/graffiti and guardian angels taki 183

/road rage, guns, crime?, profanity, dirty rap, saggy clothes, baseball cap backwards, tatoos, unruly airline passengers,

/more threats now on lawmakers. L0/2l

/TAKI 183 – Wikipedia TAKI 183

/ tattoos before after removal – Bing images

 

/you’re judged by the way you treat ‘little’ people.

/each birthday is a gift

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I guess she was educated by woke, existential, crt, politically correct, social justice warriors

/ Sorry—playing music in public areas while you’re moving is prohibited.

/ why do people wear baseball caps backwards – Bing

/

Treasure Hunter Who Got Lost in Yellowstone Must Repay Cost of Rescue

/don’t ever complain to a shallow

/the south I big on mil

/pull your pants up

/ Ingratitude is the cardinal sin. Link it to emp

/frizzy hair

/tj and scot have to have extreme pleasure

/tattoos

/ 1 extra line at Costco, then another

/ 2/22 nyt One Menacing Call After Another: Threats Against Lawmakers Surge

A review of such threats shows how a mainstreaming of violent political speech has prompted a growing number of Americans to target elected officials.

/ Face Mole Removal – Bing images

/honorary degree for m Tyson

/Florence or Beverly penrod worked at lq. Hope she didn’t get her feelings hurt. Her folks fault.

/also that wig girl who worked at mc sch. i found her yr bk in the trash. Sad.

Also stephanie bad legs. Doug winton, swimmer with bad leg

/resp nec for self-respect

/rel….brings lack of resp. like with btenants, and shallows in vic

/25 yrs with k and it evolved into this

/ Greg Gutfeld Cast – Bing images

/DAVID BROOKS

Some People Turn Suffering Into Wisdom

/hair, before, after kinky, hippy, wild

/ Gallery reveals hair-raising images of people who have been arrested (msn.com)

/bending the rules: Nimitz, caine mutiny, prof sailor, somebody up their likes me,

/ring thru nose – disgusting and dangerous – name for middle part of nose rings are put – Search (bing.com)

/one thing to have a bad hair style; another to flaunt it. are mullocks those spikes?

/wash your mouth out with soap

/best birthday present for me is 0. xmas just shows ….. it’s the litt and big things throughout the yr.

/we never let pets on the furniture

/peta’s position on rodeos

/catching a greased pig

/ peta’s position on rodeos – Search (bing.com)

/ rodeo cruelty – Search (bing.com)

/ prison rodeos must be the worst – Search (bing.com)

/ american bohemia – Search (bing.com)

/your rel beliefs are in the sky; you econ beliefs are practical

/ bbl – Search (bing.com)

/ brazilian butt lift – Bing images not worth it?

/ cruises are brainless – Search (bing.com)

/d said in mex: down on div, gays, they call mh locos which makes it worse. it’s disease. and they’re down on pills for suicide, saying you’ll go to hell. but all gattin better

/ow, illegit.., bastard, other son

/do the british walk on the left side – Search (bing.com)

/

The Nuns Who Left Brooklyn

It’s hard to be a devotee of prayer and silence when parties with thumping music gather outside your walls.

/ examples of hair banned – Bing images vs no bans on tatoos?

/ where are tattoos banned – Search (bing.com)

/the brits are totally hung up on titles, symbols, status, medals, robes,

/5/23 – https://www.nytimes.com/2023/05/16/style/polyamory-somerville.html sig

/ ingratitude in the cardinal sin – Search (bing.com) – truman ingratitude in the cardinal sin – Search (bing.com)

/What Masturbation Does to Your Brain (msn.com)

/ Giant Food takes drastic measures to stop rampant theft in its 165 supermarkets (msn.com)

and food deserts

/ Orange County Supervisors Adopt Limited Flag Policy (msn.com) 6/23

/ hip hop definition – Search (bing.com) 50 yrs of it. 50 yrs of thuggery? hip hop is thuggery – Search (bing.com)

/ ingratitude is the cardinal sin – Search (bing.com)

/ The 50 greatest moments in hip-hop history

As hip-hop celebrates its 50th anniversary on Aug. 11, The Times looks back at the artists, songs and innovations that changed the course of popular culture.

/nyt mag:

How Hip-Hop Conquered the World is it mostly black?

 Hip-hop’s 50th anniversary shines a light on its New York City birth (economist.com)

/remember how to ape the ignorant ?

Search hip hop is thuggery

/ The Hottest Jay-Z Merch: Limited-Edition Library Cards – The New York Times (nytimes.com)

Our rush to the bottom , says ag

/ nyt 9/l3/23 : No One Wants to Be a Teacher Anymore. Can You Blame Them?

/ There’s Still Overwhelming Cultural Pressure to Get Married and Have Kids 9/23

/farm kids have superior work ethic, vals?

/nyt l0/l8/23 disgusting:

Getting Dressed With Beenslackin

A fit pic provocateur, full-time flaneur and occasional stylist, Menelik Demissie, 24, has made a name as a street-level avant gardist in New York.

/ Professional wrestling – Wikipedia

/ who refused oscars awards – Search (bing.com)

/Death by Doctor May Soon Be Available for the Mentally Ill in Canada

The country is divided over a law that would allow patients suffering from mental health illnesses to apply for assisted death.

/tradval to barker 1/24

/ 21 American Stereotypes That Are Incorrectly Accepted Globally (msn.com) – so so

Stuck in the 60s: 10 Things Baby Boomers Refuse To Let Go Of – Because Mom Says

 

Stuck in the 60s: 10 Things Baby Boomers Refuse To Let Go Of – Because Mom Says

 

 

/ 24 expressions with racist origins you should stop saying (msn.com)

/ center part of nose that people put a ring thru – Search (bing.com) – septum

/ Survival Skills of the Past That Have Been Forgotten Over Time (msn.com)

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/ NYC to pay $17.5M after police forced women to remove hijab for mug shots (msn.com)

/ See Maps of Where Eclipse Seekers Flocked and the Traffic That Followed – The New York Times (nytimes.com)

/ men should not offer their hand when meeting a woman – Search (bing.com)

/ A 20-Person Polycule on Boundaries, Relationships and Intimacy – The New York Times (nytimes.com)

/ ‘Bed Rotting’ and ‘Hurkle Durkle’: Can You Stay In Bed Too Long? – The New York Times (nytimes.com)

/tj: why send it

/ Emily Post Formal Dinning – Search Images (bing.com)

/ ed brown of 90 day fiance – Search Images (bing.com) ed brown of 90 day fiance – Search (bing.com)

/ hinkley allowed to go free – Search (bing.com)

/ 18 Poor Manners That Show You Were Not Properly Brought Up (msn.com)

/ Sagging Fashion – Search (bing.com)

/ Sagging Fashion – Search Images (bing.com)

/ saggy pants fashion – Search Images (bing.com)

/ gangsta rap , fashion, straight outta Compton

/ world’s most elaborate cemeteries – Search Images (bing.com)

/ What’s the Rule About Looking at Women in Public? – The New York Times

/ New York City’s Noisiest Neighborhoods – The New York Times

also: Task Force Releases Battle Plan To Combat Noise In Wash Heights | Washington Heights, NY Patch

See NYC’s Noisiest Neighborhoods On This Map | New York City, NY Patch – stupid

/ Does every performance need a standing ovation?

/

 

 

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modern architecture – Search Images = 0000000

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/search How some change their hair. Idiots:

Giorgio A. Tsoukalos, don king, search

/

 

 

 2009:

 

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Straight shooting by john silber

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Debauchery:

dissipation

dissoluteness

degeneracy

corruption

vice

turpitude

depravity

loucheness

rakishness

libertinism

immodesty

indecency

perversion

shamelessness

iniquity

wickedness

sinfulness

sinning

impropriety

immorality

impurity

unchastity

lasciviousness

salaciousness

lechery

lecherousness

lewdness

bawdiness

lust

lustfulness

libidinousness

licentiousness

promiscuity

wantonness

abandonment

abandon

profligacy

decadence

immoderateness

intemperance

indulgence

self-indulgence

pleasure-seeking

hedonism

sybaritism

voluptuousness

concupiscence

lubricity

salacity

lack of morals

lack of principles

lack of restraint

Opposite:

morality

clean living

 

/ the nation. hulk hogan was a farce – Search

/ sweat pledge – Search mike rowe: alive, am, wk, persistence, kills, learn from mistakes , [play to my strengths] in other words – said 0

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val2 = sort of val part of lac & recs

 

Modifications

The tradvals above are solid, but other? ‘trad’ vals and ways have been modified by liberals and they deserve credit.

 

 are the below vals?

 

Basic rights for

minorities, women, homosexuals, youth, the handicapped.

Basic rights of

abortion, euthanasia

 

but excessive rights for same?

tenants, panhandlers, the homeless, welfare recipients, addicts, alcoholics, prisoners filing frivilous lawsuits and running prisons,

 

homeless [camping anywhere]

runaways?, affirm action?,

students? sitting on desks – no disc

 

Progressive re: ethnic diversity =?, psycholgy,

 

 

Open to different lifestyles divorce, single parenting, intermarriage, the gay world, open adopton, gay adoption

 

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Questioning institutions (politics, economics, law, religion, medicine, public figures (instead of putting them on a pedestal).

Issues euthansia, battered spouses, addiction, child abuse, incest, impotence, finding natural parents, premarital relations in long term responsible relationships,

 

 

“keeping it all in.” guns, un

later: spank?, appeals, runaways, jd’s criminals, riots? reverse discrim? stu dress code, il’s, aclu, wkmans comp?, spec ed. prisoners who run the prison.

vs excuses, gay parenting,

 

dead wrong on classes, pov?, cap, tradval? old, dialectic

 

Traditional values

Capitalism.

Less government fix vs

Privatize most government functions.

Responsibility (grandaddy of the rest).

Foresight (thrift, saving, planning).

Self-reliance (rather than a welfare state).

The golden rule (reliability, honesty, good faith, fairness, manners, respect for property, authority, elders, and ethnic groups).

Law and order, authority, discipline, punishment.

Family teamwork, hard work, diligence, moderation, restraint, wholesomeness, modesty, self-respect, one’s appearance, practical education, some censorship, some conformity.

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Val4

Grandma’s Story

One evening a grandson was talking to his grandmother about current events. The grandson asked his grandmother what she thought about the shootings at schools, the computer age, and just things in general.

The Grandma replied, “Well, let me think a minute, I was born, before television, penicillin, polio shots, frozen foods, Xerox, contact lenses, Frisbees and the pill. There was no radar, credit cards, laser beams or ball-point pens.

Man had not invented pantyhose, air conditioners, dishwashers, clothes dryers, and the clothes were hung out to dry in the fresh air and man hadn’t yet walked on the moon.

Your Grandfather and I got married first-and then lived together. Every family had a father and a mother. Until I was 25, I called every man older than I, ‘Sir’- and after I turned 25, I still called policemen and every man with a title, “Sir.’

We were before gay-rights, computer-dating, dual careers,daycare centers, and group therapy. Our lives were governed by the Ten Commandments, good judgment, and common sense. We were taught to know the difference between right and wrong and to stand up and take Responsibility for our actions.

Serving your country was a privilege ; living in this country was a bigger privilege. Draft dodgers were people who closed their front doors when the evening breeze started.

We thought fast food was what people ate during Lent.

Having a meaningful relationship meant getting along with your cousins. Time-sharing meant time the family spent together in the evenings and weekends – – – not purchasing condominiums.

We never heard of FM radios, tape decks, CDs, electric typewriters, yogurt, or guys wearing earrings. We listened to the Big Bands, Jack Benny, and the President’s speeches on our radios. And I don’t ever remember any kid blowing his brains out listening to Tommy Dorsey.

If you saw anything with ‘Made in Japan’ on it, it was junk. The term ‘making out’ referred to how you did on your school exam.

Pizza Hut, McDonald’s, and instant coffee were unheard of. We had 5 & 10-cent stores where you could actually buy things for five and ten cents. Ice-cream cones, phone calls, rides on a streetcar, and a Pepsi were all a nickel. And if you didn’t want to splurge, you could spend your nickel on enough stamps to mail 1 letter and two postcards.

You could buy a new Chevy Coupe for $600 but who could afford one? Too bad, because gas was 11 cents a gallon.

In my day, “grass” was mowed, “coke” was a cold drink, “pot” was something your mother cooked in, and “rock music” was your grandmother’s lullaby. ”

“Aids” were helpers in the Principal’s office, “chip” meant a piece of wood, “hardware” was found in a hardware store, and “software” wasn’t even a word.

And we were the last generation to actually believe that a lady needed a husband to have a baby. No wonder people call us “old and confused” and say there is a generation gap…

And how old do you think this grandmother is?

This Woman would be only 58 years old! Pretty scary if you think about it and pretty sad at the same time.

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Senior citizens are constantly being criticized for every conceivable deficiency of the modern world, real or imaginary.  We know we take responsibility for all we have done and do not blame others.

BUT, upon reflection, we would like to point out that it was NOT the senior citizens who took:

The melody out of music,

The pride out of appearance,

The romance out of love,

The commitment out of marriage,

The responsibility out of parenthood,

The togetherness out of the family,

The learning out of education,

The service out of patriotism,

The religion out of school,

The Golden Rule from rulers,

The nativity scene out of cities,

The civility out of behavior,

The refinement out of language,

The dedication out of employment,

The prudence out of spending, or

The ambition out of achievement,

And we certainly are NOT the ones who eliminated patience and tolerance from personal relationships and interactions with others!!

Does anyone under the age of 50 know the lyrics to the Star Spangled Banner?  Just look at the Seniors with tears in their eyes and pride in their hearts as they stand at attention with their hand over their hearts!

Remember…….Inside every older person is a younger person wondering what the heck happened!

YES, I’M A SENIOR CITIZEN!
the life of the party…even if it lasts until 8 p.m.
I’m very good at opening childproof caps with a hammer.
I’m usually interested in going home before I get to where I am going.
I’m awake many hours before my body allows me to get up.
I’m smiling all the time because I can’t hear a thing you’re saying.
I’m very good at telling stories; over and over and over and over…
I’m aware that other people’s grandchildren are not as cute as mine.
I’m so cared for — long term care, eye care, private care, dental care.

I’m not grouchy, I just don’t like traffic, waiting, crowds, lawyers, loud music, unruly kids, Toyota commercials, Tom Brokaw, Dan Rather, barking dogs, politicians and a few other things I can’t remember.
I’m sure everything I can’t find is in a secure place.
I’m wrinkled, saggy, lumpy, and that’s just my left leg.
I’m having trouble remembering simple words like…….
I’m realizing that aging is not for wimps.
I’m sure they are making adults much younger these days, and when did they let kids become policemen?
I’m wondering, if you’re only as old as you feel, how could I be alive at 150?
I’m a walking storeroom of facts…..I’ve just lost the key to the storeroom door.

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: Our Years as Parents & Our Children’s Youth

>

> In this peice I sure saw a lot of things that were reflective our

> our time of raising our children. They may see some things

> that they did survive as we were not a generation that had so

> many “experts” telling us what to do. We chose from what we

> had observed being done by friends with a strong influence from

> our youth and from large family groups being observed. We

> picked from what we thought was best and tried not to do what

> we felt was wrong or negative. Do some of these lift such

> memories for you? Our children turned out so good because of

> great good fortune and just being lucky I guess.

> * * * * *

> The Last Generation

>

> By Robb Moretti

> NEWSWEEK

>

> Aug. 5 issue – My parents are part of what has been labeled

> the Greatest Generation. I hail from a great generation as well.

> That’s because my peers and I, the oft-maligned baby

> boomers, came before seat belts, bike helmets and all things

> plastic protecting children from the hazards of everyday life.

> We were the last Americans to grow up without a childproof

> safety net.

>

> I KNOW THAT many of today’s protective gadgets prevent

> kids from getting seriously injured. Looking back, I sometimes

> wonder how my friends and I survived childhood at all. But I

> believe that we experienced a kind of freedom that children

> who came after us have not.

>

> I was born in November 1954 and whisked from the hospital

> during a violent California rainstorm, not in a car seat but in

> my mother’s arms. Since our car didn’t have seat belts, we

> drove commando style.

>

> As a baby, I was tucked into my crib without a padded

> bumper guard or a machine that soothed me to sleep with

> amplified sounds of the ocean. Baby pictures show me smiling

> while I stuck my big head through the wooden bars. At night

> my mother swaddled me in warm pajamas-the non-flame-

> retardant kind.

>

> Once I could walk, I was free to roam around the house

> under the watchful eye of my parents. Unfortunately, their

> diligence couldn’t prevent every mishap. My mom still tells

> the story of how I learned not to play with electricity by

> sticking my toy into an open light socket. When my parents

> needed peace and quiet, they didn’t put me in front of the

> television to watch a “Baby Einstein” video; they plopped

> me in a chair to watch my mom do housework or cook.

>

> My dad drove a monstrous Chrysler that had a rear window

> ledge large enough to provide a comfortable sleeping area

> during long drives. As a 5-year-old, I loved lying on that

> ledge, staring at the sky or the stars while we roared down

> the new California freeways. I was a projectile object waiting

> to happen! Riding in the front didn’t improve my odds much:

> whenever the car came to an abrupt stop, my mother or

> father would fling an arm across my chest to keep me from

> going airborne.

>

> During my grade-school years, my mother would often leave

> my younger sister and me in the car, keys in the ignition and

> doors unlocked, while she went shopping. When we got home

> I would run out to join my friends, with the only rule being to

> get home by dark. My parents weren’t terrified if I was out of

> their sight. In fact, they enjoyed the silence.

>

> Playing at the park was a high-risk adventure for my friends

> and me. The jungle gym was a heavy gray apparatus with metal

> bars, screws and hooks. On a hot day the metallic surface of

> the sliding board would burn our behinds. A great afternoon

> at the park usually meant coming home with blisters on our

> hands, a bump or two on the melon and the obligatory

> skinned knee.

>

> I rode my red Schwinn Stingray without wearing a bike helmet;

> my Davy Crockett cap protected me from serious head injury.

> Although I did not have the benefit of a crossing guard at the

> blind intersection I had to traverse to get to school, I was sure

> the snapping sound made by the baseball cards stuck in my

> spokes alerted the oncoming traffic to my presence.

>

> Every school day my mother packed my Jetsons lunchbox

> with a tuna-fish sandwich, which we found out later often

> contained high levels of mercury and a dolphin or two. Also

> stuffed in my lunchbox was a pint of whole chocolate milk

> and a package of Hostess Twinkies or cupcakes.

>

> Despite our high-fat, high-sugar diets, my friends and I were

> not out of shape. Maybe that was because we worked so

> hard in phys-ed class every day. Occasionally our teacher

> pushed us so far that some poor kid would throw up his lunch.

>

>

> In the afternoons we all played in a school-sponsored

> baseball league. We didn’t wear plastic batting helmets or cups,

> and we hit pitched balls instead of hitting off a plastic tee.

> Worst of all, we received trophies or medals only if our team

> won the championship.

>

>

> Last February, Americans were captivated by the skeleton

> event at the 2002 Winter Olympics. But 35 years earlier, my

> junior-high friends and I had invented our own version of the

> sport. We’d roar down steep Bay Area streets on a flexible

> sled with wheels instead of runners. Like the Olympians, we

> held our chins just inches above the ground. You don’t see

> kids today with two false front teeth nearly as often as you

> did in 1967.

>

> We baby boomers may not have weathered the Depression

> or stormed the beaches at Normandy. But we were the last

> generation to live on the edge and, I believe…. to have fun!

= = = = = =

 

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the back of a pickup truck on a warm day was always
a special treat.

Our baby cribs were covered with bright colored lead-based
paint.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors, or
cabinets,and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets.

We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle.

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then
rode down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the
bushes a few times we learned to solve the problem.

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long
as we were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all
day.

We played dodge ball and sometimes the ball would really hurt.

We ate cupcakes, bread and butter, and drank sugar soda but
we were never overweight; we were always outside playing.

Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team.
Those who didn’t had to learn to deal with disappointment.

Some students weren’t as smart as others so they failed a grade
and were held back to repeat the same grade.

That generation produced some of the best risk takers and
problem solvers.

We had the freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we
learned how to deal with it all.
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Val4 5/l6/04
COMMENTARY
Hard Reality for Soft America

It has long been my observation that American 18-year-olds are more incompetent than 18-year-olds in other advanced countries, but that American 30-year-olds are the most competent 30-year-olds in the world.

You see evidence of both these things every day. The skittish teenager struggling to make change at a fast-food restaurant or chain drugstore is one example; the skilled, self-assured medical technician you encounter is another. Why should this be so? I think it’s because from ages 6 to 18 Americans live mostly in Soft America, while from ages 18 to 30 they live mostly in Hard America.

Let me define my terms. Hard America is made up of all those parts of American life where you have competition and accountability. Soft America is made up of those parts where you don’t. Hard America includes, among other things, the high-tech private sector. Soft America includes, among other things, high school, at least for the large majority of kids who aren’t applying to selective colleges.

Our schools have been part of Soft America for a long time, though they need not be. In the 1920s, progressive educators with a mistrust of testing and competition began to take over the schools. Out went rigorous testing; in came life adjustment. After the Soviets sent up the Sputnik satellite in 1957, the schools were temporarily hardened, and SAT test scores peaked in 1963.

Then further softening set in. Wacky education school theories — new math, whole language — kept students from learning; social promotion meant that no one failed; moms and dads, busy working in Hard America, didn’t want to notice that their kids were not learning much. Educators banned tag and dodge ball because some kids lose, and that might hurt their self-esteem. Teacher unions sought tenure and blocked merit pay and accountability. Elementary, junior high and high school became something like the old Soviet system: They pretend to teach, and we pretend to learn.

Then after high school, graduates encounter Hard America — competitive colleges and universities and community colleges, competitive private-sector employers, training institutions from McDonald’s to the military. Some fall behind and don’t get anywhere. Others seek out enclaves of Soft America — soft corners in the civil service or corporate bureaucracies. But most figure out pretty quickly that how they do depends on what they produce. They develop skills that astonish those who knew them at 18. Incompetent 18-year-olds turn into competent 30-year-olds throughout our society.

In the late 1960s and early 1970s, vast swathes of American life were softened, not just education but also law and order and welfare requirements. In the mid-1960s, as crime was going up, prison populations went down and sharp restrictions were placed on police practices. Welfare benefits were vastly increased with nothing asked of recipients in turn. Within a decade, crime and welfare dependency nearly tripled and then stayed at those high levels for nearly two decades. Centralized elites insisted that soft policies stay in place despite their manifest failures.

But out in the periphery, Hard America fought back. Wisconsin Gov. Tommy G. Thompson insisted that welfare mothers be required to work. New York Mayor Rudolph Giuliani insisted that police focus on high-crime areas and refuse to tolerate seemingly minor offenses. The softness of mid-century big corporations was challenged by hard entrepreneurs like Sam Walton and Bill Gates and by innovative financiers like Michael Milken and Henry Kravis. The military, softened by Vietnam, built a hard voluntary force in which people could gain benefits and honor and which has performed brilliantly in battle in the Persian Gulf and Afghanistan.

A sensible society does not want to be all hard or all soft. No one wants to return to the hardness of economic life in 1900, or to put second-graders into boot camps. We need levels of hardness appropriate to people’s ages and abilities. But even those long thought to be incapable can benefit from hard discipline: My favorite example is the Special Olympics, which confers honor on those who perform.

There will always be elites who want to soften parts of society to offer refuge to the masses they deem unable to cope. But most Americans seem to understand that we need to maintain and expand the Hard America that provides the productivity and creativity and strength this country needs to grow and survive.

Michael Barone is a senior writer for U.S. News & World Report and author of “Hard America, Soft America: Competition vs. Coddling and the Battle for the Nation’s Future” (Crown Forum).

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./john Schmitz taught at sac. Big catholic, extreme right wing. Became a congressman. Later resigned due to sex with staff member. His girl was mary kay Letourneau – REAL good looking, sweet, feminine, deep. I always would have gone for her. Had to get married, 4 kids, spent too much for sake of appearances. Taught sch, fell for 6^th grader. Slept with him then or when he was l3, got preg, had kid. Big national scandal. ‘raped her stu’. Given suspended sentence, saw villie again, got preg again, so to prison for 7 yrs and now out. was just on larry king. Larry is RUDE. She was CHARMING. ‘Mass with mary’ is a book about her prison years. http://www.courttv.com/talk/chat_transcripts/2004/0729letourneau-dress.html

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Games People Want to Play
By Bob Greene
The fantasy that there is no wall between athlete and fan is no longer necessarily a benign one.

OP-ED CONTRIBUTOR
The Heckler’s Code
By Robin Ficker
Sports fans should be held responsible if their behavior at games goes out of bounds.

/l2/5/04 – Jingle Bell Schlock
By MAUREEN DOWD
It’s a scientific fact, or should be, that Christmas music can turn you into a fruitcake.

*

It’s a scientific fact, or should be, that Christmas music can turn you into a fruitcake. It either sends you into a Pavlovian shopping trance, buying stupid things like the Robosapien, or, if you hear repeated Clockwork-Orange choruses of “Ring, Christmas Bells” drilling into your brain with that slasher-movie staccato, makes you feel as possessed with Christmas spirit as Norman Bates.

I’ve never said this out loud before, but I can’t stand Christmas.

Everyone in my family loves it except me, and they can’t fathom why I get the mullygrubs, as a Southern friend of mine used to call a low-level depression, from Thanksgiving straight through New Year.

“You’re weird,” my mom says. This from a woman who once left up our Christmas tree until April 3, and who listens to a radio station that plays carols 24/7 all month.

My equally demonic sister has a whole collection of rodents dressed in holiday clothes that she puts up around her house. There’s a mouse Santa Claus and mouse Mrs. Claus and mice elves and a miniature Christmas village with mice, and some rat Cinderella coachmen in pink waistcoats and rats in red velvet vests and more rats, wearing frilly red-and-white nightshirts and nightcaps and holding little candles, leading you up the steps to bed. It’s beyond creepy. I keep fretting that it’s going to be like “Willard” meets “The Nutcracker,” where they come alive and eat her like a Christmas pudding.

My mom and sister both blissfully sat through “It’s a Wonderful Life” again on Thanksgiving weekend, while even hearing a mere snatch of that movie makes me want to scarf down a fistful of antidepressants – and join all the other women in America who are on a holiday high – except our family doctor is a Scrooge about designer drugs, leaving me to self-medicate as Clarence gets his wings with extra brandy in the eggnog.

I’ve given a lot of thought to why others’ season of joy is my season of doom – besides the obvious fact that yuppies have drenched the holidays in ever more absurd levels of consumerism.

I think it has to do with how stressed out my mom and sister would get on Christmas Day when I was little. I remember them snapping at me; they seemed tense because of all the aprons to be sashed and potatoes to be mashed. (In our traditional Irish household, women slaved and men were waited on.)

It might be exacerbated by the stress I feel when I think of all the money I’ve spent on lavishing boyfriends with presents over the years, guys who are now living with other women who are enjoying my lovingly picked out presents which I’m no doubt still paying for in credit card interest charges.

I was embracing my Christmas black dog the other day when I read a Times article so scary it made my hair – and my genes – curl.

It was about how severe stress can make a woman age very rapidly and prematurely, looking years older than her chronological age, because the stress causes the DNA in our cells to shrink, and sort of curl down on itself, until the cells can no longer replicate. “When people are under stress they look haggard, it’s like they age before your eyes, and here’s something going on at a molecular level” that reflects that impression, said one of the researchers, Dr. Elizabeth Blackburn of the University of California at San Francisco.

So now, on top of all the stress related to having a president and vice president who scared us to death about terrorists to get re-elected, I have to be stressed about the fact that my holiday stress might cause me to turn into an old bat – instantly, just like it happened in Grimm’s fairy tales, when a girl would be cursed and suddenly become a crone. Or just like this Christmas doll my sister brought home once that had an apple for a head; her face looked all juicy and white at the start of the week and then by the end of the week, it was all discolored and puckered.

I flipped through the hot new self-help book by Gordon Livingston, a psychiatrist from Columbia, Md., “Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart: Thirty True Things You Need to Know Now.”

One of them is the cardinal rule of anxiety: Avoidance makes it worse; confrontation gradually improves it.

Yep. I definitely need to rip Frosty’s face off.

American Awful
Fox’s “American Idol” sends a truly dreadful message to millions of young viewers about the proper way to treat fellow human beings./search downside, negatives of xmas, holidays, false, superficial values

‘Crossfire,’ R.I.P
Hungry for an issue that will unite us rather than divide us, Americans have settled on a loathing of television shows that divide us rather than unite us. The best known of these so-called “shoutfests” is CNN’s “Crossfire,” which has now been sacrificed on the altar of bad publicity.

Shame May Not Be So Bad After All

By Dr. Joyce Brothers
Published: February 27, 2005

A friend of mine had to spend some weeks in bed. “I could not believe what I saw on television,” she said. “On a talk show, a woman boasted about seducing her sister’s husband. On a reality show, a man confided his plan to humiliate an unsuspecting teammate—‘knife him in the back.’” My friend’s teenage nephew came over to help her. “He played his music, which included a song about the joys of beating up women. And then, can you believe this, he told me about a new computer game where the mission is to kill John F. Kennedy. Really, isn’t there such a thing as shame anymore?”

Maybe my friend got too big a dose of contemporary culture, but she’s not alone in her observations. We’ve all had experiences not only with no-shame TV but also with no-shame people. It may be the neighbor who plays loud music at 2 a.m. or the co-worker who seems to be wearing more skin than clothing. Or perhaps it’s hearing about a crime where the perpetrators shrugged their shoulders rather than expressing remorse. It’s not just old fogies who wonder whether we’ve gone too far in breaking down the barriers against what used to be “indecent behavior.” Like my friend, plenty of people are asking, “Whatever happened to shame?”

When Rules Were Clear

Not too long ago, shame showed its face all the time. Parents warned their children about the consequences of anything “bad” that might tempt them—from premarital sex and unwed pregnancy to bad manners, failing grades and cowardly behavior.

Maybe it’s time to invite the useful aspects
of shame back into our culture.

Shame became an accepted way of making kids conform to society’s standards while ignoring the bad feelings it could inflict. “When I was a teen, my mother warned that everyone would laugh at me because I was chubby,” a friend recalled. “I was so ashamed, I wore extra-large skirts, thinking they would hide my tummy. Even today, I worry about every roll of fat.” An acquaintance remembers a teacher making fun of him in front of the class because he had wet his underpants. She even spread the underpants out on a classroom radiator to dry. And we all know people whose parents made them feel ashamed of low grades or a poor sports performance.

The Power of Shame

Traditionally, we’ve been quite vulnerable to shame, but why? Psychologists agree that the power of shame lies in its status as a primary emotion. The blush of shame, the pain in the pit of the stomach, the feeling of being naked and exposed to the glare of others—this is universal across all cultures, although the things that make us feel ashamed may vary.

In short, shame has come with the territory of being human from time immemorial. Think back to the story of Adam and Eve and the way they are often depicted in art: ashamed of their nakedness, ashamed of having gone against the will of God.

Shame seems to be even more powerful than guilt, though the two emotions are linked. While guilt is the feeling that you have done something wrong, shame is the feeling that there’s something wrong about you. Nothing could be more all-encompassing. When we’ve had too much exposure to shame, our joy in life is severely diminished.That’s why the self-esteem movement declared war on shame decades ago.

Letting Go of Our Inhibitions

Carrying around the “baggage” of shame, inflicted in childhood, people could only feel bad about themselves, the gurus argued. To feel good, one had to forget the nagging voice of conformity, set one’s own standards of right and wrong and send shame, with all its toxicity, packing. But in liberating ourselves from an overdose of shame, we substituted something that hasn’t worked out too well either.

We’ve turned to shame’s opposite: self-revelation. Today, it’s not uncommon to talk about things that were once considered intimate with those who know us only slightly. By showing ourselves to the wide world, warts and all, we seek to gain acceptance. The model has been the media—not only performers but also those people who get their 15 minutes of fame by appearing on talk shows or reality shows. Talking to the camera or letting the camera observe a private life inoculates both participants and viewers; self-exposure melts shame away like the wicked witch in The Wizard of Oz.

But in order to keep shame at bay, we need to constantly expose more. Madonna was one of the first performers to discover this. By openly declaring in 1983, “I have no shame,” she made a career out of pushing the envelope. Others have struggled to compete, but last year’s Super Bowl flap over Janet Jackson’s bared breast on national television may curtail the contest. The Jackson incident called into question the whole issue of self-exploitation and caused people to wonder whether shame should be making a comeback.

What We Lose When We Lose Shame

Rather than increasing our self-esteem, the suppression of shame does just the opposite: the lowering of our sights causes a deep discomfort. As psychiatrist Leon Wurmser wrote, “Where there is an unrestrained exposure of one’s emotions and of one’s body, a parading of secrets, a wanton intrusion of curiosity, [it has] become hard to express tender feelings, feelings of respect, of awe, of idealization, of reverence…The culture of shamelessness is also the culture of irreverence, of debunking and devaluing ideals.”

If we run from shame, Dr. Wurmser added, we may successfully avoid humiliation but are dogged by a deep sense of anxiety instead. Shamelessness creates excitement and captures our interest, particularly when we experience it on TV. Where will it all end? The question keeps us hooked. Meanwhile, we don’t realize that we’re being deprived of the positive aspects of shame.

Positive Shame

Rather than cut our wiring for shame—an impossible feat—we need to distinguish between shame that is useful and that which is destructive. Destructive shame—the kind engendered by the teacher who put the child’s wet underpants on the radiator—was long overdue for a trip to oblivion. Shame that makes us feel bad about the way we look or feel, shame that humiliates just for the sake of humiliation, this is shame we can do without. When children are raised in a loving, accepting way with respect for their emotions, differences and peculiarities, destructive shame is kept at bay.

Most of us are not like the people on reality shows, who are carefully selected for their lack of inhibition.

But certain types of shame can be beneficial. “Good shame” is an experience that is instructive. For example, a relative whose children play soccer told me about a parent who shouted at the players, argued with the referees and generally behaved in a way that made everyone else uncomfortable. One day this man was so unpleasant that other parents from his own team started to boo. It wasn’t until he was “shamed” that this man understood he was actually violating the standards of the group. Fortunately, he was able to learn rather than cringe. Today, if he has any complaints about a referee’s call, he voices them quietly.

Positive shame occurs when we see ourselves as we really are—perhaps too self-involved to notice that our spouse needs our help, perhaps too scared of what others think to stand up for someone in trouble, perhaps too resentful of the past to allow a wound to heal. When we use shame as an impetus for growth, our sense of self becomes stronger.

At the same time, we can use the protective aspect of shame to nurture ourselves. Human beings seem to need some kind of covering between themselves and the social universe, a barrier to intrusion we used to call privacy. In fact, the root of the word “shame” means “to cover.” Deep inside, we’re delicate creatures, and injudicious exposure—shamelessness—can create wounds rather than heal them. The fact is that most of us do not have the psychic makeup of Madonna, Paris Hilton, Howard Stern or any other celebrity who thrives on self-promotion. Nor are most of us like the people on reality shows, who are carefully selected for their lack of inhibition.

Even so, the long-term effects of appearing on such shows are largely unknown. The thrill of becoming “famous” may be brief; the realization that one appeared gross to millions of viewers, not so brief. Perhaps we’re creating a subset of people who will suffer from a new type of disorder: “Post-TV Appearance Syndrome.”

In the past, we may have allowed ourselves to be burdened too much by shame. Today, it’s lack of shame that appears to be the burden. Maybe it’s time to invite the useful aspects of shame back into our culture. Shame is, after all, ultimately related to virtue, a word that also is not used much anymore but continues to have meaning.

“The only shame is to have none,” wrote the philosopher Blaise Pascal centuries ago. We ought to keep his words in mind.

Good Shame Bad Shame

Good shame can lead to self-discovery and growth and can nurture and protect. It…

• Gives you new insight about yourself.
• Encourages you to make improvements.
• Expands your value system.
• Makes you more sensitive to others.
• Makes you want to elevate the culture around you.

Bad shame humiliates and makes you feel bad about the way you look or feel. It…

• Attacks you as a person.
• Eats away at self-esteem.
• Evokes an angry response.
• Gets passed along to your children.
• Leaves you feeling helpless.

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Is Decency Going Down the Tubes?
(The Washington Post)

Better hide the tattoo if you want the job

July 5, 2007

Times Staff Writer,By Molly Selvin / Times Staff Writer

…performance reviews behind him, Cohen sometimes goes to work in short sleeves. “My boss is a relaxed kind of guy,” he said. Besides, “it gets warm in here.” — molly.selvin@latimes.com / Times Staff Writer

 

Better hide the tattoo if you want the job

As the use of body art grows, it’s becoming an employment issue.

By Molly Selvin, Times Staff Writer
July 5, 2007

Tattoos go mainstream

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Last year Justin Miloro had to wear long sleeves to conceal the Buddha curling around his left forearm and the yellow-orange sun rays on his right. Pants covered the depiction of Earth on one leg and wings on the other. The sun spreading across his back was under wraps. The plugs in his earlobes were obscured by bandages.
“I thought it was really silly,” 0000000 Miloro recalled, “worse than seeing the tattoos.”
This year he has nothing to hide — even though the 32-year-old worked last year for Whole Foods Market Inc. in Boston, where he was a salesclerk, and now works as a manager for the same company in Los Angeles, overseeing health and beauty products departments at 25 stores.

The chain has looser dress and grooming standards in some parts of the country than others. Setting degrees of tattoo taboos is how Whole Foods handles the increasing attraction to — though definitely not universal acceptance of — body art.

Once associated with drunken sailors, felons and Hells Angels, tattoos have gone nearly mainstream, putting employers in a bind. How to write rules that won’t alienate un-hip 00000 customers on the one hand or eliminate talented workers on the other?

Different standards have emerged. A pink rose discreetly inked on an ankle might pass muster at a hospital but not a day-care center; an eyebrow stud will be viewed as charming at one store and a blemish at another.

In many cases, grooming policies are being set /by members of a generation known for letting it all hang out. 00000000000

“The baby boomers had hair out to the ceiling, cut jeans, ripped clothes that they washed sometimes,” 00000000000 said Mark Mehler, co-founder of CareerXroads, a New Jersey recruiting and consulting firm.

And now boomers are passing judgment on nose rings.

The irony isn’t lost on Fred Saunders, president and founder of FSPS Inc., which stages concerts and productions for companies including Nintendo Co. and Walt Disney Co. Some of them demand clean-cut crews: trimmed sideburns, long hair pulled into ponytails, no detectable tattoos.

Of course, Saunders, 57, doesn’t often take his shirt off during contract negotiations: On his back is a tattoo tableau featuring a samurai warrior skirmishing with a dragon.

“There’s a shock value [oh boy] to the art,” he acknowledged, and some people get a “negative vibe.”

Nearly 50% of Americans between 21 and 32 have at least one tattoo or a piercing other than in an ear, according to a 2006 study by the University of Chicago and Northwestern University. Men and women alike say their tattoos make them feel sexy and rebellious, 0000000000 a 2003 Harris Poll found, while the unadorned of both genders see body art as unsightly and think those with tattoos and piercings are less intelligent and less attractive.

For Tumbleweed Day Camp in L.A., this divide can cause headaches. Although counselors’ body art tends toward ladybugs or Asian characters for “luck,” some parents complain that the inked and pierced don’t look like appropriate role models. But Director John Beitner said that if he adopted a no-tattoo policy, he would lose excellent candidates for the camp’s 120 counseling jobs.

Just 10 years ago, he said, only 5% of the staff had tattoos, and this summer it’s close to 20%. hmmmmmmmm

Beitner’s solution: the is-it- offensive test, applied on a case-by-case basis. “A butterfly is not such a big deal,” he said, but a skull and crossbones with blood dripping out of the eye sockets would be a problem. And sometimes Beitner does ask staffers to remove belly rings or tongue studs when they’re at work. ++++

Like many law enforcement agencies, the Costa Mesa Police Department takes a harder line than Tumbleweed Day Camp. The department’s 162 officers can’t display any tattoos or piercings while in uniform. ++++ The only exception is one stud per ear (hoops pose a safety risk).

“The big concern for us is professionalism,” said Hugh Tate, who directs training and recruitment for the department.

Four years ago, the department didn’t need a policy on body art. Then tattooed veterans of the war in Iraq began to apply for jobs. Unlike those from earlier wars, who embellished their upper arms with service insignias, many of these vets had vividly decorated their entire forearms.

Tate said the department had to turn them away. If they wanted to sue, claiming discrimination, they wouldn’t get very far, because the law gives employers broad latitude to establish dress and grooming standards consistent with the images they want to convey. +++++

Policies are all over the map. PricewaterhouseCoopers’ says only that employees must wear “professional” attire, making no mention of ink. Employees at aircraft maker Boeing Co. can show off tattoos so long as the designs aren’t what a spokesman called “offensive,” but grocery workers at Vons are advised to totally cover up.

The dress code for Disney theme parks and resorts is among the most explicit and conservative: +++++ no visible tattoos, and the only permissible piercings are one per earlobe. Earrings must be “a simple matched pair in gold, silver or a color that blends with the costume,” company spokesman Donn Walker said. Hoops can’t be bigger than a dime.

Many law firms also prefer conventional looks, as Nicole Wool discovered. Six years ago, on her second day as an associate with an L.A. entertainment firm, one of the older partners took her aside and told her to take out her tongue stud.

“I felt so embarrassed,” [bout time!] recalled Wool, 32, who now works for Dr. Tattoff, a chain of tattoo removal studios. “It made me feel like I’d done something bad.”

It isn’t as easy to remove a tattoo, but John Wellman, 20, has heard too many potential employers in retail sales tell him that the image he projects is “not the image they’re trying to send.” So he’s paying Dr. Tattoff close to $700 to erase the teardrop under his right eye, a memorial to deceased friends, and three small dots on his right hand.

Danielle Marcus, 22, also turned to Dr. Tattoff to lose the star on the inside of her left forearm. The recent USC graduate said she worried that the star, inscribed in memory of her brother, who died three years ago, might “give off an air of unprofessionalism.”

Dr. Tattoff’s chief executive, James Morel, estimated that 20% of the chain’s clients undergo laser erasure treatments to improve their job prospects. wow

Financial planner Eric Cohen is having none of that. His boss at A.G. Edwards & Sons Inc. in Torrance is untroubled by the dragon that sometimes pokes out from Cohen’s shirt cuff.

The 37-year old got the tattoo, which envelops his right forearm, in 1996 when he was working as a hotel concierge. “I still love it,” he said.

When he interviewed with A.G. Edwards seven years ago, Cohen made sure to keep the dragon under wraps. He kept it covered during his first few years on the job.

Now, a string of solid performance reviews behind him, Cohen sometimes goes to work in short sleeves. “My boss is a relaxed kind of guy,” he said. Besides, “it gets warm in here.”

molly.selvin@latimes.com I sent her val. 7/07

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JAMARCUS MARSHALL, a 17-year-old high school sophomore in Mansfield, La., believes that no one should be able to tell him how low to wear his jeans. “It’s up to the person who’s wearing the pants,” he said.

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TESTING BOUNDARIES Examples of saggy pants in different parts of the nation.

Hiroko Masuike for The New York Times

Some communities have outlawed this style of dress.

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The reaction reminds some of the outrage engendered by zoot suit styles during the 1940s.

Mr. Marshall’s sagging pants, a style popularized in the early 1990s by hip-hop artists, are becoming a criminal offense in a growing number of communities, including his own.

Starting in Louisiana, an intensifying push by lawmakers has determined pants worn low enough to expose underwear poses a threat to the public, and they have enacted indecency ordinances to stop it.

Since June 11, sagging pants have been against the law in Delcambre, La., a town of 2,231 that is 80 miles southwest of Baton Rouge. The style carries a fine of as much as $500 or up to a six-month sentence. “We used to wear long hair, but I don’t think our trends were ever as bad as sagging,” said Mayor Carol Broussard.

An ordinance in Mansfield, a town of 5,496 near Shreveport, subjects offenders to a fine (as much as $150 plus court costs) or jail time (up to 15 days). Police Chief Don English said the law, which takes effect Sept. 15, will set a good civic image.

Behind the indecency laws may be the real issue — the hip-hop style itself, which critics say is worn as a badge of delinquency, with its distinctive walk conveying thuggish swagger and a disrespect for authority. Also at work is the larger issue of freedom of expression and the questions raised when fashion moves from being merely objectionable to illegal.

Sagging began in prison, where oversized uniforms were issued without belts to prevent suicide and their use as weapons. The style spread through rappers and music videos, from the ghetto to the suburbs and around the world.

Efforts to outlaw sagging in Virginia and statewide in Louisiana in 2004, failed, usually when opponents invoked a right to self-expression. But the latest legislative efforts have taken a different tack, drawing on indecency laws, and their success is inspiring lawmakers in other states.

In the West Ward of Trenton, Councilwoman Annette Lartigue is drafting an ordinance to fine or enforce community service in response to what she sees as the problem of exposing private parts in public.

“It’s a fad like hot pants; however, I think it crosses the line when a person shows their backside,” Ms. Lartigue said. “You can’t legislate how people dress, but you can legislate when people begin to become indecent by exposing their body parts.”

The American Civil Liberties Union has been steadfast in its opposition to dress restrictions. Debbie Seagraves, the executive director of the A.C.L.U. of Georgia said, “I don’t see any way that something constitutional could be crafted when the intention is to single out and label one style of dress that originated with the black youth culture, as an unacceptable form of expression.”

School districts have become more aggressive in enforcing dress bans, as the courts have given them greater latitude. Restrictions have been devised for jeans, miniskirts, long hair, piercing, logos with drug references and gang-affiliated clothing including colors, hats and jewelry.

Dress codes are showing up in unexpected places. The National Basketball Association now stipulates that no sports apparel, sunglasses, headgear, exposed chains or medallions may be worn at league-sponsored events. After experiencing a brawl that spilled into the stands and generated publicity headaches, the league sought to enforce a business-casual dress code, saying that hip-hop clothing projected an image that alienated middle-class audiences.

According to Andrew Bolton, the curator at the Costume Institute of the Metropolitan Museum of Art, fashions tend to be decried when they “challenge the conservative morality of a society.”

Not since the zoot suit has a style been greeted with such strong disapproval. The exaggerated boxy long coat and tight-cuffed pants, started in the 1930s, was the emblematic style of a subculture of young urban minorities. It was viewed as unpatriotic and flouted a fabric conservation order during World War II. The clothing was at the center of what were called Zoot Suit Riots in Los Angeles, racially motivated beatings of Hispanic youths by sailors. The youths were stripped of their garments, which were burned in the street.

Following a pattern of past fashion bans, the sagging prohibitions are seen by some as racially motivated because the wearers are young, predominantly African-American men.

Yet, this legislation has been proposed largely by African-American officials. It may speak to a generation gap. Michael Eric Dyson, a professor of sociology at Georgetown University and the author of “Know What I Mean?: Reflections on Hip Hop,” said, “They’ve bought the myth that sagging pants represents an offensive lifestyle which leads to destructive behavior.”

Last week, Atlanta Councilman C. T. Martin sponsored an amendment to the city’s indecency laws to ban sagging, which he called an epidemic. “We are trying to craft a remedy,” said Mr. Martin, who sees the problem as “a prison mentality.”

But Larry Harris, Jr., 28, a musician from Miami, who stood in oversize gear outside a hip-hop show in Times Square, denied that prison style was his inspiration. “I think what you have here is people who don’t understand the language of hip-hop,” he said.

A dress code ordinance proposed in Stratford, Conn., by Councilman Alvin O’Neal was rejected at a Town Council meeting last Monday, drawing criticism that the law was unconstitutional and unjustly encouraged racial profiling. Many residents agreed that the town had more pressing issues.

Benjamin Chavis, the former executive director of the N.A.A.C.P., said, “I think to criminalize how a person wears their clothing is more offensive than what the remedy is trying to do.”

Dr. Chavis, who is often pictured in an impeccable suit and tie among the baggy outfits of the hip-hop elite, is a chairman of the Hip Hop Summit Action Network, a coalition he founded with the music mogul Russell Simmons. He said that the coalition will challenge the ordinances in court.

“The focus should be on cleaning up the social conditions that the sagging pants comes out of,” he said. “That they wear their pants the way they do is a statement of the reality that they’re struggling with on a day-to-day basis.”

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Finding your happy place January 2, 2008 ,By Eric Weiner …s legendary search for the Happy Isles. The forces of technology…slaking our thirst for our own Happy Isles but stoking it. The number…yet, call a friend. Eric Weiner is the author of “The Geography…One Grump’s Search for the Happiest Places in the World.”

Dumb article: external factors — quality of government, social interactions and, to an extent, money — determine our happiness more than anything else.
/from the morose Moldavians to the chronically cheerful Danes.
democracies tend to fare better than dictatorships, Trust of others is another

In 1960, 58% of Americans felt most people could be trusted. By the 1990s, only 35% held that view.
Latin American countries, for instance, are among the happiest in the world, despite their relative poverty and often shaky political situations. One explanation: the close family ties.
/single biggest determinant of our happiness is the quantity and the quality of our relationships.
Admitting Jeans to the Country Club – WSJ.com

May 27, 2010 … Bans on denim are becoming a flash point for disagreement in many country clubs. online.wsj.com/…/SB10001424052748704717004575268520888246294.html – Cached

Well, Hush My Mouth: Congress Is Moving Against LOUD Ads

Why Americans Can’t Save Money In the depths of the recession, we were supposed to be in a new era of thrift. So why are Americans spending again?

Once Rare in Rural America, Divorce Is Changing the Face of Its Families By SABRINA TAVERNISE and ROBERT GEBELOFF Forty years ago, divorced people were more concentrated in cities and suburbs. But now, for the first time, rural Americans are just as likely to be divorced as city dwellers.

When Teachers Talk Out of School By JONATHAN ZIMMERMAN

Such teachers have become minor Internet celebrities, lauded by their fans for exposing students’ insolent manners and desultory work habits. But they should not be defended.

/ Germany’s Savers Clash With Bailouts Frugal German taxpayers are on the hook for bailing out some other European countries where borrowing has been a way of life—in one of the issues fueling tensions within the euro zone. 6/ll

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Orange County remains a bastion of conservative family values

June 23, 2011

…commercial districts in Santa Ana , the Vietnamese American…lowest percentage of single–parent households of any county…same house where their parents lived. Divorce is seldom…Science and Arts Academy in Santa Ana ? a rewarding job, she…

By Nicole Santa Cruz and Scott Gold, Los Angeles Times

Cities Report Surge in Graffiti By ADAM NAGOURNEY An upturn in graffiti has renewed debates about whether it signifies alienation in struggling areas or whether its glorification contributes to urban blight.

Can Greeks Become Germans? By THOMAS L. FRIEDMAN The story of the economic crisis in Greece is a story about values.

The Great Divorce By DAVID BROOKS Charles Murray’s “Coming Apart” describes the most important cultural trends today and offers a better understanding of America’s increasingly two-caste society.

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Helping California’s reluctant savers America being the land of instant gratification, its residents tend to save far less than their foreign counterparts do — when they…

http://www.latimes.com/news/opinion/editorials/la-ed-pension-20120531,0,5646530.story

/Grammar, a Victim in the Office

/Women and the Men Who Yell By GAIL COLLINS The women of America enjoy a good pander as much as anybody else, but could we cut down on the shouting and barking?

/ The Learning Virtues By DAVID BROOKS A book on education cultures finds that the Chinese tend to define learning morally while Westerns define it cognitively.

/ Can We Afford to Forgive Atrocities? Does the threat of prosecution make dictators more reluctant to step down? Would it be better for democracy if survivors forgave and moved on?

/only in japan could they come up with such amazing movers – http://www.wimp.com/japanmovers/

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Rockabilly barber revives old-school pompadour at Vegas shop

By John M. Glionna

Story | July 31, 2013 | 5:00 AM

… and electric razor at the ready, Martin Corona stood over his customer, poised … High and tight on the sides.” Corona nodded. He understood precisely … wouldn’t know what it was,” said Corona, 28, who began styling rockabilly … [click on pic to see terrible tats ….]

 / Europe Walks Fine Line With Lawsuits

Some businesses are worried that as the foundation for class-action lawsuits spreads around Europe, the culture of litigiousness and big damage awards prevalent in the U.S. could follow.

/ terrible – Video: The Curator of Bushwick

In just over a year, Joe Ficalora, a Bushwick native, has transformed his neighborhood into one of the world’s greatest destinations for street art.

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Travel Channel

World’s Top 10 Happiest Countries mostly in latin am. Confirms what fun the esl classes were.

/http://www.mikeroweworks.com/2012/09/the-first-four-years-are-the-hardest/

 

/The Value of Suffering By PICO IYER Calamity cracks you open, moves you to change your ways. Sometimes.

/ Hard Truths About Our Soft Bodies By FRANK BRUNI Studies and theories about everything from additives to air-conditioning cloud the bigger-is-better ethos that definitely contributes to America’s weight problem.

/ Video: The New Nice Guys of Comedy In an era when the most celebrated television dramas ask you to identify with often-repellent antiheroes, the new stars of late night are ingratiating nice guys. Related: Critic’s Notebook

/ The United States, Falling Behind By THE EDITORIAL BOARD An alarming report shows that American workers are poorly skilled compared with competitors abroad.

/ The Changing American Family By NATALIE ANGIER Same-sex parents. Cohabiting couples. Voluntary kin. Children with parents in prison. Immigrant-Americans. What we thought of as the typical American family is being rapidly redefined. It is more diverse than it was even half a year ago.

/ The Battle Over Dress Codes By PEGGY ORENSTEIN Why are we focusing so much on what girls are wearing?

/ http://m.policymic.com/articles/91279/japan-fans-did-what-no-other-soccer-fans-would-after-their-world-cup-team-lost?utm_source=policymicFB&utm_medium=main&utm_campaign=social

From: Sal Flores [mailto:asalflores@aol.com]
Sent: Saturday, June 21, 2014 5:05 PM
To: Dr. Ben
Subject: Re: Japan Fans Did What No Other Soccer Fans Would After Their World Cup Team Lost – Mic

 

I have seen them clean their area at angel stadium after a game when a Japanese super star is playing they even bring their own large trash bags, usually there would be about  50 in the group

/ Love People, Not Pleasure By ARTHUR C. BROOKS What do fame, wealth and lots of sex bring? Exactly the opposite of what you think.

/Florida Man Is Convicted of Murdering Teenager in Dispute Over Loud Music

By LIZETTE ALVAREZ Michael Dunn was convicted of first-degree murder in the shooting of an unarmed black teenager after a confrontation over rap music blaring from a car.

 / South Korea Legalizes Adultery

South Korea’s constitutional court on Thursday scrapped the nation’s criminal anti-adultery law, saying it infringed upon personal freedom.

/ Britain’s Surveillance State By THE EDITORIAL BOARD A parliamentary committee has proposed legal reforms, but they would do little to protect individual privacy.

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/ The Case for Fetal-Cell Research

By NATHALIA HOLT

Despite my uneasiness with it, the science has saved countless lives.

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A South Bronx Graffiti Walkabout

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Schooling Children in Manners, Thank You Very Much

Parents, teachers and entrepreneurs are teaching young people old-fashioned civility.

 

The Real Victims of Victimhood By ARTHUR C. BROOKS The victimhood industry has made us poorer citizens and more divided than ever. How do we distinguish real victims in a culture of complaint?

 

What Does Appropriate Office Dress Mean in 2016? Official dress codes have become much more relaxed in recent years. How does that change what professionals wear?

 

/ http://edition.cnn.com/2015/12/16/tennis/richard-williams-venus-serena-tennis/

 

/Bathroom Debate Complicates Mexican Town’s Acceptance of a Third Gender

By VICTORIA BURNETT A push for transgender bathroom rights is unsettling the Zapotecs of southern Oaxaca, despite their long embrace of a third gender.

Ag: 3^rd gender like bkk

 

/ How Should We Respond to ‘Evil’? By STEVEN PAULIKAS

The attempt to “destroy” evil is an ethical version of a fool’s errand.

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New York Today: New York Today: Much Ado About Tattoos

 

 https://www.bing.com/search?q=decline+in+values&form=EDGHPC&qs=PF&cvid=2ea1074a77b245f1aeefb049b6080159&pq=decline+in+values&cc=US&setlang=en-US thus https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-fix/wp/2015/01/07/the-striking-decline-of-values-in-american-politics/?utm_term=.2dec713f7675

 

/ Is an Open Marriage
a Happier Marriage?

What the experiences of nonmonogamous couples can tell us about jealousy, love, desire and trust.

By SUSAN DOMINUS

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Joe Biden: Reclaiming America’s Values By JOE BIDEN

Deep divisions have led to a war over our core beliefs. 9/l7

 

/ https://www.msn.com/en-us/music/news/the-whos-roger-daltrey-says-he-is-very-very-deaf-urges-fans-to-use-earplugs/ar-BBKgpQh?li=BBmkt5R&ocid=spartanntp

 

/ https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/companies/best-buy-isnt-the-only-store-that-punishes-shoppers-for-too-many-returns/ss-BBKfTeI?ocid=spartandhp

 

No Sweatpants in Public: Inside the Rule Books for N.F.L. Cheerleaders

By KEN BELSON

They’re subject to rules on etiquette and hygiene, including shaving techniques. Panthers cheerleaders must leave the stadium to change into their personal clothes.

 

Ethan Couch, ‘Affluenza Teen’ Who Killed 4 While Driving Drunk, Is Freed

By DANIEL VICTOR

Mr. Couch spent 720 days in jail after killing four people and paralyzing a fifth in a car crash. His defense contended that he was too rich to know right from wrong.

 

/ https://www.topixoffbeat.com/slideshow/18938?cvar=fbt1%3Ai-6r5-6C17H3FF3TO8AFNS&tpx_term=HNKLD9E6179B1L2O&utm_campaign=18938&utm_source=msn

 

/ Video: $30,000 Sneakers? As Demand Grows for Coveted Shoes, So Do Prices

By ERICA BERENSTEIN People will pay thousands of dollars for sold-out sneakers, and entrepreneurs are turning the once-underground resale market into big business.

 

How to Accept a Compliment By CAROLYN BUCIOR

If you just say “Thank you,” you’ve missed the point.

 

/ https://www.boredpanda.com/reasons-why-japan-is-awesome-interesting-facts/

 

/teacher and stu:

 

 

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Lending Apps in India Use Shame to Get Billions Out of Borrowers

With methods honed in China, a new kind of company offers loans to people hurt by the pandemic. If they can’t repay, family and friends hear about it. 3/2l won’t click nyt———

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 Kourtney kardashian and travis barker 4/1l

 

Him with his kids:

 

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The Decline of American Manners (msn.com)

 

isten to ‘Popcast’

 

The Astroworld tragedy turned attention to how rap festival performances are increasingly oriented toward the rowdy.

 

/ Flash mob turns scary as more than a dozen people are seen ransacking a 7-11 in wild attack caught on camera (msn.com) 8/20/22

 

/ Lawmakers Confront a Rise in Threats and Intimidation, and Fear Worse (msn.com) l0/22 you wonder if this increases with more soc….

============== = = =

This is the 2^nd valn:

/valn

Clafa lsent tradval to uci-tradval3, shaeffer?=tradval2,

/need psych vals

tradval on: lists, slums, tradval, sw, sub, val, lib?, adp

see 25, 50s, 60s, 80s? rights?

/search this for morality plays [which let us off hook]

Dear Abby, via fullerton police and cal dep of ed,

top problems in l940:

  l talking 2 gum 3 noise 4 running in halls 5 getting out of

line 6 improper clothing 7 not putting paper in wastebasket

  in l990: l drugs 2 alc 3 pregnancy 4 suicide 5 rape 6 rob

ery 7 assault. [but how can some of 90s’ be disc?] same said us news ll/8/93 said the same: top disc. problems, according to pub sch teachers. souce: congresional quarterly researcher

 

/the decline of val is tied in with the positive rubbish sig? roller derby

  (all of which relieve people of responsibility).

  rome etc

/cheating on games shows big scandal in past – chas van doren.

/violence in hockey and pro wrestle & roller\ lib conserv swings?

/sports

/rotc,

scouts, manners, (featured as novelties by lib press?) weak

/never would have torn pages out of lib bk

/shapiro’s stu. ea class sloppier ‑ talked to him in 8l ‑ but they would shape up

/taking loquats.

/self pity, porn,

/relative deprivation

/stress, depress….

/out growth of civil rights

/victim of porn

/did golden pond have to add profanity to get diff rating to draw bigger crowd? said ma?

/bums in the lib

/talking in lib and theaters

/m.f. #28 l0 pm 8/84

/mitchel bros. theater / 20K + spent by S.A.

/use hm town theme

/table manners on tv in last l5? yrs? skip

/giving em wht they want

/bump and grind rock singer ‑vs‑ elvis‑morning tv, anchors kid about

it ‑ 85

/can push a button to improve ed +

/abort..

/women

/smart ass 8:l0 sob, gd

/foreign countries

/job security

/Cher, Hey, I don’t bust my buns working out everyday for nothing.

/boy scout porno merit badge

/camera practically looking up girls dress on soul train or am. band

stand?

/lyrics changed after viet war

/mad max

/rd warrior

/child porn

/girl and gene wilder taking clothes off 4:30 pm

/cartoon violence

/HBO flic : Best legs in the 8th grade?

/mirv, dina, cavett,

/marathoner said prince chas has nice buns 4/86

/conrad on royal wedding night

/broken hm= single parent…; illigit = o.w.? or teen preg. ; less

stigma to divorce

/surrogate parenting

/class?

/min wage?

/welfare?

/Carnal Knowledge ll/84 on tv 8:00 pm

/also I married a Centerfold

/japan

= 4 yrs more of ed

/college faculty sleeping w stu

/sitting on planters, tops of bus benches, & newspaper stands

/tots in 84 yellow pages looking at their own privates to see if there is a diff.

/graffitti an insult?

/the frus of the common man

/cops afraid of kids

/radio porn

/9:30 am video sex shooters. girl showing l/2 her bosom

/Amadeus farting ‑ sneak preview 6:22 pm

/ 60 min on teen hooker ‑ intro sec. Yeah I was good ‑ 85?

/60 % teacher in l.a. dont feel save l/85 stan chambers?

/in prison can wear hair long, hd bands, shades, fu

manchus, and other affectations

/everyone’s rights : mi’s, criminals,

addicts, prisoners, winos, mr’s

/deerhunter: f..this and that

/helmets

for bikers ‑forbidding their jackets along the lines of bodenheimers

lines of total take‑a‑way approach

/forbidding the congregating of

felons?

/shopping carts?

/wholesome wisdom of country farmer w

/slingshot on carson ‑ audience

was touched but wouldn’t admit it?

/doomsaying

/gi bill = going to col

lege was a dream for many then.

/Sundance decision 78 : alc not crime ,

then crime went up 47% (along skid row?) p. l3 Brother’s Keeper, Home

less file

/librarian coughed into tel.

/MP’s feared and respected in the military and they LOOK like they mean business vs NY cops

/in 80’s so far member ship 8% in boy scouts and 3% in girl scouts ‑ u.s.

news 3/ll/85

/sat scores fell 9% from 67 ‑ 8l us news 2/l8/85 ‑‑‑

language ability has dropped ever since 50’s.

  Many coll grads have a weaker command of eng than their folks .

coll…watered down carrucula . rise of bonehd eng. texts dumbed down.

black eng gained and fizzeled. sat scores over 600 dropped 3% 73‑83.

/ death wish and subway vigilante

/ bikers do it in the dirt; teachers do it w/ class ; sit on a happy face; honk if you’re horny

/ playboy as an inst.

/ 2nd grade meagan yelling fagot

/ lic. plate: Does she?

/ douche bag on sat night live

/ popularization of drugs on same

/ cable porn

video rentals

/Apacalypse now = drug movie ‑ 3 stars ‑ masterpiece

/threatening panhandlers in Seattle

/people at all levels in the past had a lot less,

but were happier (partly because they earned it?)

/ looking up at girls crotch in Personal Best while she spots his bench press

/ japanese kids sure far better behaved ‑

/ d. suskind saying JFK had to have it daily or get a hdache

/ customers and help both worse?

/ custodian unwilling to do anything by himself bout guy sleeping in bushes.

/ salesman asking copymatic marge which co she is insured w

/ interviewers asking all sorts of personal questions

/ rona berret asking stars bout sex lives on tv

/ blaring radio on garbage truck.

  Flic: main event guy talked to streisand “thru crotch” as she bent

over. then she dry humped the air a ft. from him as part of an exercise ‑

a 77 flic

/ dirtier greeting cards

/fetus smoking on anti smoking campaign

‑ am lung? assoc?

/has disney changed?

/archi bunker worried his l2? yr old niece will date a guy who’s not nice

/85

/hope asian refugees at g.g. lib don’t pick up too many of our bad habits as they probably worked far harder in their countries. hd librarian talked of calling cops as they had no authority.

/ spying for $ , not ideology

/ guys flipping bird behind interviewer

/ keep you waiting on tel. longer

/ We’ll give you an hr. to stop your (drug) boat.

/ bingo ad on h.s. marquis ‑ played there?

/ drugs in mil down from 40% to under l0% now. almost wiped out in minor leagues.

/ raising drinking age ( 8‑2l? in N.H. cut teen deaths 75% 84 or 85

/ yet doesn’t work w/ trying to stop drugs

/ flic: Zapped ‑ flic in which Scot Baio zaps teens at dance which makes all but their underwear fall off. 9:50 pm

/big deal over polygraph / 85‑6

/slum dancing ‑ bump and grind

/all want day’s wages, but not a day’s work

/differ by region, class, ethnic

grp?

/ bumper stickers ‑ one with a picture prohibiting oriental driving

/hat’s on inside

/sexual harrassment up (donahue)

/ did church as a youngster ever cause me to lead a better life?

/ can’t legislate morality

/ kid can curse you and your fam.

/ talking of taking pass/fail in tex. to supreme crt.

/ celebrating xmas? by shooting into the air ‑ lot in buena clinton. falling bullets hurt people l2/85

/ looked like they respected police in A Tree Grows in Brooklynn /

  strippers on phil donahue

/ porn stars on other programs

/ the losers have all the counselors, etc., normals have zip

/ marilyn monroe

/ l2 yr old shooting loud starter pistol. smoke shot out. ‑perfectly legal. /playboy in lib ‑ lst complaint in l0 yrs.

/wholesome meggie in thornbbirds

/ libs tear down, tear down

/ silliness of police state

/ e.t. profantiy by kids, goblin drunk,

/ flic: silver sgreak ‑highly suggestive

/ cal said sign near gambling table said we cash s.s. and pension checks

/ obscene messages left on answering machines

/ less interest in truancy

/ no dress codes?

/ profanity of cable co. workers

/ decline on tv can practically been drawn as a line on a graph ‑show

/ the year of the crotch?

/ delayed stress syn

/ if police can’t stop noise, how can they stop crime?

/ pigs

/music video: drill to girl, grind heel into check, satanic, voluptuous, bizarre

/ hockey violence with organ playing

/l rm schse

/ jon lenon

/ not sig if there are heros or not

/mil insignias

/ lack of vals is worse for the poor and the slums

/ at the movies..used word horny a lot‑6:30 pm;started w/ porkies. lot of men never matured; cruel to women. no tenderness; the last am. virgin; going all the way ‑ 5/l/85 ; flics pitched at teens who are fat, virgin, etc. idea is don’t deal w peers; go find a prostitute. my tutor; the white

shadow ‑tv

/ lust‑hate relationship .; this was a spec show on teen sex

flics due to the no of these bad flics; male dominated, cept for valley

girl. women have no names

/ class romeo never got laid out of a bar.

/porn= we don’t respect women

/ why rock music for everything=johnson winning the downhill, documentaries,

/ handcuffing illegals when ours won’t even work

/ static kids give me when I break up a fight ‑kiner st

/big arguements over getting cable or satalite dish programs free

/ lst cath pres, rocky’s divorce, reagan’s 2nd wife, single parents, can see a birth on tv now, reproductive system?, incest discussed, place of women

/Former dir. of cia colby said, l0‑l5 yrs ago, secrets wouldn’t have

been given away for $

/ Cosby show

/ same w/ archie bunker’s place

/ faulkners gone l0 yrs ‑came back and no one resp, no wk, no one worth

salt.

/ Angeline #l8 En vivio 5/28/86

/ Love Connection=cheap 5/86 /

painting with brush in mouth

/thank god for immigrants vs. our flakes

/sexiest weatherman said M Shriver 5/86

/deep pocket outrageous insurance settlements

/Focus on soc. 5/7/86 telling how ghetto types virtually

luagh at the idea of work

  l37K machine guns registered to pri cit in u.s. can rent em. sickos

that thrill to em ‑legal in 37_states to own one. can buy semi‑auto over

counter an convert

/ hockey fight on select tv ad

/ N. reagan said hard to be parent in 60’s

/ an old Jose Ferre in sweats, could see his …

/ pre welfare stories of real struggle ‑ paper boys on corners ‑ t.j.

/jake, the snake on pro‑wrestling.

/ l.a. animal control said nothing could be done

/ rep of fam, honor, duty,

/ if foreigners had pro wrestling, we’d call them uncivilized

/ Larry Hagman: don’t you want to get your hands on my bvd’s

/ hooting

/put you on hold forever

/soap

/ grossly suggestive aerobics and comments on tv

/ lot of bump and grind

/ old don taylor at s.c. deal said stu would never rip pages out of book in his day ‑ older author

/ hey this, hey that

/ sig: decline due to soc. resp intead of indiv. resp 87 bpdf

Wednesday’s cars were the best in detroit

/ refugees shame us ‑ girl who spelled freedom

/ strippers on danahue; porn actors on suskind, and tom synder which helps legitimize it all

/ sado‑masochism of pro wrestle

/some place crime was reduced and people came back out at night

/another is patrolled by neighbs 2/wk ‑ it reduced crime

/ we have to take from youth gangs their immature smiles bout murder, drugs, getting caught, ma’s concern ‑ draft em.

/ the sex revolution

/care unit’s tastless ad bout 5% that die from alc s

/ people looking down into grave and then darkness as dirt is shoveled. “No one cares like we do” (nor as tastelessly)

/ wonder if they run in cycles like lib/cons

/ porn, gamble, alc, drug, crime, ed, wel,

/ 7/3/86 on #2 bout how youth

learned drugs from folks who drugged in 60’s = don’t deal w/ problems

/sig: thank god for immigrants ‑ most of which must be good

/ rather said now w/ am a bit more cynical, immigrants still believe this is the land of oppor…

/have come to pt a cop in an unmarked car drives fast thru the sts of

a bad neigh. for fear of being shot at

/can’t execute a guy who’s gone crazy since being sentenced

/ sexual harrassment

/ cops seducing gals

/ profs and stu

/ church covering for and repeatedly transferring a priest

who had molested kids for l0 yrs

/ Cosell says too much emphasis on sports

/ semi=sexy poses of l0 yr old model

/ locks on dr in ny

/ careful on halloween

/ parents hi in front of kids more?

/ slam dancing

/ death rate

/increasing only for l5‑24 yr olds

/ Menudo’s bump and grind

/ when stuff is bleeped out it may be obvious, but it gives an air of restraint? attempt at standards? a statement that not just any and everything goes ‑that there are supposed to be some limits

/ lot of folks don’t want to hear that ‑ they don’t have to wallow? in reality to know it

/ they like to leave something to the imagination like sex

/ big open mouthed kisses

/isn’t it private

/ tie in with rise of far right religion and klan and survivalists?

/ seems the workmen in neigh can’t get along without blaring radio ‑ trash

too ‑ baseball crowd too

/ white hse says we embarrassed abroad by our

reporters shouting questions to dignitaries ‑ and at times which are for

photos only.

/ talk about as day’s pay, but not about a day’s work

/ more liquor stores in so. cent. l.a. than in Penn.

/ get raunchy on The Love Connection

/ Positive: babies being born

/ reproductive system

/ incest

/ alc

/ drugs

/bootstraps

/mitchel bros.

/ doom ‑ self‑p

/ soc.

/ rise of right

/ civil rights

/ lib‑cons

/ intellects and burs

/ late 60’s

/ trad. val

/ last 20 yrs

‑ INTELLECT…

  disease,

/censor

/ stress, trauma,

/ soc

/ lib

/pro

/ all a victim

said Insight

/

‑ SOCIALISM

  producers and consumers

/ polarizing bottom

/ / job sec. /

‑ RIGHTS

  polygraph / pass‑play to s.c. / civil, women, access, gay,/ 60l/mi’s,

alc’s prisoners,/min. standards despite foolishness /

‑ WORK

  day’s pay / newark ‑ having kids / laugh at idea of reg job in ghetto

/ paper boys / paintbrush in mouth / menial /

‑ MANNERS

  chomping / on hold / press corps? / talk w/ mouth full /

‑ ED

  pass fail to s.c. dup / grammar: hey, at / shapiros / teachers feel

unsafe / dress codes / disc / sat scores / texts dumbed /snap courses /

paddle / open classrm; new math; dual admissions; put on schs who had no

tools; pass/fail; ungraded?; anything to get you to j.c. /Siposs’s class;

fundamental sch.

‑ LAW shoot in air / pig? / machine guns / l2 yr old ‑ starter pistol /

if can’t stop noise, what can they stop /

‑ POVERTY

‑ CRIME

  depression / neigh watch / death wish ‑dirty harry / hr to stop /

‑ SPORTS

  hockey violence w/ organ / drugs / cheating /

‑ GEN….

  immigrants shame us ‑they don’t fall apart, / fam’s rep / pro wrestle

‑ sado/masochism ‑ if foreign / into mil for disc. / faulkners / panhand

lers threaten / happier in past with less / spy for $ /conrad cartoons /

newark / playboy=inst / camera up dress / bingo on h.s. marque /

‑ YOUTH

  slam…/ drugs ..via folks / death rate / punk/ tear pages /

‑ UP

  rotc, scouts, manners/ drugs in mil down from 40% to l0% and almost

stopped in minor league sports / drinking age up and deaths down / wed

cars? / less: soc, min wage, union power,//

 

  20 yrs olds who can’t work

/ loss of faith in insts. and cops

/ mud slinging campaigns

/ wkman’s comp for all sorts of disabilities

/ deep

pockets

/ indians

/ single parent hms

fox? wrestle

/ lenient judges

/ coddling criminals

/ vandalism

/ anti soc

beh

/ s.w. myths

/ cheating in biz?

/ soc programs ‑ h.h.

/ rise? of

credit cards?

/ take a pill for anything

/ teen suicide?

/ job of ed to

pass on the cul

/ need drug test for stu. and search their lockers

/ race

/ good serv. for sake of self

/ can’t get good help

/ morals?

/ sports: drugs, violence?, cheating?

/ toynbee’s challenge and response

/ lyrics after viet

/ cops vs m.p.’s

/ college was a dream

/ something from nothing

/ librarian said she has no auth

/ slingshot guy

/ anything goes

/ win at any cost

/ crotch

/ style article

/ topless?

/ all that’s fit to print

/ rock?

/ gablers

/ wife swap

/ value survey by ___

/ attica

/ w. williams ‑ hope

/ late 60’s /

  End: worse for poor

Better: “broken” hm; “illegit; surrogate parents; adopt; cath. pres.

  divorce; hair?

Resentment of immigrants?

/ soc. programs and still bellyaching ‑ bond,

donahue?

/ resentment of those who don’t work

/ excessive litigation /

‑ SEX

  Teen: best legs in 8th grade; no feelings, no resp, older, as

objects; menudo

  Entertainment figures: mirv, dina, cavet, mittler, suskind, synder,

hagman, welch ,

  TV: graph, soap, eye on l.a. porn stars, cable, b&g ‑ anchors, dating

game, love connection, aerobics, stripper, fannys thru screen

  Flics: golden pond; deer hunter /

  Gen: its private / lice. plate holders, bump stickers; sex revolt…;

playboy as inst. / profanity

  scofflaws / drugs undermine / illegals too / profanity

/ fringe benefits

/ all want security ‑ job security /

 

  In discussing these, references are often made to the last 20 years.

It seems about the early 60’s, we began a very destructive liberal

period. All authority had to be questioned, discipline was a no no, pun

ishement was medieval, psychology was everything with endless indulging

of any sort of behavior as some sort of “right.”. Any personal problem

had to be a “trauma”. Nothing was simple ‑ everything had to be

technical, which could only be understood by professionals.

  I see the reasons for these problems as:

  l decline ‑ espec sex

  2 the growth of intellects and bureaucrats.

  soc = wel, min wage, stamps, rent subsidies,

  3 Exagerated “rights” Misconstrued

 

  ‑ A little attention was given: education, work, pride, hygiene,

getting ahead, appearance, and self‑control.

‑ Only mentioned: respect for property and authority, foresight

  (thrift, saving, planning), responsibility, self‑reliance, and moder

  ation.

‑ Not mentioned: manners, proper speech, health, public service,

  quietness, privacy, family life.

‑ Seen as destructive: censorship, conformity, authority, disci

pline, punishment, and tradition=?

About the early 60’s, we began a destructive liberal period. All author

ity had to be questioned, discipline was a no no, punishement was

medieval, psychology was everything with endless indulgence of any sort

of behavior, “rights.”.

  Any problem was a “trauma”. Everything had to be complex.

 

/ rotc/

frats

/ demos

/ dissent

/ sit fl.

/ me gen..

/ media indulged em

/ campus

takeover

/ Soc= resignation in No. eng’s youth; newark

/ esl stu stood

up

/ sex=respect

/ where’s my reply to cmc question

/

firm=strict=repressive

/ decline in mil ‑ cya / less “comm” /

  videos = grind heel; power drill / in bed: profs, cops, clergy,

shrinks

  Ma: what’s diff? alc?, prost?

spineless: hr to stop; comm relations?; rights; polygraph; hoped the kid

wouldn’t sue me / Young men didn’t go around in undershirts./ slam dan

cing/ food fights in cafeteria/ guns/ myth ‑ slums are hopeless/ getting

a bit firmer w/ homeless mi’s in calif., can be kept longer/ censorship

(certain words, extreme tastelessness, military secrets)/ , and clean up

professional wrestling./ I was never taught the obligation I had to my

folks as being sacrificed for

 restraint, planning ahead, hard work, being clean cut, some confor

mity and tradition, proper speech, and respect for self, property, oth

ers, and authority.

  responsibility, self‑reliance, hard work, authority, discipline, mod

eration, fairness, honesty, thrift, saving, respect, the golden rule, man

ners, good faith, wholesomeness, deferred gratification, some censorship,

some conformity. No porn or gambling all covered by list/ need article

tracing lack of vals all thru juv justic system ‑ also pointing out how

other communities and countries are never looked at./ lot of it is test

ing but no one will stand up to anyone/ Ky: we’ve been here long enough

to know you protect the criminal/ putting it all on schs like they do on

the gov/ gen gap in roomers/ invertibrates: importing crime: viets,

cubans, jamaicans, haitians?

 

/ avoid libs or is this inherent/ add tradvals/ rolling

boom boxes

 

Dear Rev. Miller, 4/88

  I appreciate your letter. Police Times has had The Decline of Values

about a year and plans to use it. A local paper, The Orange County

Register …………

  I retain the rights. If you can still use it and have the rights

revert to me, go ahead.

 

  I prefer this ending: “Things have improved a little, but we have a

long way to go; and the path lies in returning to traditional values:

responsibility (the primary value), restraint, … ”

  send improved version?

 

Dear John Miller, of soc.. jus.. 5/88

Here is a list of other articles you might be interested in. If so, I could send them by computer disk: for an IBM XT that uses wordperfect or ascii.

  Yours truly,

go into psych, soc, / siposs/ last emperor: kid on potty, smell and see turds, 3 in bed, blood out of head at murder, blood in 2 other scenes, mouse against wall, spit in face, wet nurse, wedding night

 

  Psych overindulgent psych in trying to trace every hangup back to adam and eve relieved people of resp. soc relieves us in many ways. deficit spending econ postpones or debts. screwball ed theories: have to be liked lst. 60’s theories: sex rev. pos, easy, fun

former col gov richard lamm am sure I have this somewhere. U.S. inferior ed insts, and uncomp inductries./ we spend almot l2% of ghp on health care – more than any of our comp.. / most vilent crime ridden soc in inducstrialized world. most litigious soci. 2/3rds of world’s lawyers in us. no other soc spends as uch tie in court ro as much defneding and insuring against lawsuits./ no moder soc has our rate of drugs abuse, teen preg, and func illiteracy/ winning off comes down to $./ hang from ceiling/ sugar coat allrespect = no name calling – tolerated far too much in our soc/ -should nip it in the bud. finishing schfinishing sch./ sex on tv w/o ratings puts too much of a burden on folks – no way they can know ahead of time which movies and programs are going to be on sex or whatever – current affair. what do donahue, opra, and geraldo talk about on monday’s? sex, every other day = sex. every change they get – sex. everytime their ratings slip – sex. every time they get a new or “cuter” angle on it – sex. boring – juvenile, etc. and BAD for kids. what will be their most repetitive this yr. next yr. how bout divorce court – sex. current affair? / black gal on 2? 8/29 said hist shows vals swings down and up throughout hist.Record albums weren’t packaged with a picture of genitals engaged in sex acts./ the good ol days

vals for kids: boast, brave, cheat, courage, deceit, disobey, forgiv, complain, hate, irrevernce, jealous, patience, quarrel, rebell, repent, selfish, stubborn.—– really bad./ ucla spends l00k/yr? to test its atheletes for drugs. / stigma of illegit is fading/ jackson – sex w/o love is bad. / can they be injected? later? shouldn’t be nec./ if our kids were subjected to a day of schooling like the kids in japan have, our shrinks would have a fit./ natural law/ used to dress up for flics and planes. go to movie palaces in la, nor as many psychologists with their patients.It’s for emotional involvement and it’s private. H. fonda as father of the yrpeter got psych 4-f jane was a bulmenia – eat and purgeh. fonda married 4 times -lst suicided? 2nd half his agetoo much p.r. in police work

article la ll/8/88 lst p of view. morality crisis prods some schs to START teaching vals again. this was highly controversial in the not to distant past. they did teach em 3-4 decades ago, but stopped due to sep of church and st. idiotic. tv, rock. [then article got funny with theory]

privacy, auth, justic, resp, freedom, diverstiy, property, participation. name calling, excuding l from grp activity. listening to handicapped stu tell of teasing resulted in drop-off of incidents. bullying. adopt a needy fam. animals

said kids aren’t born with vals=crap. anger, irritation, frustration and aggression = non-caring. crap. yelling at kids = out of control.

one said character development sounded holier than thou. get kids to do it when adults aren’t around. asked to draft own plan brought: self-esteem and worth in hi uib … and … cheating, plagiarism, in hi comp area.add contemp vals? good ol daysvaln if herm’d see a bad incident, he call police and “bail”, he saidduty-stewardshipbumper sticker: don’t like my driving, dial l 800 eat shit/teens under pressure in 70’s to have sex as soon as possible said tv/the ams that fought in viet can’t make it, but what about those from other countries that fought there – including viet. never asked/interview women from bout the collar bone up -often/hired campus guards in late 60’s/donahue having russian and us youth link up, rock, sing, talk about dating [probably 5th grade or less], wave, cheer, fun, etc. for world peace./ barf//marianne moody said her l8 yr old didn’t know basics in ed and was more immature than we were//dr. beck says to stu. no eng is your problem./ said vals have slid last 25 yrs – no question//increase in security devises, measures, etc. I bet insur cos would know. / strange they complain bout tabloid and trash tv now on reg tv, but didn’t complain bout porn on cable when it came out. to the best of my memory.need guide on what folks shouldn’t let their kids watch/ la ll/88 3 or 4 decades ago schs taught vals, but sep of church and state helped stop it. auth, privacy, juistice, responsibility, freedom, diversity, property, participation. no hitting, name calling, or excluding a child from a grp activity. students istened to handicapped kid tell what it feels like to be teased – this cut incidents. help animals. cheatint, pagiarism, /people better during wwii-ma/reason any individualism=lack of val; only in self-scrifice for the commm can moral value be found. sig . [individ somehow means greed]/canda’s cities are clean, safe, and almost slumless. canadians are non-violent. muggings asre rare, gun laws are strict. murder rate is l/4th ours./ wall st week – wattenberg? greed was never in. individuall and as a nation [false now] we are the most generous people on earth./the non profit sector of our country is stronger than any other by 5 to l over the next which is eng. other call us greedy out of jealousy envious. wattenberg said we’re not a nation of mood swings – didn’t have such as malaise in 70’s as was thot. [same of me gen, yuppies, hippies, yippies, tweeners,]/why blank out license plate of the johns/one rock drummer uses ear plugs/ins can’t stop and search those who seem to be latino, have a lean and hungry or dirty and unkempt look -la 8/85 said a court./ child labor. 2 span boys ll and 8. foks work three jobs. kid make meals, interpret, and care for baby. boys get up at dawn on sat. lot of im kids work and skip cartoon, ball games, visiting freinds, scouts,litle league. some help folks illegally with jobs such as paid hseclening. they do luandry. tend to talk behind in hmwk. one rev said the harder one’s life the faster the maturation. and reporter said the more matuere , the more eager for academics??????/] more a sense of fam. / more resp in latino fams?older guy at stater said being and older worker is zero vs the young who coming late, high, boozed, undependable, sick, etc./ ted hunter of situation mng inc in tustin: runs drug programs for cos. said vals dived since viet./banned porn in cincinati and olk city and sexual violence and rape went down 20% and 80% .They’re proving the American dream more than most Americans. They do it through family teamwork, hard work, education, thrift, saving, and other values we’ve lost sight of./used to say shame on you/drug war, like viet, like sw – got hands tied/obligation of entertainment industry re: tatoos, earings, none of this on foreigh channel.their singers don’t look like they crawled out of a dumpster/flint said falwell did it to his ma in an outhse and supreme court upheld flint’s right/worry that we’re falling behind other japan and other countries – of course we are. they don’t indulge the foolishness we do in the name of rights, free expression, lst amend? etc

/if sportstars have to be drug free as they are models, then how bout rock stars, movies stars, other entertainment starts./cops few times have told me neighbs can make all the noise they want till l0 pm/im said this country had good laws; tenants couldn’t buy their way out of abusing ll’s./foreigners, refugees have seen dead people. we fix em up and rarely see em/foreigners, refugees have seen dead people. we fix em up and rarely see em/tabloid tv – current affair, the reporters, cops, am’s most wanted, that robert stack one, etc – don’t always HANDLE their subjects right, professionally, but they bring out stories that need exposure – some comm’s ordeal because the cops overly tolerate an informer.

/used to wait till they could afford it to have a child /pub ed etc. means you should be able to give em a drug test

/married with children- blu collar comedy, sun, would have been unacceptable before cable tv. sig gross scenes: babe in underwear than man in woman’s underwear. gal wrote 45 cos. protesting and some cos pulled ads. what one person accomplished.

/girl with t shirt with “shit” printed in big letters

/4th graders feeling pressure to drink

/everything has to have a graduation – rehab…

/of all the alumni, the one you hear lst of is medley

/drugs tests for entertainment stars too, pro wrestlers

/any other vices: tobacco, guns, anthing on lib list. wholesome =? no neg-so say you’ll call and don’t

/dom.. worked better than herm

/your didn’t have to fear your things being stolen from repairmen or domestic or nursing help

/big is bad

/val. people comment about the elegant, stylish b & w movies at night. steve garvey fathered 2 illegits and pete rose gambled tons. and the fans go into depression.

/kids buying rubbers in sex flic at 4:30 – l4 yrs old.

/white hse staff suing bush over drug testingsex in media: sit coms, movies, r.d., mags, books, and some in the papers and local news. ‑ singles.

/crt gave 3 mil lottery win to women tho ball popped out

/valn dismissed charges against blk who provoked wht cop in lb, who could get a yr and l/2.

/baseball games never show fans run out on field – to not give viewers ideas?

/we brought out bad lunches and envied anyone with a tuna sandwich. lunch in the sch cafterria wsas a rare treat -early 30s

/scouts – idea of duty, resp, challenge, character building, improvisation, a calling?, honor, same with what other youth orgs. and the mil

/do shs have safeties like we didfundamental schs

/anyone showing disrespect for teachers, police can be put against a wall, frisked, detained, hassled, and detained till they learn it

 

 

/scouts – idea of duty, resp, challenge, character building, improvisation, a calling?, honor, same with what other youth orgs. and the mil

/biz and sch must do all – vs fam as trad val!

/will transfer violent stu to another sch w/o telling his new teach and 0 on record to keep it clean as a right?

/would you be as safe in your old neighborhood and old school or in the major cities now as you were 30 yrs ago?

/STARTING to talk bout resp.

/wk and save. buy only when you can afford it.

/forbidding drug testing of those who can endanger us [??] means they have a right to trans

/give the drug boat and hr to stop

/why not have kids help crossing guard with batons and vests – safeties. – insur?

/dalton: pas are mas and mas are sisters

/mennonites [and mormons] believe in something

/yankee tradition

/r. samuelson w post 4/24/89 not a good one

our teens live in dreamland. less than an hr of hmwk/dy.

-an adolescent subculture that’s been evolving.

-stus of similar backgrounds do better at cath hi schs. where stu do 50% more hmwk and have more math, eng, and hist. folks of pub sch stu don’t use as much auth. since 60’s schs less demanding. folks of cath schs use more auth. [so cath schs do].

recent reforms in pub schs have made slight diff.

40% of hs stu hve jobs. most are mc.

our cul: rights. question auth. self-exp. [starts to blow it]

parental guilt contributes. [how] kids should enjoy youth. sch shouldn’t spoil it.

am stus score lower in [academic] achievement than asians, but they and folks are more satisfied. [as all are spoiled] #

/sellick on vals w stubble. kid gets hit from behind and 0 done. of course called em children

/old kirk douglas and some young gal spreading her legs in gym. same with michael ……. eng guy

/why should a cycle be louder than a truck. a car stereo louder than the muffler

/give a youth a solid grounding and he won’t get on drugs or will get off quicker

/people won’t push a broom for 20k

/right to read porn for most prisoners – where

/iowas: fed crt stated prisoner have the same access to sexually explicit material as everyone else. – cept for sex offenders or others shrinks ban. no sm, bestiality or kid porn.

/us news 5/89 subway graffiti had to go becasue ihad become symbol of decay and unleashed adolescence. cost 52 mil/yr, but they thot should spend it on causes. ty city sadder w/o graffiti. some of the “artists” earn thousands by big gallaries for their work. the people’s art movement” brilliant graffiti jungle. bouguets of color from the caribbean. graffiti’s exuberant beauty.

/la 5/2l/89 biz can’t grow w/o clerical help. can’t find it.

25% not ready for lst grade in us. in inner city as hi as 70&%.

/comic books: gore, crucifying a prostitute – green lantern. decapitations

/tabloid tv panders. took geraldo only ll min to get all yelling. another time on staying young [lalane] and sex right into it. stop watch.

/auto thieves treated like petty criminals said david horowitz

/serpico complained how for cops held in greater esteem

/medals on fatigues of viet vet protesters

/feel you almost have to tell people how to do their jobs

/repair man didn’t steal, use profanity, play stereo in his truck

/domingo said 75% of people here cheat. more in mex

/debbie boone, pat boone

/serpico complained how for cops held in greater esteem

/diff twix right to do it and what is right to do.

/siposs

/I don’t think rock singers should have tatoos showing

/specialist 4 in the army

/cable tv is a lot dirtier

/censor: idea is: it’s healthy to have a buffer zone on language, restraint, conformity [eton], privacy, modesty, civility, re women, kids, etc. profanity, fantasy, lust, greed, hate?, rage?, rights? could be darn, cripes, and espec need this in one’s youth

/some decent anchow women on local news look a bit uncombortable after a story on sex. others like kellylang seem to join in

/someone else complained bout their sloppiness in fatigues

/when do you hear of shame

/all pos. to say you’ll call and don’t

many college graduates today know less than former graduates,

/test prostitutes for drugs and vd

/when young: don’t fight kid with glasses, don’t hit anyone while down. don’t hit girl. don’t pick on anyone smaller, don’t kick, don’t fight a drunk, no 2 on l

/valn coddling em at waxter so jail and prison probably same.

/fundamental schs, and not putting paper in wastebaskets One report said if we could trace the decline of education to a foreign country, we would consider it an act of war.

/lot of my roomers and others think the schools are a joke

/vals – go to lst grade and see what kids are getting away withtrash truck w/ radio – small

/a civil tonque. edwin newman. howard k smith said the same.

/vals: we think rich, but act poor ??????? find that.

/little white lie = kids on tel say my parent’s next door

/2 men dancing the tango together #5 in aft. nuryev

/shouldn’t be able to hear other people’s car radios when pulling up at a stop sign

/bizman learning bout jap cul. he had a 4 day stubble.

/when do you hear of shame, remorse, someone wanting to make up for it

/us illegitamacy from ll% to 22% in _____ yrs

/old man youn gal in deathwish 3: bronson

/d. raffin. others: m. caine, and kirk douglas.

/bump and grind at mobilization for youth

/could shake a kid in the past

/more hit and run?

/geraldo: did you do the whole band. who was your best lover.

/2l yr old and friends tilt 800 lb coke machine in trying to get a free coke. it crushes him. his fam sues coke

/dirty dancing lessons on evening news. felt embarrassed for gal

/fame: crude, mena, st, jungle, ny, tough

/val? tom and randy getting pot in mail

/you used to hear more about kids working to help support the fam

/hi profits a

/val sex in luv’s diaper commercial [ coitus interuptus]

/val 4.2 congrat, you’re doing great

/ feel good bout self

/work vice into valn

/val. no resp, never wrong, can’t admit they dk, pro, tech

/used to wait to have a baby

/The Seduction – nude in sch comedy. 8 pm. Private Sch. bout same. 8 pm Private lessons – same. impossible to anticipate all the sex on tv so you’d know when to not let your kid watch it.

/val. police had to get man’s written permission to look in his car

/69% illigit in baltimore. 80% in watts

/val. a humility and wholesomeness, and realism about a kid who does chores

/was the man the ostensible hd of the house in I love lucy & honeymooners

/less than l0% of the couples are virgin on wedding night

/how awful to be called a name out front

/if our kids had to spend a week in jap schools, our shrinks would lose their mind, our aclu would sue japan, our teachers would ,

our sociologists would coddle them upon return – packing them off to summer camp, our ….. would study it, donahue + would insist they’d been victimized, dehumanized, traumatized

/recepe for speed in pub lib. also how to make bomb?

/name calling should be a crime. toy guns

/foreigners #l8 don’t make a spectacle of talking with their mouth full

/maflower madam on talk shows, radar detectors

/ky: we’ve lived here long enough to know you protect the criminal. 85?

/the let kidney patients die in eng. l/2 ? do.

/ mr hemeophiliac -tons of $

/william holden banged? young one in 60’s flic Breezy. also Joe

/having to join mil to get disc

/didn’t assault little league umpires in past

/smooth talk = dirty teen flic

/drunk driving deaths dropped 80-84

/love voat,, 3’s co, elvira. h. rosenberg. rock music over bombing of embassy? in beruit.

/liberachi died and that night koppel? was asking if he was gay

/top disc problem in the schs in 40’s: talking, gum, noise, running in halls, out of turn in line, pmproper clothing, .. now its drug, alc, pregnancy, suicide, rape, robbery, assault. 85% shape up when disc; rest are crime waves.

/5 days in jail for 3rd time graffiti wroter. steal paint. rap music in background.

/working your way thru college was more common in past.

/val wholesome vs fame. jap kids have a protected? inocence. jap love to bath said jane seymour on electronic tribe.

/basketball coach in so surprised at media atten for returning trophy

/can now write of gambling loss if a pro gambler

/there are such things as abstinence, restraint.

/ok to curse police. supreme crt

/extremely explicit on miami vice, jextaposed w/ murder. I winced at dr. ruth’s comments

/eur thinks we peaked in early 60s

/if teacher can’t do jobs, some of same w/ cops, others.

/mormons: dutiful, diligent, conscientou. so plodding its unimaginative, dull, anti intellectual. wholesome but tedious. their religion too tech. no subtlety nor understatement.

/have to go into mil to get disc.

/the rich and famous couldn’t have been done 20 yrs ago

/in eng they let l/2 the kidney patients die

/getting surfers out of water

/val- blood sports. eskimos believe in euthanasia

/immature & young are attracted to vice. and we legitimize them. gambling on blood sports is worst of both worlds

/hippies want to throw away what we are trying to get. esl

/val ow kids, living together,

/only takes one bad kid or fam or dog

/in ’65 7% of teachers wuldn reenter field; in 84, 24%;

in 87 4l% of la teachers. course ny’s a joke/we put up w/ garber. 30 yrs ago wouldn’t have

/us used to save a lot

/cheer leaders dragging good luggage across pavement

/feet on pillow. shoes on couch, feet on seat in theaters. tilt chair.

/vals can degenerate: pow’s, ny singles pushing to get food, the good earth

/all the trouble to send hi sch bands or cheerleaders on long trips to compete. renting dinner jackets for a capella.

/gunman kills l4 then self – people say, thot that only happened in am

/when okla loses football? entire st goes into mouring. women wear blk armbands for a wk.

/car radios come down st like a sledgehammer

/menial work – if wrong why are senior doing it

/average am saves less than anyone in world – a l williams

/decline of vals draws lines of contention deeper and promotes stereotypes?

/moderation in vice?

/feet up on seat in front in theaters. gen gap

/food fights in cafe…

/peer pressure on l2 yr arnold to get laid. lil darlin’s

/vals guide you when young or have lost perspective

/could sleep in cent park and bike wouldn’t get stolen. repairmen didn’t steal

/cig ad on tv stopped ‘7l

/sex wax, naked juice. moslems see us as sex crazy

/prison only thing that shaped up la motta said wife.

/the much? older tenants [clegg, phillips] repair, the younger ones replace and throw the old object in trash, not even put it aside for thrift shop-

/old man and young woman in death wish III and diff strokes – sickening.

/menonites, mormons, + solid vals. pecos. m. webb. church of the light? that has l0 yr old wk. 7/29/86 why ever cover these

/pride, envy, lust, anger, gluttony, sloth

/pri lessons. flic. french maid. l5 yr old. 8 pm she’s a hd taller. asks him to sleep w/her. sickening. not good for the boy actor. 2/88 she in tub w/ him.

/complexions, contentment of farmers, country people. unspoiled, unpretentous, peaceful

/was it gary coleman’s dad and mary ann mobley.

/deline in vals leads to less caring

/importing crime: marielitos, viet gangs, nigerians, jamaican possies, yakusa?, israeli mafia?, latins?

/selling lottery tickets at thrift shop

/that ll? yr old – hard worker. taught it by ma.

/gave up looking for wk -probably diff from past

/nervous bout calling bout a job /

/courage, justice, prudence

/clean = hosp clean, mil clean

/j val more fun in past – gross said that too

/super at bld emp said can’t stop males from wearing earings – fact jr his can’t – parents have to

/some reviewer found death wish hideous. carolynn see hated the criminal personality.

/radios of cable, wall duilders, trash truck, roofers, baseball grp

/media = in too much of a hurry to have kids grow up. sexy little models and lil darlings?

/wrestling and porn pander

relative values

/booze permitted at some beaches and parks

/more int in resp and accountability – finally 89

/divorce court – sex

 cops see the decline. worse crimes.

/1 alc said he’d been jailed 600 times – sundance?

/dating game made guys strip to waist

/fame: talent, hd wk, but hard, ruff, callous, crude, mean, nasty, snide, scoffing, rude, crass, lcd, slick, raunchy, affected, overdone, pretensious, animalistic, hairy, try to grow up too fast. far too wordly. adults are buffons, props.

/kinsey said sex revolt of 60s never happened

/which would you be a teacher now or 30 yrs ago … same cop now

/hoffer and guy at bus stop.

/auth – bob mcgrath uses it

/60% of kids w/ single parent hm

/illigit… costs us tons tv

/hbo would have scared me as a kid. also try to have kids grow up too fast

/our vals make a mockery of our forbearer whose struggle built the country

/gates: gov can’t protect the people

 /you see a lot more graffiti on the news than ever before – even internationally – has slowly crept up on us. 9/89

/mayflower madam

/boy in grammar sch gets to wear pony tail. urinated on rock concert crowd

/viet said her friend got depressed from having been forced to wk

/gangs might give kids the disc they need

/cor and nat get too many honors, etc

/sex 9000k times on tv in 85

/stu sitting on tops of desks with coats on

/am admire success whereas in eur, they resent it. princ liz oxenburg?

/repairmen and domestics didn’t steal

. cal has 2nd highest rate of illigit in us

/l0 or l2 yr old who can lay lk bricks a day. -one of best things I’ve seen.

/l6 candles – teen sex film

/good old days – see mod of tradvals

/ted hunter of situation mng inc in tustin: runs drug programs for cos. said vals dived since viet. quiz with him.

/prohibition: the most lawless and cynical era.

/didn’t have obscene bumper stickers

/cable = get to pick the trash of your choice

/early 60s: considered disgraceful to apply for wel. l07 t of p

/illigit rates lower when minorities were poorer in 40’s, 50’s 223

bvi – far less tol of crime. thus safe. usvi is opposite.

hurricane hugo hit both, but only looting in usvi.

/a soc that tolerates motorcycle gangs & gangs period.

/see equal

/blame alc, blame drugs luxery is more ruthless than war.

/moscow on hudson -have to expect mugging as price

/bk: The Flip Side of Soul, Bob Seager or seagram? blacks had more hope yrs ago and were highly reluctant to go on wel. wel and drugs are ruining em.we have lowered ed goals for soc justice. sig

/dir of cent for .. alt said lot of …. don’t read and interns have no conception of job tips

/some young reporters use poor eng

/see cc we have lowered ed goals for soc justice. sig jack anderson. /little jerks wearing a pony tails to sch

/winning is all promotes me lst

/fewer kids on halloween said dr. gilmer’s sec

/cop wrote no job satisfaciton, meaningful accomplishment, sense of being valued in police work. spiritual erosion in pub. people don’t feel safe. more suspicious of strangers. rehab in prison doesn’t work. failure of prison job training programs. /hit sen jon glen and cap cop could only pull the guy by the arm

/decline in val since mid 60s – said gal in denmark and they combat it by having em live w/ grdflks and w/ kids

/old marines di’s think new ones are too soft

/shoes off and feet up on upolstery on seats in front. another guy had his sneakers on top of seat. – in a church – uci talk

/people get more embarrassed over grammar or ed, etc. now as less poised.

/willard scott said if [tel lines] all jammed up , use prune juice ’89

in past we’d send kid like that to office to have his mouth washed out.

but now shrinks and aclu wouldn’t let us

/folks made us face problems. no thumb sucking, no pacifiers

/4 days after hurricane hugo, pr’s bitching that fed aid not fast enuff. 9/23/89 la.

/ever remember how some crisis taught you a lesson you never forgot – like big debt, no $ or whatever. well, libs want to protect you from such a crisis.

/underwear ads

/in like flynn =

/ paper tiger

/jap bashing fits into decline of val

/used to be you came here to struggle and get ahead. now it’s come here, we owe you a living.

/20% on assem line can’t read manual at gm. 80% of applicants at motorola couldn’t pass 5th grade math test. only 3% of the applicants for ops and repairmen at Ny tel qualified for job as …

qual of applicants keeps falling; the skills needed keep rising. biz getting involved in ed out of nec…

/eds worry bout commercialization of sch. but this is trivial compred to benefit. biz involvement holds more promise than any other trend in ed. in one area biz said drop voc ed if you want out help. it worked. biz ed explosion in boston. ny life airlifts its claim to ireland. ibm’s program has worked. pizza hut, ford, polaroid, zerox, burger king sponsor programs.

now flaws: biz must learn results won’t be quick, teacher must be better preped and paid, and need changes in hm.

ed must learn corp principles equally valid in classrrom: standards and accountability. [don’t hold your breath] [could do it all better w/ mw] wrong title was sending [0] cos to sch. gergen ll/6/89 us news

/put hm resp on schs who blew it, now biz has to help schs.

/hi sch in my day: open campus. no security guards. no weapons. no grafitti.

/kids today taking longggggg time to get ba’s. few do it in 4 yrs l2/89/22 of the 40 ’88 finalists in westinghse hs sci emp were foreign born or kids of foreign born. in sd, l of every 4 valedictorians and salutatorians has rcently ’89 ben viet. in boston l3 of l7 valedictorian of ’89 wer foreign born.

/l3% of our kids – 40% among minorities – leave sch illiterate. us news l2/25/89

/people didn’t shoot guns into the air as much on new yrs, which injures people and hurts property

/only 6% of those making over $50k think they’ve achieved the am dream. but 5% of those making less than $l5k think the same. harpers let l/90

vice = bad values

  Vice: (victimless?): gamble, drugs, alc, prost…. porn.

sloth, gluttony, greed, lust, commandments? drugs, sex, profanity, booze, vice, violence, etc. self-pity, envy, jealousy, [Modifications of some traditional values – for which liberals deserve some credit]:

 

 

‑ Using (sensible) psychology to get to the roots of one’s problems

instead of “keeping it all in” and enduring “long suffering”.

‑ More openess about public figures instead of putting them on a

pedestal.

‑ More openess about battered spouses, homosexuality, addiction, child               abuse, incest, abortion, impotence, etc.

‑ More openmindedness about premarital relations in long term, responsible               relationships.

‑ “Diversity” rather than “singularity” (one course of study, one

type of work, one spouse for life, one set of beliefs & friends)

‑ More acceptance of separation & divorce.

‑ Progress for minorities, women, homosexuals, the handicapped.

– More questioning of religion.

 

/kathy lee gifford said someone in aud wisher her water would break – on with regis philby

/moonie doll on tv

/duty of wife to become interested in and support husbands work + ints.

/single parent fams doubled 70-84 tv

/illigit… costs us tons tv

/viet stu who excell vs gangs. – didn’t have girl gangs in viet

/viet stu who excell vs gangs. – didn’t have girl gangs in viet

/roasting marshmellows over burning doll – mtv – 0 is wholesome, cut some is cute, clever

/tv: sports reporters didn’t report the priv lives of stars in 20s 30s.

same of movie stars?

/l2 yr old accidently shoots and kills girl in mall. only gets yr in juv hall.

/people won’t push a broom for 20k

/cabs will take drunks hm free. cab care l 800 422 4l43 also civilians will

/undershirts called tank tops?

/if you get pregnant, it’s sch’s fault. if vd, same. drugs,

/why is it people with little or no ed can raise kids better than highly ed ones.

/idiots on nightwatch with caps, shorts, sneakers. -hash … hats on during formal awards on tv.

/democratized college and thus lowered standards

/labada dancing – from brazil. dirty. and rather smiles

/hats on in classrm

/keith says kids today think nothing of saying “totally pissed off” in pub.

/old flic w/ cop pulling in front of the guy

/woman told fam ther 3 nights

/wk nec. for alc

/drug son of 29. made to feel a victim of him AND system. pros were no help – only guilt.

/we’ve become a caretaker gen. as have to take care of our aged, our kids, and their kids -so no time for own lives.

/geo jefferson in boxer shorts

/ad w/ water squirting guy so he looks like he went on his pants. tv 2/90

] boom box car shook the windows

/excuse industry. samuelson l2/ll 89 newswk. it was all econ #

/survey on how much sex people’ve had in last 30 days. 5 pm #4 jon beard?

/hbo girl in nude covered with hair, had pouch gave birth to monster – it was spellbinder or the howling 3

/you never hear: you shuld be ashamed of yourself

/50’s clean, respectful, know ones place, manners, deferrence, propriety, courtesy, quiet youth on way up,

nowadays: let it all hang out, acting out problems, pos, love, understand, gloss, tolerate, real,

/gg com cent chime = 0 – also one nr hm depot –

/st run liquor stores in w. va.

/20 yr olds who are over the hill vs mary at phoenix: girlish, femine, delightful, fun, cordial, pleasant

/all the good people who never get on tv. simple minded thrift shop woman who takes the trouble to ask the back room a question. have to be careful to not cause them extra work. touching

/gene burpo said in ’47 he was l8 and swamped potatos for $l50. people made and could live in l5-25/wk. his fam worked fields for 3 yrs.

/jon leo us news 4/2/90

/sig: schs are de facto soc agencies. teachers expected to deal w/ wartime conditions: pov. discrim, crime, drugs, broken hms, child abuse.

[police are supposed to be swers, biz is]

/calif had a task force on self-esteem for $735k. idea of this as a pub policy issue. it’s the dom ed theory around the us

self-esteem stuff [theraputic massage, pos think & psychic boosterism. [est?]] is terrible idea.

[l] no research says it works.

beh is rarely changed by thus self-esteem stuff. it doesn’t raise grades, parental hoovering and fear of failure do.

[2] its hostile to learning and intellect, comp, achieve, success. after all if we’re all perfect, why strive. have to accept all kids as they are. don’t criticize, nor challenge which could end in failure. no hard work. keep dropping standards. vs

real self-esteem come when kid learns something and masters it. it is a BY-PRODUCT of real ed, not a sub for it.

how much this brings up donna, viets, crystal,

/gene burpo said in ’47 he was l8 and swamped potatos for $l50. people made and could live in l5-25/wk. his fam worked fields for 3 yrs.

/if you can’t have a loud muffler, why boom stereos

/in ’65 7% of teachers would not reenter field; in 84, 24%; in 87 4l% of la teachers. course ny’s a joke

/kids had to carry 5 lb bag of flour around re kid

/dwight jackson – black who came to see rm. said when young he got switched by everyone on block or pulled by his ear to his folks. He and bros & sis all grew up w/ no trouble, and not about to be the lst. said no child abuse mania then

/decline of val +? due to:

-pos thinking, hd in sand, ignore, – wrong feelings – feel good, – irresp promoted by these and soc. – psych. – simplisticness of fund religion. – media exaggeration? or their being suckered into these.

-shallowness? of am cul? – too much winning. – pro = disease, complex

/how did our society ever come to the conclusion: some never have to wk, look for wk, get out of bed, etc.

/huge bosomed gal teasing guy thru tv – flic amazon women on the moon 8-l0 fri night

/ didn’t have girl gangs in viet

/tougher and more realistic on smoking and alc – [actual good news]

/madonna

/ma to famous aquarium. spoiled kids in a public place. crowded in [took over] wrecking it for others.[no respect for elders] in the past it was an honor, on good behavior, got more out of it.

/who credits inventors of computers, answer machines, vcrs, etc – vals

One strong early yankee tradition was or virtue was making something from nothing. Nowadays, people expect something for nothing –

/l0:30 some gal’s hands an another’s breasts and someone walks in

/homos can dance at d-land

/lot of ams won’t pick crops, wash dishes, be cowboys – they import em. put this with notes on gene’s picking. and connect with pity

/some dr holding a newborn on tv – his tatoo showing

/phil not getting his kids to do reunion names – in our hse, it would have been done in a wk

/carlos luna vs jerry gillaspy

/a that us workers can’t compete with jap as us prefers jap cars, but many jap cars built by us workers, here. thus it’s mng. our big three in d down, last yr. 25%, but jap big three making 53% more IN us last. yr. w post 6/ll-/90 sig

/jb and so africa are diversions as are our excuses for every criminal, and all our ed nonsense.

/marion barry = shades of ptl-disease, god, rh

/soc is judged by the way it treats minorities, women, kids, animals

/individuality, but not to point one infringes on the rights or

sensibilities of others.

/the rich and famous couldn’t have been done 20 yrs ago ’89?

/heros

– ancient myths had heros who dramatically returned from long exile

– heros cross frontiers: lindberg, salk, daniel boone, ike, fdr

– celebreties are diff.[-heros are for youth]

/lets to ed. us news: fed up with viet vets who cried bout no hmcomng parade and so called flashbacks. k vets came back, put war behing themd, finished ed and started fams.

/ no pols and very few generals are to be trusted. #

/ nicest paper boy, james, came by to collect $2.00. and left his dippy little receipt. americana – does your heart good to see a nice kid -obviously came from a good home where – tradval

/gal on arsenio pulls out latex chest set she used in flic

/decline. thus people went for bronson and eastwood

/farcical course by siposs

/no wonder viets get ahead in sch – it’s so damn easy

/boxing and casinos go together. help ea other make $.

/fewer voting as their vals not represented. k. phillips?

 /engman pulled couple of dirty jokes on reunion tapeaffected ………natural

too worldly …… wholesome

 Work hard, but work “smart”.

/arranged marriages

/i complained to gg lib bout playboy +? . they said lst complaint

/lot more hugging in ads etc. than 30 yrs

/brokow; are we still no l 7/90

/every 3rd talk show wasn’t about sex

/belly dancing in israel. infront of l2 yr old, who’s turned on by pelvis and brokaw smiles

/the Monkeys says eru leaves stars up, but am whittles em down

/sex 9000k times on tv in 85

/why the silent majority is a perfect expression

/older tenants will close refrig dr while talking – burpo

/purple heart for heat stroke in panama

/how often to you hear of the real role of sex in a relationship

/kids then only needed a ball, some cards, & bottle caps.

/shouldn’t show on tv: guy catching bullet with mouth, guy’s neck on machette, pile driver wrestling thing, snake, trapeze w/o net

/guy dropping pants to get ride on tv 9:30 pm ch 2

/daytime tv talk shows = public exorcism. my genes made me do it. the live at five defense.

/some law that since target is open to pub, people can solicit there, even tho it’s pri prop. so fraudulent guys do it in gg and anh target stores said dav.

/no 2 on a bike. no lights = cardinal sin

/guy w/o shirt lying on park bench in wm civic cent. in front of maintenance workers and police sta.

/mormon youth, cath. youth, jap youth.

/can’t be told anything; you have to walked thru it – valid?

/cops didn’t wear bulletproof vests

/steve allen said, due to comp, networks are dropping standards 9/90/bac of guild envelope: have you signed and endorsed your check

/me so horny song on mtv/

/we probably didn’t have the sexual harrassment we now have

/t. sellick on youth crime, but he didn’t have time enough to shave his stubble

/sex tit… on 3 channels 8:30 cross my heart. flic

. some sec. guards were surrogate parents [making sure kids have left their hms for sch] in palos verdes? for weak parents

/

/oldest profession, but oldest taboo. anti porn l 800 453 3900

/val – the pill

/take out?:               Bill Moyers passed no judgement on welfare mothers that had child after child. jive Please do not return this. If you can’t use it, no need to reply.

/act in good faith. keep lot of irons in the fire In l964 they created a “poverty line”                                           College Credit for This?

Around l980 I took a writing class at a two year college. It was suggested we by two books, but few students did and no assignments were given in them. Some writing was assigned and almost anything could have used. It was gone over gently in class. If anyone had done a poor job, it was never brought up.

The classes were mostly discussion; there were few notes taken and no tests. I missed many classes and assignments and easily earned 3 units of college credit.

A survey from the administration was taken; it was designed to elicit positive pablum.

Compared to l7 years before when I had to work hard to get through college, this course was a joke.

/pic worth a thousand words today – with vals being so bad. surfers carrying casket

/stever allen said networks getting dirtier due to comp

/real nice clean cut, wholesome, gorgeous republican gals with big smiles, nice hair, dresses, manners. happy for their men. at 60 conven. just real honnies. i have to get back in pol. men had short hair, thin lapels, ties. /grace and self-denial = 2 parts of manners, or good breeding

/poor richard’s almanac [exerted big infl for almost 200 yrs.

/blame it on rio? the one where michael cane goes for friend’s daughter?

/”cut the cheeze?” comment during pro wrestling

/stu in hi sch – 2 w/ basebal caps, one in an undershirt

/many channels weeping over jon lennon’s 50th birthday. even un honored him

/in i love lucy, desi permitted her to do things

/sorry, there’s not that much to sex – no wonder the skinheads are ticked/tish baldridge said manner kaput since mid 60’s

/testing has stopped drugs in mil. somewhat in sports. more at work

/we didn’t get many awards in sch. now that’s all you get

/tons of sex on sat night on tv on many channels

/hats on in class at harvard? or berk..

/barnes and kondrake said vals down [need rel revival]. germond laughed

/if it feels good, do it

xmas madness: k-mart jammed with merchandise, goofs, and music, and over eager mr? bellringer outside, and more music outside – tis the season to go ape, frenetic, in debt,

/prosperity’s right hand is industry, and left hand is frugality. samuel johnson

/honor is the reward of virtue. cicero

/illegal meant wrong when growing up – porn

/puritanical: prosperity = reward of good life

/older gen thot saxophone was too sensual – early 20th cent? rumble seat

/prohibition = the noble experiment

/have to watch repairmen more – and more in not so hot neigh. tel man who ran up big bill for chas johnson. another who tore my ivy off. sprayed and killed hedge. called bout another … cable installer jerks. edison guys who changed transformer: radio, asked em, called it in twice and 0.

/see midway

/the naturalness of it all – pat streetz

/thou shall love thy neigh as thyself

-sensible how prost makes sense now in ussr. gals bribe way into western hotels, take only hard currency, and need it to get by. this on koppel report which turned out all right-sensible how prost makes sense now in ussr. gals bribe way into western hotels, take only hard currency, and need it to get by. this on koppel report which turned out all right

/white lie: saying carlos has moved. santa

/tanktop in tv aud

/table manners just as bad during cid ceasar bit in b & w. margo kidder with her boot on couch

/have to tell people how to do their job – tel pole, mc sch.

/sex at the office. stupid as most have soc and biz life separate. just look at how office parties get out of hand. one two hrs long with alc at welfare was plenty.

/real bad bum outside luckies. they chase him off, he comes back. they say cops won’t do anything [ pub nuisance, blight?, disturbing peace

/anti premarial is directed toward youth

/more stuff in poor taste on tv – spitting gum, but crack, cleavages all over, steaming scenes on soaps, entertainment tonight.

/rape on campus . admin shucks it off as boys will be boys l2/90 tv

/i don’t ever want to eat with asian or any hoods again – late at denny’s.

/pro hockey shows em fighting while all stand around on tv – real sport

/las vegas: glitzy. nothing subtle

/lawyers drinking more now. l2/90. blame job dissatisfaction and stress. [oh ok, go ahead and drink then]

/safer to hitchike in eur than here ’58

/trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, reverent. had to earn the $ to buy your uniform.

/some forms of life worse than death, thus causes worth dying for. severeid.

/the truth is its own justification. severeid.

/”but crack” during prime time?

/woman spits in another’s face at l0 pm on ch ll

/las vegas = am excess and decadence

/nobody wants to be a cowboy. 4/90

/4th grader with earing l/9l

/all must be pos, hugs, and feel good

/divorce, single-parent hsehold, 2 gener wk force, teen parenthood, latchkey kids. you learn more about the am fam from l0 grandmas than from l0 fam experts.

/family obligations are a pathway, not obstacle to fullfillment

/[surfer?] buddies carrying casket in jeans, tennies, hair to shoulder, t-shirt, chain, knee length pants, jacket, thongs, shorts, cap backwards 9/90 in r

/after a report on porn on news, they sometimes return to the clean cut anchorwoman. it’s an embarrasing moment as she takes us on to the weather or whatever. shows the old double standard

/erica jong said women won? right to be as free in bed as men and discoverd what men knew all along: recreational sex ain’t enuff = growing up

/hippies wanted freedom without resp

/see 60s?

/i don’t like parties where folks due all and folks sit around

/no marxist profs

/grubby table manners – victor mature + in early flics

/all in the fam shows how we used to think of things then. how we were challenged: boys where boys

/guys hand on woman’s breast in an opera. farting with hand under arms on funniest videos

/blk boys the mil is often their lst job.

/never credit the guys who invent computers, programs, walkman’s, hi tech weapons

/younger gen can’t be neg. so they click off tel when they don’t want the rm. weak

/ought to be a law against unnec shaming criminals etc. on geraldo. worse than mccarthy

/jim said no cigs in saudi arabia.

/one guy calling bout rm said when young his bro beat him for trying to smoke and later, could never thank him enuff. stories you don’t hear of

/think tanks. the sudden ascent of the expert in the 60s. jfk liked em. legacy: viet, wop. they had gone for facts. [here comes the bias !!!!] the new cons tanks went for ideology [instead]. w post 2/ll-/9l

/the way of the wasp. r. brookheiser? wasps wrong on slavery and prohibition. eurs that went to latin am became mercantile; those that came here became cap…. he lists wasp char…..======= this belongs under valn? ===== hardly worth working on ====

-Bad taste is a liking for anything that is fake, shoddy, cheap, imitative, gaudy, ersatz, or false. garish? tacky?

for example ….. what.

There is an encly of bad taste. [so what is good taste]

-Kitsch is art of a pretentious but shallow kind, calculated to have a popular appeal. it is a product of bad taste. ???????

/la is the capital of kitsch.

this was more an excuse, or attempt to be aloof

stopped as article was 0. by jack smith

don’t forget jerry lewis’ telethon was called kitsch.

so was ramona.

was milagro? ice capades. vegas, circuses? that collection of music that barriga didn’t like.

unsubtle, lower level ?……. mundane?

 

/In those days (which?) they spoke of the “evils of idle

ness”. also that “activity of the hands would relieve the brooding

mind”.

/ma – the satisfaction of saving a long time for something and finally getting it.

/wholesomeness (no porn, prostitution, alcohol, drugs, gambling),

moderation? in porn, prostitution, alcohol, drugs, gambling?

/girls lot safer on college campuses when we went

/6 pm ch l3 sat “bastard”

/some viet folks in viet or camp tell kid to do well. he comes here and does. vs am handholding

/those who deliever papers at night remind me of all who are commendable./studs

/madonna – whorish number at acad awards 3/9l tired of sub

/on radio: if you break up with a girl, sleep with her friends

/”shit” on t shirt

/mtv on “casting” [the private parts of] rockk stars 4/9l

/we don’t give recognition to those who develop computers and software./taking pot on an old sat night live

/no better way than renting rms to learn what guys will and won’t learn bout resp re all: diet, ex, their prop, your prop, noise, immaturity, class, tv for a mo. drs, all – see lease, etc- the absolute realies of resp

/9:20 pm frog ask terry carr if he can sleep with her 9l

/do people not keep appointments more these days?

/lifeguards learn self-defense now 6/9l

/showed baseball player with his fly open – during eve tv. reg ch

/i wouldn’t want to have been in the same outfit as some of these viet vets. look like hell. also memorial being milked

/jeff and scott getting the shaft from all on the standard property

/valn my hm town: jack fisher, santiago, willard?, hi sch, gen rep. all-am award.

/cop trying to talk teen? girl with 2.5 bld acl level out of kicking window out in cop car. she was cuffed and hobbled. tv 6/9l wonder if the more crap she pulled, the worse it’d be when she sobered up.

/l/3 of biz that fail ia due to employee theft and dishonesty

/julie andrews did bump & grind in flic

/increase in gated communities?

/the character ethic: integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance, courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty, but shift in 20s to

personality ethic: personality, pub image, attitudes and beh, skills and techs.

/being here after l2 yrs away – people judged by their income.

/being here after l2 yrs away – restaurants, tennis, vacations

/kooky appearance ….. un, wall st., establishment, biz, diplomacy

/total recall: entertaining but profane, she grabs him in crotch, something up his nose, 3 tits.

/ad for perm arts cent – bmp and grnd . 930 am

/flic: look who’s talking. pic of sperm swimming up something and attaching while they talk?

/org st fair

/do people not show up for appointments more?

/people asure me they will show up to see room or call. they do neither.

/they don’t call later to apologize. would they give up ever getting the rm as a weak person would? tim furgeson didn’t.

/viet gal here lived in Philly and reading. and prefers em. says far too much crime and brusquesness here. she’s right. it’s getting like ny. she called fire flies, “light bugs”.

/noisey programs for kids in library – heard by all?

/cher’s dirty video 7/9l

/when carlos lst got here, he couldn’t believe the stuff they threw out at wk. but he’s thrown out some.

/fam videos ? on tv farts with arm pits

/aud – death wish, dirty harry

/we’re all capable of bad but vals, disc, etc. hold us back

/$ making has never had the moral legitimacy in eng it has had in us. distain for industry.

/at marie calandars, you have to pay at table now. 8/9l

/bet you can find top foreign cops who are scared here because of so many guns

/dress code for guy who’s COMBINATION of tatoos, hair and fatigue pants were blight, spectacle. unsightly according to comm standards.

/In those days (which?) they spoke of the “evils of idle

ness”. also that “activity of the hands would relieve the brooding

mind”.

/natural, real and wholesome, decent, etc. people on am’s funniest videos

/didn’t put feet up on seats in front of us in theatres

/stripping ch l3 8:l5 pm

/service improved during recession. la 6/30

/9. op ed bit by biz prof.

/jun shows the sig of vals – cause if he were alc, jd, etc, we’d never hear the end of it.

/drawer full awards

/drawer full of awards

/cross “bloody” dummies of freddy kruger on mtv ch.

/in swiss, they respect your privacy.

/fewer than l/4 qualified for low level jobs with ny tel over last seveal years. 9/9l.

/afs er dianne of australia said when she learned to act immature, she got along fine here.

/down from mimi’s was teen deal: jeans, leather, bandanas, etc. grubby in nice hotel.

/gay protesters in front of wilson getting away with throwing things etc. some place else, the smashed a door, threw a potted plant, hit a female? cop. she was laying down. only 2 arrests.

/i remember the fun of football, NOT being no. l.

/sex harrassment vs saying leslie easterbrook is sticking out.

/bloomingdales paid $75k to woman sprayed with perfume. tv l0/9l

/not selling cigs to underagers dropped their use 30%. tv.

/now and then you see something put together by love for posterity – museum, music, quality, scholarship, desert of iran?, cartoon of classical music, afs

/introduced all tabloid tv reports one night on tv and they were all hard.

/our “children” in college [bottom line] who want to be treated like adults.

/arsenio hall with cap on in pulpit

/guy with pony tail and cowboy hat talking to some class. and funny bag in front. beard.

/smoke detectors for mi’s, non smokers, etc. d. gergen us news aug l9 9l

/in past they could run a school w/o security guards, bullet proof vests, police substation

/sluts on dance party on tv

/look at the no of our folks that wouldn’t want to be a parent today. is this ty?

/doesn’t the appearance of bums disturb the peace.

/stupid mother weary bikini on stupid s.j. raphael show with daughter. trash. never grew up. spectacle. should be law against that.

/didn’t spit on ea other on tv. pro wrestler did it. cobra bites macho man. valn

/boomers, once enamored with counterculture, are returning to am verities: [realities] moderation, hrd work, self-=reliance, less depend on gov., devotion to fam.

/chas kuralt type people

/one middle sch in plainfield, Ind has policy: no stu is ever cut from a club or team. [great prep for life] us news leo. l2/23/9l

l) max participaton, equality, self-esteem, avoid elitism & tracking, ability of all kids to achieve high results. leo says this is too cavalier bout effort and results, too suspicous of brains and individ success.

2) excellence, striving, merit, raising expectations and standards, avoid happy emptiness based on feel-good [learned] self-esteem, rather than earned self-esteem.

dropouts. checkouts [mentally absent] ================

/montel williams wearing short robe. a stripping couple on. trash. day.

/hire an am l7 yr old then an illegal l7 yr old

 

/88% of folks think it hard to be a parent now. they have less infl over kids than ent.. figs. 2/3rd thinks fam vals are weaker. 87% have trouble making ends meet. blk folks 2-3 times more worried then white folks that kids will get pregnant, use or sell drugs, get vd or aids, or get shot. hispanic parents 5-l0 times more worried than whites bout same. l2/9l. la?

 

/jim roberts said since 60s teachers and parents backed off trad. vals. want to be friends of kids, liked by kids. those hippy kids are not parents. the most sig infl is the fam – just like gilder. all sorts of counseling groups.

/jim roberts: l/2 are single parent fams. many fams barely holding together. many too busy for tradval xxxxxxxx. he preferred teaching but being veep is vehicle to personnel.

/are my comments on gg hi sch ir festival written down? on edn? or valn?

/jillion metals for gulf war. way out of proportion. like sch.

/halberstam: we simply got spoiled.

/which val teach and which impose

/plantiff’s buddy wearing undershirt. – people’s crt

/silber: whims are needs, then rights on the assumption that

sincerity creates values.

/shit on a t-shirt.

/silber finds many girls stu exceedingly scruffy, dirty, ill-kempt, trying to be repulsive.

-90

/broward county da says no resp

/guards used to have upper hand at rikers island. 2500 violent incidents in 90.

/one auto mag [rd & trk?] rated cars. of top l0 9 were jap and l germ. tv l/92

/girls couldn’t wear pants in hi sch

/tv is better and worse. but far better. worse as far as language, sex, – as it’s bad taste. bad for kids.

/mc val: indiv resp, hard work, equal op, merit, supporting one’s fam. leo

/mtv – dirty.

/you couldn’t kid the pres. then the album, the lst family.

/why is it premarital relations are wrong only for the young?

/j. leo: broken window theory: lst window, then it snowballs [cs] thus la after graffiti, phil after litter, ny after subway graffiti. starting to stop begging on subways. tired of 25 yrs or rights and compassion. us news 2/3/92 and use poor judgement

/territorial pissing. name of song mtv l/92

 People spied for beliefs, not money. Cable and video porn portray people as hungry slabs of meat.

/in france, if you fall into a crevace and are rescued, you have to pay according to the depth of the crevace and the distance down the hill they take you.

/sig mw would take pressure off wel and put it on illigit = !!!

/roats: is the truth, fair to all, wil lit build goodwill & friend.., beneficial?

/not a word on whose fault it was in the wreck of james dean or if the other party was hurt. similar to m. ali

/20% of kids watch 5 hrs of tv/dy 92

/dick clark said same thing happening as when he was young: folks complaining bout music of youth, dancing,

/80% of ams think insanity plea is a loophole. gal on tv 2/92

/arsenio hall had a cow shit on an article he didn’t like. 92 ll pm

/male models coming down runway in jockey underwear.

/miss manners said 60s cop outs were: do whatever you want, [drop out, turn on, let it all hang out, be natural, never having to say your sorry.]

she’s surprised how entitled all feel and how crass they are. she says bad to think you can return rudeness.

/people more interested in her bk since 60s bull of don’t be bound by tradition. boss goes lst, not the lady at wk. good humor. miss manners.

 

 

/us falling faster from inside than outside ’67.

/suit like jacket over bare skin on hi sch stu. 2/92 one guy with bandana.

/we work a month more a yr than we used to. tv 2/92

/kids sitting on top of desks – shoes on seat, heavy coats, terrible earings, terrible hair, caps, -bklyn. talking bout ethnic tension in hi sch. tv 2/92 stubble.

/nix: to college during depression when steak was a big treat.

/vanna white is wholesome, sweet, , compared to hollywood.

/cynical in la times mag: some people actually have fond memories of their [home towns]. 2/92

/ambition, honesty,

/w post l/92

lat am: cent auth. hierarchy. wealth is to be distrib.. rather than created. easy one shot sols.

am: wk, walth, independ, individ, punctuality. shared power. innovation, entrepreneurialism.

asia: save and invest.

 

/what do foreigners think when they see cops?

/youth is time to pass vs fill

/nix said have to tuff it out

/ed: ethics: taking flashlight and glasses back to store. passing stranded? motorist. seeing someone taking shopping cart hm. helping viet with flat. paying an extra $30 at comic bk store [little thanks from them]

/newark. might start: teaching values, have curfew, vol work, make parents resp. ’92. irv schs will too. 92

/relations: ethnic, hate, gay, ir, vals, im, sex, crime, boom box, drummer in neigh, 20 visits to steve,

/hv 1 bit on sex symbols

/fights and rodeos

/fight films banned for a while – espec when interacial as they provoked fights.

/linda chavez: l/3 were shot gun marriages in past. she said it was your resp to marry gal. thus rise in ow since.

illigit in past. now it’s ow.

/media looks to rock, folk singers.

/rock is a staple of western culture. bull tv 92

/sen rudman said ams don’t want to cut back on anything.

/teach vals vs instil, demand, drill into,

/kids into spoons apricot tree and my loguat tree – broke branches. one of jr hi says sch lets him wear earing.

/kennilworth had to fight for curfew, landscaping, clean sts, rules and regs. these didn’t come from money

/dennis miller has guy from band on: no shoes, torn t-shit with no sleeves, tons of disgusting tattoos. says he’s one of the most real. aud applauds.

4/92

/can’t export dem and cap and can’t impose your mid class values ..

/can’t say the song cocaine promoted it

/sitting on the backs of bus benches with your feet dirtying the seat where people sit and get their clothes dirty from your shoes.

– they don’t do it at home

/shoes on furn.

/il teens can work circles around our teens.

/profanity on bumper stickers.

/I want your sex. i touch myself.

/why is it premarital relations are wrong only for the young?

/brot the moral majority

/my sub exp

/bad neighborhoods had more hope in the pastwhat did I do with this:

  The importance of values can hardly be underestimated in any discussion of poverty, crime, illegitimacy, drug abuse, mental illness, or radicalism. People fall into these because of poor values.

  When in teaching, politics, and social work. I saw a great need for defining traditional values.

I can list them after having worked for many senseless social agencies, living in slums, living with mental patients, renting rooms in my house, and tracking the media for years.

  These became traditional because they worked. Responsibility is the one many people try to duck. Scratch a criminal, bum, addict, or mental case and you’ll find irresponsibility. Scratch those wallowing in self-pity on daytime talk shows and in tabloids and you find irresponsiblity. Scratch a socialist and you’ll find an idealist taking responsibility from the individual and family and putting it on the government. #

/can I tie in excessive rights obligation and reciprocity.

Some students could be allowed to leave school at l4 if they have a job, as it is the orientation of the working class to do this and start a family early. Many are wasting everyone’s time by being forced into two more years of school – a requirement brought about by organized labor years ago to lessen the competition for jobs.

To say this has no connection to the increase in sexual harassment, illegitimacy, sex crimes, and professionals in bed with clients stretches the imagination.

add pos?

Was the rioting worse than ever before? Are people less responsible than they used to be and thus more prone to act up more during a riot?

If so, it must be because we’ve gotten away from traditional values.

 

‑ The dramatic rise in crime the past 20 years is mysterious ………

  …… (and somehow not connected with the decline in values)

Don’t judge by appearance …….. clothes & hairstyle say a lot.

/dont for get all these were blended into lists.

/wasn’t this list integrated into lists? so is this still relevant as an article. yes

, birth control

Rights …………………… responsibilities

tradval no good as old, neg, don’t feel good, [resp] accountable, psych, punitive, rehab?, inhibiting, dull, routine, not warm loving hugging, not smart aleck logic, not fun, not ed ,menial, confrontational, not self-pitying, disease?, short range, centered on you, sexy, imposed, auth, regimenting, permissive

/trendy, pop-psych?,

/tradval for ams of eur decent. not for hispanics or blks, said who?

little things [disc, stick, prevent.. police wk]

risk

/sw and lib teach you that tradvals come slowly and are worth gold. mature.

/tradval reguires disc to instill

I can list them after having worked for many senseless social agencies, living in slums, living with mental patients, renting rooms in my house, teaching, working as a political aid, and tracking the media for years.

need up dating or covered in lists?

 

Contemporary values of liberals. Traditional values of conservatives.

 

Liberal Contemporary values Conservative Traditional values

 

/tradval. be a parent, not a friend.

/non pro: bury kid when l4, and dig em up when 25. but now 30

/baseball caps at all kinds of angels at meals and in class at olivet college. 92

/teach vs instill vals.

/undershirt – respect

/in past bus drivers were safer, teachers, visiting nurses

 

Wholesomeness = modesty, some censorship, restraint, decency?,

idea of hard work to earn rewards – nothing shallow and superficial,

sound, upright

 

/truck of marines and a guy in boom box car pass. they can’t even stop that.

/baseball violence, hockey violence, soccer violence, some in basketball, football

/big hearted white ex-pros kissed black cop jackson whose getting on her case had gotten her to stop. on cops.

-touching moment

/in order to raise money thru “Comic Relief V” 5/l7/92 for the worthy cause of helping the homeless and others, is it really necessary to use such unworthy language of the lowest order?

/silk stockings – lewd

/troubles build character

/problems can make or break you- Every job is a “profession”, every field a “science” …. nonsense .

– Vice is tolerable (porn, prostitution, drugs, gambling)

  ………….. vice is cancerous.

– Do enough to get by ………….. hard work.

/pet me papa

/had to beep out half a conversation on one blk flic [… leather] 9:08 sun pm

/initiative

/moral appeasement

/guy in jockey u wear 8:09 flic on tv ch l3.

/guy in jockey u wear 8:09 flic on tv ch l3.

  Love means never saying your sorry ……………… nonsense.

/did people ever blame radio, or print, the way they blame tv?

/i blame bad 60-70s vals, but don’t buy that 80s were bad vals.

/un news 6/8/92. [do mc (white, mainstream) vals affect ghetto and visa versa]. this page will take a lot of work.

/more illegit, drugs. greed, selfishness, indiff to others during 80s. /cons say no that pov has it’s own cult.

/single ma’s mean problems. but larger grp of divorced mom’s doesn’t.

/tv [mc] influencing us as to gays, environ, anti smoke, but not in sex, violence.

/poor kids watch more tv. and blacks kids even more. blk parents especially believe tv role models warp, said polls.

/apa says watching tv rarely means copycat violence, but heavy watching is “linked” to more aggression, mistrust, and insensitivity to pain of others. /reasons for illegit [uib, wel] in pov don’t explain illegit in mc.

/polls: ams far less willing to marry or not divorce for kids sake. so if mc have illegit, poor can too.

/ l/5 white fams are single ma’s [never married?]. l/2 for blks – never married [so not same?] – 60-70% in inner cities.

/kids of single parent fams more prone to alc, drug, illegit, jd, mh, suicide, dropping out. they are more prone, than kids of divorces, to pov, no child support, & crime.

/decision of couples to marry or live apart aren’t much influenced by gov – policies re taxes, birth control, and divorce. big growth in female-headed families. #

un news 6/8/92 un news 6/8/92  un news 6/8/92 un news 6/8/92

/super cheap geraldo – man is he cheap. titilation in aft.

/forcing people to carry car insur is forcing resp?

/23% will like bout where they keep their car at night. 32% will exaggerate insur claims. 20% will conceal income from irs.

– cc 5/92

/initiative, pride in work,

/what is decadent

/tradval to dan quayle 6/92

/comic book confidencial showed how uptight adults were long ago. ch 29 .

/jfk was a hero and ike was not? fickle ams.

/2 football coaches. both with earings and long hair. canaga pk? vs ?

/not where you live, but how you live.

/talk differently on campus, in locker room, on st, with boys at stag party, grp ther, fighting words. night club humor, around kids, board rm, protest

/if everyone wants a job, why hire those with earings, etc.

/too much sex on vh-1 in the aft. sex symbols [program]. earth girls are easy.

/prove how long it takes to learn tradval. by looking at how much a kid does not know????????????

/people stealing from libraries [more?] 6/92.

/religious grps back quayle on vals. la 6/20/92 but ty: not specific:

cul elite vs [man in st]. all should be free to do whatever. deval of hum life and fam rel. failure in pol, soc, and financial insts. loss of conf and trust in hollylwood, networks, dc, biz leaders, and some religious insts. too much sex and violnce on network tv. the only ones not is the sack are the happily married. profanity, porn. abortions, ow births. drugs. i have to have it my way. #

/fair play, raise a fam.

/people stealing from libraries [more?] 6/92.

/apple pie and motherhood. bill press said … pile of crap 6/92

/promiscuity, affairs, dugs, noise, violence on tv

/i’ll beat boogie woogie was considered dirty.

/the dirty boogie.

/birth control info.

/vals always blamed on papers, radio, tv, music. doing what comes naturally.

flics take credit for: undershirts, t-shirts, long hair getting caught in machines. flics till 27?

flics – smoking.

some ad agency made smoking for women?

sat night live in 70s made drugs more acceptable?

jailbait. under age drinking. braless. open mouth chewing kisses. faye dunway barechested in chinatown. clockwork orange.

/suggestive

/legion of decency

/hollywood is in the attention getting biz? takes self too seriously. others take it too seriously too.

/slasher stuff. it’s driven by $, not ideology.

/hollywood is lib.: less religious, interacial dating. gay rights.

media inevitably run by elites in all countries. as literate, talented.

an elite is not nec a cabal. [mono?]

elite is loaded or not.

/ingrid banned from us

/scandals in 20’s made people call hollywood the greatesf fleshpot since babylon. 37 states introduced censorship bills. could do it as filcs not protested by lst amend. anna karenina couldn’t have an illegit kid. dead bodies could not be shown. drunkness too. damn in gone with the wind.

i just don’t think flics are that sig.

/self-indulgence

/see traffic2

/cleavage

/european attitudes: french ads for u wear. statues./twin beds

/something for nothing ….. making something from nothing./hollywood says they mirror am cul. quayle says they are a cul elite that distains tradval. like agnew.

come first. venerate hold deep reverence for

paramount/$700 bullet proof vest for principal in seattle. and the assist princ wouldn’t go on camera.

-6/92/tv seen as vast wasteland yrs ago.

/cops: egyptians who owned store said if thief who broke in got caught in their county, everyone would stomp him.

/where did the hooting come from.

/clinton saying both? gov and citizens must assume resp. 7/92

/val – tatoos, earing, dreadlocks, bump and grind, bully, strutting, macho, /wagner – artists. gay rights. putney swoop.

 law and order). /chasing women

/social class might? be a tradval? /not disturbing the peace/duty, honor/obscene comments in yrbks nowdays said keith + 92 We can recognize vice (gambling, pornography, prostitution, & drugs) for what they are ‑ a cancer . /val: fisher park, santiago park, willard, sahs, like linwood. sec guards at sch with bulletproof vests. blked off st. gangs.

/val – imitating the president. vauhgn meader

/trucks etc. didn’t leave their doors open with the stereo blaring when making deliveries 92/compassion as tradval?/compassion – chop wood before eating/when it comes to traditional values, a lot of ims are better ams than ams.

/val: studs. sexual harrassent by navy officers.

/holland has lot of sex ed and low pregnancy rate.

/hope/from self-reliance to self-pity moral vals /judy j. doesn’t like hats on in doors either./selfishness is such a horrible thing, we invented politeness to conceal it – schopenhauer.

the function of courtesy is to curb instinct. you don’t gobble your food just as you don’t pounce upon an attractive woman. courtesy is not a lux, but necessity.

/jap: caste, hi respect for rank. in france, all are thrown together and codes of conduct fade away. a? democratization has broken down social barriers. a?/after all these years what is sin? peyton place /why manners never taught on tv; nor soc life, dating in grps, or sex as wholesome, parenting,

/tradval listed under: lists, tradval, sub, sw?, val, lib?, adp/super dirty rap song by blks. baby got back by sir mix a lot. on mtv

/i don’t think 30 years ago, we would have had on tv and aud made up of men who had been molested by priest and repressed it for 20 30 yrs./ prohibition? what did other countries do.

/fam vals are amorphous said la during rep conv./fam vals: abort, divorce?, single ma’s, working ma’s vs hm w/ kids – day care, cohesivness; orphans?, sex, sex ed. anything about gays – gay parenting, teaching, housing, /see dem/grafitti on trucks – some around here. 92/franklin’s l3 virtues: temperance, silence, order, resolution, frugality, industry, sincerity, justice, moderation, cleanliness, tranquility, chastity, humility [imitate jesus and socrates]/rugged individualism – self-reliance/ clean cut appearance, hygene

/the “fam” as a val. fister said long hair was an instant passport to getting along with youth.

unity, community.

 

theoretical ed phil, esthetics, ethics, humanities, anthro?, religion?,/compassion as tradval?/dem and cap are tradvalclean cut appearance, hygene

//gabler: buchanan declared holly col war on feminism, homo. rock, hollywood, media. 70 yr cul battle. why 70?

/val flap in 20s: jazz, flics, flivvers and flappers, bathtub gin, dh lawrence, the shimmy, the charleston, tabloids. many thot it was plot by jews and catholics/belt tighting goes without saying.= work sheet ================

‑ Using psychology to get to the roots of one’s problems …

  “keep it in, endure – long suffering”.

‑ Probe into public figures … put them on a pedestal.

‑ More openess about battered spouses, the gay world, addiction, child

  abuse, incest, abortion, impotence, etc. …. don’t talk about it.

‑ More openmindedness about premarital relations in long term, responsible

  relationships. ……. no no

‑ “Diversity” ……………… no, “singularity” one course of study, one type of work, one spouse for life, one set of beliefs & friends.

‑ More acceptance of ethnic diversity. …. keep to your own.

‑ More acceptance of separation & divorce. … less.

‑ More rights for minorities, women, homosexuals, youth, the handicapped. …… real slow and reluctant.

‑ More questioning of religion. …. no.

==========================================

– “Relationships” are basic to rehabilitation ………….. nonsense.

– Fires, floods, etc. require mental health teams …. not necessarily.

 

/”over”commercialization of lourdes – scacrilege. but people’s tastes are that.

/you paid your debts./media caters to the bored, immature, lonely, unfulfilled, etc. like sex, boxing, … idiocy sells. ag. as bk r said in w post 9/7/92, “… soft porn, dumb news, and nitwit intertainment ahve always been the coice diversions of the mass of an pop … “/dem and cap are tradval /profanity in locker rm, etc. doesnt disturb the peace.

/val. trigg’s hair.

/can sign up for your wedding list at hm depot or a down payment for mort.

 wk ethic. a latina teaches it but doesn’t use the words. it’s a turn off for [blk?] stu. how to act at wk = diff cul. for those uib for yrs or always./no short cuts/when being confronted for something he did wrong, a person’s reaction counts for something, but what counts for more is his willingness to make up for it – in deed.

/tradval as tedious, etc. not trendy.

 compromise /disturbing the peace/abstinence should be part of sex ed.

/radios on trash trucks, const crews, jons, thumper boxes.

/dem and cap are tradval “Diversity” rather than “singularity” (one course of study, one type of work, one spouse for life, one set of beliefs & friends).

 

/no short cuts/tradval as tedious, etc. not trendy.

/i took modifications off tradval as that is suited only to a longer piece./am workers, on average, are, the most productive in world. postrel la 92 business experience,

/feel safer walking in downtown tj than la. tv 9/92

/juv hall is like summer camp for asian kids compared to refugee camp. you threaten em with it and they don’t care. imported crime

 dumbed down text bks./after you’ve seen results of drunk driving and talked to parents of kids killed by it, you work on prevention. cops

/fam val – anti sex and violence on tv

/young black testifying before sen. dodd? with baseball cap on and jacket. 8/92

/our biz to promote tradval within and export them abroad – dem and cap – self int in this.

/food fights/teacher in t shirt. another with pony tail. probably everything … 3/92

/lst booming car stereos, then little packs of young meng with lewd gestures, menacing blances, catcalls, gang graffiti, needles.

/sep 28. tv said xmas decorations up already./no one knocks tatoos. why not

/valn. la l0/l/92 ma bot t shirt with pigs fornicating for 6th grade boy. he wore it to sch. made him turn it inside out. victory.

secular standards as vals scare some as rel or pol.

honesty, courage, civic duty. resp, compassion, perseverance, respect, coop, courage, citizenship. trust, justice, fairness. sportsmanship. conf. health.

rampant cheating on exams. moral vals turn people off. so does vals for some. so they use character ed. better done as a sch than as a class.

 

/manners: can’t approach judge, witness stand, beyond certain point w/o permission. what about jury. but TV does. said darrell erikson.

those horseshow shaped panels should do the same.

/calm asian family walking out of midway city sch – seemed like a calm sensible unit.

/saying pissed off on tv 92

/fiorello la guardia abolished burlesque. it went to jersey city.

/irving kristol is for local censorship.

/tradval: irons in fire, good faith. proper speech./tradval – biz sense.

/viet said hong kong is loud with shopkeepers trying to outdo ea other over their pa systems like carnaval barkers./disturbing the peace = 0 in ny

/ blood sports: bulls, dogs, cocks, no violence, cheating, drugs.

sportsmanship

teamwork, fair play, play by the rules. shake hands afterward to show.

accept rules. agree. accept decision of officials who are to be obj. rules to determine who played the better game, had more skill, persisted. so those things are rewarded. no bullying, beat, but not humiliation.

don’t take unfair advantage.

Traditional values vs liberal contemp vals. this is hard. easier to say libs are

-new

-casual,

-nothing to inhibit free expresssion, creativity. a la blank slate.

-put it way back on the back burner.

tradvals not instilled, they somehow happen.

 

/Responsibility (the most important). starts at bottom, jd, crime, bums, mi’s,

/Foresight (thrift, saving, planning, keeping a number of irons in the fire). — now

e/Golden rule – do your thing.

/reliability —- relax, casual. ex: something else came up.

/honesty — relax, sit.. ethics?

/good faith, holding up your end of the bargain, fulfilling your obligations — something came up, wasn’t what you wanted, changing circumstances.

/fairness —- partiality, pol, circumstances.

/manners – not sig, do your thing

/respect for property —- use and discard, always more, doesn’t matter, insur..

/respect for authority —- why? they caused the problem. same for Law and order – authority itself,

/the individual

/disc, and

/punishment.

/respect for elders

/respect for ethnic groups — yes, libs are lopsided on this.

/family teamwork – what’s a fam. anyhow it’s the problem, the sch should raise your kid.

/hard? work — no, relax, other things more sig. career

/moderation — not nec.

/wholesomeness – corney

/patriotism ….. corney

/self-respect —- under resp? esteem,

/practical education —– for the real world.

/(clean cut) appearance, hygene

/fam — make up your own fam or friends

/copy place: 22 people said they’d go to barbeque. bot lot of food. only 2 showed up and only l called 4 hrs into the gathering to say they couldn’t come.

/if recession so bad, why aren’t students learning how to grow veg in back yard, put on a prom for less than $600 ea. tune up cars, etc.

/we have more violent crime than any modern nation. 93

/guy walking down st with cerebral palsy vs junky teens in malls etc. tradval

/dressed bad at pagent of masters. 93 said ma.

/geo’s boss never hires under 30? can’t trust =.

/valn entitlements

/chet said whole gen of irresp.

/we didn’t have the gang problems when I was a teen.

/couple on tv said we’re not going to talk about sex cause it’s personal.

/tradval vs change, future.

/poverty meant poor planning, said early protestants.

/security measures were not as big. no car alarms. fewer security guards.

/rep? fabio?: conf in gov is at an all time low. 93

/church vs state as tradval

/farce of lady cop and blk. profanity. grabbed his pri. wrestling black to ground. into car. kicks out window, starts getting out of car. hi patrol 9/l7/93 spit? my taxes going for this. worse than sw. if you want to know what’s wrong with the country, that’s it.

/Geo – 25 yrs in syrian army and not afraid. works in gas sta and is afraid.

/one poor boy taunted so much at sch, he recorded it., he developed facial ticks. you sure felt sorry for him. tv 93/we didn’t have sexual harrassment in sch in our day./sexual harrassment: leering, sucking noises, catcalls, cornering, bra-snapping, groin grabbing, coping a feel, slam books, [suggestive, lewd, ribald] sch admin don’t like to admit it.

/tradval – self-improvement.

/didn’t have car alarms in past/more hit-runs than in past?

/cop chasing guy in oc as he threw machine guns out the window. 93

/monyhan: we accept what used to be considered deviant beh. thus one parent families are seen as normal.

/boys may be boys, but gentlemen have restraint; respect.

/myron magnet, ed of fortune. did I send him tradval?

/looking out for one’s neigh – tradval. brother’s keeper.

/lcd/anything but self pity//cheapskate article says cutting way back isn’t so bad after all.

/pro off talks to kid who chews gun, leans on table and has cap on backwards.

/wholesome is not vs premarital/elvira on kid programs – sun morn.

/cops have given up on a gen of youth in ft worth. 93 tv

/they used to tear down goal post a lot more. 93

/talk to the people that serve you the food the way you talk to those you eat with. talk to those who work for you, the way you talk to those you work for.

/rooming hse has reinforced my belief in disc.

/parents worried bout beatles. 90% girls at shea stadium. so much screaming you couldn’t hear music. 60k.

/no articles against tatoos, shirt out, hat backwards, pub profanity. 93

/dirty stuff in r & j ballet – object twix legs as penis.

/how many teens played chicken after seeing rebel without a cause.

/a spoiled person doesn’t appreciate things. hasn’t earned it, paid the price, been there. put in valn.

/the amount of TRAINING i’ve had to do: slam doors, cupboards, messes, noise, – geo, mingo, steve3

/industrial giants had higher status before the depression. sig?

/porn and the qual of life. vs my change of views on it.

Stiffer sentences are being handed out, more criminals are going to prison, and s Some crimes have declined. /the good old days

/which programs support tradvals, which hurt them

/tradval be prepared for emergs. pers and nat.

/mtv: aerosmith. pa gives 9th? grad kid a condom. he throws it in bush.

/caps in class at notre dame. and backwards on campus.

/self-disc nec for emerg.

/living together. bing crosby was super anti./denmark: 8th grader buys porn, beer, cig easily, his class goes to porn mus. l2 & l3 yr olds go to discos with condoms from folks. 38% of pop smoke.

/mtv = dumpster rock

/mauray povich to show how to make hm porn flics with help of marilyn chambers. ll/93

/friendship, loyalty, faith,

/wfb says too much use of lst names by strangers [and in biz]. 93/more security at games. fan violence.

/whole lot of shaking going on. j lewis. seen as obscene.

/pub wants to go back to tuff prisons. tv 93.

/mathau in preview said eat my shorts. 93

/anyone ever ASK cops how they feel bout lack of disc in schs?

/defining deviancy down. 93

/freaking out over soccer and other sports in foreign countries.

/tradval – don’t waste; give to thrift shop, church.

/when in sch we didn’t have dare, etc. esteem,

singapore low crime, orderly, no pov, hmless, nor uib. no traffic congestion. clean subways. detectors for urinating in elevators makes em stop. no guns, cept cops. no spit, litter. flush toi. something bout gum. death for drugs. indef detention. censor: no playboy, no cosmo. no mobs. say go hm or they will open fire and they do.

/soda pop and strippers for teens in eugene, or. 93

/hm videos show people at their wholesome, natural, mid am. best.

/i am growing to dislike driving by jr hi’s and hi schs. 94

 [the IMS had it al in their countries. THEY don’t go for counseling]/vals. say a friend needs a loan and says he’ll pay back in 2 weeks. he should not have to be reminded and should pay it back promtly, and later do a favor for you? this vs bad tenants.-like they will show up for sure or call. and do neither. then later have excuses./friendship, /norman rockwell. critics say he painted a world that never existed. [jones is taking it hard. [oh boy, just what we need – screwed up intellectuals who miss middle america. touched a raw nerve in me. that’s all NY was – a bunch of scoffing and sneering asses.- vs lawrence welk. vs kids, souders, 50s,

/30 yrs ago when putting an ad in the paper about renting a room, you didn’t have to put no drugs

/SIG aren’t rights vals? re whose values.

/ski boarders/no one’s as mc as a mc blk. is that why i’m a nut on tradval, as i’ve seen what’s wrong with the ghettos./see valn/traffic sch in wm in 92                              They NEED tickets./fair play lost out to greed long ago. violent. anything goes. kill your folks, ravage your wife, maim your husband, kill an exch stu, and find a jury to let you off. thus tonya harding reps am. she’s the victim, not resp. when jap girl messed up at olympics, she apolgized to jap. vs tonya [before olypics]. eastern libs say it would be elitist to keep her off the team. as she’s wc. which is elitism run wild, as it says, wc don’t know fairness, sportsmanship. a w post 2/94/crude bumper stickers

/what is mid am: no panhandling./crime up by 700% since ’50 and punishment down by 60%. p gramm.

/schs reflect the cul. do courts?, flics,

  sports reflect our vals./in 62: 2% of white births were ow & 22% blk. 94: 2l% w & 68% b. & browns? tv

/what reflects society: schs, crts, restrictions on cops, tv, sports, emergs? go thru lists.

/cnn mentioned star at harvard’s hasty pudding thing adn that she again faked an orgasm. 2/94

/charity means meeting people only half way.

/burping a song out – a cartoon character.

/Things change: Midnight Cowboy came out with an X; now it’s an R.

/are tradval “hard core”?

/rap singer touching himself. sammy davis too. lc in front of lady cop on cops.

/sleeze on daytime talk shows.

/maybe our parents had better values at 25 than us.

/hi patrol has rock on hold.Some countries are poor, think poor, and work hard – (China).

Some are rich, think poor, and work hard – (Taiwan & Hong               Kong). Americans are rich, think rich, and sluff off. – The lst generation of immigrants works hard, the 2nd generation gets the education, the 3rd prospers and sluffs off.

/don’t disturb the peace./vice, maturity/expand tradvals.

/pledge to the flag never meant a things. the nat anthem only meant something at the olympics. the flag meant something when abroad.

 police times use it/soc jus-als/hardcore tradval? vs others?

/tj’s folder: in these days of mediocre service and lack of atten to detail. 94.

/in movie theaters, people put feet up on the seat in front of them more? 94

/resp to get involved where you can – good sam./too much bear huggin at hi sch. ag

/ford has to teach 3 r’s to new workers with hi sch dips. 4/94 didn’t use to have to. costs em a lot.

/indiv vs comm virtue and moral obligation.

/adulthood is doing what you want to do, not what you are supposed to do. us news 4/25/94 s roberts = 0.

/making a baby is a sign of status. caring for one is not. right and wrong are old fashioned. 4/25/94 s roberts = 0.

/self-improvement = tradval.

/hippy type sat on sidewalk doing her makeup. all had to go around her. ty.

/unimaginable amount of sexual harrassment in sch now. 94 and admin do zip. on sally. all ages.

/l0 am ricky lake. french kissing.

/we didn’t know of gang areas when we were teens.

/how can madona use terrible lang, bleeped out, and not get fined.

/70% of inner city kids are ow?

/tastelessness: take the bandage off your wounded arm on tv. verbal details are the same.

/basic or hardcore vals?

sent tradval to uci-tradval3, shaeffer?=tradval2, jo ellen …

/black music videos are about as dirty as you get. animals. worse than white. 94

/no cosmo in singapore.

/tradval: punishment is part of rehab.

/wk is where you learn a lot of tradval/dj, you can’t believe how terribly dressed people are in hotel lobbies out here – shorts, sweats, baggies, tennies, undershirts./prospect said she used to set up appoints for hm sec for att to come out to hms. 75% didn’t keep appoints. 94

 the moving “frontier” meant the constant creation of new land and wealth and its accessibility for those endowed with initiative /mtv crase, coars, irresp, cheap, vulgar.

/ma said people don’t thank others like they used to. sent contributions to pp and 0. 94

/kid in back of interview gave finger [and got away with it]. 94

/people want harsher prisons like in 30s. tv 94

/baby boomers, notorious for their self-sig. have 0 in their exp to compare with the selfessness of pa’s dispalyed at omaha bch. and their ma’s showed on the hmfront. olders reticent to talk bout selves. and not happy with the self-congratulation of boomers. us news 6/94/some gay hot line had to be kept clean. that’s encouraging./vets owed a living.

/t shirt: button up your fly 94/prestige of gov. is way down. 94 g will.

/mtv: i want to dip my balls in it. 94 affected, corny, awkward, piss on life.

gandhi did something like this in here. el cid

/saw kid on bike at chief auto parts give woman in car finger. 6/94/any countries ban boxing?

/bump and grind cheerleaders during pro basketball. 94

/dropping curve in sat tests. 94 tv.

 /domestic help in hms and motels steal, hosp help steals. also at pic your part? /cabbies too/baby boomers – notorious for their self-importance. me gen. thot to create new world. their elders reluctant to talk about selves. elders never liked the self-congratulation of the boomers. d day made boomers more int in elders.

/ridiculous orders in mil. eaton./grads from pre sch get a diploma [which they can’t read]

/dershowitz said celebs are treated special – one reason oj got away. they’re difficult. they’re used to being coddled and getting their way. especially in the lst few days. more worried bout their career. don’t realize the gravity of what they’ve done. /we discuss incest, etc. and all more now than probably ever. did this come from civil rights? and other rights movements.

/gov can’t protect you. tremendous growth in priv security firms./link twix effort and reward/oj – now no heros left. crap.

/bleeped out mf on rap songs ch 33 94

/mex turned radio up incredibly loud across st when building. must have thot he was in the desert./when a kid, adults would tell justice scalia to take his feet of the seat in the bus.

/hi sch guys who cursed me called children. 6/92

/public property more sig in singapore than here. thus vandalism was more sig.

/more fan violence

/grungy mtv.

/preventative measures: maintenance, police work, disc.

/growing vigilatiism. 7/94

/another talk show where poor teen embarrassed by ma’s sexy clothes. jenny jones 94

/social critic or satirist? dennis miller in interview with maria shriver had baseball cap on.

/mtv awards. people look terrible and act dumb.

/youth crime, workplace violence rising. 94 la/curfews, pot, self-disc vs self-indulgence. fam love vs free love. [interacial dating on tv]. reps big on crime and wel. wonton image of hollywood. condoms in sch. baby boomers finding the do your own thing doesn’t work in child rearing. being a parent makes you cons. ow births up 82% 84-94. divorce up 4 times since ’70. kids won’t live as well as folks. [so what] m – need stabilty for fam vals. so it’s up to gov. – crap. stability of 50s at cost of women and minorities. but lib [60s] went too fr in undermining auth, glorifying indiv over fam.

pers vs soc resp. individ vs comm. freedom vs sacrifice? us news /schools paid out in damages as they didn’t take care of sexual harassment. 93?

/one poor boy taunted so much at sch, he developed facial ticks. you sure felt sorry for him. he recorded it.

/we didn’t have sexual harrassment in sch in our day. leering, sucking noises, catcalls, cornering, bra-snapping, groin grabbing, coping a feel, slam books, [suggestive, lewd, ribald] sch admin don’t like to admit it.

/living together. due to laws?/tradval vs change, future.

/didn’t let baby cry in restaurant in past.

/parked right in front of crosswalk.

/separately 2 casual guys went into dr. off and didn’t close dr to waiting rm.

/is am hockey more violent? decline.

/LL’s probably didn’t have trouble 30 yrs ago they have now?

/if we had trouble talking bout gays then, what are we having trouble talking about now.

/sen byrd walked 3 mi to sch and back when young.

/didn’t call us children when young.

vals implicit econ and racial bias in debate on vals. few taking about divorce which tends to be a mc problem. and few discussing econ strains on wc, mc which compel both folks to wk.

/cons anti crime. libs want root causes. cons think wel causes crime. death penalty. cap on wel: 2 kids only. wkfare. boomers more int in vals. [ah ha] breakdown in fam. [gen gap]. sch prayer, man as pa, child support. morals, virtues. [cul war] [pluraism] [nimby] sex harrasment, death penalty. [gun control] trying l3 yr olds as adults. la 8/l/94/see sub

/test scores down, grafitti,. definining deviancy down -moynihan. [but tabloidish tv just shows [poorly] what was always there.] self disc. commitment. infidelity.

see am it’s soc that wrecks vals.

/virtue is its own reward.

/tradvals are “facts” of life.

/resp = boostraps./heros and vals.

/bal budget/don’t tear a fence down, until you know why it was put up. robert frost.

/conrad drew 2 with middle finger.

/breakdown of fam: ow kids, single parents, gays? no resp.

/ma’s friends see lassie and say, at last a clean movie./rel right not apocalyptic – prophetic. these delcines were foretold by monihan, murray, & w raspberry.

/madona. m jackson grabbing his crotch. bump and grind. rush’s vulgarity.

/a-z store shouldn’t have pic of gal with big clevage.

/fate helps those that help themselves. the spread.

/basic or hardcore vals?

 

/heros: babe ruth, jim brown, jo dimaggio, jackie robinson, vince lombardi, gen patton, ike,/messed-up ir fair at gg hi sch. irv.

/anyone ever ASK cops how they feel bout lack of disc in schs etc.? same with merchants, ll’s, etc.

/w bennet: since l960:

-violent crime up 6 times

– ow births up 5 times. -divorce up 4 times, – teen suicide up 3 times. SAT scores own 80 pts., single parent hmes up ….

pop up …./l9 soc indicators. obligation to others.

[lib:] self-expresson, indivi, self-realization, personal choice. /compassion, tolerance, civility, fidelity

/nothing free

/instill vals. best way is via work.

/protestants looked on pov as a sign of improvidence.

/rap artist couldn’t keep his hand out of his crotch. l:30 am ch ll.

/friendship, loyalty, compasson, corage, faith, self-disc, resp, honesty, perserverance.-bennet              /women wearing pants./realism?/$3 mil for burn? from hot coffee spilled on woman at mcdonalds. 94.

/barb bush said not marrying ok, career ok, but if kids come, they come lst./full time cop at sch, no lockers, parent vols, sec guards? in sd ’94.

/teacher in short pants.

/quale says sports and hollywood promote a value free enviroment. /quale says sports and hollywood promote a value free enviroment. /val – women down./chasity?, humility/healthy skepticism – from poor richard. buyer beware is another./meet half way/don’t stare, don’t yell. don’t make fun of the way others speak, act or pray. don’t point at people.

/virtue is its own reward.

/claud brown: in 40s 50s violence was normal. killers in harlem usually acquited. profanity is the language of violence. he blames its acceptance on the ‘hip’ media. la 94/gypsy kids taught to steal.

/lola falana said some hi sch girls look older than her and hard.

/also rise in lawsuits and settlements?/stigma attached to having kids with polio. kept out of sight. in fdr’s time/loren bacall said skip the love scenes. she doesn’t want to see em.

/even with dave hutchens shuting em down, still lot of radio at kb. and some squeeling tires./l979 article in Newsweek said the u.s. is more optimistic than Eur, especially the western u.s. funny, I seemed to notice that in flying home several times.

/average am carries 7 credit cards. 94. 1 in 8 has a hm equity loan or 50k. both developed in last 30 yrs. 94- it used to be cash on the barrelhead, but went to charge it/play radios at kb const, EVEN tho neighbors have moved in./play radios at kb const, EVEN tho neighbors have moved in.

/can compromise on issues, but not vals.

/pregnant women in bathing suits on jerry springer.

/I feel sorry for androgenous guy who works at jack in box at night.

/ma’s friends see a good movie and praise how it used to be. vals./shouldn’t tolerate heckling from sports fans. field of screams. fans are getting bolder. 94

/interesting piece on primetime? on how good looking people are given preference by babies, lst graders, juries, those hiring, those donating to charity. 94./with decline of vals, good neighs are more sig.

/job interviewers say they’ll call back prospect and don’t. 94

/can you imagine graduating from college in DEBT ? !!!!

 graduating from college in DEBT ?/grad from c in debt/i left calif in 63 and came back in 75 and calif had become a little more like NY – hi workman’s compensation, lst to raise the minimum wage, rise in crime, more regulations, anti- business, “rights”, handouts, “disabilities,” the government owes people a living,

/const music at kb has to bother the people that live THERE.

/more cheating in sch, and on tax forms, more porn. less satisfaction from pers. rels./breakdown of fam: ow kids, single parents, gays? no resp.

/madona. m jackson grabbing his crotch. bump and grind. rush’s vulgarity.

/instill vals. best way is via work.

/rap artist couldn’t keep his hand out of his crotch. l:30 am ch ll.

/see 25/we didn’t have a sch cafeteria in grammar sch.

/compassion, tolerance, civility, fidelity

/endurance, forbearance, courage, fortitude, long suffering, tuff. foreigners better at this.

/lawyer approach is win-lose. the biz approach is win win.

is this ty of christian civs.

/guy on tv said armored car turned over, he returned the $. aud snickered. 94

/girls could only wear pants to sch once a yr in my day.

/as scouts we were supposed to earn the money to buy our uniforms /crap on daytime shows is so bad it makes you wince: reunite girl with old bow she was dying to see. her lst love. and he married, and his wife is in the aud. /ow births, single parent fams.leisure spending in 93 in bil movies 5, sports 5, gamble 34, pubs 47. /in 40s? 50s? you didn’t say pregnant, and if you were, you didn’t go outside./you were an old maid at 35 in the 40s./lesbians didn’t have kids in past. now there are more chances to./joe namath did a lot to chang the image of pro athletes in late 60s

/are sports too sig in some countries?

/disc. vals. when it becomes not worth it to mess up. guy lost car for dui, said as much.

/pee wee herman got crucified. end of his career in 93?/people put in jail or prison for stopping tb medication. 94

/living with your mate. Peyton Place./fallen women, but no fallen men./bruno bettleheim put dick cavet to shame.

/ow kids: corine’s, laura’s, jessie jackson, lawrence of arabia./single parent kids don’t do as well – trad of am comp/a “living” wage./decline of punish in 60s. man in st. knew it. pros never got it. wattenburg. wilson

/guy flipped off aud – daytime talk show. l/95

/daytime tv: aud as bad. want to see a fight. kind that go to cockfights, dogfights. blindfolded. aud booing. scum. hooting.

/western welfarism and strife vs asian order.

/some stuff on talk shows must be illegal.

/girl they dubbed bambi on talk show vs when lund chewed us out for laughing at dogs when girls could hear it.

/lot of the asian kids are clean cut – means they come from good families. 95.

/suffering brings character, character brings faith. j jackson/on front of brouchure: kid with coats on sitting on top of desks

/singles can adopt, so why not resp gays. nancy hull.

/alt lifestyles: gay parents, vs dan quale. resp, mature, committed, loving. foster fams, grp hms. this at midnight on 28. lot have it ruff./who’s church to say middle age divorcees who care for ea other can’t go to bed. try it on lst.

/parenting by foster hm, grp hm, dual and single adoptions,

/people get spoiled: oj. that’s what wrong with tenure, unions, monarchies, security,

/surfers getting one warning after another. mockery.

 k graham used tit, quoting mitchel. /had to walk miles to sch here barefoot. no safety net.

/tradvals vs foster care, grp hm?, n hull, gay adoption…

/neighborliness. vals do not have to be virtues. virtues are not relative. vals are. #$%#$% much maligned victorian era./right sees ow births [il..] as not a family val.

/living in sin = unmarried?

/rule of law. justice,/put feet up in movie theaters. talk,

/vhl interview – wouldn’t DARE hold the camera still.

/2 parent fam?/mid victorian society saw the heyday of industrial c ap. lat vic times saw the beginning social conscience of the mc. [l880s?]

vic soc was less egalitarian than ours. and more cohesive. la bk r 3/95- Be the client’s agent, not his friend. this should be a tradval

/kids should be ed enuff to be able to break out of rel. a dershowitz. hassidim were totalitarian with their kids.

/so is the lack of scrambled porn channels BETTER for me?/jamie lee curtis grabbed guy’s crotch 9:l8 pm award prgram.

3/95

/fair play

/blamed all on cars, rumble seat, drive in, boogie woogie, rock and roll, the song: doing what comes naturally, the sax, drums,

/kids should be ed enuff to be able to break out of rel. a dershowitz. hassidim were totalitarian with their kids.

/self reliance is under resp/maturity is a tradvalaccountability, hygiene, manners,/howard stern on radio – filth. and that outfit he wore to mtv? or something, showing his rear? in 92?/leave something better than how you found it.

/howard stern/if no vals in prison, then not in society, so worse since 60s.

/being a child of divorce was stigmatizing in the south prior to wwii.

/not 24 hr perfect love, reaching out, compassion,

/diff cameras will get people’s reactions. probably wouldn’t have done that in 50s.

/gandhi forgave. el cid too.

/don’t forget the man who greeted each mr as they got off the bus at dodger stadium. /some studies way off. …. the truth and who stole feminism are 2 bks on this. one on chewing gum in sch in 40s was made up. you have to go to original source. oat bran, men beating women after super bowl, hunger, hmless. junk statistics/l/5th of am schs have metal detectors. 95

/d sawyer’s report on goofing off at sch: how does that make cops feels, ll’s, merchants, pols?, sensible adults, 95

/girls gets shot in music video. ch ll.

/it’s a privilege to serve in the U.S. military in time of war. it you get thru it without a handicap the country doesn’t owe you a thing – pension, va loan, gi bill, nothing. said andy rooney. 95./senior center says seniors are 55 on. i’m not sure bout that/tradvals all the more sig – glamour slammer

/if no tradval in prison, then easy to see there aren’t enuff in society.

/mtv – a collection of everyone who is trying not to fit.

/you make your own bed/it’s a privilege to serve one’s country in time of war. it you get thru it without a handicap the country doesn’t owe you a thing – pension, va loan, gi bill, etc. said andy rooney. 95/i might try to make resp the grandad and put cap, less gov, etc. under it/dirty dancing, lambata,

/adults were addressed as sir or ma’am. didn’t leave the din table till excused. opened door for all women and olders. kids stayed out of adult conv unless invited to.

/mtv takes itself too seriously, does all it can to be goofy, non-conformist, odd, is unhappy, shades, camera moving,

/shoes on the furn.

/ims in the past had to PROVE they wouldn’t become wards of the state.

/epidemic of irrespon. no one stands up and says it’s my fault. cept for hugh grant and m. mantle. old sch was you made yourself and thus were resp. few believe that now. but freud [changed that]. psychobabble. narcicism. n gabler. 95 la./absolute disgrace to have teens on with overly sexy ma’s.

/truancy vs red eye sch for ims late at night. weak.

/m jackson can’t keep his hand off his crotch on mtv.

/why rate movies and not tv 95 [tabloids]

/no pa in l/3rd of am fams. ’95

/father knows best. the waltons. wise and patient folks. contankerous and controlling grandfolks, but revered. ma in kit with unconditional love. the cleavers of leave it to beaver: ma stayed home and pa handled all the problems. my 3 sons was another program. all the sisters got along in little women./what public figures were or are wholesome: pat boone, debbie boone, julie nixon, jacqueline smith, /disgrace to be sent to the principal’s office in early part of cent.

/jon mcclaughlin – was a leading clergyman. in nix day? what a joke./tamara said ams do things europeans would never do [re appearance & manners?] re culture./madona/whore complex: latin countries, veiled women and belly dancers,

/radio on bike, on cycle, over mower, work crews/feel good: graduations, awards.

/cops on campus

/keith thot it ok for a bro to go along with ma in secret./corps now teaching table manners to young ex’s. chet. /jo said this gen raised with all done for them and so expect it. 95/to love, honor, and obey. is part of marriage vow?

/The less you had to do growing up carries over. /when l & o go down, vigilanteism goes up, said da./funniest home videos: wholesome, cute, natural [vs hollywood]/The less you had to do growing up carries over. thus send lc and val/funniest hm videos?/chas kuralt and mid am.

/grubby dress: prep for job, mil, esteem, respect, good beh?

/lynn cheney was pres of nat endow for hum.. during bush. she wrote telling the truth [bout counter cul]/jerry ducat said life is hard.

/7 fold increase in ow births in us. also big increase round the world. 95

/joe arpieyo, sherrif of some tent jail outside phoenix. 95 ch 7? ll/95 on 60 min?

/cops put up with more than 40 yrs ago.

/beards/what sells: sex, love, compassion, ed, i, rel.., making lot of $,

/sun 6 pm teens talking bout climaxes on fast times at ridgemont hi. ch 5

/mtv: someone’s tonque being pierced. sun night 8?

/daytime talk shows are as low brow as you get. pandering, side shows. kitch, sleeze. no thot of tradval./feel good is superficial & out of proportion. life is hard.

/were brot up to offer to do the dishes.

/kid worked for me and got bored. broke my heart.

/trash tv vs soaps

/rate trash tv, like flics.

/in boston, you don’t talk about yourself.

/things sublime: moks, cr, ballet,

/prevailing standards

/everything had to be sugar coated and spoon fed.

/more in debt, more crime./midwest has better manners than ny. jeff greenfield.

/jesus love. carved into picnic table.

/funniest videos vs reg media

/used to be wednesday cars were the best.

/ww: esteem comes from achievement, not visa versa.

In the 40s the top discipline problems in school were: talking, gum, noise, running in halls, out of turn in line, and improper clothing. In the 80s they were drugs, alcohol, pregnancy, suicide, rape, robbery, and assault./churches deafingly quiet on trash tv. ll/95

/at sp, teacher said it started in 62: no spank, shirtail.

/vacuous daytime shows: she looked good, he looked good, i was looking good./mid westerners have better manners than nyers. j greenfield.

/waltons – l934.

/marriage no longer viewed by elite as a crucial social inst., but as a purely pri act. thus more freedom. 96 this vs breakdown of fam, nec. of 2 parent fams, crime./unmarried people living together.

/mtv going on about tatoos: how to get em, etc. 95

/karim: vals in sports have gone down. 95

  ir fair at gg sch. /super loud band, cops came, and warned em. tv.

/xmas sinking to what it should mean. 95.

/mormon kids, julie nixon, debbie boone, mid am.

/kemp said: expand lib dem to world. exactly what i said.

/arab guy came to see room. small, walked with cane with difficulty. rain on his glasses. separating from wife & kids. is a cashier in a parking lot. nice guy. felt sorry for him. whole side of life we never see.

/janet leigh said in past, you couldn’t show any? cleavage We could be realistic about the slums and the immaturity of bums and criminals. This would call for stricter law enforcement.

 Scouting, manners, fraternities and ROTC are back after their decline in the late 60s. There is some good news. Drugs in the military are down 30%, and are almost stopped in minor league sports. Raising the drinking age to 2l has cut teenage deaths from drunk driving.

/we’re supposed to be our bros keeper vs sw.

/there were the let er rip romantics, followed by the victorians. epstein./growing up in 50s here: climate, 2 parent fams, tradval, auth, schs better, growth, good neigh, good crowd,

/mayflower co say people are leaving fastest: ny, nj, cal. 95

and loving idaho, wyoming?, & …..

/i object to: immaturity [mtv], irersp, ego, incompetence, no tradval, i, hubris?, ego?,

/all the heros work for the gov: cops, firement, teachers, vets, – morality play.

/fam vals anti: divorce, gays, single parent?, abort.

/blkbd jungle skip

/can’t honk horn in slc – aman.

/they didn’t want harry belafonte to touch white actress in 50s?

/because you’re in a fam, you have to love em. marry into another and have to love them. etc.

/empathy – pets

/neat shop at save-on screen. been that way since a kid. even his dust was regimented.

/lot of respect for law and order in hong kong. cops work closely with the mil re smuggling.

/wholesome aud [and some giddy] on funniest videos.

/idleness = sin in l9th cent.

/got to be honest to be cute, sweet, +

/not getting pregnant. studying, skills

/chinese dancers said subway car too clean – i resented that.              

/if they offer a card, you should.

/humility: you’re no better than anyone.

/kids on tv wondering how they’d get to school and back safely.

  They can get assault rifles and machine guns. S.A.T. scores have dropped dramatically.               College too is easier. When I graduated from college in the early 60s, I had to work hard to pass a course. When I took one in l980, it was easier than a course in jr. high.

e many of the poor have limited goals, and some persist in gross immaturity. We can stop trying to make social agencies out of schools, employers, the police, and courts and let them do their jobs. /m howell said smith’s getting engaged [3rd time] was exciting/at least at the oscars, they dress up. finally. 96

/if young? museum patrons had to dress up, they’d be inclined to show more respect for the items.

/helen curley brown, ed. of cosmo, thinks it’s alright to date married men. what a jerk !

 /teachers and stu should dress better to show ea other and sch more respect.

/senior talking bout sex for seniors on local access.

/lac protect kids – where are they re trash tv.

/heston did commercial for budweiser. 96

/sally j r: near fight, walk off, bleeping out tons.

/we’re more realistic re our insts, gov./vals in NY.values kids cutting across lawn. kid punching bread in market. your kid can to no wrong – spoons? divorcees playing kids off against ea other. civility. boomers wanted all looser, freer, liss disc. thus kids on control. victims vs resp.           /what gov should do about divorce [if anything], child support, more wel for more kids, marriage penalty re taxes, stay at hm spouse breaks, parents need more time to raise kids. censor tv. said 2-l. uniforms for sch kids. [great at talking AROUND the subject]. people don’t like gov intrusion; fewer don’t like gov protection of things that run against fam vals. 93% say folks don’t teach kids good vals. v chip. la 96/no fault divorce [started in 69]: spouse can leave any time for any reason. wrecked homes = wrecked society. a.

/matrimony is notarized dating.

/kids of single parent fams drop out, become preg, drugs, crime, poor rel with folks,

/vals = virtuie = morals = ethics = standards = civic mindedness /honesty, fairness, caring, resp, respect, self-disc. kids think it’s ok to cheat on tests. tolerance, acceptance, respect, indulgence. discuss forever & come up with little. schs will teach it as a subject, not drill it in. just like ethics at cmc. eaton. guilt, shame – sig [as all pos]. self-esteem mania of 60s-70s.

/character ed. partnership – dc

/character counts coalition

0 bout PRI schs.

/values clarification was value free & didn’t work.

/it must be only the faright that doesn’t want the schs to teach SOME vals.

/josephson i of ethics – marina del rey. teaches vals.

/great reluctance to be judgemental [didn’t work] = total emptiness

=================================/ultimate fighting in and out of prison./modesty, restraint/assertive vs agressive. jewish vals. jap work ethic. jap grp vs am individ./some rock video while woman’s giving birth. mtv? 96

/people showed up in shorts at wedding jo went to.

/mtv had cock fighting with padded feet.

/gibbon: wrote of the decline of the greek civ: in the end, more than they wanted freedom, they wanted security; when the freedom they wished for most was freedom from resp, then athens ceased to be free and never was free again.

/daytime talk shows are sideshows, freakshows.

/mtv is feel good? great indulgence

/am leads the world in divorce

/hong kong: some of lowest tax rates. no wel. no leisure time nor long vacations.

/woman with younger guy. b walters asks was it mostly sex? 96

/vals ‑ every problem is a disease,

/you find the value of things in buying, selling, and giving em away.

/gentlemen’s agreement flix – gal had shoes on couch/guy on tv who made smoking acceptable for women.

/keith and jeff: ea gen does things a little diff./lst thing wrong with talk shows is having such enemies sit next to each other. cheap.

/june bright is in NY. i sent a letter with ideas, leads, tips, etc. do you think she could thank me? /all conversations have to be peppy and end on a hi./man seeking man ads in paper/if modern atten span is so short, how come movies are 3 hrs.

/howard will fly the flag, but not clean up his place.

/greed at pyramid games/they made over hippy slob husbands on tv – you wouldn’t believe the diff./over past 20 yrs. ams trust nat media far less, will execute criminals more, spend more to fight crime, far less for wel. ’96 w post.

/bup dow said one of her friend forced? to work and got depressed.

/thanksgiving and some of these other meals are gluttony./lot of women feel more respected than 25 yrs ago. tv 96.

/kept 80% of income in ’60.

– Postpone maturity …………….. nonsense.

– Have a child ……….

………… when you have the time, money, and commitment.

/ed rollins pulled some shadies. changed when adopted a kid.

/rudman doesn’t mind vals, but minds they bring em in under the cloak of religion.

/family crap has brot to the fore how much tinsel there is in life. i only have a little in common with 2 relatives. xmas has meant less each yr. you realize lot of GAMES in all this.

, ===/you think about society’s values. you’re supposed to fall in love, marry, have a family, etc. so much baloney./when we were young, no one, not even the sleazies lived together before marriage. one of keith’s gals doing this. he anti, becky more flex

/why doesn’t white hse or SOMEone come out against tatoos? 9/96

/tradvals re 2 fams in same neigh.

. without resp… it’s all talk.

/family expects me to do flunky work in circles, so does reunion committee, so do tenants and others. stupid./lot more sexual harrassement at sch 96. grabbing, profanity, etc.

/lot more sexual harrassement at sch 96. grabbing, profanity, etc.

/end of prohibition hurt mob bad said tv 97/possible to add this to val: kept 80% of income in ’60. ?

/fans throwing lot of stuff in pro wrestling

/sig fam. reunions on tv – guys in t shirts and jeans

/NY parole workers were swers, but now they are tuff. tv 96.

/scandals: babydoll, last tango in paris, burt in buff, doing what comes naturally, elvis, stones?,

/as long as tradvals, then lifestyle ok?

/bad $ drives out good. gresham’s law.

/prohibition created a disrespect for law which we may have never gotten over. tv drugs too?

/losing well is honored in eng.

/wm library: feet on couch, u wear, run /cheap blk gal on cheapo jennie jones with boobs, 40 HH, ea is l7 lbs.

/no man can make another man in early am. have to make it on your own. /is the u.s. moving ahead fastest with puters? who’s 2nd, 3rd, and why./feel good so never admit mistakes./names DO hurt. said dobey jones, who followed jackie robinson.

/at copy place, gay said someone put on bar b que, invited 23 people. one couple showed up, one later called to say they couldn’t.

/xmas is something to get thru in this society/defamation, disturbing the peace /don’t you dread xmas. so much b.s. older i get, the more hypocrisy i see

/posture/50 mi walk of kennedy’s

/fergie – duchess of york doing commercial for ocean spray.

/jimmy steward: straight-arrow child of the heard-working heartland, quintessential boy next door. aw shucks charm, plain, ordinary. underlying decency.

/revenge never ends

/had to earn $ to pay for our lst scout uniform – later cg/dr. laura offers ad to those who are unaware of basic social rules their grandparents took for granted.

/prohibition was against selling alc, not against buying or drinking it.

/ a fallen woman/int in beauty pagents is stronger in the south.

/women traveling alone are not hassled in buddhist countries. sig. tv 97

/vals and paparazzi

/guy panhandling right outside courthse

/what about one woman with lot of husbands. reverse polygamy/can judge a socity by how it entertains itself./dicken’s said remember you’ve been sacrificed for. only the mormon’s are obvious bout youth having duty.

/dirty dancing, lambada,

/friendship – a recipe for gluttonysuperficial appearance of your car, clothes, hair, gift and card, tea party conversation, pressed on smile, giddy titter and froth.

feel good, cards, ribbons, trinkets, tea party conv – always the right thing to say, giggles, forced gaiety, superlatives, kids, all cept what is sig. forgive, charity, freebees, relatives, donna’s big wedding for daniel. solutions to all,

/food worship is another form of superficiality.

 i don’t believe in scholarships for grunge/gal on comm asked me, aren’t you glad you lived away for l2 years? she and hub had too. she was right !!!!/learn how to talk/radios on trash trucks/more freaked out over sports in other countries?

/asia: conform, consensus, order vs here: debate,

/no connection between tv and violence said … ? tv

/eating with self-distructive fat people: alc, nic, caffene, oil, cholesterol, grease?, sugar, salt, too much, too fast?, only talk bout it, time, vs therapy.

/roy rogers/the old flics didn’t have the profanity, but they sure had the SMOKING and drinking. and violence?/you look back and see how you got roped into sch, mil, church, sports, work, loyalty to the co. marriage, kids, charity – all these roles, vows, covenants – org man

/barbara streisand and fiance interviewed – too clingy – immature, no class

/more $ means: relax, ma3, vision, mng it, beat game, cocky. – bigger toys

/clint thinks we’re whiners 98

/crap of caskets, plots, etc.

/decline of manners on airlines. tv. 98/funny how your outlook and attitude is affected by

– not having to work [ever again].

– financial security.

– figuring out with your health covered, you can finally begin to spend. NEVER even considered it before.

You think in bigger chunks, more vision, of $ in terms of having enuff for investing in projects, …

You try to maintain basic frugality.

the more $ you have, the more marge likes you.

/kneejerk forgiveness negates vals

/conrad: lady di’s wedding bed – kleig lights. one with the finger. semen? stain on presidential seal. stars leaks at toilet, no panhandling./attitude is changed by: not working, $ independ, secure health, control, and can finally spend, ratchet up, bigger bites, less time for saving small amounts – impractical, but try to watch the fast food,

 then moved to calif and started to sub. quit after l5 min. [there was someone to take my place]/i worked a few days as a substitute teacher in d.c. terrible. then once in mont. county. bad. kids got away with far more than we ever would have thot of. /some places bill you for [search and] rescue. cg needs it.

/j jefferies story bout penny was probably to protect her.

/sexual hypocrisy eroded in the 60s

/bio seems to say wasn’t it great bill gates married and started a fam. and gave to charity/sex harassment at sch covered up. /poke needle thru both cheeks. on tv

/how did NYers drive ea other nuts: tension, no manners, rude, coarse, fans, animals, survival. better under rudy?/you miss the people here, but you’re NOT missing some of the provincial, conforminst, prejudiced, narrow outlook of being around some of those people who’ve never lived anywhere else. i wonder if you notice it when you come back. the older i get, the gladder i am for my values and experiences.

/early days culdn’t say pregnant on tv. j carson

/day after thanksgiving now and you can feel it’s being the starting gun for xmas. [full of good and bad: excess, foolishness, overkill, opening of pandora’s box. the happy people are happier, the sad, sadder]. some are glad when holidays are over./i don’t like xmas as from thanksgiving to new yr’s, everything is out of joint/self-esteem: trophies without winners. like selves but can’t spell, feel good. when they grow up, their bubble bursts and they turn nasty

 

/permitting pix of dr. laura and pam anderson on net/ katarina witt/crime rate steady till 60s, then went up.

/didn’t have fem hygene ads on tv.

/mirror in front of person being taught table manners.

/if you treat animals bad, you can do same to people?

 

/l97l all in the fam. never thot it’d make it. risky.

/roosevelt said higher priced hotel guests are more demanding, less polite.

/peyton place banned in canada.

/canadians watch same tv programs & have far less violence [but far fewer guns]

/bill russel [b ball] would not sign autographs. nor nader?/abortion, dog fur, rodeos,/if soc is bad for vals, eur should be worse off.

/championship balroom dancing = vegas, show, sex, flaunt, forced, vs fred astaire

/another thing: someone dies and the BIG rush is to get em buried soon as possible. great disruption. silly./we had a religious service when my dad passed away. why? we’re not religious. just did it as a matter of custom./aunt’s funeral: middle of the week and in morning – so lot of people lost a day of work. [silly] service, then drove to gravesite, said a few [silly] words, then drove to counsins home and had fun. why all the driving? all the superficiality of life seems to come home when someone dies/during clinton’s st of union adres, everyone applauded some woman in a burgundy? dress around 30? she had such sweetness and unassuming poise and dignity in her own quiet way, she put all those politicians to shame.funeral vals i reject: rel, ritual?, burial, casket, guest book, trying to comp for in death what was missed in life. emotion over fact ==========/this mortuary stuff is so never ending, ridiculous, and they’re always taking on new fees, it makes you mad. i’m donating myself to a med sch. if not that, create and scatter. skip all this BALONEY. and only way to , is to plan it all out AHEAD of timefunerals anyone who doesn’t plan ahead is a fool as: a death throws everyone into a tailspin, can’t think, want to do the right thing. you’re vulnerable, they have their jargon and add on fees every time your turn around. builds resentment. fees for

– viewing the body

– ‘direct cremation’ ;package’ which includes a bunch of services. extra are

– container for cremation, urn, vault for urn, ‘setting’ the vault, burial, headstone, ‘setting’ it, setting up tent and chairs for service, pastor, extra on sat. they won’t do it on sun.

/about funerals. viewing the deceased helps people accept the fact their loved one has passed away. My dad’s skin was like hard rubber. I hear many people have a graveside service and leave before the casket is lowered. heard funerals for kids are the worst.

/donating bod to med sch is sweet revenge/food fight costs $

/qual of life: j springer, boom boxes.

/la has uniformed cops at jr hi and hi schs. 5/98

/colorado city has polygamy in utah

/bankrupcy affects l of every 70 fams. as more gambling, divorces, aggressive credit car marketing. gone up 60% last 2 yrs. ’98

/adultery accepted in france

/everything has a graduation. cor had drawer full of honors and blew it here/lst do no harm val

/if we are collapsing like rome, then eur should be gone.

/jo on joann .. she’s still lovely, but what she is inside is what is really beautiful. i miss her.

/a guy is a playboy, pervert, predator, molester, leacher, ; a woman is a bimbo, slut, cunt?, whore, pros.., bitch,

/d agrees: not showing up in mex is bad too. il/scot and dennis had pecker tracks all over as teens. /poor taste in caddyshack, blazing saddles, animal house,

/how do you teach your daughter self-esteem when you had to buy yours thru implants.

/it bores me when it appears that the only thing some people can talk about is kids, grandkids, relatives having kids, kid this and that. there is more to life that that. they go to college and all they do is have kids, raise kids, worship kids. /i’d never marry if it meant being in a straightjacket. it’s taken me years to get rid of the ones i’ve been in. i’m for an open, trusting marriage. freetel has moved me in this direction. if i were to go with nancy, i’d want us both to be to other relationships, as long as we were open to each other about it.

to hell with straightjackets.

/rockfeller lost his son, remarried, had a roving eye.

/unhappily ever after

/in singapore you can’t even dissent [publically?]/ultimate championship fighting/youth should dress, speak, act responsibly.

/open-minded, dig, caring, /what I learned in living away l2 yrs: ethnics, unions, w ++, customs, qual of life, how much is mental….

/my neighbors of 22 years are blue collar and NOT phony. that’s 22 years of not ‘hi, how are you?’. ‘fine, how are you? fine.’

/rich rushing said same: yrs ago he would have gotten involved, but now afraid of guns. 98

/dr. talking loud [blk] to patient in emerg room

/the formalism of marriage messes it up. ann richards sig

/morality plays or roles: courtship, marry, kids, grandkids,

/monarchies have to be fairy tales. chas goes to wedding with cap? bowles as a guard. the man who’s wife he slept with.

/soc is held together by beliefs: awol, jury duty.

/camilia paglia said ed in early 70s was hurt. joke. called profs by lst name. 98.

/folks should have never let us crack the whip, put speaker out. b-ball too?

/from thanks… to new years, lot of stuff is put off. after, some are poor.

/baroom brawls. told if you charge the stage, you will be escorted out.

. I remember we had to watch the game new years day. Who cares about a fucking game !!!!!!!!!!

It’s Greek to Them
He’s popular, fit and full of himself. He’s the archetypal frat boy,   : guys who radiate youth, exuberance, confidence, sexuality, athleticism and smugness. In advertisements, TV talk shows, movies and politics. vaguely lascivious-guy jokes and his self-consciousness about his hair. on daddy’s dime. men who use hair-care products and fret about their clothes but still retain their “guyness” in the eyes of peers. striking good looks, inexplicable popularity, unearned self-confidence, pervasive charm and a hint of self-deprecation.
Not all frat boys are rich, but all frat boys act rich. Not all frat boys are violent, but all frat boys exude unchecked machismo. (Downside: date rape, criminal hazing)
Why is the frat boy so captivating?
Maybe it’s an effort to dust off the “clean-cut” white boy and reinstate him as the linchpin of our society. Maybe it’s part of a backlash against feminism and civil and gay rights.     Abercrombie & Fitch. — a step up from the Gap, a step sideways from Banana Republic perfect abs and sly smirking grins. The look in their eyes says they know you’re looking at the photo with lust or envy. Adonises.
proportioned muscles and a strong jawline golden-boy.
athleticism–real or perceived–the cocky attitude, the smirk. a fundamental “tolerance and commitment” toward other people–even ones you despise.
“That’s why fraternity men make such good brokers and congressmen,” he wrote. “They already know that in the real world one has to cut deals with cretins and idiots.
In other words, a gift for balancing conformist, self-centered and often thuggish behavior with their warm personalities, arresting good looks and endearing masculinity. They come across as honorable, American, charming. their broad appeal.

====== la times 2/24/00 ===========================

CONFORMITY in s.a.

Israel, food, gays, tennis, minorities, no talk, no heart, women’s status, platitudes, in crowd, ed, c, mil , religion, 2.4 kids, pta, l2 yrs gone, bircher, phil and mary =, deal with reality, new ideas, entertain?, rock boat, r2, never know where you stand, vacations, cr, $, success,

/life is all the compromising you have to make [relatives] while putting your dreams on hold.

/sauder farm: folks told kids you can select any tree, if you have to carry it out to the truck?

/afs – across the us without one word of profanity. No wonder sw was so bad.

/rocky hurt his pol career by divorcing. Can you believe how uptight we were then?

/beginning to hate restaurants, fine dining, elaborate dining, – how can people have such values. Is there ANY other way to socialize.

/hygene, grooming, attire,

/ed, burial, rel,

 

>/do you think your kids had it as good as we did growing up?

jo: Certainly not. Although much better than today’s generation. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate growing up when we did.

/the academy awards – some of the foreigners have more grace, poise, charm, polish, presence than the americans.

/barker: could never have a radio on the job in 50s.

kids could go out all day then and folks not be worried. And they’d get rides home as people knew ea. other. Kids less loyal today to folks.

– – – – – – – – – – – – –

/sweetness comes from the qualities of being: vulnerable, sincere, kind, diligent, conscientous, heart in the right place, very considerate and thotful, tender?, a purity, wholesome, some innocence, manners?

/sweetness comes from integrety, diligence, sincerity, good heartedness, innocence in the sense of sincere intentions,

down to earth

/sweet = vulnerable, sincere, consistent, no games, real, childlike, heart,

childlike, natural thus: vulnerable, human, childlike

diligence, no pretentions, airs, ego

genuiness, consideration and regard, a purity of purpose?, no games, consistency, manners, a regard for what sig?, good values, compassion?, humaness, earnest

empathy, some innocence- vulnerability. Cute

moks, kids, miriam, devotion to ….

/afs !!

/at lst thot I’d take stairs down at moks when leaving real late.

/Vermont farmer who said some parents say their kids will never work as hard as they did, and …… spoil em.

/reggie party at park Newport. So half lived there? Couldn’t believe bored – at loose ends – guys who showed up looking dressed like they were going to work on their cars and getting drunk. 20-30s.

/so let me say: TO GROW UP IN SO. CAL IN THE 50S WAS INCREDIBLE LUCK.

  Amen! Amen! We were so lucky. My children would like to have lived then.

/ron’s wife – can’t ask her granddaughter to be quieter when playing. Thus 3 gen. Incredible. Violation of my sanctuary. Called bout music and it’s still up. sue em. 9/0l where are rest of notes. Mc?

/easy to destroy, hard to build. War, ins, prop, taking care of things.

/keep up with the joneses.

/one of regil’s big things was virginity. He’d brag that if a Cuban guy found out his bride was not a virgin, he could return her to her father. What shit. How narrow.

/I wonder if the bros or any parents I know talked to their kids bout unplanned pregnancies.

/people go to crthse dressed terrible. Ll/0l

/be prepared – as good times and bad are sure to come and you’ll need all your resources.

PSYCH VALS: approval, acceptance, love and love in return, aware and accepting of ones sexuality, purpose, not controlled etc, realistic,

/superficial: festive, perky, positive, so wonderful,

/They Want Their Mean TV

 

The unbridled meanness in shows embraced by teens and

college students represents the flip side of the optimism purveyed in the network prime-time dramas followed by graying audiences. http://www.nytimes.com/2002/05/26/arts/television/26MARL.html?todaysheadlines

/we didn’t need boot camps in our day

/bit ty of the east to find a sec on the arts daily in the n.y. times on the net. East more iq too in a theoretical sense.

/dumb alienated foreign teens on tv as dumb as ours – hair, inadequate, less talent, goofy, anything for atten. Like ricki lake – tap into the bottom. How stern, j springer,

/just in wal-mart: as things improve for me, I feel sorry for people that work there, yet I held jobs like that and was glad to. asked directions from 2 with poor pronunciation. I feel sorry when the system screws such little people with bad schools, poor justice, paying others to NOT work.

/when going gets tuff, the tuff get going. Very gentle and civil on the outside but you do them evil and watch out cause they have their lives in order, full of resources, been there

/junk: anna Nicole smith, crock hunter, steve corwin, daytime talk shows, stupid dating programs, girls gone wild, wild on this and that, beach countdown, real tv, E channel – all the Hollywood stories are the same, terrible judges in court programs, maury povich?, ricki lake, jenny jones, wwf, divorce court with terrible blk woman judge, [vs what’s good – cops]

/smith and keith in their cookie cutter lives of extreme? Conventionality.

/never rock the boat with petty people: fam, smit-k, civil rights.

/british soccer fans bad, phil’s fans worst in nba, ny sports fans, rock fans, hockey fans, wwf fans, Oakland raiders?, ny fans the rudest and most heartless, boorish fans

/rudest fans on net has all kinds of surprises.

/just saw parts The miracle worker. [the story of Helen keller]. Got so much more out of it. such depth and wisdom in the teacher. So true about discipline.

/mingo and I couldn’t think of anyone who ate breakfast here cept him, me,

/dynasties probably easily disprove monarchies: barrymores, Rockefellers, duponts, vanderbilts, kennedys, bushes, search am dynasties

look at how Julie Nixon was finally glad to dump the secret service. Dynasties in sports, pol, ent, $, media,

/one channel sex; next channel, don, you ARE the father of the baby. And 0 bout abort.

/having a kid is easy; raising one right far more sig.

/Susie mckague – being a granny for lst time validates having raised her kid well. as it’s a big resp. she wasn’t pres of ibm, she was a hsewife. At party, what are you, a hsewife and ma.

/need maturity as the vices.

/never know what you have till it’s gone – youth

good weather, health. – enjoy what you have. – vacations

/so glad to not be thinking of presents, wrapping them, etc. what a relief. Xmas carols seem tedious. Xmas seems a tacky compared to what’s important.

/when you think of wall st. greed or any sort of greed, after 7 yrs of cruelty from you bros and their trying to take you, you’re more realistic

/we’re brot up to think xmas should be so euphoric. THAT is why so many are depressed.

/we’re brot up to expect excess during xmas. More in am?

/running of the bulls

/remember when guy in p.r. smirked at the idea of pr’s ‘working’

/morality play – scouts? Moral rearmament

/xmas: some get holiday blues and don’t need to. excess, overweight, join gym, quit.

/would have fewer holiday blues if they weren’t so overblown.

/thot this guy lyons was ok with farmers, yet he rec bb which boxed me in with lumber etc without a contract.

/the quiet courage of guy from mali at sams. With his speech problem.

/odd how both be prepared [scouts]. Always ready [cg] turned out to be part of my vals. For fire, etc.

/garners: insecure so never face, conformist, superficial, control, never enuff. Similar to smith, scot, keith,

/ OP-ED CONTRIBUTOR

Fairy Tales and a Dose of Reality

By CATHERINE ORENSTEIN

Those who wish for a real-life fairy tale romance as seen

on reality television might want to read their fairy tales again.

 

http://www.nytimes.com/2003/03/03/opinion/03OREN.html?th

/free means: lust, porn, net, mas, pre-mar…,

vs control

/if you disturb my peace I’m not free enuf to enjoy the peace.

/guy bot oj simpson’s prop and tore down the hse. New owners bot mine and tore down the veg.

/so many trapped in their jobs and fams. Guys in trucks at end of santa maria. But lot satisfied. And I did all that and worse for my peer grp. Never self-pity for that. nor did family pity me.

/the 5^th wheel – disgusting dating program, nothing but sex. Before 5 pm. Kids shouldn’t see that.

/anna nichole smith – pig of the century

/no noise as could be sick, studying, has company?

/oscar de la hoya’s wholesome innocence, honesty, naturalness.

/was or is being gay a vice?

/your income goes up and you see people on tv in court contesting sums that aren’t worth your time. but the pt should be easy, quick, sensible justice.

/snoop dog’s entourage: armed guys and bullet proof van? With gun ports. Most detained or arrested?

/forgiveness is a morality play

——– – – – –

“Something extraordinary is happening in American society … American life is increasingly characterized by the plaintive insistence, I am a victim … The mantra of the victims is the same: I am not responsible; it’s not my fault … The ethos of victimization has an endless capacity not only for exculpating one’s self from blame, washing away responsibility … but also for projecting guilt onto others … The new culture reflects a readiness not merely to feel sorry for oneself but to wield one’s resentment as weapons of social advantage … The route to moral superiority and premier griping rights can be gained more efficiently through being a victim … [SYKES, p. 11] … Tragically, a victim’s rage that is redirected from the oppressor toward rival victim groups ultimately turns against the victim himself. For self-hatred is the final destination of any attempt to yoke one’s sense of identity and power to one’s weaknesses, deficiencies, and perceived victimization.”
Charles Sykes,
A Nation of Victims. The Decay of the American Character, St. Martin’s Press, NY
1992

/super – ‘remorse’, apology, forgive. Found god in prison

/people waste time and money on food, then barbeques, then barbeque equipment.

/love is never having to say you’re sorry.

/no one condemns the fornication of elvis, ali, 007, Charlie sheen, grace Kelly?, middle aged people.

/probably no boom boxes in Singapore

/afs – not one curse on the trip?

/grafitti vs painting water tower – leaving a mark.

/the peaceful confidence and enjoyment of murray marin’s nurse and another nurse at st. lukes.

/shit customers in music stores: sam ash, good guys,

/live next to blake not good re cars. Live next to trig – far worse and no excuse for that appearance.

/you never know what greed is till someone close passes away.

/dream of teens calling me fag, throwing rocks, getting ready to chase me, fear. Reminds me of being called names in m.c. cop saying ignore it. trish doing it. the boxer, d’s repeating it. here in l.w. there is none of that and tons of other things – see bad.

/when you think back, did one of our girls spend time ‘abroad’, why there? and what do you supposed became of the child? Put up for adoption? Where? An abort… could have avoided all that.

/gov making it hard to abort in Russia in 03 as pop… going down. Not their biz.

/gambling and monarchies contribute to fatalism. Sig

/$l.25/hr at Normans. Pride in earning one’s own $.

/when you have $ and your friends doesn’t, maybe your credit is far better than his. Experian etc. [mine’s above 90% of ams.!]

/where are the fields of religion, academia, law, sw, counseling, psych, etc, when it comes to jerry springer +, rodeos

/ben stein saying baby boomers never learned to save, don’t live in reality and their old age is doomed. Need to save save save. Annuities never run out.

/some guys have plucked their eyebrows. 03.

/apologies, forgive for accidental, intentional

/gal called for rm. Wks for Hollywood writers for l0 yrs, who won’t give out their names, as they get bothered. I feel the same since here in lw

/xmas meant less every yr.

/I used to save ideas for gifts for xmas and time all that so xmas would be special. Few noticed.

/feel freer with not sweating xmas holidays. Glad when they are over. what else. Can’t think of a thing.

No wild bout holidays, but I don’t work.

/religion a waste, xmas is off there and other ways, lot of sch a waste, thus bitter bout c, idealism is a waste – thus religion, lot of sw?

/xmas is so much excess – gluttony, gifts, debt, strain, overkill

/I wonder if every cul doesn’t have a ‘xmas’ etc to blow off steam, etc. I wonder if those who say it’s their fav time of yr know what they are talking about. Wonder if some get sick of xmas carols. Wonder if similar in other culs. Foreigners always had a charming way of telling about theirs.

/I see things on tv bout the corruption in vegas and think, do I know about that after the bros, scot, smit – little Watergate

/RADIO playing stones, supremes, commercials in dr. lombardi’s off. with the bass turned up.

/all have to be buxom: weather gal, steve Edward’s bimbos, aerobics gal, gals for ads – cars, all, travel, vegas, dating programs, newscasters,

/some of these petty losers here, super, conformist, conventional, etc, would be capable of being jealous.

/her brother is up for child molestation and janice jackson bares a breast at the super bowl. How’s that going to help her bro? paper said there was crotch grabbing too.

/my theory on janet jackson: did it for shock etc. lose some ground, but now more know her name – janet jackson. then she apologizes. Oh, how touching, then redemption. Same with madona,

/don’t think I’ve been to a #$%#$%^&*(&* restaurant since I’ve been here and hope I never go again. When I go I eat wrong things and too much, am a prisoner and often sit with someone who lives to eat. also against ‘fine dining’. Both are counterproductive

/grammys – see who can dress the worst

/when I went to grammar sch: no lunch, no nurse?, no trans, no after sch stuff. imagine we walked to Jefferson sch starting when.

/clothes so tight on a woman you can see an indentation there.

/concerned citizen yet picked his head thru the talk.

/traditional values make you free?

/wonder if polygamy is an excuse for sex. Colorado city, ariz traffics in teen girls with bountiful, b.c. so there won’t be inbreeding. Called rel… but it’s all about sex. Wow. on opra 3/23/04

/that delightful nurse at murray marin’s seated next to the d chair

/wonder if some think: sw is 0, out of wk, inherited it. = 3 strikes

/female whores are bad. Why aren’t male whores bad? Because that’s all a world that is never talked about, a world that is seen by many as bad to begin with.

when your new worth goes way up [by luck] you can’t tell many as: some make less, some jealous, some are wasteful & want you to blow it, some are greedy, some are too concerned with status, some gossipy, none of their biz,

/going to the dentist is bad enuff with the RADIO playing the top 40 – teen music – in 2 places.

/no bare midriffs in Indonesia. Some thing bout no sleeveless the office.

/turn channels from elimidate to celebration of balanchine

/opened account at b of a. poster things all over, phil Collins music and whitney Houston but softish. Complicated as hell: asked me amounts of ira, market val of all my r.e., my income, what bank handled my mortgate, how much it was, my place of birth. Ma’s maiden name. took over an hr. sent out with lot of lit. glad this is the last BANK change. zillion options, superfast Pakistani woman, another gal greeting everyone who came in. 5/04. kept bringing up saving account. They will put my $ in a cd making l.3%.

/amazing cruelty on springer. Shocking, inexcusable, jungle. Where is the outrage

/power is equated with sex and visa versa ?????? said faright.

DO YOU REMEMBER WHEN…?

All the girls had ugly gym uniforms?

It took five minutes for the TV warm up?

Nearly everyone’s Mom was at home when the kids got home from school?

Nobody owned a purebred dog?

When a quarter was a decent allowance?

You’d reach into a muddy gutter for a penny?

Your Mom wore nylons that came in two pieces?

All your male teachers wore neckties and female teachers had their hair done every day and wore high heels?

You got your windshield cleaned, oil checked, and gas pumped, without asking, all for free, every time?
And you didn’t pay for air?  And, you got trading stamps to boot?

Laundry detergent had free glasses, dishes or towels hidden inside the box?

It was considered a great privilege to be taken out to dinner at a real restaurant with your parents?

They threatened to keep kids back a grade if they failed.  .
.and they did?

When a 57 Chevy was everyone’s dream car…to cruise, peel out, lay rubber or watch submarine races, and people went steady?

No one ever asked where the car keys were because they were always in the car, in the ignition, and the doors were never locked?

Lying on your back in the grass with your friends and saying things like, “That cloud looks like a ..”

and playing baseball with no adults to help kids with the rules of the game?

Stuff from the store came without safety caps and hermetic seals because no one had yet tried to poison a perfect stranger?

And with all our progress, don’t you just wish, just once, you could slip back in time and savor the slower pace, and share it with the children of today?

When being sent to the principal’s office was nothing compared to the fate that awaited the student at home?
Basically we were in fear for our lives, but it wasn’t because of drive-by shootings, drugs, gangs, etc.
Our parents and grandparents were a much bigger threat!
But we survived because their love was greater than the threat.

Send this on to someone who can still remember Nancy Drew, the Hardy Boys, Laurel and Hardy, Howdy Dowdy and the Peanut Gallery, the Lone Ranger, The Shadow Knows, Nellie Bell, Roy and Dale, Trigger and Buttermilk.

As well as summers filled with bike rides, baseball games, Hula Hoops, bowling and visits to the pool, and eating Kool-Aid powder with sugar.
Didn’t that feel good, just to go back and say, “Yeah, I remember that?”

I am sharing this with you today because it ended with a double dog dare to pass it on.
To remember what a double dog dare is, read on.
And remember that the perfect age is somewhere between old enough to know better and too young to care.

How many of these do you remember?

Candy cigarettes Wax Coke-shaped bottles with colored sugar water inside Soda pop machines that dispensed glass bottles Coffee shops with tableside jukeboxes Blackjack, Clove and Teaberry chewing gum Home milk delivery in glass bottles with cardboard stoppers Newsreels before the movie P. F.   Fliers Telephone numbers with a word prefix… (Raymond 4-601).
Party lines Peashooters Howdy Dowdy
45 RPM records Green Stamps Hi-fi’s Metal ice cubes trays with levers Mimeograph paper Beanie and Cecil Roller-skate keys Cork pop guns Drive ins Studebakers Washtub wringers The Fuller Brush Man Reel-To-Reel tape recorders Tinkertoys Erector Sets The Fort Apache Play Set Lincoln Logs
15 cent McDonald’s hamburgers
5 cent packs of baseball cards – with that awful pink slab of bubble gum Penny candy
35 cent a gallon gasoline Jiffy Pop popcorn Do you remember a time when…

Decisions were made by going “eeny-meeny-miney-moe”?
Mistakes were corrected by simply exclaiming, “Do Over!”?
“Race issue” meant arguing about who ran the fastest?
Catching the fireflies could happily occupy an entire evening?
It wasn’t odd to have two or three “Best Friends”?

The worst thing you could catch from the opposite sex was “cooties”?
Having a weapon in school meant being caught with a slingshot?
A foot of snow was a dream come true?

Saturday morning cartoons weren’t 30-minute commercials for action figures?
“Oly-oly-oxen-free” made perfect sense?
Spinning around, getting dizzy, and falling down was cause for giggles?

The worst embarrassment was being picked last for a team?
War was a card game?
Baseball cards in the spokes transformed any bike into a motorcycle?
Taking drugs meant orange-flavored chewable aspirin?
Water balloons were the ultimate weapon?

If you can remember most or all of these, then you have lived!!!!!!!

Pass this on to anyone who may need a break from their “grown-up” life.  I double-dog-dare-ya!

/the only meaningful efficiency in publishing is excellent taste.

/I miss that part of academia, ny, dc, the east? Develop

/too many parades after Persian gulf war.

/home is where they have to take you during emerg

/always seemed as if the hi sch crowd put too much emphasis on fun. Any of em go into serious work? Teaching, law, med,

/forgiveness nonsense. See lot less of em; think lot less of em.

/women who want implants can’t hold a candle to moks, rp, tina

/broken window theory applies to j springer, road rage,

/today’s dressed-down egalitarianism

You Shouldn’t Have
Gift-giving can be tricky, especially if you fail to weigh the enjoyment a gift brings against the annoyance, inconvenience and wasted time that may also come with it. L0/04

/Sinbad: everything’s the same except for the money.

/red sox won the series after 86 yrs. And they talk of curse, fate, luck, superstition, faith, symbols, mystical things, coincidences …… more of that back east. Here you are more resp for yourself.

/feels good to put xmas behind me. ‘xmas’ is the jackhammer, gar dr, paint job, etc. during the yr, not just at the end of the yr

/Feed the Billionaire, Starve the Students
By BOB HERBERT
The very politicians crying poverty as they deny gyms to New York City schools are the ones handing out public funds for a stadium.

/oscar de la hoya – wholesome, like born yesterday.

roles church, ed, gay, corp, sex, mil,

superficial vals: all is fun, lite, roles, gloss

 

/all complain of economy etc ll/04 but wouldn’t dream of dressing up.

/thanksgiving etc are too often pig-outs. What if take $ saved and send it to charity.

/not the real world: art, sports, ent, xmas, gov etc.

/ll/04 la times getting raunchier, w post too.

/amazing they stopped smoking at airporter.

/xmas, like death, brings out the worst

/competition brings out best and worst, but the best survive in long run?

/more on cultural decline by lou dobbs l2/6/04

/who of everyone ever had a serious moment like dave gibbs saying, ‘another day above ground’. Foreigners did, anna rouco, 57 must have when they had kids. Scott when saying ‘that’s what it’s all about’ mm did, how and dj did, tj on the water tank,

/cold war gone, lot coming out, but seems like we have to feel at war with islam, what else

/Innocents Afield
By BUZZ BISSINGER
High school sports have become an epidemic of win-at-all-costs in too many places. L2/l6/04

/dr’s assist, Jackie, said in buffalo she was raised to have home clothes and dressier go out clothes.

She said now people so loud you can hear every word 4 tables down.

/genes to church?

/dad used to talk quieter and quieter till they turned the tv or radio down.

/clean like bob the mechanic, cg

/tj’s card of pix shows some values.

/pecos, sofi’s Indonesia – lot of jealousy

/Shirley went to beach l0 yrs go. Couldn’t believe the profanity from the men and women.

/$ is power.

/You don’t tell those less fortunate [gills, Pridham]. Nor bros, smit?, women. Nor those you do biz withr;

ju nor employees, nor tenants,

 as their perceptions change – jealousy, resentment,

/rowdies: some in each sport: skiboarders, snowmobilers, jet skiers, surfers, base jumpers, motor-cross, bikers?,

/why a scholarship for a kid who can live at home and go to c. why for one who dresses like 0 all thru sch. Or gets in trouble.

/a cruise sounds to me like vegas

/even ny didn’t have rock and roll in the dentist chair. Or morbid tv in waiting rm.

/allowance it to teach kids budgeting.

/ownership to teach resp – bike, car, hse, biz,

/so easy to slip into medicare or ins will pay for it. Wasn’t that way when I paid part of blu. I remember shopping around

/all those years I didn’t collect uib. So a bit more entitle me to collect from the gov.

/CHUCK COLSON – The greatest lesson I learned in prison is that great adversity can produce great blessings.

/ultimate championship fighting = barbaric. World championship fighting is same? Octagon. Ufc. Program is the ultimate fighter, on spike tv

/howard stern

/albinos bunch – his working 3 jobs and her working 2 for pri schs etc and to fly fam and friend out here twice now for d-land, sea world, etc.

/sweetness means capacity to be embarrassed, shy?

/can’t afford to get sick, can’t afford justice,

Decline: dress code for teachers too, j springer +, ultimate fighting, blood sports, boom boxes, attack dog journalism, paparazzi, loud music everywhere, tv in ashby’s,

/traffic2 [sch]

/wayne Newton epitomized vegas – kitsch

/sin, salvation, redemption

/Cybercreeps Run Amok
Internet Libertarians Should Learn Civil Discourse
(The Washington Post)

Many Going to College Aren’t Ready, Report Finds
By TAMAR LEWIN 8/05
Only about half of this year’s high school graduates have the reading skills they need to succeed in college, a study has concluded.

/growing up gotti. Tommy lee at college. Dog. Am choppers

/all the bodily functions on tv. Spitting, going to bathroom, sex, wetting pants, toiletry?

/groin shots. Words butt and ass. Kicking both

Pam Anderson being fondled in joking manner by comic at her roast?

/huge sound sys at mason park thumping out big beat – boom boom boom

/if xmas is the worst holiday, what’s 2^nd – thanks?, easter? 7 major: xmas, thanks, new yrs, easter?, mem day, july 4, labor day.

/all you ever heard about as a kid here was Hawaii. Why? ………. tourism. All you heard about later was new Orleans. Same reason? Now it’s been vegas in recent yrs – due to cable?

/best part of larry king’s day is walking his kids to school.

it was NOT the senior citizens who took:

The melody out of music,
The pride out of appearance,
The romance out of love,
The commitment out of marriage,
The responsibility out of parenthood,
The togetherness out of the family,
The learning out of education,
The service out of patriotism,
The religion out of school,
The Golden Rule from rulers,
The nativity scene out of cities,
The civility out of behavior,
The refinement out of language,
The dedication out of employment,
The prudence out of spending, or
The ambition out of achievement,

And we certainly are NOT the ones who eliminated
patience and tolerance from personal relationships and
interactions with others!!

/best thing bout the holidays is when they’re over with. They meant less every yr.

/Tyson knocks $lk of teeth out of old woman. Caught, pays for teeth, lk

/vanity is: doing one’s make up ever 2 hrs. combing hair over the top? Appearances? Hrs before the mirror. Can’t have one hair out of place.

/vanity – Excessive pride in one’s appearance or accomplishments; conceit.

Vane – same

Conceit – unduly high opinion of one’s own abilities or worth.

Synonyms: conceit, egoism, egotism, narcissism, vanity
These nouns denote excessive high regard for oneself: boasting that reveals conceit; imperturbable egoism; arrogance and egotism that were obvious from her actions; narcissism that shut out everyone else; wounded his vanity by looking in the mirror.
Antonyms: humility

grudges mike Tyson hits you, takes your $, is caught. You hate him? He should pay for your tooth, the time it cost you, the anquish – all = restitution. He should go to jail also? Then he’s paid you and paid his debt to society. No pt in hating him; he’s paid for what he’s done. What if you come out ahead? Lb of flesh. You don’t hve to love him. Or see him. Where does forgiveness fit in. but if it still eats at you. But why …. Then you have a problem.

/turn the other cheek

/when young I never saw on tv or anywhere women or minority cops, doctors, lawyers, judges, pros, profs, pols,

/xmas is a morality play with guilt, redemption ?

/jerking the camera all over – even on nat geo….

/Sharon stone idiocy. She said her career was stalled so got in playboy. It worked. Later her scene …… oh boy.

/lib l2/05 – Newly Bankrupt Raking In Piles of Credit Offers
By TIMOTHY EGAN
Credit card companies are soliciting the more than two million Americans who rushed to file for bankruptcy this year before a tough new law took effect.

/pros is victimless: bkk and mustang ranch

/trouble with the way lot of women get implants is that their chest comes out too high. Unnatural. Made worse by wearing tight clothes.

/Truman said ingratitude is the cardinal sin. So went to funeral of pendergast [when veep]

Tons of booze and cigs in this flic bout him. Why not have a flic just about booze and cigs.

/ethical concerns over face transplant

/mcneil Lehrer report vs slugfests of hardball, mcgloughlin interruption and yelling contests

/those into status have a stake in the status quo vs rebels gain their kind of status by rebelling

/can’t chew gum in Singapore. Ban started in 92. l2 yrs. But they plan to lift it due to u.s. pressure, said …………

Schools Avoid Class Ranking, Vexing Colleges
By ALAN FINDER 3/06
Many high schools have stopped providing class ranking information to colleges, fearing it could harm students’ admission chances.

/must be a zillion morality plays around sex

/an article proved what I feel: every yr some things mean less: Oscars, grammies, …….

But they said the superbowl doesn’t diminish.

Holidays mean less to me, Olympics too

/Singapore which does live up to it’s reputation as the world’s cleanest city. with just about the lowest crime rates anywhere. … giving tips is neither expected nor well-received; it is thought that a person should always be doing their best and not need additional monetary incentive to do so. drug trafficking there carries a mandatory death penalty; signs around the city announce that jay-walking is not permitted; and the punishment for vandalism carries a jail sentence and caning–a painful practice used to deter many offences.

Keeping Singapore clean to the litter of the law

Singapore, Justice, Human Rights, Politics, Social issues.
www.singapore-window.org/sw01/011223af.htm – 9k – Cached – Similar pages

/elimidate

/some doll with private parts that was ‘anatomically correct’ in 70s?

/former prosecutor says many say to cover up is worse than the crime.

/what’s with all the Alaskan crab fishing on TV also all the building of choppers by tattooed machos.

/real housewives of orange county on bravo. Trash. / the o.c.

/courage is when you do something you are afraid of. Disc and endurance in the face of trepidation, risk.

/do weather gals have to have big ones?

/morality play: trying to save ed. Like kung fu – the enobling search.

/quieter on cellphones in bkk than here

/forgiveness can be enabling the wrong doer

/out in public: peter profane, sean shirt tale out, tommy tattoo, peter pierce, terry torn jeans, obese?,

Surgery With a Side of Fries
By ANDREW WEIL
Fast food has no place in hospitals.

/have read now and then that ams are poor savers

/from so many dirty jokes on the red carpet to next channel playing the end of Tristan and isolde – [pure love]. What a diff. glad I bot that album with all the highlights. Same as classic comics.

/again: prohibition helped the mob. Small timers became big timers

Brooklyn Museum Graffiti Exhibit
Through September 3, this exhibition of twenty large-scale graffiti paintings from influential artists will explore how a genre that began as a form of subversive public communication has become legitimate.
Learn more

/forgive and forget. Not till justice and can never forget death of a child. Denial

/75% drop in the no of viewers of the miss universe pageant

/lance Armstrong – hero to millions of kids and adults. As mc on for a big something and telling dirties.

/forgive – offenses and debts.

/so many grubby people at the mall. One asian family looked more presentable.

But haven’t seen pin curlers

/contest to see who can push their hair back the most

/mad money with Kramer. He yells, camera zooms in and out, he presses sound effects. He was a yeller when on with kudlow. Who is sep and a little louder?

/cyclists ride to Sturgis, ride thru town, park bikes, talk, eat, drink, talk shop, ride up, down

/dr phil is getting gimmicky, using too much emotion. He shouldn’t have shown those kids’ faces on tv. Those cams tape ‘crimes’ but skip.

/laws against oral sex – on net. Amazing. Vs moks, gene

/brides in gowns with tattoo.

/makeovers – gals in nice dresses with tattoos on legs or wherever.

/ed can partly? Be a morality play

Reading the Coca Leaves By JOHN TIERNEY Drug prohibition in Bolivia and Afghanistan has done exactly what alcohol prohibition did in America: it has financed organized crime. 9/06

/‘sensual’. Everyone on TV killing themselves to be, but little moks was moreso than all of them put together in her femininity, purity, wholesome innocence …..

/end of sep 06. the thot of xmas and xmas music is sickening

/design etc of memorials can be big morality plays

/morality plays? academic pol are vicious because the stakes are so small. In religion, they’re even smaller … or non-existent.

Amish Schoolhouse Is Razed
By SEAN D. HAMILL
The schoolhouse where 10 girls were shot last week was demolished by heavy machinery on Thursday in the hope of easing the community’s pain.

– School should mean: social success, guidance, mental health                                                          ……….. should prepare one for work.

/forgive Hitler, stalin, mao, saddam?

/it’s not even Halloween and I hate the idea of the xmas holidays coming up. Everything goes a little nuts. I dislike it more each yr.

Give the Vixens the Day Off
By JOHN TIERNEY
Oct. 31 has become known as Slutoween and Dress-Like-a-Whore-Day, much to the distress of moralists on both the left and right.

/forgive so don’t have to deal with it. No empathy so don’t even know what it is. search knee-jerk forgiveness

/forgiveness becomes meaningless. And lets criminals off hook. They’re going to be forgiven anyhow.

 The Heyday of Snobbery
By DAVID BROOKS
We have entered a time when we can gather in large groups and look down at our mental, social and spiritual inferiors.

/it the econ, stupid, it’s the demography, stupid. Look, this, look, that

/I like sweet people cause you can trust em vs dj, rp

/thanksgiving, like xmas, brings out the good and bad – grotesque overeating, traffic jams and airport delays, endless sports on television, and family squabbles —

/out of prisons: sch, mil, debt?, xmas, rel, bad relationships, neigh?, work, climates,

/see Kennedy curse file

/bruce jenner – talks just like trig. on 3^rd marriage. 4 kids from lst two. 2 from 3^rd. acting didn’t work. Didn’t need work on his nose that he got. Looks ok to me.

/blind date: body builder in undershirt pick up his date.

/jim carey taking a dump on a lawn. Next scene – brownish stuff flowing down, like a bm. Cam pulls back and it chocolate frostie stuff flowing downward out of a frosty machine. Must be the grossest thing ever

/people wearing jeans in church – the minister too.

/search our dressed-down culture. not finding much. the norm for travelers. In NY, they dressed up. San fran too?

/super ….. no one dies.

/chest thumping boom boxes

/forgiveness faddle. Thank goodness lot of the country didn’t agree with ford’s pardon [forgiving Nixon with a pardon, as his ratings dropped 40 pts on 2 weeks.

Middle School Girls Gone Wild
By LAWRENCE DOWNES
What surprises me is how completely parents of even younger girls seem to have gotten in step with society’s march toward eroticized adolescence.

/regil’s morality plays: take the girl back to her dad

/Bronx tale vals somewhere

/Donald trump nasty about mirv griffin, rosy o’donnald, ed koch.

/after the shootings, they tore down the old sch hse and now build a new one – After Shooting, Amish School Embodies Effort to Heal By MELODY SIMMONS Amish residents banded together to build a one-room schoolhouse about 200 yards from the old one on an acre of land owned by an Amish farmer. l/07

/incredible fuss over death of anna nichole smith – pig of the century. Channel after channel. Could be worse than Natalie Holloway.

Illegitimate Complaints
By STEPHANIE COONTZ
The Anna Nicole Smith story hardly represents a more depraved morality than the “dignified silence” that surrounded deviations from the family values and marriage customs of the past.

Human Nature Redux By DAVID BROOKS Over the past 30 years or so, our belief in natural human goodness has been discarded.

/hat off indoors –

http://www.google.com/search?q=hat+off+indoors&hl=en&start=0&sa=N

same for an out door garment – jacket, vest, or coat that is not a suit coat. Ag. Looks like they don’t know better. looks dumb, looks ghetto

/misogyny – hatred of women. It’s part of hip hop

Assignation – secret meeting of lovers

/entertainers used to be embarrassed to perform in vegas. More acceptable now.

/asked someone on red carpet of Oscars if another had to wear butt padding.

/Anderson cooper travels but doesn’t like to go on vacations

/audience for judge exteme akim worked up, then he enters with his bat. Exactly the wrong atmosphere for the judicial process.

/showing a lot of butt cracks

/ Sweet Chastity By ALEX KUCZYNSKI Hanne Blank looks at virginity through the ages.

/Life in the Mean Seats By JOE QUEENAN The concept of booing visiting players or the pathetic home team does not need to be re-evaluated.

/ Lacking Big-City Luster, Junior Miss Carves a Niche By JESSICA KOWAL Not a beauty pageant but a scholarship program, Junior Miss has been all but abandoned by city and suburban girls, who favor bustier, lustier, Trump-owned contests.

Everybody Hates Don Imus By FRANK RICH In the wake of Don Imus’s racist and sexist comments, there’s been an astounding display of hypocrisy, sanctimony and self-congratulation from all sides.

/ Why Don Imus? There are racists all over the media 09:36 Neal Boortz, Rush Limbaugh, Glenn Beck, Ann Coulter, and Michael Savage prove that racism, sexism and bigotry exist in our media on a daily basis. Why isn’t there the outrage over their comments? Why aren’t they fired? Why Imus?

/ Ann Coulter calls Al Gore a “total fag” but said it was a joke. 01:23 More at http://media-pundit.blogspot.com – Check it out! [ and Edwards a faggot] our favorite Republibitch Ann Coulter.

/Media Matters for America – a group that monitors some of the excesses of talk radio.

Signs of Infection By BOB HERBERT The coarsest, most socially destructive images and language are an integral part of our everyday discourse.

/can’t believe how formally kids dressed in rebel without cause. And those with jeans, boots, leather jackets which was diff, were at least very clean compared to today.

/big deal over a teacher taping a boy’s mouth shut

/stuff I dislike: cruises, vegas, door prizes, food, pledge, prayer

/male and female whores

/crudeness of trump and rosie. She motions to her crotch and says eat me. shown again on tv. He repeats it. 4/07

http://www.city-journal.org/html/12_1_why_we.html

/amazing how asian and other women dressed up to be so elegant and guys in the pix look like shit.

/Shock Radio, Playing Rough, Shrugs at Imus’s Fall By JACQUES STEINBERG Talk radio remains insidiously untamed, full of coarse, sexually explicit banter, despite the firing of Don Imus.

/rosie odonnel ‘eat me’ and put hand to her crotch

/not safe at libraries. Remember the one in d.c where my complaint made the guy spring to life.

/dressed worse than I ever remember at so c plz 5/07.

/haven’t seen any shopping carts left around so. County, like at mc

/Catalina complained that the weekend after the fire, a big tourist weekend, ma’s day?, tourists were not allowed on the island. Lost l.5 mil. But they had almost lost their town to fire.

/vegas, cruises, fine dining, boats

/ http://www.rd.com/content/good-manners/2

/closure to me is like forgiveness

/Hypocrisy is the homage vice pays to virtue, as the gloriously gay Oscar Wilde said.

/travel ch had program with girl showing torture impliments of span… inquisition and telling details

/sweet one of having a dog. But included: dog chews dried bull penis

/ mayor in the US state of Louisiana says he will sign into law a proposal to make wearing saggy trousers an act of indecent exposure – http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/6751777.stm

/Erasing Tattoos, Out of Regret or Simply to Get a Fresh Canvas
By NATASHA SINGER
A growing industry caters to people who may not have thought about the implications of “forever.”

/comics aren’t dirty in front of kids; they can control it – so control it on tv. And if they don’t, tv should bleep out whole sections

/dirty: bathroom humor, barnyard, locker room, adult, niteclub, sailors, sex, bodily functions, emissions, pri parts, pri matters, degrading, denigrating, coarse, demeaning,

/forgiveness, closure. Should we forgive debts?

/older gen sacrificed so we could get an ed. And didn’t show their emotions

/all bimbos can do is squirm

/sports and entertainment stars struggle hard to make it do, then fall apart. Having a kid changes the more mature ones

/good comments condemning ann coulter – they also explain her psch… refreshing, sensible. she keeps running her hand thru her hair.

/why such int in anna nicole smith, ann coulter, paris Hilton

/guy at la? Sch bd meeting at podium with baseball cap and casual polo type shirt

/so much trash on TV, you wonder bout the aud.

/why so many pix of staff with shades on. On dig.com

/promoter of mma took pride in not patting out and getting his arm broken

/nurse at spitz had tattoo on her back below her neck. Dyed reddish hair

/tv: lot of guys made a lot working on the Alaskan oil pipeline, went into town and blew a lot. Where else did I hear that? during the calif gold rush

/vegas on globe trekker – pure shit. Average person loses $500. place of dreams

/the yelling and screaming on tv has maybe paralleled the growing filth.

/I wonder what happened to the legion of decency

/brits gave kathy griffen a 4 column list of words she couldn’t use

Coach’s Toughest Drill Is a Grim Lesson on Life By CAROLYN MARSHALL Todd Walker imparts the importance of staying away from violence by taking his young athletes to graveyards and mortuaries.

/staff guy in best buy said the loud displays sell

/why so many people on TV eating with real bad manners

/… rowling and whole potter interview on 4 showed me how brits have better manners and more dig…

/search decline of sportsmanship.

/hooting, clapping back at aud

/macdonalds had a mcclean burger. Didn’t go over

/kathy griffen walking in front of hillary and 2 who were posed for a pic, just to get in pic with hillary [a pic taken by her photog?]

/ It’s a Female Dog, or Worse. Or Endearing. And Illegal?
By MICHAEL M. GRYNBAUM The New York City Council, which passed a symbolic citywide ban on the use of the so-called n-word earlier this year, has turned its attention toward a different slur.

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Hospital noise and ‘business’… Cellphones rang day and night. Patients, nurses, physicians and visitors talked loudly. Outside our window, cranes whined and clanked on a construction site, and workers’ voices clearly carried up five floors.

Add to this the daily crowd moving in and out of our room. Someone asking if I wanted television, phone or Internet service, a chaplain, phlebotomists coming to take blood, the young woman changing our linens, orderlies, the janitor and ever-changing nurses.

Almost everyone had a question that needed answering, and quickly, not easy when you’re scared, tired, in pain or heavily medicated. Each encounter required my attention, a decision and my civility at the least. it takes a lot of energy to be friendly to so many people.

Every interaction, no matter how brief, takes energy, something many patients have very little of, even while we try to be as pleasant as our pain, weariness and fear allow.

Then there were the all-day, high-volume conversations of my deaf roommate’s family and friends.

My exp: tubes and blankets tangled, phone, tv remote, [didn’t I write about this?] curtain this way, that. ‘nurses’, aides,

/today’s youth the most narcistic.

/cabbage patch doll, tickle me elmo, teenage ninja mutant turtles, potter, Nintendo, play station 3, iphone,

/elvis – after some performances, they’d go back to the hotel and sing all nite.

/constructing new islands in dubai or wherever must be the most obscene waste ever

/the rat pack was sold out in a few nights from then on and soon vegas was sold out. They played for 6 wks.

/search jerking the cam all over

Gunman Who Shot Wallace Is to Be Freed By BRENDA GOODMAN Arthur Bremer, the gunman who tried to kill Gov. George C. Wallace of Alabama, will be released from prison.

/common themes: good vs. evil, star-crossed lovers, beauty and the beast, unrequited love, kids vs. folks, anti establishment.

/funerals should be like phil’s natural to the end

/I only go out to dinner with fat friends, cause they’re the only ones that know how to eat

/people think lot of mm. she slept all over

/how most dressed at big reunion

/hub told wife what to do in 50s – far from heaven

/homework hotline: a teacher in blue jeans, short sleved shirt not tucked in.

/broken window theory fits in with the way people dress, bkk,

/andy rooney took license plate slogans down a few notches

/bouncers in vegas on tv said when people dress better, they behave act better. sig

/ http://www.nytimes.com/2007/10/15/opinion/15mon4.html?th&emc=th

/kitsch: vegas, radio city music call, cruises, parades?, [going to Hawaii and back]

/American conservative media watchdog group Parents Television Council

/so park is disgusting – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/South_Park

/frontline’s ‘cheney’s law’ was too gimicky – spooky music, drumbeat, sirens in the distance, night shots, cloak and dagger

/aretha franklin is a blimp. 07

/I wonder if bitterness is tied in with forgiveness nonsense.

/don’t cry, get mad, be depressed

Just gloss over, festive, forgive, feel-good, closure, food [really makes me mad]

/stan ashbaugh vols at so cst rep….. where all dress down

/all the biting off too much at once on tv, chomping away on their food, [talking?].

/search law returning products

/churches probably don’t bring up dress codes as it could hurt attendance

/reality tv.

/ll/9 and I don’t resent xmas yet. When will I – from thanks… on?

/Bob Dole’s Viagra ads. Gorby did 2? Ads

/Sunday movies were taboo

/monarchies are allowed to be a deep as playboy mansion

/scouts had to earn the $ for their uniforms

/if you reject someone’s food, you kind of reject them.”

/you hear the bleep far more than 20 yrs ago.

/ cheapo with camera tricks, drum beat, spooky music, repetition, EMOTION,

/plastic surgeons on tv for ego etc. I say judges are the same

/kia commercial with guy humping

/funniest vids with dog trying to hump a kid, people getting injured

/old black and white movies have more class, style, manners, dignity.

/I’d give kids allowance add to it with smaller holidays! And eating in.

/la times: rules [at good bars, not sports bars]. No standing at the bar, hats off, don’t use c phones, blackberries, name dropping, hooting, hollering, screaming, shouting or other loud behavior, cursing, smoking, getting drunk, gum, flash pix, more than 4 to a table, don’t interrupt other guests, men introducing selves to women, game playing, ll/07

/3 day stubbles, shirts unbuttoned and hanging out, tennies, blue jeans, bodily functions, underwear, bathroom humor, locker room humor, tattoos, piercings, bathing daily, torn jeans, scruffiness, being disheveled,

Women dressing up and their dates looking like they are going to work on their cars.

Fact that ‘clean-cut’ is rarely heard of.

Men should wait for women to offer their hands to be shaken.

too much cleavage, tight clothes, implants, vanity. The decline of values.

 

/biting off far too much to eat at once. Talking with mouth full. Washing food down.

/women constantly pushing their hair back

/rosie o’donald vs donald trump

/jerry springer, maury povich,

/in the past: ricky lake, jenny jones, sally jessie raphael

/gal in dr. m’s off had dark red hair and SHINY.

/forgiveness is great way for both parties not to deal with it

/gal with problem dog on ‘the dog whisperer’. You get to see real nice average family on there with their beguiling kids

/h. potter interview = class. Some asian productions on tv – far more class.

/ Health and education are forms of wealth, too, essential to happiness and a strong society

/boom boxes – chest thumping, window rattling

/disappointed to see history ch using sound effects during program on cold cuts

/parades as kitsch?

/most happy countries and least – http://www.physorg.com/news73321785.html

http://www.technovelgy.com/ct/Science-Fiction-News.asp?NewsNum=893

/judges on tv

/should creditors forgive debtors? Should we forgive prisoners and let em all out?

/took the civil rights movement to get white to begin to get empathy

/jeff corwin experience – animal guy has a staged? Bit about some real or imagined animal that flew over and craped all over him. l/l3/08

/dancing with the stars. Mc mentioned body odor

/ Morley Safer Loves His Vices, Says ‘Saints Are The Most Tedious People , humorless and lacking in imagination’

/all this stress on TV on being hot, etc. all 0 compared to when you care for someone. Spec if she’s demur, cons?, feminine, womanly, sweet, ….

/people get married in vegas. the whole wedding industry there. TACKY

/there was a ‘cliché count’ at a sport talk

/the hayes code [sp] for Hollywood. Legion of decency

/long ago: brook shields wearing jeans with her legs open and knees toward the cam showing her grotch. ‘know what gets between me and my calvin kleins? …………. Nothing’

/kid and animal droppings, stars with no panties exposed

/people almost getting their eye put out by a popping champagne cork

/

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&sa=X&oi=spell&resnum=0&ct=result&cd=1&q=pull+up+your+pants&spell=1

/seeming normal programs using snot, piss, throw up – hurl, orgasm,

/millionaire matchmaker – patty – the worst. she must be from NY eth?

/ short pants in bkk

/feel good must be patronizing? That’s what makes bkk exciting

/do premarital … and living together cut down on divorce

/one tenant, d?, blew his nose on his hand

/why not more wholesome things like man vs wild and dog whisperer

/ike wanted us to find a national purpose or something

/is gambling greed?

/when you have less and are thrifty; that’s fine. When you have more and are thrifty, you are tight, greedy,

/the nutty prof flic; who’s sucking whose titties. Chapel saying he cracked up eddie Murphy so much while drinking water, it came out of his nose.

/tj with it ear-splitting volume

/tv: lot dress far too young

/inventory workers at hm dep in the parking lot looked like gang bangers, beyond being minorities

/baggy clothes etc don’t teach self-respect

/sweet:

pleasing or agreeable; delightful.

8. amiable; kind or gracious, as a person, action, etc.

9. dear; beloved; precious.

lovable, charming.

/tv: snot, jock itch, orgasm, bladder leaks, boogers?, nose picking?, ass crack?,

/masturbation –

Masturbation

/AskMen.com – Masturbation Q&A

Masturbation is one of those activities everyone enjoys, but few are comfortable discussing openly with a friend, or even a family doctor. …

How bout the old men who wish they could

/ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vice – superb.

/Stephen Colbert showed ‘jon steward’s catheter’

/the huffington post – nasty. Proved by o’reilly

/ Time Out of Mind By STEFAN KLEIN The misguided notion that time is money actually costs us money. And it costs us time.

/jim carey on letterman: said paparazzi won’t leave him alone – pix of his gingivitis & colon

/college not worth it. lot of work not worth it. to med lab at 7:30 am. Saw everyone scurrying to work. Reminded me of when I did that. often to lousy jobs. So lucky to not have to. You wonder if all that was worth it.

/search when return policy changed. When audiences began hooting, clapping back

/ On cable TV, our young people can hear all the profanity and sounds of hard core porn and catch glimpses of it through scrambled images.

/glad I’m not the godfather to anyone

/peggy flemming’s got depth

/forgiveness: do you forgive a debt? Does the bank?

/I wonder if small biz like sally [beauty supply] and other have a ruff go. But they have independ… and that’s how some expand like macdonalds.

/ revenge – http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.emotionalcompetency.com/images/revenge.gif&imgrefurl=http://www.emotionalcompetency.com/revenge.htm&h=360&w=485&sz=11&hl=en&start=20&tbnid=ArG4m7ua_Zb9JM:&tbnh=96&tbnw=129&prev=/images%3Fq%3Drevenge%26gbv%3D2%26hl%3Den

/’what happens in vegas,stays in vegas’. – like tons of suckers losing their money.

/white house correspondents dinner. The dignitaries come in and all kinds of yelling from spectators behind the rope, some in shorts.

/I wonder if dubai doesn’t parallel vegas somehow

/calling cheerleaders children. Must have been hi sch. Contest

/guy, a stu?, wear a t-shirt when speaking to the lauds. Another youth in aud wore one

/teacher on homework hotline in blue jeans, dumb short sleved shirt, hair a bit diff doing complicated math quadratic functions/ equations

/barabara walters carried on an affair with sen ed brooke for several years, but they broke it off because he was married. Of course

/people lose weight and get divorces. [fits with my backing off when they gain?]

/Disney owned part of Lorimar – adult ?

/martina matvrolova said you can’t just focus on the final win, you have to enjoy the process

/Boo! Boo! Boo! for the Home Team By FRANCIS X. CLINES Booing, once directed only at the visiting team, has become the dagger du jour as hometown fans bestow blame on their team’s players.

/schmaltz patriotism: worship symbols – those in uniform, big weapons. God in any form rehashed over and over. other schmaltzy emotion – you are my friend, chain letters will keep evil away.

/I’ll never forget I worked for 50 cents an hr

/killings in eng. They tore down the bldg where it happened. didn’t want the mems.

/ intervention on tv pulls no punches

/teen girls bumped into me and laughed about it.

/In 2006, for the first time in U.S. history, a majority of all births to women under 30 — 50.4 percent — were out of wedlock. Nearly 80 percent of births among black women were out of wedlock.

By comparison, when John F. Kennedy was elected president in 1960, just 6 percent of all births were to unmarried women under 30.

Since then, the percentages have risen across the ethnic spectrum. One-third of white, non-Hispanic women under 30 who gave birth in 2006 were unmarried. For Hispanics, it was 51 percent.

/sure is good to have my leg back after trouble with L knee

/grad from kindergarden, jr hi, all kids of awards

/dog whisperer – one of the most refreshing progams ever on tv. what would be next?

He uses dog pscyh, not human psych on dogs

/marry wonderful person, so natural to have a kid. What if mr. what if later into crime, etc. or off to war. Penny lile.

/irresponsible fun vs resp

/graffiti creates fear. Bums people out. blight, disrespect, slap in the face

/ deteriorating civility of our society’s younger members !!!!!

/0 ref to bodily functions – bathroom, bedroom, locker room,

/tv: l7% of those who get tatoos regret it.

/tyra has daytime tv judges on. All about justice. Then asks em their favorite curse word. Cheap! David young is the lst gay TV judge. Alex is the tall guy. Clapped too much

/jerry springer as narrator of the miss universe contest 7/08

/bruce cutler as a tv judge

/The Culture of Debt By DAVID BROOKS America once had a culture of thrift. But over the past decades, that unspoken code has been silently eroded.

/woody allen incapable of being happy. 60s

/Risks in Shanghai

expatriate in Shanghai, expatriates, expats, Shanghai, risks in Shanghai, … No jaywalking. 3. No swearing. 4. No littering. 5. No smoking in public …

/”It’s man’s ear. When you get cauliflower, you’re really a man.”
NISAR LOYNAB , 15, a mixed martial arts trainee who hopes to get cauliflower ear.

/why are all the ugly ams on tv

/gross stuff on am’s funniest hm videos

Forgive [re fam]

1. to grant pardon for or remission of (an offense, debt, etc.); absolve. 0
2. to give up all claim on account of; remit (a debt, obligation, etc.). 0
3. to grant pardon to (a person). same
4. to cease to feel resentment against: to forgive one’s enemies. 0 but not dwell
5. to cancel an indebtedness or liability of: to forgive the interest owed on a loan. 00

–verb (used without object)

6. to pardon an offense or an offender. same

/more pettiness than I remember in campaigns so far 7/08

/thailand has kids l5 and younger going into their type of boxing

/I live where the men tuck their shirts in, ….. paradise … lw

/clean cut. Not in ny

Some Britons Too Unruly for Resorts in Europe
By SARAH LYALL Malia, Greece, is the latest in a long list of European resorts full of young British tourists on packaged tours offering cheap alcohol and a license to behave badly.

“They scream, they sing, they fall down, they take their clothes off, they cross-dress, they vomit.”
KONSTANTINOS LAGOUDAKIS, mayor of Malia on Crete, about young British tourists.

/Olympics – wholesome values.

/Beijing olympics one cost $40 billion said dr simms

/esl student said hippies throw away? what we want

/abc: good looking black guy told 3 kids in sitcom to get off their ass 08

/patients at Harvard: t-shirts, short pants, jeans, heavy hair

/police chief dicks of flint [Michigan] – one of the most violent cities in am. Those with underwear showing. La times wrote against it. aclu too. [mostly black?] newsweek? 7?/08? Crass

Same problem in gardena on tv 9/08 [with blacks]

/sanctity of life vs j springer

/winning a beauty pageant in venezuela + is big deal

/big foot, another in china, yeti in Nepal,

/search no movies on Sundays on the 50s?

/early springer saying he wouldn’t allow any hitting. Has become a freak show with dwarfs, half guy on hands, dominatrix, flashing,

/home repairs are bettr than xmas. Make you feel great.

/spread out vacation days just like spreading out xmas

/don’t know better than to bring up religion

/tess wants her girl to come here but not stay as the values here are too permissive.

/someone unconscious in hosp on disc.. health. Doesn’t need med person raising his voice at him [like he doesn’t know eng] and we don’t need a drumbeat in the background. Cheapens it

/dr became a patient and saw things diff

/guy testifying at la cnty bd of super with a t-shirt over a sweat shirt

/some bar on TV called ballbusters

/reverend run , white collar, wears a hat on tv. former rapper

/no divorce in pi, have to get it annulled.

/young Indians impressed with how am’s think of what’s good for them as individuals,

/wayne brady flies back from vegas to l.a. daily so he can pick up his kid from kindergarten. Sometimes, he drives it – 4 hrs. said having a kid changes your life. Is a single parent. His kid cries over the phone about missing him.

/sympathy falls between shit and syphilis

/Rwandan gal with far more dig and charm than us. C span.

/the staff at health food stores wouldn’t dare be clean cut

/la bd of sup… on tv. 2 cameramen in short pants with shirts out

Confessions of a Phone Solicitor By GAIL COLLINS If you can come up with something that would send a telemarketer over the edge, you have really overachieved on the offensiveness front.

/spain allows gay marriage, abortions ….

/can’t jaywalk in Singapore?

/ john walsh: “it’s not about closure; it’s about justice.”

/pols here have to support the death penalty, said dershowitz

/guy a I know won a settlement from the gov. , ran out and bot a new car. dumb

/jim carry and partner both been married twice. they like skipping that and co-habing

/ Up, Up and Go Away By ANN HOOD A former flight attendant feels the decline of airline service, especially since she remembers the days when to fly was to soar.

/at this late age I wonder if the clique was and is about keeping others out. seemed to get that from tj and maybe jay [but do I dish some out too?]

/wisdom born of long suffering

/remember in the 50s some would get a new car every yr. anyone still do that?

/sally Kirkland had implants, got sick of the whole thing

/sweetness more valued in asia?

/marriage is useful or designed for having kids?

/Janine turner, holding her head high = her bk. Bout unwed ma’s?

/The Costs of Negligence People who venture outdoors and find themselves in trouble thanks to their own lack of responsibility should pay the cost for being rescued.

/obama’s inaug was the most expensive ever –

cost of obama inauguration

Got sickening with idealism, yet tons of litter –

inauguration trash

some talk of a litter-free inaug…. Yeah, right

/dunno what to do with this one – http://www.abutterflyemerges.com

/stupidity of blk and white morality of latin women who have to be v when married. She has her honor, virtue, rep only once

/boom boxes are audio graffiti

/the scarlet letter

/Jerry Springer speaking at Northwestern University Law School’s commencement

/also he was mc at the miss universe pagent?

/Search the vices

/black actor, ocane? Cornilus, in orange t shirt in fancy pulpit in classical church.

/postal workers with their shirt out

/blu jeans and tennis shoes all over – even among seniors

/char said dressing grubby now in bev hills, Hollywood hi

/c span. Good talk. Skr and most of aud dressed up. c kids in blue jeans , t shirt

/discretion is the better part of valor

/nancy of comics said her temp agency for 8 yrs was awful. People didn’t want to wk

/sweet people are genuine, don’t manip, no games nor need for games

/gal on talk show at nite with torn jeans. ‘

/ice cream truck covered with grafitti

/don’t spoil kid as he will run up against: food, smk, love, alc, drugs, cults, radicalism, speed, risks, peers,

/miss manners, Judith matin, said 60s had no respect for tradition

/quick talk on probate forms on each table

/if you had shapely daughter would you want her to appear in underwear ads?

/stu in class in undershirt, short pants, leg out. hi sch?

/good vals as smoke, food, gamble, sex …

/in jap… hi powered ex’s have mistresses, bar girls, etc.

/jap tykes cleaning sch, serving meals. All wait till everyone’s served

/guy has his dr lic suspended 500 times. Sundance arrested 300? Times for alc

/some jap… tourists afraid to come here re guns, crime; likewise some of our tourists feel far safer over there

/our criminals disrespect the police. The il’s don’t. they don’t give em lip.

/Asians in 90s had 1% ow births. Eur 20%, us 30%

/vince mcman’s wrestling big, then turner cut into his biz, so vince went into the gutter in themes etc. to beat him

/worst drivers: ny, boston?, another, l.a. best – seattle

/bad things happen to good people all the time.

/guen said ams are: me me, lazy, think they’re it, irresp, blame fast food, sue mc donalds.

/sympathy in the dict… is between shit and syphilis – meaning what? No one cares? Or it and a dime will get you coffee?

/less hair, but wearing black t shit – yani . 2^nd time

/el Segundo hi sch principal: end of june when still not hot [and he’s near bch], no excuse anyhow – irrelevant, wrinkled short pants, short sleeved polo shirt handing out, tennies, hands on hips, open necked. As if he’s just gotten up from watching tv at home. Out, sch for kids, adult in pub?, prin!, prin of a landmark hi sch. broken window….

Do the teachers dress worse? Most foreign principals in for… countries, even the poorest, know better than that. pride, example, perfect ex of the decline

/now we don’t tuck the belt in

/STUPID: Michael, a Foreign Affair By GAIL COLLINS While America mourned and the media circled, the House Foreign Affairs Committee was weighing in on a 1,500-word resolution in Michael Jackson’s honor.

/Op-Ed: The Day Obscenity Became Art Celebrating 50 years of the “interchange of ideas” in D. H. Lawrence.

/dr. vu grew up in 70s. said vals down since then
/Korean TV programs are sure more wholesome than ours.

/asian newscasters, sit coms, dramas more wholesome, pristine

/when I was young, people didn’t leave shopping carts all over.

/how bout an invitation like: let’s NOT go out to eat

/some hermits I india reject work and fam [and resp], drop out, become hooked on pot, become ‘holy men’

/someone likes s.s. yet is off to Alaska

/smit said skiing has gone down – noise, etc

/some people on diets go on cruises. Xxxxx

/Bill Gates says the best advice he’s ever gotten from his friend and fellow billionaire Warren Buffett is to keep things simple.

/whiney voice judge toller

/ ‘He was not perfect, but my father believed in redemption. And he never surrendered.”EDWARD M. KENNEDY Jr., at his father’s funeral.

/show up in court looking awful, whiny voices interrupting, but no bleeps

 /terri schaivo – www.terrisfight.org/index.php

/Kennedys: $ so noblesse oblige, h, fun, style, rites of passage, reckless but redemption, curse, catholic, theory, cheat on wives, alc, untouchable, discrim in past so need to be worshipped as comp…? team, rep, caroline tried for senate, legacy, noble goals-theory, image-cover up,

/thai’s see ladyboys as a 3^rd gender. Sig?

/noblesse oblige here?

/a guy that sends stuff, good and bad, just sent something disgusting, revolting.

/Big Food vs. Big Insurance By MICHAEL POLLAN The American way of eating has become the elephant in the room in the debate over health care.

/gal couldn’t get out of way so others could get off the elevator

/frumpy staff at irv. park

/weak: Where the Wild Thing Is By MAUREEN DOWD Tom DeLay on “Dancing With the Stars” is a reminder that in our lowbrow-loving culture, a scoundrel can do the redemption tango simply by being a good sport.

/bimbo jillian? Next to steve Edwards – bigger now? More cleavage, during daytime, more make up

/guen said only in am do walmart people dress like.

/drew Barrymore had NO disc as a kid

/program on bout samuri. With drumbeat. Cheap! Insulting, wears on aud

/presenting … to the la sch bd. in t-shirt. Another in dark glasses in aud, inattentive, sweatshirts. Gal on bd could not push her hair back

/schwartenegger didn’t have a phone, [indoor?, flush?] toilet, [or frig?] till he was l4

/tattoos

/guy on tv advertising mccormack mort. In a sports shirt

/more spices in all – frozen spaghetti and meatballs

/guy testifying in court wearing outside jacket and hand to chin and mouth

/ramsey’s kitchen nightmare. Lone coyote bar – dreadlocks

/divorce make he and wife better parents

/in pi, men have women on the side

/guy calls for rm, ruff, why so many rules, can’t have cold beer after work, not really. fuck you then. 12/09

/3 times as many assaults in Scotland % wise. No guns, so use knives

/$6 bacon guacamole burger is spicy. More TV dins are spicy

/my 70^th birthday was the best. – cause I’ve beaten the game – rather than the usual shallow whoop de doo.

/pitbulls and parolees like rescue inc

/being able to verbally abuse parking meter attendants/ticket givers

/aud dressed up, orch too, but violin soloist in jeans, hat, coat, poney tail? Stuble

/many don’t know how to fail. Football taught guy how to keep going

/the rockettes all over TV. tacky tacky what corn. How can people fall for that

/eastern virtues of patience and inner calm

/’fight quest’ more savagery on tv

/guy who found my wallet, others who return too much I’ve laid down – humbling

/obnoxious characters on TV: on red eye on fox – Greg Gutfeld , morton graham, ramsays kitchen nightmares, repo, dog?, springer, cheaters, web soup, world’s dumbest criminals, g-spot on cheaters? ,

/hist bit on tv re battle of midway. Older guy has dress shirt tucked in. younger guy has t-shirt hanging out. they’ve done many programs.

/2 guys in eyestyles: jeans and shirts out. 2^nd button on shirt open.

/but, hey …..

/look

/’blind date’ to learn what NOT to do

/tie loose and button unbuttoned

/wearing jeans on bk notes on c span

/puritanical: pee wee herman, senator gordon smith?, towing the cars of ‘jons’, putting their pix on the net

/ New York Seeks National Effort to Curb Salt in Food By WILLIAM NEUMAN After initiating prominent campaigns against smoking and harmful trans fats, New York City has a new target: the food industry’s use of salt.

/steve jobs in front of big aud in jeans and some sweater

I wonder why blue jeans are the big deal. In dr’s office. Lst one guy comes in in them, shirt out. then another. Is there a law you can’t tuck your shirt in. it’s on tv. all the time. comedians in t-shirts hanging. Travelogue guy too. even steve jobs before a large audience – jeans.

Then lot of youth with pants so low, you see 5 inches of boxer shorts. The aclu stuck up for them. welcome to social work. That’s how it was. Teaching too.

3 day stubbles, baseball cap on in college classes, the list goes on. My dr. chewing gum and so loud I use cotton puffs

/dana carvey in t shirt hanging out. olive drab – dark.

/no work: va

/courts should insist on proper decorum from the start. It adds to ‘justice’

/good to see pee wee herman coming back l/l0. he fell in 90?

/no socks, tennies, short pants

/that prin is the ugly am

/music goes off when they page someone at hm depot. Awful for it to come back on loud then trying to talk to sam

/dog whisperer is one of the best programs ever and they cheapen it with .

/no work: wel, f stamps, ss, ssi, uib, vets, farms sub, medicare +, pensions, prisoners, dj’s, alcs, drug addicts, alkies, gamblers?, students, ins? Illegals, paramedics?, wk as part of resp…

/plagues at sch, stolen, another l0k, ceremony inaugural

/ Once Stigmatized, Food Stamps Find Acceptance By JASON DEPARLE and ROBERT GEBELOFF A program once scorned as “welfare” enjoys broad new support from city, state and federal governments and from neighborhood groups that recruit clients.

/What’s Hot on This BBC Podcast? The Siege of Munster (1534-35)
By ADAM COHEN There is talk about how the Internet is driving culture ever lower, but it also makes a wealth of serious thinking available.

/yell so much on tv you have to keep turning the vol down

Free: f stamps, phy and ment disability, tax prep, medi-cal, Medicaid, medicare, pensions?, all the subsidies – farm, etc.

/ag: Absolute total western decadence – vegas on the water. Oasis of the seas – cruise ship carries 6k passengers. 3/l0

2. / Is The Power Of Positive Thinking Bullshit? – Barbara Ehrenreich …

Sep 28, 2009 … Barbara Ehrenreich is looking through a half-empty glass in her new book, Bright-Sided, which takes a critical look at America’s culture of …
jezebel.com/5369467/is-the-power-of-positive–thinking-bullshit – Similar

/homework hotline: pony tail, slicked back hair, goatee, dressed in blk.

/rescue place saves dog, gal from there takes it to radio sta to ad it, she’s wearing torn jeans

/mckenzie phillips, 35 yrs with a needle in her arm. On tv with dad yrs ago, I saw: all was a joke. Incest. Now she’s free.

/exposed underwear is indecent exposure

/dumbing down, junk food, virtually no good dress code, rock during meals – L hall., bullying,

/no wk: scholarships?, ed

/gloss over, airbrush out ….

/ Why Do Smart People Swear? A Room for Debate forum on why swearing in public or on the Internet is not going away anytime soon.

/buzz aldrin – on dancing with the stars 4/l0

/senate hearing on ariz border with mccain. Cameramen with shirttails out.

Search grubby informal cameramen on capitol hill

/sig one on civil war, slavery, hist of struggle for rights….. with a snare drum in the background. I don’t remember that beat in c.

/search grubby, informal, casual cameramen on capitol hill, at congressional hearings

/drumbeat is like what? In the nude?

/guy behind senator is chewing gum

/stater: ghetto music as ghetto volumn whose lyrics never repeat

/tru tv: city councilman subdued with pepper spray, later city awarded him $65k 5/l0

/no wk for free food, or pensions. Food banks.

/ape the ignorant/k

/tina turner concert with muscle types. One of em, a sax player, humped while playing his solo

/why this? Supremely Girly Girl By MAUREEN DOWD A word from the vice president: Elena Kagan is not even a little bit gay. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. 5/l0

/ The Pajama Game Closes in Shanghai By GAO YUBING Lamenting Shanghai’s crackdown on the local practice of wearing PJs in public. 5/l0/

/s Jacobs said they call their teachers by their first name.

/free: pensions skip

/ shirttails out, 3 day stubbles, profanity, bad table manners, piercings, tattoos ….. torn jeans.

Grubby clothes of sch principals, teachers, students …

/due in part to worship of baby boomers

/soc has to fit in with decline of vals?

/all fit with viet gal who was in detention for 5 yrs in hong kong and had to go back

/you can tell which kids come from good homes

/miserable drumbeat in all the mil programs, war programs, hist too?

So much that war must be about smoking and drums

/even in prison they wear their pants so low their u-wear shows

/fan violence

/patriotism is being realistic about the good and the bad. It’s about the war docus, the un?

/special [blue collar] hamburger or pastrami or …restaurants: Amazing how they always show crude, obese people, poorly dressed, wearing their outdoor coat, with their hat on indoors, in a noisy restaurant, opening their mouths as wide as possible, biting off far too much, chewing once, grease around their mouths, and talking with their mouths full, grease around their mouths. [and if you’re lucky the burger sauce is dripping on the plate or maybe the table. Must be the peak experience of one’s life. dripping on to the plate. Ist that the big luxury for blue collars who’ve never taken care of their health and who’ve worked hard all month – to gross out. They’ve worked hard at ruining their health and this is their desert.

/tv: something effing ….. . the g spot. Movies that don’t suck. Repro, billy the exterminator.

/trashy guy in pharmacy: tattoos, short pants, no socks, grubby t shirt outside, stubble, muggish face

/ch 114 it’s eff’n science, g-spot on 114. Movies that don’t suck on ….

/celebrity is as transferable as chicken pox

/repo is a good example of the deline of val

 

/kick buttoski? On the Disney? Channel

/some teacher in jeans and a polo shirt with product brainetics

/taking matters into their own hands: repo, cheaters

/forgive debts? How fair is that to those that have to pay? Same with crime, foreign aid

/ Obesity Rates Keep Rising, Troubling Health Officials
By DENISE GRADY Nine states, led by Mississippi at 34.4 percent, have rates reaching 30 percent or more, as opposed to only three states in 2007.

/cheaters, repo, disorder in the court, dog?

/ spoil kid out of perverted sense of ‘protecting’ him.

/Vermont farmer who said some folks never want their kids to work as hard as they did so make it too easy.

/curses, evil, luck, fate

/are tattoos vain?

/men offering their hand first

/what compares with bum? Frick, ford found?, d-land?, google?,

/forgiving a debt is not fair to the others have to pay

/suspect wearing very long undershirt. Others with 5” on u-wear showing.

/more undershirts back east

/you might say part of empathy is tuff love

/mark twain said travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, narrow

/Asian newscasters not showing cleavage. Bbc too

…ve the drunk, ge, why don'[so very hard to tell which would be/see feel good file on ibm

/cap hill club on TV and everyone taking big mouthfuls – cspan

/faulkners came back from eur and found ‘no one wanted to wk’

/5015 runs their air conditioner even tho no one’s home for months.

/jack germond left the mclaughlin grp. Said it was a food fight. Wiki said mc is loud and forceful…. Parodied by dana garvey

/guy on news program from ny mag: loose tie & collar, 4 day stubble

/locked up abroad , in mex. Simulation: cig cig cig trying to make mex look bad?

/if you want to appre

/fidel on hold vs hm dep.

/I won’t watch anything unless they repeat it 6 times, never hold the camera still, ever stop smoking, or without a drumbeat. Espec bad during sig things – cheapens them

/fast dancing – swing – benny goodman

/3^rd time I’ve hear pro… entrenched the mob – like drugs now

/how often so you see wholesome teens on TV like those on america’s funniest vid… or the dream who was rescued

/look at the flac parking attendants who ticket cars have to put up with.

/wholesome Elizabeth smart

/recreation of pol [baath party] 5 men – all smoking, on etyping with a cig between his fingers, 6 more in another scene and THEY are all smoking

/$l6 for side dish, $40 for meal, + tip = 60+ but saved $75 by not getting showerhead

/the trouble they give parking officers – meter maids

/bratty kids on flights in restaurants, buses, stores, ir there doesn’ne

/religion is a tradval

/don’t run hands thru hair or scratch scalp – men and women

 /finally: l2/l0 – Well, Hush My Mouth: Congress Is Moving Against LOUD Ads

Couch potatoes of America, listen up. Congress may be just days away from turning down the volume on ear-splitting TV commercials. [tv sets should have this period and also all chs have same vol]

/mythbusters – lighting a fart, love dolls,

/protesting at edwards funeral

/never heard ‘play to your strengths’

/live in sec guard at a grammar sch. And a jr hi where they had a fire? Or theft?

/folks of kids in sport push em too much now. didn’t used to . said nat alliance for youth sports

/hearings with kefauver re comics contributing to jd

/pol, religion, weight raising kids. Search this

/the immature at a traffic school

 /premarital rel… help prevent divorce

/oprah tv is geared to the lowest common denominator

/bitch’n kitchen – some program on tv

/search to find if there has been a growth of hm owner’s asscs and why

/cheap sound effects when showing oc jail and similar …

/shouting matches on tv, food fights

/postman has shirt out

/

Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior

/how can an extremist church, the westboro baptist church, picket funerals. l/ll

http://www.google.com/search?q=westboro+baptist+church&sourceid=ie7&rls=com.microsoft:en-us:IE-ContextMenu&ie=&oe

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/kids told they’re fab for yrs, then can’t get into right c. they dk why

/making fun of robert byrd in senate

/tv: some am in serbia at a festival. Only one wearing an undershirt.

moustache contest . another tour type turned a local woman toward the cam

/guy in colored t shirt hangning way down goes to pick up deion sanders’ girl who’s all dressed up.

/gandhi’s 7 deadly sins:

Wealth without work

Pleasure without conscience

Knowledge without character

Commerce without morality

Science without humanity

Worship without sacrifice

Politics without principle

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/one from sahs: We have a home in Palm Desert where we go during the Winter and Spring to play golf.

/tv goes to lowest common den……..said oprah. True of judges on tv?

/poor part time guy who sold me micro is across from boom boom elec dept. goes hm and his ears are ringing. Dirty

 / Transfer of Jobs to Asian Workers Feeds DiscontentA9

As unemployment grows across the Arab world, jobs are increasingly going to one group from outside the region—Asian guest workers.

/after quake and tsumani jap… didn’t LOOT! They don’t do that. Other countries do. Sig

They are stoic – gaman is the word. No sub teachers. Kids look after their class when the teacher is away. Big clean.

/parenting has gone downhill said a guy

10 things to learn from Japan’ 0ll earthquake and tsunami

1. THE CALM

Not a single visual of chest-beating or wild grief. Sorrow itself has been elevated.

 2. THE DIGNITY

Disciplined queues for water and groceries. Not a rough word or a crude gesture. 

3. THE ABILITY

The incredible architects, for instance. Buildings swayed but didn’t fall. 

4. THE GRACE

People bought only what they needed for the present, so everybody could get something. 

5. THE ORDER

No looting in shops. No honking and no overtaking on the roads. Just understanding. 

6. THE SACRIFICE

Fifty workers stayed back to pump sea water in the N-reactors. How will they ever be repaid? 

7. THE TENDERNESS

Restaurants cut prices. An unguarded ATM is left alone. The strong cared for the weak. 

8. THE TRAINING

The old and the children, everyone knew exactly what to do. And they did just that. 

9. THE MEDIA

They showed magnificent restraint in the bulletins. No sensationalizing. Only calm reportage. 

10. THE CONSCIENCE

When the power went off in a store, people put things back on the shelves and left quietly  

This makes the nation great.

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/that marine explaining his tattoos on the mil ch

/now wolf blitzer has raised his voice

/no closure means people appreciate things more.

/folly: closure, forgiveness,

/morality plays: bullying, dumping on gays,

/campus pd shows how bratty some stus are these days.

/search anything goes

/parked in middle of sidewalk on parking wars

/pi cg’s etc dying to come here and be here to wrk. Search why ours don’t – some

/entitlements have to contribute to decline

/if criminals feel remorse are we supposed to forgive em?

/drama desk awards, formal dress, profane comic

/ingrid said ams spend. She’s from g

/don’t cry

/I want to think that only the brits could do harry potter so well.

/am dream is owning a hse. 000

/ The “Millennials” Are Coming – CBS News Nov 8, 2007 … 60 Minutes on CBS News: The “Millennials” Are Coming – Morley Safer On The New Generation Of American Workers.
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/programs testing borders of area 51 as if that’s a worthy thing to do

/was talk soup, now it’s web soup – snide nasty. Like world’s dumbest criminals – making fun of people in a cruel way.

/some movie star learned she was no better than the little people she saw in church

/k’s are the 2^nd most hard working people in the world. Said tv

/if people spend half the time exercising as they do eating, they’d be better off

/ Miss Manners says it’s still rude to wear a hat indoors. Cowboys too

/search dressed down culture

/more common in print +: pissed, big ass fans, smart ass in cartoon la times 7/ll, screw,

/steve croft of 60 min in sport coat and jeans 7/ll

/faux hawk is that stick up tuffs junk. And all had a 3 day stubble. 7/ll

/laura ingram says the 20s that apply for work want work scheduled around their vacations etc. she can’t believe it.

/st. senator in blue jeans, which shirt, dress coat. In wis? 7/ll

/what happened to ‘clean-cut’

/miserable drum line at warner? Middle sch on newland.

/wendell appreciated lower rent a lot but they eat out all the time, never cook. Has 3 cars – 1 of which is a 64 rolls.

/ something sig on dog whisperer and keep changing cams. And adding sound effects. Cheapens the hell out of it. exactly the opposite of calm submissive

/Margaret cho has an open marriage. They have their little affairs. Cause she’s slutty. She thinks sexual monogamy lasts 5, 7 yrs. Vs cheaters

/cheaters shows people cheating with siblings, baby sitters, hmless friend taken in, lying and banging while the other is working. Some very decent, sweet, trusting people cheated. Why no charges for assault?

/ Sears said l:45 – 3:45, but at 3:40, they were on l2. I was l5 of l8 for the day.

/search how do women feel walking down the st when guys make comments

/when it’s a sweet gal on cheaters seeing tapes which break her heart, it’s so touching – young very decent maiden at the height of her appeal, devastated, not losing poise or dig –

/more attacks in the e.r.

/search how natives of pi, thai …..notice returnees are chubbier

/jap… older man said kids born since ’80 have had all done for them. They will study but that’s it.

/live in security guard at a grammar sch. – m.c.

/ Accepting, Appreciative, Balanced, Clean, Cheerful, Content,

Creative, Considerate, Courageous, Disciplined,

Dedicated, Enthusiastic, Encouraging, Efficient, Ethical, Fair,

Flexible, Friendly, Gentle, Generous, Helpful, Harmonious, Humble,

Humorous, Impartial, Intuitive, Joyful, Loyal, Merciful, Moderate,

Modest, Nurturing, Orderly, Peaceful, Polite, Playful, Practical,

Powerful, Patient, Principled, Purposeful, Peaceful, Respectful,

Spiritual, Spontaneous, Steadfast, Tolerant, Thoughtful,

Trusting, Tender, Unassuming, Unselfish, Understanding,

or Welcoming.

/good: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Family_values

/no list of tradval on net

/movies we love knocked up, movies that don’t suck, the g sport, effin science

/sub teaching for me

/Olympic judo champ said what makes a champ [beyond talent] is disc, wk habits, denial

/bob marley sang for freedom etc, and had 22 kids in and out of marriage

/coats and ties to baseball games during wwii

/ken burns said prohibition lobby, anti salon grp, was huge. Narrow, doctrinaire – single issue thot it would cure all. Resisted by the u.s. gov as would mean no more taxes from booze. Entrenched the mob. Didn’t work. After l3 yrs, it was repealed. Showed how fanatics blow it.

/electrician out with helper with low pants and tattoos

/guy at rite aid with low pants and shirt out

/calm manners of p. allen smith’s garden home on tv

What Happened to the American Work Ethic? Millions of people are looking for jobs, but aren’t jumping to be seasonal farm laborers. Why is that? L0/ll

/we didn’t have bullying

/scofflaws

/dependence on prescription drugs. Abuse of

/sweetness involves integrity

/if some people spent l% of the time they do flying the flag in charity work, they’d make a diff

/regis philby took shirt off on tv l0/ll

A Last Bastion of Civility, the South, Sees Manners Decline By KIM SEVERSON “Yes, sir”? “No, ma’am”? More and more Southerners are skipping such niceties. And ladies, if you want that seat, you had better go grab it.

/tattoos – if you get em and go to a dr, dentist, lawyer, or other pros – they don’t like that. You can expect poor service from all as people are repulsed and unconsciously repulsed and want to get away from

/ingratitude is the cardinal sin said harry Truman

/tailgate party in the SNOW

/real heroes are whistleblowers like that stomboli on nyc police corruption. dowd

/tv: Gordon ramsey’s f word. G spot. Effin ? sci

/Why We Spend, Why They Save By SHELDON GARON Europeans save more than we do. What can we learn from them?

/the dead would not want us to gloat, said ernie pyle

/free speech: what is it? confederate flag on lic plates or flying, yelling fire, defamation, libel, inciting a riot,

/walmart shoppers.

/brokaw: americans are the most generous

/2 asians dressed well on cctv and a brit in a black t shirt

/chevy ad – guy with a 4 day stubble

/over a romantic dinner, a guy in a 3 day stubble gives well dressed woman a diamond. Ad by zales diamonds

/Spanish art On tv. Brit with blue wrinkled shirt, 2 buttons opened at top, shirttail out, very worn jeans, hair that needed trimming and combing, touring Escorial in spain, private rooms, pushed back a few inches curtain of king’s bed, in sacred chapels … put hand on top of chair. But actually clean shaven. To avila.

/cities of the underworld: am guy, whips it up, grubby jeans, very worn, and coat, dark gray t-shirt, 3 day stubble, the foreigner is more clean, calm, intel, respectable, balanced …. & cheapo sound effects

/Viagra – 3 day stubble

/is a symbol of kitschy excess

/shirttail out, top 3 buttons open – dragon, naturally speaking

/tired of gangsta, ghetto music in hm dep – screaming, yelling

/reporter at t….. sq in egypt

/new café here and 2 guys, old, wearing baseball caps.

/at the seoul olympics brokaw saw from his hotel window, jr hi students studying by flashlight and hr before school opened.

/ag: minimum standards keep going up due to entitlements soc.

/dirty vids mixed in with those about soldering copper pipes ….

/not a single swear word on afs trip

/am driving death hiway in bolivia – 3 day stubble. 5 day? Hist ch. Do

/search 3 day stubble not in asia 5 day.

/search grubby tv public personalities

/ellen degeneras with that famous kristy alley who lost weight. 4:30 pm . tatoo man is waiting back stage. l/l2

/jerking camera all over

/lowest common denominator

/forgiveness. Lot to be first in line. Don’t even know what they are talking about

/email sent: beer, cars, naked women, accidents that insur, and some guns

/other countries restrict boom boxes?

/bayer aspirin – 5 day stubble, dark gray t shirt and a sport coat

/the way some of sahs dressed at a memorial service

/abu graib, marines urinating on dead Taliban, one on tape saying he hates all af’s and af.

2. Marilyn Monroe Sculpture Unveiled In Chicago (PHOTOS)

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  Jul 21, 2011 – Statue of the late star posing over a drafty subway vent causes outrage in Chicago.

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/am guy interviewing those in Chinese opera – shirt out, grubby pants, sideburns

/The Gingrich Question: Cheating vs. Open Marriage If more couples considered monogamy optional, would divorce and cheating be less common, and unmarried cohabitation less attractive?

/ the death of the grown up by Diana west http://www.challies.com/book-reviews/the-death-of-the-grown-up

She worked for wash times. Now for united media.

/biz and all have then entitlement ment……….so never ashamed

/constantly moving cameras, swirling images

/sweater, with shirt and t shirt sticking out at the bottom.

/3 day stubble – Subaru. Liberty mutual – same. l/l2 & shirt tail out

/l.a. ink, Miami ink

/if too moralistic about prost, they maybe too too bout abort, stem … porn?

/Cialis ad: 3 day stubble 2/l2

/fundamental schs – in s.a. folks would line up for them

/farm kids

/my cat from hell. Billy the exterminator, ancient aliens, celebrity ghost stories, river monsters, storage wars, shipping wars.

/walmartians, walmart shoppers

/eur countries with such classic palaces, formal gardens, music, art, cul …… all that and couldn’t stay out of war.

/billy graham: – We have exploited the poor and called it the lottery. We have rewarded laziness and called it welfare. We have killed our unborn and called it choice. We have shot abortionists and called it justifiable… We have neglected to discipline our children and called it building self esteem. We have polluted the air with profanity and pornography and called it freedom of expression.

/disorder in the courts.

/more running from cops?

/search the def of sweet – lovable, cuddly, scrumcious, delectable, charming, gentle, dear, adorable, wholesome, ingratiating, polite, respectful,

/hi sch teacher on tv had a tattoo on her upper arm. 2/l2

/entitlements goes with social promotion

/search the % who don’t have a will

/Italian cruise ship grounded – cheapened by spec effects

/never thot some could trade such crude email

/how can sam with such a heart have a mean streak – thing that threw squirrel off a railing. Also one of Michele Obama as a ………………?

how $ can help you:

/long range goals,

/invest,

/health, better neigh in terms of safety, quiet, grace = -schs-ed, bkk, beat game,get ahead-better yourself, move to far better climate, bigger tools, pass people – not in a petty way, but just as a matter of course. Help your kids and rels and friends, better soc clubs?

How it can hurt you: drugs, vanity, excess, waste = …. Ego,

 

Give the Ref a Gavel By ELDON L. HAM The real obstacle to prosecuting excessive violence in sports may be our culture’s macho conception of athletes, who are expected to “man up” in the face of threats to their safety.

/hm dep’s music has to be hard on staff and bad for biz. Bill said Atlanta governs it. store mng can only drop the vol a bit

/parking wars

/hillbilly handfishing

/river monsters

/larry the cable guy

/Kathy griffin

Hospitals Aren’t Hotels By THERESA BROWN We might like to say it shouldn’t be, but physical pain and emotional suffering tend to be inseparable from standard care.

/how many teachers quit. How many would advise ed students to change majors

/whatever happened to clean cut

/dwyane Johnson, the rock, explaining his tattoo. Gosh, how good for a role model

/decline of val adds to aa

/klan member killed blk, tearfully asked forgiveness of blk’s ma in crt. She forgave him. Not a dry eye in the courtrm. 00000000000

/resp big for kids: break it you pay for it. then less vandalism. Fix

/1. How complex are the questions and considerations of prices at the pump, what factors are involved and the global process that is constantly in flux.

/2. The civility of the proceedings as compared to what we normally see when the network cameras are doing the coverage and the posturing and partisan bluster that goes along with the photo ops. It almost restored my faith in the political process.

/is moto’s stuff degrading

/why not more outrage at graffiti on subways in ny in 70s

/terrible sneeze in pt, not just air, not into fist, no excuse me. Someone yelled god bless you. then she did it again. Shock

/ Youthful Tattoos Turn Into Grown-Up RegretsWMUR

/these tuff street fighters in hi sch every step into a ring with gloves, headgear, a ref,

/globe trecker – shirt out, jeans …

/these dr. ben notes bring out the mischief then. I wonder if that was by spoiled ones? Too much for now

/I bet some patients want to return home from hosp without any fanfare.

/ bullying. Some movie called bully

/g says ams spoiled by entitlements

/ever a survey bout foreigners here being better workers, ils, same with gender, age, ethnic

/7 deadly sins: wrath, greed , sloth , pride , lust , envy , and gluttony. Ag: greed the only one to hold up

/TIME had a cover of breastfeeding may? 012

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/miami ink, ny ink, la ink

/hockey violence, soccer hoodlims

/la st racers on nat geo

/capital of kitsch

/how do women feel bout comments on st

/will allen author of good food rev. on cspan? With hoody type sweat shirt, baseball hat, sleeves rolled up to elbows. Ty of blks

/niall furgerson said eur u’s have been rubbish since ’68.

/Anchors Get Giddy Around The Crown By ALESSANDRA STANLEY

Why do American television anchors make spectacles of themselves when covering events that involve British royalty?

/critics didn’t like dirty harry, but public loved it. [had to make amends with magnum force?

/clint e was rep… but a social lib…

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Am’s tops in trash. Poor savers, obese, many run down menial labor,

/world is getting overweight. In the west 1/3^rd are. Guy on british panel was. You think. What a waste. Same with pawn stars

/bruce cutler as judge on tv

 / French Diplomat Accused by Wife of Raping Daughter

NEW DELHI–Indian police questioned a French diplomat after his wife alleged he had repeatedly raped their almost four-year-old daughter. 6/l6/l2 wsj

/skip: idiot abroad

/ http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702303410404577466662919275448.html?mod=WSJ_hp_mostpop_read

/search vows, foolish vows

/forgiveness is a morality play.

/even with hyenas making a kill at night, they keep switching from infared to nite vision

/verbally abusing parking enforcers

/outside the lh mall code of conduct [circle of respect] 6/l2 l5 pts.

/having your own sm biz is like having your own hm, blog, etc – independ…

/ex soldier said war so bad he never complained about anything since

Open shirt looks better with a t shirt underneath

/trashy

/repo with all the threats, fights shows you how far we’ve fallen

/gated communities sprang up in the 80s. said tv. Confirm it

/2 asian women touring shanghai. One a local, the other – probably an am of Asian descent. Lst one had the grace, manners, class. The am was put on, role playing, ….

/outdoor kit on tv – $$$. There are barbeque stores

/Wisconsin Killer Fed and Was Fueled by Hate-Driven Music By ERICA GOODE and SERGE F. KOVALESKI Wade M. Page, who the authorities said killed six people at a Sikh temple, was a white supremacist who performed in a racist rock band.

/fam is the least valuable thing, said sigorny weaver

/compromises: Normandy over on its side, then coop with mob? Got g sci after war for our rocket development. Let off some jap.. officers in turn for info on chem weapons? The new g and the old nazies. Using the mafia when taking over scicily. So compromise on abort…

/what animals did vs elvis.

/if they took all the ed bs: music, art, sports, esteem …. And taught a trade, grads could get a job

/3 day stubble – purina dog chow

/white castle had all kinds of regs for staff’s appearance etc. lst time I’ve seen such

/repo on tv. You wonder if we are civilized

/terrible language of blks on hardcore pawn. Lizard lick. Disturbing the peace, disorderly c….

/ladyboys as flight attendants in thai –

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6CRdqiW4p8A

/manners mean no ego

/gary spoon sent kids to pri sch as he wanted good kids

/guy talking to lausd In short pants,

/Hollywood plays to a younger aud and thus has to bring up sex: vamps, butterfield 8, pretty woman, a woman of pleasure with Catherine dunavev,

/search hand on crotch touching selves

/a city councilman was creating some problem. Chief of police and officer there to remove him. Sprayed and removed him. City had to pay him $65k. on tv

/bullying wasn’t an issue in sch for us

/polygamy when women are so monogamous.

/joe scarboro even ate while others were talking

/2 postal workers in short pants, shirt tails out. The weather wasn’t hot. One with baseball cap backwards with postal logo on it.

/jerry springer is inciting a riot on a minor scale. Fix

/peter Jennings said of some traffic problem out here, ‘during the whole day, not a single horn was blown’

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 / What Hong Kong Workers Really Want

Workers in Asia clock more hours on the job than any other continent, and with Hong Kong as one of Asia’s hardest-working places, a new survey says the city is sorely in need of better work-life balance.

/mingo didn’t know not to buy a new car. Go too. So maybe same for bing.

/dog the bounty hunter never mentions tradval, nor do all such programs

/as much vulgarity as possible re Asian beach or whatever – http://www.secondose.com/another-ordinary-day-at-the-beach-in-china/

/how many theaters have sec guards

/moto sent a dirty-seedy one to Kathy gerrard

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/ – trim till you get to huge am fatties at the end.

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/ Super cheap mex program with gal hanging out of her dress – couldn’t find it

/ fernada tapia of almohadazo el noti

/studio 2, larry hernanez – mex ch. Raunchy. Big t and a.

/madona in a outer bullet bra on ‘ellen’ . recent? l0/l2

/why not ratings for the most disgusting programs on tv. Idiot abroad

/big interrupter on morning squawk with betty quick

/lucky are the young couples that are natural without hangups. They can enjoy s….

/how does mika Brzezinski put up with insufferable joe scarborough obnoxious joe scarborough –

obnoxious joe scarborough

 or betty quick put up with the interrupter on morning squawk

/howard stern private parts. His bare rear outfit on tv

/if so much forgiveness, why have courts, jails, etc.

/discretion is the better part of valor.

/grace is …………under pressure

/forgive: comfort women, the disappeared, grudge, resolve?, vengeance

/luck is when prep meets op said the roman Seneca?

/jap: it’s the effort

/3 day ……. Fab.com

/images. Search stubble vs clean

/not r & r out of nowhere: swing, lindy?, boggie woogie, jitterbug

/faux ha hair style

/moto + in a contest to see who can go the lowest – some culture? eats turkey testicles. No wonder I didn’t have much in common with them in hi sch. You wonder if his bro, billy fell out due to this

/thinking that prayers and flying the flag makes a diff.

/sweet people are genuine

/you’re born with talent, but not integrity

/geo. Jefferson said something bout ‘if there isn’t love in it, skip it.’

/disorder in the court

/oc urology waiting rm: short pants on 3 guys in dec. longish gym shorts on a woman, kid and ma with shoes on furn. Woman in sweats

/forgiveness, amnesty

/sympathy is found between shit and syphilis

/whatever happened to clean cut

/strapping a xmas tree directly on top of a Mercedes

/male hair style brushed so it peaks in the middle.

/l000 cams at one casino vs big bro.

/the hair of latest mass murderer in newtown, conn, full throttle saloon,

/tell joe biden to forget his tragedy or Daniel inoye to grow a new arm.

/amish slaughter: tore down the sch, built new one. Same with other places. Sandy hook thinking of it. Library at columbine torn down and atrium built

/belt hanging down

/search dressed down culture

/see xmas

/ blk congresswoman with hat on in? congress – Frederica Wilson

/that slut jillian reynolds with the cleavage next to steve Edwards. She’s on some commercial

/I think in sch it was no gum

/is the sugar bowl gone from the breakfast table

/ever heard a spoiled kid or person thank anyone sincerely?

/that miserable greg gutlick? Said something about buggers boogers. Wow, I turned the ch. l/3?/l3

/huffington post headline l/5/l3: divided and pissed off

/too much concentration on heros, legendary …

/real housewives of NY, NJ? Really show the cul there. Real ones of Miami are bad. Of Atlanta – probably the same and blk. Bev hills?

/direct tv has a disgusting ad

/the hayes code for flix in 40s?ruff and abruptear from me. erelissimorewing?] scholarship to kansasas id looks up – endearing

/flic the jerk. Kid’s t-shirt says bull shit

/ ‘Amish Mafia’ is a shameful, unrealistic portrayal of plain people …

www.washingtonpost.com/…/amish–mafia…/dd10e6fe-3a68-11e2-b0…

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Nov 29, 2012 – New Discovery Channel show is latest mockery of the Amish and Mennonites, says a D.C. writer. Also: http://blurbrain.com/discovery-channel-amish-mafia-virtually-fake/

Pauline Phillips, Flinty Adviser to Millions as Dear Abby, Dies at 94 By MARGALIT FOX

With her comic, tart-tongued yet fundamentally sympathetic voice, Mrs. Phillips helped wrestle the advice column from its weepy Victorian past into a hard-nosed 20th-century present.

/terrible ad by direct tv j!!!!! disgusting !!!

/that statue of kid taking a leak. A Naughty Little Statue in Brussels Turns Into a Big Marketing Hit

This city is home to the NATO, the European Union and countless priceless works of art. But for promotion, Belgium’s capital increasingly turns to a tiny, misbehaving boy.

o Video: Belgian Statue Is Making a Splash

o Photos: Fun With the Manneken

 

/could you say smoking is vain, combing hair over the top?

/maybe some don’t have cc’s as they know they run em up

/motorcycles are vanity for some. Leather jackets too? Being in a biker club?

 Platform shoes, big hair, affectations

/why make fun of a limited guy with idiot abroad. Then send along a dwarf to, in effect, rub it in for the aud

/search pandering

/yani in china – in t shirt. Members of the band in blue jeans

The Land of the Binge By FRANK BRUNI With sequestration around the corner and bacon on every plate, America could use a dose of moderation.

/freedom within a framework – my rules?

/weapons screening at entrance to superior court here, pull out c phones? and all

/churchill’s quotes – http://jpetrie.myweb.uga.edu/bulldog.html

/harriet beecher stowe lost a child. Something about that giving her an deeper understanding of suffering which she …….her to write uncle tom’s cabin.

/idiot abroad.

/simplicity is the height of sophistication

/steve kroft on 60 min in sport coat over blue jeans 2/l3 but on tues nite

/rednecks with pants down showing 5” band of u wear. If we saw this in a for… country, we’d wonder what’s wrong with em. Animal control off had a piercing thru his brow

/michelle Obama now in bangs in the 2^nd terms.

/mailman: 4 day stubble, shirttail out. Hmless?

/dr ben stuff is sick; you don’t even want to know seniors spend time on this, much less guys you went thru school with

/some scenes from dirty dancing

/have gated comm’s grown due to decline of values

/infectiously calm = clint

/ The Brutality Cascade By DAVID BROOKS In some competitions, the most brutal player gets to set the rules

/l965 – sc strikes down laws banning contraceptives

/l973 – am psych assc drops homo… as a mental disorder

2003 – rules that sodomy laws are unconst…

/repo is cheapo

/search the am dream

/everyday looks like casual Friday

/eye place – scrubs and tennies

/dentist – assist had t shirt hanging out couple inches past his scrub top

Teaching empathy: 1 did they ever suffer 2 were there some who should have seen it. 3 those that did and did 0. 4 those that did? Accidentally stepping on a spider half way. Have someone stand on corner on one leg. Or the check out line get real long while staff is around

/Gloria alred said tiger woods should 1 take resp 2 aknowledge the wrong they’ve done to the person 3 make amends to that person

/ a world in which jeans and golf shirts are acceptable at the office, celebrities have to be reminded to cover themselves when appearing on the red carpet and the attire in airport terminals looks better suited to a track meet than to air travel

shoulder-padded power suits, windbreakers in neon colors and frizzy hair — not exactly a time that will be remembered for its classic elegance. One of the most polite things you can do for other people is to dress nicely, because you’re not being an eyesore. I sometimes see guys with jeans, flannel, and baseball caps at the symphony in l.b. like they just rolled out of bed or looking like they were cleaning out the garage or coming from the gym. .

/the old ads show how the times have changed – status of women, drs rec brands of cigs, baby drinking 7up,

/bouncers at clubs said dressier crowds are more cooperative

/much of reality? Tv is made up of several cameramen, soundmen, drummers and men to keep jerking the cameras all around , switching cams, zooming, panning, jumping cheap tricks to make everything worse.

/why I ran. Should be required in schools, jails, etc. same? With I almost got away with it. And runaway squad. Animal prescient

/all standing when arguing on steve wilkos

/ag: raised on trophies and entitlements

/said she didn’t lead with her chest, but look how she dressed on a big date

/never hold the camera still

/house hunting in rome down beautiful narrow alleys with graffiti on the walls.

/wsj, 7/25/l3 what really happens when you flush on an airplane

/scaring people to death. Probably on am’s funniest hm vids

/around the world in 80 days. Condescending? Too staged

/all these have to talk macho: secret service, all mil, swat teams

/Google Glass: An Etiquette Guide

/storage wars: out to celebrate. She dresses up. He puts on his black shorts with a t-shirt

/pi cg’s vs am cg’s

/ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/An_Idiot_Abroad search ‘cruel’ torture, etc. I don’t believe this – ag. The guy has no int in this. Set up. Guys at hm pull strings. Poor guy

/g said am is so individualistic that it’s loneliness is worse – spec for foreigners as in pi all know all.

/time mag has had as man of the year: hitler, stalin?

man of the year 1938

And person of the year:

/insensitivity toward filming animals in the wild. Elephant and vehicle with cam

/jerk camera, everyone yelling and panting, drumbeat and other spec effects

/2500 episodes of maury – so cheap. = mma

/sweetness is unassuming and in no way egotistical

/ India Needs a Sexual Revolution How to stop the constant harassment? Change the country’s puritanical culture.

/ the American Dream. It promises equal opportunities and the chance for everyone to prosper through hard work.

/how much law breaking goes on during repo, springer,

How many deplorable destructive tactics on murray

/traditional secular values . wow. Sig

/tv: it only hurts when I laugh. Injuries. Had one baby being terrified

/wearing baseball cap backwards –

why wear baseball cap backwards

/ to k and smit? a  3 day stubble,   shirttail out, tattoos,  piercings, that dumb faux hair style with little puffs sticking up, scruffy jeans bunched up around sockless tennies,  and you chew gum, are loud, unwashed,  razzle dazzle, with dumb patronizing jokes.   Also LOUD country-western music, bawdy stuff on the walls, and bawdy tales of all the 12 step programs and encounter groups you’re in as a ‘seeker of truth.’    Work into this the redneck TV you’re watching – repo, maury, jerry springer, duck dynasty, lizard lick towing and hillbilly handfishing.  – – – – -#

Baseball cap backwards. Cameras jerking

/program red eye with greg gutnek?

/howard stern on am’s got talent? With leather coat, shades, hair, and probably smart aleck comments

/bud krogh: convicted felon, 4 marriages, yet man of the year at principia

/search by some men wear a hat on tv

/’rotten tomatoes’ is some sort of review of flix. It’s title = 0 and ty of hippies

/is smoking vanity?

/worker at best buy has a quarter sized disk in each ear lobe

/a town in nj made kids pull their pants up, said don imus

/gal with natural eyebrows on tv looked sooo much better. Search natural eyebrows

/the redneck-ization of am

/some new series called honey boo boo …… on tv. Kid blows a fart

/accepted in thai for men in hi positions to have young girlfriends, said net

/ saggy pants –

http://www.google.com/#output=search&sclient=psy-ab&q=pull+pants+up+new+jersey&oq=pull+pants+up+new+jersey&gs_l=hp.3…2118.11496.0.11895.24.24.0.0.0.0.173.3143.0j24.24.0….0…1c.1.19.psy-ab.PFLjfWlpuy8&pbx=1&bav=on.2,or.r_qf.&bvm=bv.48705608,d.aWc&fp=994b2b8ade8365e&biw=1280&bih=628

/m sent ans mach msg or maroochydore hi sch, queensland, oz disputed? Hoax? –

http://www.google.com/#gs_rn=19&gs_ri=psy-ab&pq=maroochydore%20high%20school%20snopes&cp=25&gs_id=d&xhr=t&q=maroochydore+high+school+in+queensland+australia&es_nrs=true&pf=p&sclient=psy-ab&oq=maroochydore+high+school+&gs_l=&pbx=1&bav=on.2,or.r_qf.&bvm=bv.48705608,d.aWc&fp=994b2b8ade8365e&biw=1280&bih=628

/far too much razzle in describing k-pop. How to get the teen market

/naked and afraid

/Art That Turns Both Heads and Stomachs By ERIK PIEPENBURG Seeking thrills in entertainment that makes us faint, swoon or vomit.

/ California did not repeal its sodomy law until 1976

/lizard lick towing, guy picked up cycle, fell off, friend came, pushed friend down, friend helped, pushed him down again 7/l3

/farmers ins: clean shaven older guy, sport coat, tie, vest and …………..JEANS 7/l3

/tv: the art of bout graffiti as art. Oh boy

/world’s fair like the Olympics?

/animals doing a bump. M Jackson with jockey strap, and crotch grab. Vs elvis

/ben moto sends around eth stuff, but not the ones about the comfort women

/nat geo: bad @ss animals

 /Europe Walks Fine Line With Lawsuits

Some businesses are worried that as the foundation for class-action lawsuits spreads around Europe, the culture of litigiousness and big damage awards prevalent in the U.S. could follow.

/mike rowe + saying ‘pissed off’ 8/l3

/hooligan TV: outlaw bikers – with the lo voice

/redneck TV

/we used to save wrapping paper

/so bch tow is the worst

/the growing lack of empathy in the cul said a guy on fox news

/vals down, less empathy, more macho guns.

/scaring hell out of people on tv, probably utube

/larry the cable guy. Off color

/street heat high speed justice

/la street racers?

/ author of THIS TOWN said the shouting matches on cable

/has anyone written anything against tats

/dumb facial foliage, spec effects, cam tricks, bleeping out ….., yelling,

/amish mafia – designed by jerry springer?

/spoiled kids more prone to hurt pets? Ag

/south beach tow, lizard lick towing, repo,

/hard core pawn was in Detroit. another branch in chi

/values at annual picnics: boats, fluff, not health

/tv exploits people on maury, jerry springer, amish mafia

/we’re tuff on ils but let our people do anything: live off welfare, going around in saggy pants, ….

/am. Slang. Narrator has terrible hair

/mistreating each other makes it easier to mistreat animals

/gator boys on tv. Also bad ink

/pets on the couch

/gills said st parks have gone to the dogs

/tattoos: juries will be less sym….. employers

/loud car sound sys are rude, but also distracting, thus should be ill. More so for seniors

/few or no mentions of what the animal must be going thru on tv: crocs, snakes, Wildman,

/kardashians – cheap: kim doing some moves in vegas while bruce gets his colon….

/Roberta graham had terrible time with hired help. Olders didn’t know computers, youngers were lazy.

/sex saved ………… and sure helped g

/ program? Called lottery changed my life

/how can walmart let their staff go around in tight clothes

/kind of felt sorry for itty bitty Asian worker putting things into bags

/tommy lee goes to c

/the Nairobi trio

/youth suicides: bullying not discouraged by j springer, mauray, wipe out, most shocking?, dumbest criminals?

Callous , desensitizing shows

/ea day is the lst day of the rest of your life

/masturbation lessens sex crimes? Ag

/operation repo: pushing, spraying, 2 guys on the ground….. mayhem. Why do we have cops. Muscular guy , bald, on continual ego trip.

/l.a. street racers – program. Glorifies it. indulges having stolen cars, adrenalin rush, burn outs, donuts, were in gangs, addicted to speed, [blurred their faces but ….]

/long star legend – on tv. Blond guy with black 3 day or beard

/search punish success

/ginger? – the shape on gilligans island = trash

/from all the moto mail, it seems our youth sure ate out a lot more than I did.

/search forgiveness

/

https://www.google.com/#q=definition+of+a+sweet+person

/search punish success

/what people say they want and want in the long run are diff: mcdonald’s mclean burgers were sot. Flopped big time. If people wait more than 5 min in a drive thru, they’ll never come back. [so why not have those without accents?]

/forgive and forget so you can later have ptsd

/ forgive –

https://www.google.com/#q=forgiveness&undefined=undefined

/blue laws: no stores open on sun

/those who tell you to forget it, trivialize it

/some delight in bad moments for others: ben: models in heels falling. Wipe out, talk soup, world’s dumbest, fear factor? Other people’s misfortunes. Laughing at people getting hurt.

/freedom, resp, spoiling a kid,

/kmart’s ad jingle balls –

/imagine hutch’s folks – how they must have felt about their grandkids

/before political correctness, unpoped kernels of popcorn were called old maids and spinsters. Tv

/569 variations of the f word in the wolf of wall st. about Jordan Belfort – an all time record

/spoiled: billy carter. Those who spoil selves: cris Farley, j balushi, whitney housten

/pete seeger – conscience of a nation. Oh boy. Was also in the commie party

/scofflaws

/search why wear baseball cap backwards or to the side

/mrs. Faulkner said when they came back from eur, no one wanted to work

/page on net of girls that sure looked under age.

/3 day stubbles, tattoos, piercings, torn jeans, tufted hair on men that sticks up, scruffiness, people on TV taking GIANT mouthfuls of food and chewing with great effort

/even jo’s kids wished they’d lived in the 50s

/failure is the fire that forges the steel for success. Marble helped me

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Pridham:   We are in a sense, prisoners in our own home because of the needed care that Mom requires just to survive.  We can’t leave our home unless there is someone her to watch over her that can give her the same loving treatment that we would give.

But we wouldn’t trade our situation for anything.  She is my mother and both Camy and I love her.  She is our responsibility; not the responsibility of the government nor a “professional staff” of ‘care givers’ (who would not be caregivers if it were not for the paychecks they receive for their services).

One last thought.  When Mom came to live with us, we had (up till that time) a nominal friendship with many Muslims.  When they found out that Mom had come to live with us their attitude toward us changed remarkably.  They were extra friendly and somewhat amazed at what we had done.

You see, the world looks to the U.S. as a great land of financial opportunity, but very few want to come to America to become “Americans”.  They want the American dollar then “get out”.  The perception of Americans by the rest of the world is that they don’t want their elderly “hanging around” any more.  They don’t want a Grandpa or Grandma living with the family to have their wisdom and input into their grandchildren.  They don’t want their children to see their grandparents getting older and feeble and die.  To the rest of the world, growing old and dying are as natural as a new birth and living.  But all this takes place within the family life.

We, as Americans, should be ashamed of the way we have turned against the elderly and toward the unborn baby.

But, that’s America of the 21st century as perceived by the world.  It’s no wonder, in one sense, why we are hated by most foreigners.  We have become a most selfish and uncaring society.  We give our money – but not ourselves and that simply won’t cut it.

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/charming natural girls of l3 on boat with fam with ceasar milan. Kids to be crazy about.

/ Video: Thrift Store Shame, Then Pride Clare Connaughton, a high school student from Mineola, N.Y., reads from her college application essay about how shopping at thrift stores with her mother has gone from necessity to cherished pastime. Related Article

/why wear baseball cap backwards

/ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forgiveness

Forgiveness is different from

/condoning (failing to see the action as wrong and in need of forgiveness),

/excusing (not holding the offender as responsible for the action),

/pardoning (granted by a representative of society, such as a judge),

/forgetting (removing awareness of the offense from consciousness), and

/reconciliation (restoration of a relationship).^[1]

 

In certain contexts, forgiveness is a legal term for absolving or giving up all claims on account of debt, loan, obligation or other claims.^[4][5]

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/feel good is somehow similar to forgiveness.

/catcher in rye how to doc that you have never grown up and ensure that you don’t

/brokaw – jr hi stus, flashlights –

https://www.google.com/#q=brokaw+korean+students+flashlights

Sagging pants:

http://forajulproductions.com/metropolitan-etiquette-authority-signs-of-civility-hitting-the-streets/

/search new car every year

/ the 50s – a time when the performers were happy, enjoying themselves, respecting their fans, dressed appropriately and their lyrics could be understood.
They did not feel obligated to scream, eat the microphone, mumble inaudible lyrics or trash the set.
/the rock, Dwayne Johnson, was being booed, couldn’t be creative. Then allow to be bad guy, did, and became an overnight success. In flic with Michael Clarke Duncan – huge blk guy

/The Habits of Highly Annoying People

/the 90s decade: bad report: tupac shakir, rapper killed by …. Vanilla ice is a disgusting rapper, so is ice cube. Tonya harding was a big fake said connie chung. She came in 8^th, nancy Kerrigan won the silver. Tonya’s ex hit her knee [and got what penalty?] the skating assoc said tonya knew of it [before?] and barred her for life. Pac man, vcr, macrona,

/we didn’t put our feet on the furn, or sit on the back of bus stops, or sit on the ground,

/count the number times they switch cameras. Notice the spec effects – often a drumbeat

/marriage at first sight? Naked and afraid

/you learn vals from sports, scouts, Sunday sch, ….

/what gills said bout the wash mon…. in d.c. sick. Like web soup. No one wants to hear that or even learn that anyone would think like that? what about all the obelisks in Egypt

/gills, m, – the farther out it is, the more they buy into it

/ la sch disc., etc – there’s a higher offense of “battery” which goes to city

/community rather than school officials. and of course even higher offenses such as assault is handled by police. fighting may be scuffling – pushing around etc…it’s up to the police officer to determine the level of violence

/harm involved.

/evil and heros

/poise of brit commentators on bbc

/ all the swings are being removed from Richland schools.  Richland, Washington.  The insurance companies have been lobbying for it because they are causing too many injuries and the injuries are costing the insurance companies too much money

/you don’t call people names: fatty, retard, short …? 4 eyes, punk, dummy, freak, gimp,

/tv: parking lady says they can curse her, but not the cops

/ tv little fockers – a flic with d’niro and lorna dern

/Anthony bourdain parts unknown. Could he ever tuck his shirt in. and wear something besides super scruffy jeans?

/to jo: Times are diff… things better and worse and I should know, but I get sick of so many of our schoolmates being sour grapes about the youth and times.

/ag: farm kids probably have lower dj and better mh due to wk ….

/far as I know ims don’t go around with pants so low their underwear shows

/something on tv about shared …… young gals with married sugar daddies

/naked and afraid, live free or die, legend of mike ……

Live below zero?

/ Most sexually satisfied country: Switzerland
Switzerland might just be the most progressive and least sexually repressed country in the world. Between liberal views on pornography and prostitution, and sex ed that starts in Kindergarten, over a fifth of the population consider their sex-lives “excellent.” They even recently opened up a very successful array of tax-funded drive-in sex boxes in Zurich . Bonus, in spite of all this, Switzerland also holds the title as one of the lowest teen birth rates in the world.

/what did I learn from sea scouts, sch, cg, sports,

/is it lust when you’re with your wife?

/ the real program with blk bitches. How they talk – worse than any redneck

/tonight show with jimmy fallon – had a vulgar rap band. Guy in orange leather jacket kept grabbing his crotch

/the little guy is patriotic cause that’s all he has

/teamwork, hygene, attire, grooming,

/vals for cr: intuition

/unskilled work is now menial and demeaning

/pawn stars: dumb corry shot his dad with a bazooka toy. I turned channel. Later came back. black eye and still the bazooka

/moto takes cute, sentimental stuff then craps on it

/still after gays in the early 60s. wow. dean rusk said they don’t have? em in the st dept

Apa said it was mh. Shock ther…. Stonewall- l969. 4 yrs later apa took it off the list of mh.

 

/ Video: Johnny T on ‘Manspreading’

The viral video star Johnny T, from the Glove and Boots YouTube channel, talks to The New York Times about “manspreading,” the bane of many New York City subway riders.

Related Article

/taking one’s family for a wk in Tuscany. Dj to Italy – didn’t like it

/this xmas – tons of feel good in the media

/staying out of debt and

/earning $ just to pay bills is blood money

/some schmates get so much out of schmaltz – flag, auld lang zine, mil, plaques at sch – also bear, cars, naked women, raunch, radio city m hall, vegas,

/I notice the chubbies coming thru the check out country were buying the sugary stuff

/the queen of versaille

/paternity court terrible whiney nasty yelling voice raised way up of judge

Disgrace & insult to judicial sys and vals. Banchi , putting on a big show. Ego, rant, bitch lauren lake. Tabloid talk – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lauren_Lake’s_Paternity_Court street talk, should have never been given a bench or even a case

/polygamy. polyandry –

polyandry

/$35,000 per nite for a hotel rm.

/simplicity is the ultimate sophistication

/baggage with j springer. Disgusting

/the arts: art, sculpt, music, dance, pix, writing, flix, tv?

/ even a poor person can be spoiled

/we could walk to sch safely at jefferson vs

/polygamy considered slavery by the fed gov. sig

/lisa ling? On tv re sugar babies & sugar daddies

/search youth worship

/courage is doing what you’re afraid to do. Me using self-disc and self control to do what

/I can’t see marriage at this stage. Too restricting. Too much about betrayal, cheating …

/when young schools didn’t have to have live in guards

/never explained french kissing.

/appreciate this country more re curbs, sidewalks, overcrowded motobikes etc of ….

/how sub teaching declined for me

/some of moto’s stuff – unbelievable schmaltz over funeral. I guess that how some people fight their battles.

/little girl scouts in f & e were secure, calm, CLEAN-cut, natural, well-behaved, polite, not figeting – so refreshing, you rarely see kids like that.

/search british tradition of fair play

/super clean subway stations and train in Moscow. Sig

/

Op-Ed | Pamela Druckerman

Decoding the Rules of Conversation

By PAMELA DRUCKERMAN

The French love to land zingers. The British live in the land of irony. And Americans? It’s all about reassurance.

/tv: acid thrown on girl. [Odette said could have happened to me]

/blk muslims

/ capitalism’s core values: discipline, education, work habits, thrift, prudence, adherence to routine, and the relation between effort and reward’

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No Kids for Me, Thanks NYT Now

Whether you call it a “childless” life or going “child-free,” it represents a demographic shift.

/our youth was less permissive, trophies, entitled, stu loans

/someone else that ….. b. trembley

/search how many movies have the underlying theme of sex

Journey

/does einsurance on tv have something about kick-ass

/if we forgive gunman at Charleston, then why have a trial, let him go

/why are baseball caps worn backwards or to the side . dup? –

baseball caps

Why do some guys wear stocking caps indoors

Why do band members wear hats

Why do blacks wear hats indoors

/search polygamy in other countries. Also female polygamy

 

Disillusioned: The Long Decline of Trust in Government, and Why That Can Be Patriotic

/go thru 7 deadly sins and l0 comm…

/new Louisiana law: fine anyone sagging their pants

/guys with worst voices narrating the running of the bulls. They legitimize it.

What Are the Consequences of Our Cultural Obsession With Newness?

Siddhartha Deb and Anna Holmes discuss what we gain and lose in the onrush of the new.

 

/ we used to teach kids manners, but got the idea it was wrong [in 60s]

/ sr yr costs at palos verdes penisual hi sch 0l4-0l5: colle apps and visits – about 5k prome, hmcm, wijter formal l460, pest prfep and fees 980, grad 853, teacher giftgs 365, senior pix 300, hrbk ll2, other 5860 [but no ring] total l4,882 la times 7/l5

/ polyandry

/2 sisters or twin girls around 21 on antigue rd show. Wholesome farm types. Sounded same, finished ea other sentences. Decent, well-manered with tiffany lamp. Went on about bot for $200 and told it was no tiff…. Appraiser interjected , told details, then said worth 80k-l25k. their faces clouded together and they began crying. They appraiser hugged em. Nothing cuter, sweeter.

/in civil right movement they were dressed up [and got beat up]

/k pop etc – CLEAN vs return of motely crew

/slouching toward gamorrah, closing of the am mind by bloom?

/sch disc is far more important than sch prayer

/

https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=what+do+parents+tell+their+out+of+wedlock+kids

Search same for shotgun marriage kids

/should be proper courtoom attire, decorum, big bad d

/rocky music to the new world trade center is TACKY

/homework hotline on tv – a teacher in blue jeans

/ Woman Hears Over 100 Cat Calls Walking Through NYC mostly blk? In

Hollaback ! is a harassment awareness grp http://www.ihollaback.org/

/seeing moks or anyone being kept alive when no right to die

/don’t be tardy – miss implants

/lot of women wearing hair long, natural luster ….. nice l0/l5

/ on cops sometimes they keep moving the cam

/picket never forgave Robert e lee for ordering the charge.

/feisel never forgave l of arabia

/tv: am’s most badass

/bowling for columbine

/drums before dawn in Griffith park, continuing for hrs. la times ll/6/l5

/search every year a new car

/kim fields, blk child start, now blond – terrible

/reciprocity vs handouts

/does any grp make movies without tons of smoking?

/Vaughn meader’s the first family

/why do blacks wear hats indoors

/married at first sight should be illegal

/foreigners seem to be more genuine

/the very human repairmen – some guy who checked something at my hse after the fire, saying it was too bad, you don’t need to start the new yr this way.

 art loya who wanted my tel lines in so I could rent rms and loved my empty garage which his wife would love.

/some foreigners seem more real

/ Good judgment comes from experience, and experience comes from bad judgment.

/in the old days schools didn’t have live in security staff

/sweet people have no concern with ego, ostentation

/debbie boone – put on. Implants?

Married at lst sight – ever in your life heard of a worse idea? Should be illegal. Playing with other people’s lives. Think of the legal implications

Words I don’t want coming to my blog: badass, ass, ass…, cunt, twat, pussy,

/how much $ does Singapore save by banning gum

/that society celebrates jim Harrison ! for his poetry, fiction, reviews, and writings about food is beyond me.

https://www.google.com/search?q=jim+harrison&biw=1376&bih=501&source=lnms&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjC1dn14e3JAhWGbD4KHcKJA90Q_AUIBigA&dpr=2.5

2 yrs older and a WRECK

/search what % of tabloid stories were proven true

/sweetness – means no ego, vanity, … they are genuine, consistent – like a kid

/foreign tour guides or whatever dressed up, ams who interview them are not, nor as polite

/the person who glosses over a wrong is worse than the wrongdoer. No reality, empathy, compassion, humanity. No justice, blame the victim, let it eat him alive and lose faith in people and the system and rel too shows you what rel can do

/ ted cruz spoke of NY values.

/sul: sbfj = sweet boneless fucking jesus tmi = too much info

/purpose of marriage is kids. Not nec

/ma would say some stay just within the law

/if people spent as much on healthy as they do on food, they’d be ahead

/snoop dog was with Martha stewart? He was with cloie

/no white knows what it’s like to be black, Hispanic…… etc animals, blood sports, pets, ims, prost, poor, lgbt,

/be flex: Nimitz + made mistakes and were adjusted for

/palin’s moustache

/they don’t run debates right, nor the trump rallies. Cops looked asleepe

/your work is one of the least disappointing parts of life, said betty davis

/some film reviewer named ‘rotten tomatoes’

/to ape the ignorant, lowest common denominator

/search values that have changed

/like many celebrities, prince died without a will

/setting people up for conflict , jerry springer, should be a crime

/homework hotline ……………pony tail ….

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/ * Japan prevents the use of mobile phones in trains, restaurants and indoors.

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* For first to sixth primary year Japanese students must learn ethics in dealing with people.
* Even though one of the richest people in the world, the Japanese do not have servants. The parents are responsible for the house and children.
* There is no examination from the first to the third primary level because the goal of education is to instill concepts and character building.
* If you go to a buffet restaurant in Japan you will notice people only eat as much as they need without any waste because food must not be wasted.
* The rate of delayed trains in Japan is about 7 seconds per year!!
The Japanese appreciate the value of time and are very punctual to minutes and seconds.
* Children in schools brush their teeth (sterile) and clean their teeth after a meal at school, teaching them to maintain their health from an early age.
* Japanese students take half an hour to finish their meals to ensure proper digestion

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/those who believe in self-reliance: Mormons, rural, search

/search hat on indoors cap on indoors blacks and hats

/world’s deadliest catch: young guys started, made big $ and blew it on cars +.

/$63 mil proposed for hi sch football stadium in tex. 2 others already built for 60? mil each 5/l6 tv

/ I’ll never go on a cruise. They are only floating hotels. Such tinsel. No interest in vegas either – the capital of kitsch. Also super luxury fine dining.

I also hate ‘feel-good’ and stupid movies. I love to hate. Did I leave anything out? Blood sports, rodeos, special Olympics as well the Olympics

/re collection = mostly pablum: smile, heart, good deed, prayer, nerves, rest, ad nausium

https://www.google.com/search?q=people+take+too+big+a+bite&biw=1232&bih=709&source=lnms&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwi88Lrm0vrMAhUL42MKHcSpA4sQ_AUIBSgA&dpr=1.8#q=manners+too+big+a+bite

/

/no divorce in pi. What about for protestants

/Nixon didn’t like all in the family?

/search how common is open marriage –

https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=how+common+is+open+marriage

/bot a new car every yr

/even if you have too much in your room, to have it orderly rm is good for moral.

/how diff societies treat beggars

/no empathy means no credit

/time does not heal all wounds. Forgive, revenge,

/to afremov: few things in life touch it’s depth like your art – dr. zhivago, rodin, Irene pappas, russell crowe, brando, it’s vital to those of us who feel and think deeply. eternal thanks

  Anthony quinn? Heston? ——————– – – – https://afremov.com/help.php?section=contactus&mode=sent&keep_https=yes

/good seats for ‘hamilton’ in NY are over $800 6/l6

/we had sugar bowls on the breakfast table

/forgiveness flies in the face of justice. Ag

/ http://simpleandrefinedwoman.blogspot.com/2015/08/steps-to-becoming-elegant-woman.html

/you don’t often find adults who are as sweet as kids

/why these big: cats, ….Virginia wolfe, plot of the grad…, man of la mancha

/will Viagra make you LUST? Could this be the work of ……..SATAN ? !!!!

/hero rides into rome in big procession. On chariot with slave holding a golden crown and whispering all glory is fleeting –

https://www.google.com/search?q=conqueror

/80s the decade that made us. Our pop culture influenced the world: It went to ussr and marked the beginning of the end.

/defining deviancy downward – monyhan?

/I didn’t mean to interrupt you by talking

/guy in casket wearing a baseball cap – looks blk

/search how long it take to develop good work habits

/I heard some women buy a dress, wear it, take it back.

/when young cops didn’t have to wear bullet proof vests. In eng the cops didn’t carry guns

/everything happens for a reason

/prof sailor gave me 2 b’s I might not have deserved

/ people hate hippies –

https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=people+hate+hippies

/ vidangel –

https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=vidangel

cleans up flix

/cap punishment – morality play

/dinner is lunch and supper is the eve meal

/who gets hired: grubby or clean cut. Seach pic

/how do clubs, places discourage riff raff

/fake casting agents, etc

/cloriformed and killed. What about snuff killings, rapes

/debates not run right again l0/6/l6 brits ++ could do it better

/

https://www.google.com/search?q=list+of+traits+of+an+educated+person&biw=1070&bih=594&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjJhsGwrcnPAhUQ92MKHRYbD7EQ_AUIBigB#imgrc=_

/sweet – pets, kids, innocence, genuine goodwill

/live in security guards at schools – in trailers

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/slutcast. Sleep assault,

/the first l00 days of a new pres

/shark said don’t mistake my kindness for weakness

/tv has tons of oddballs, hair, etc,

/bing crosby’s fam – tons of problems. 2 of his boys commited suicide.

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Lw: sec 40 of 3^rd –

CONTRACTOR’S CONDUCT: Member’s contractor’s, their personnel, and sub-contractors shall refrain at all times from using profanity, abusive or loud language, and must wear shirts at all times. Radio, MP3, CD or cassette players are not permitted on the project site. Contractor personnel will, at all times, extend and exhibit a courteous demeanor to residents.

/desire under the elms

/spendor in the grass – the flic in which the ma told the teen women don’t enjoy it

/target – clean and NOOOOOOOOOOOO music. [gum on front walk]

/search 2- 3 things you don’t talk about

/Claire bloom had natural eyebrows

/c. chaplin pushed simplicity

/viceland and fusion = underworld?, substrata – hats and hoodies on. Affected speech. eating around table with hats on, gross table manners, dumb clothes

/when’s the last time you hears of clean-cut. Take off your outdoor jacket and hat

/excess at the tomb of the unknowns is too much

/obits in register with add ons for flowers that look like part of the details of the services

/take on the energy + spent on death and spend it on life. Sandy’s funeral

/lot of ims have better values than the sa click

/couples on tv holding hands

/couples sitting next to ea other at dinner parties

/ infantilization of america

/some will even protest at a funeral

/Nimitz, sailor and others were flex etc. with

/talk show titans

/spoil – helen keller

/pix on bing are dirty, same subject on chrome, pix are clean

/town halls – screaming, booing, interrupting

/steve wilkos …….

/apologies need compensation

/the Robert Irvine show with biceps

/kids sitting on stop of desks in sch

/giving parking patrol tons of gaff

/fred goldman says there is no closure

/sweetest possible fam with one pre-teen and another young teen girl adopting a hedgehog. How could you love your kids more. Geat job of raising em. Not often seen, and never on tv. Wholesome.

/my cat from hell

/billy the exterminator. There was some other kook to that …..

/nyt, 4/l7 : As suburban malls fall to online retailers, the challenge is to ensure that remaining jobs and new ones are better than those that are lost.

/parking wars

/religion as a tradval – past. As many get by without

/bot v recorder which wanted a charger. Bot, didn’t need it. the r was too complex etc. sent back. On net to find best. @@@@@@@@ again. To bb. They didn’t know products, bot one, complex check out, complex way to get it out of package in car. Apparently you have to turn it on after ……min. then when you press r, it waits 3 secs before beep and r. model x560 was l00, down to 79. Most recent?

/rotten tomatoes

/in 50s nice girls didn’t color their hair. Then Clairol. Does she or doesn’t she

/curiosity, energy, persistence, imagination bring luck

/nyc subways used to have cushioned seats

/grudges –

https://www.google.com/search?rlz=1C2PQHB_enUS688US688&site=&source=hp&q=holding+a+grudge&oq=holding+a+grudge&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0l4.1337.5824.0.6758.16.16.0.0.0.0.153.1379.14j2.16.0….0…1.1.64.psy-ab..0.16.1378…0i131k1.p7Ha6YMHfyQ

/forgiveness – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forgiveness

/compassion – a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering

/shit bands – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=Violence+Band&FORM=IRIBEP

/pow’s know what the flag is. at end of wwii? One was in bad shape [as they were liberated?] he asked him buddies to stand him up. They did. He saluted the flag. The next day he died.

Ask ims what the flag is. not this banty rooster hannity

/l0/l7 it’s about time –

https://www.google.com/search?rlz=1C2PQHB_enUS688US688&source=hp&q=ban+list+of+items+at+protests&oq=ban+list+of+items+at+protests&gs_l=psy-ab.3…4062.12103.0.13229.30.29.0.0.0.0.154.2655.24j5.29.0….0…1.1.64.psy-ab..1.27.2478.0..0j46j0i131k1j0i46k1j0i10k1j0i22i10i30k1j0i22i30k1j33i22i29i30k1j33i21k1j33i160k1.0.cHTaJaM28co

/nat parks may raise fees. So I sent: Charge away. People should have to pay for their pleasure. National parks should be run by the private sector. Loud mufflers shouldn’t be allowed, nor ghetto blasters.

At Irvine regional park here in orange country, the ‘rangers?’ that take admission fees wear their uniforms as if they were drapped over them.

Many things have been ‘dumbed down.’ That’s all there was in my years iin social work.

/ national park services facebook page –

national park services facebook page

/baseball cap indoors, backwards, to the side – ea step lowers your iq

/girls wore loose gym pants in our day. Now skin tight at sahs during alumni day

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=why%20do%20african-americans%20wear%20hats%20indoors&qs=n&form=QBRE&sp=-1&pq=why%20do%20african-americans%20wear%20hats%20indoors&sc=0-42&sk=&cvid=0950C2CF99E04DB5AE8E9D269F3F238A

/worshipping the mil

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=dressed-down+culture&form=EDNTHT&mkt=en-us&httpsmsn=1&refig=3d111331851843d6efef36bf1eac2beb&sp=-1&pq=dressed-down+culture&sc=1-20&qs=n&sk=&cvid=3d111331851843d6efef36bf1eac2beb

 

/search fast food costs more than eating at hm

/empathy and dogs’ tails

/some place they make you marry your rapist

/no undershirts here so far

/tired of seeing terrible table manners on tv

/who’s afraid of Virginia woolf – the sickest plot summary I’ve ever read. Reminded me of the lion in winter.

/ I wonder what I love you, alice b Toklas was about. Quick look at sum: stupid

/jesus Christ superstar, godspell, hair, oh Calcutta, the greening of am. sidartha, Johnathan Livingston seagull, billy jack, easy rider,

/mc vals vs wc vals etc.

Forgive

Start a file for this?

https://www.google.com/search?rlz=1C2PQHB_enUS688US688&source=hp&ei=nbHgWqbVAoSyjwPhnq3gBw&q=misconstrued+forgiveness&oq=misconstrued+forgiveness&gs_l=psy-ab.3…1535.16929.0.17394.36.30.2.2.2.0.708.2703.21j4-1j0j1.23.0….0…1c.1.64.psy-ab..9.24.2504…0j0i131k1j0i10k1j0i22i30k1j33i160k1.0.ciYycKHTQf8

/larry king, evander holifield?

//forgive: excuse, pardon, acquit, exonerate

vs blame, condemn

/magnanimous: forgiving, big hearted, charitable, generous

/forgiveness and guilt and introspection

/forgiveness vs magnanimity. magnanimous – forgiving, big hearted, altruistic.

/you own a bank, big loan unpaid. Forgive it? keep doing it, hurts your bank and all your customers that did pay back their loans.

/when did some work become ‘menial’?

/muslim? Who washed his feet in sink next to me

/am’s get a tv or appliance as a matter of course. Poor ims value such. This couple

/disgrace – http://bestteensex.net/

https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=do+not+expectorate&FORM=HDRSC3 /

/the more outside, the less inside

/guy with dumb hair – Giorgio A. Tsoukalos

 

/search def of lust

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/nyt story by Walter Thompson-Hernández 1/27/l8

 

 

 

/ https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=saggy+pants&FORM=HDRSC2

 

Face Tattoos Go Mainstream Until recently, even among tattoo aficionados, the face was a canvas of last resort when the rest of the body was covered. By STEVEN KURUTZ

/steve Hilton – sport coat over t shirt

 

/rick Harrison of pawn stars: customer 9/22?/l8 brot in something, wanted 1k, rick knew it was worth more, said he couldn’t live with himself for that little, called in someone to appraise it.

Did he do something like this before? I think so. like the pickers who donated the dinasour bone.

/ https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=shallowness&qs=n&form=QBIRMH&sp=-1&pq=shallowness&sc=8-11&sk=&cvid=73888BB1EC1C46098F9F39C584D091E7

 

https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=Superficiality&FORM=IRMHRE

 

/fun vs happy, fulfilled – tj, the grp

/what’s so good about st car named desire his other plays: cat on a hot tin roof., night of the iguana?

/Asians dress better, tuck shirts in?, fewer short pants, end of oct. better as tourists?

/all you need is a makeover

/boys save on using microwave, but …….but a new car

/howard stern, tommy lee.

/on one hand our decline, on the other, great praise for mil, youth, sports …..what else

/punish success

/award shows: Oscars, grammys, tonys, golden globes – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_awards

/ingratitude is the cardinal sin Truman?

/pop, fun, appearances, witty, say right things, festive, no waves

/greg gutfeld, with tyrus and the odd blond.

/Sport jacket over t-shirt

/$ on chest and not on face and neck

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Headband, ponytail, hairstyle, slouch, ya know, dreds, table manners, on tv, slang

Job interview, relax – be natural

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To minorities, lgbt, youth, and others.

If you want to give yourself an advantage: take off your outdoor jacket when going indoors, and your dark glasses. Men, take off your HAT.

=============== = = = =

/casual Friday at the er

/have to be an idiot to get on tv – Giorgio A. Tsoukalos

/do we need rap music as a background to everything

/shameful

/5/l8/l9 – nyt – British reality tv is a theater ok cruelty

/you go to bing for pix of little girls of japan….. scroll …then some without clothes. How offensive !!!

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Decline of vals,

———– – – for blog5l

liberal vs conservative

homeless solutions

bad neighborhood

american characteristics

how the news works

poverty myths

privatization

education myths

religious scandals

idealistic americorps

living in slums

mental health system

political extremes

social work myths

hazlitt on poverty

cheapo car auction

/huang’s world

/wells fargo ad – but they want user and pass for complaints via @

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Amphitheaters

/ny’s voiding ban against natural hair – https://www.independentsentinel.com/mayor-de-blasio-has-a-new-anti-hair-discrimination-law/

/search the am. box

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=self-righteousness+compassion&FORM=HDRSC1 add it to psych?

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=abolish+the+olympics&form=EDGSPH&mkt=en-us&httpsmsn=1&plvar=0&refig=16732155b60c4e7398969b0ff249fed6&sp=1&qs=AS&pq=abolish+the+oly&sc=4-15&cvid=16732155b60c4e7398969b0ff249fed6&cc=US&setlang=en-US

 

`/could add link of sub teach to decline of vals

/David schaef: people donn’t take pride in their work. The day he doesn’t; he quits

/norman lear: all in fam [which Nixon didn’t like], good times, jeffersons, maude, – remember how controversial those were.

He’s jewish – such talent. Sensitive. They have a way of talking and thinking. Reminded me of ny. so offended at anti-semetic fr. Coughlin. Super righteous Moral majority https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moral_Majority so he founded

 people for the am way. http://www.pfaw.org/

/skater tom had to marry, being a celeb. Rock h too, Gordon too?

https://www.infoplease.com/calendar-holidays/holidays-america thus

/mem day, July 4^th, labor day, Halloween, vets day, thanks, xmas, new yrs, ml king day, easter

St pats, groundhog day, jewish, Chinese new yr, [tet?], valentines day, presidents day, mardi gras, ma’s day, pa’s day, flag day, lent

 

https://www.bing.com/search?q=is+life+heavier+back+east&form=EDNTHT&mkt=en-us&httpsmsn=1&msnews=1&rec_search=1&plvar=0&refig=09c00b9accdd44c9b576702671bccdfc&sp=-1&pq=is+life+heavier+back+east&sc=0-25&qs=n&sk=&cvid=09c00b9accdd44c9b576702671bccdfc

  vs oz

/repairman with bad teeth ………you wonder about his youth, priorities, choices, etc [and your luck]

/bruce spreenstein said there can be a little ….. in a neigh, that exists for a little while, then changes and is gone forever. Just like preston wilcox and that ballet dancer

/discrimination …..based on hair. Nj is 3^rd state to ban such discrim l2/l9 – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=discrimination+based+on+hair&form=HDRSC2&first=1&cw=1117&ch=572 blks. Ag: but it’s done against whites + and 0 on net about this butg maybe some here – https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=%20problem%20hairstyles%20of%20whites%20&qs=n&form=QBIR&sp=-1&pq=problem%20hairstyles%20of%20whites%20&sc=0-29&sk=&cvid=A741D48758BD487B93325B25534C66C2 and here

 

https://www.bing.com/search?q=+problem+hairstyles+of+whites+&FORM=HDRSC1

 

/discrim based on age, religion, gender, socio-econ statue, nationality, skin color, hair ag: hippie hair,

/ jerry springer, and him as judge, bruce cutlere as judge, hot bench, judge jerry springer

/grammies each yr, which I don’t watch, seem to get cheaper with more hype, more endless, boring rhythm, more flash, in your face black obesity, rap, yelling, some hands on pants… can’t even watch it. outdoor jackets? Hats? Something in paper about old timers staying away from it.

 

/risky interview with black gang with their guns, obscenity, in your face, gang signs, outdoor coats, doing a vid.

/nj is 3^rd st to ban discrim based on hair. 2020. – https://www.bing.com/search?q=discrimination+based+on+hair&FORM=HDRSC1

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Go go music in shaw. What next: it into howard u, hosp, schs, churches, saggy pants, hair, gansta rap, glorifying criminals, profanity, double lparking, sights, alc, drugs, pimps, https://www.bing.com/search?q=washington+dc+go+go+music+protest&cvid=c43746a3cea5405cb2f9a88ddd63bfac&FORM=ANSPA1&PC=U531

Dovato for hiv, stupid hair…..to attract those?

/ https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=why+so+many+frizzy+hairstyles+on+television&cw=1117&ch=589&FORM=AWIR

 

https://www.bing.com/search?q=do+some+cultures+flaunt+big+rear+ends&form=ANNTH1&refig=53ac8c2e3f9749488770c4078163ca66&sp=-1&pq=do+some+cultures+flaunt+big+rear+ends&sc=1-37&qs=n&sk=&cvid=53ac8c2e3f9749488770c4078163ca66

 

/I’m not better than others and visa versa. Why didn’t anyone mentions that before? maybe more pop……or smarter, etc., but not better

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=which+celebrities+had+ow+kids&form=ANSPH1&refig=285e60d15f94414389b1c59bd1fefb21&sp=-1&pq=which+celebrities+had+ow+kids&sc=0-29&qs=n&sk=&cvid=285e60d15f94414389b1c59bd1fefb21

 

http://www.commercialsihate.com/

 

/ https://www.bing.com/search?q=americans+won%27t+pick+crops&form=ANNTH1&refig=99abdc83a687402a9a211f136ebd1360&sp=-1&pq=americans+won%27t+pick+crops&sc=0-26&qs=n&sk=&cvid=99abdc83a687402a9a211f136ebd1360 I lasted 45 min

 

/search cultural fads, music fads, fads

 

/all sex….prohibitions are for the young

 

/ https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=celebrities+with+kids+out+of+wedlock&FORM=HDRSC2 thus

 

 

 

 

/impossibly wholesome, clean cut, decent, sweet, delightful kids, well behaved. Shows what well brot up kids are like. in London’s John Lewis foodhall . a surprise opera …….[overdone]

/celebreties with out of wedlock children – https://www.bing.com/search?q=list%20of%20celebreties%20with%20out%20of%20wedlock%20children&qs=n&form=QBRE&sp=-1&pq=list%20of%20celebreties%20with%20out%20of%20wedlock%20children&sc=0-48&sk=&cvid=7F6BBCBDBA6642C7A2C3BE6538EA179D

/celebreties with love children

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I can’t add this to blog pix

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How did I develop my vals

/ depth: chella, marry lu, ann blythe, julie cristie, mary ann moody,

/ https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=no+expectorating&form=HDRSC2&first=1&scenario=ImageHoverTitle

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Laws passed banning discrimination by hair. So we have to put up with

https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=people%20with%20frizzy%20hair&qs=n&form=QBIRMH&sp=-1&pq=people%20with%20frizzy%20hair&sc=4-23&cvid=7F25CD0EB65C4BADAC0F095C4EB25150&first=1&scenario=ImageBasicHover

what’s next – saggy pants, crude language, ghetto blasters, sloppy work,

microaggressions, threats,

/yrs ago parents lined up to get their kids into FUNDAMENTAL schools !!!!

/we have to worship vets vs what andy rooney said

/don’t forget I got greedy with rms in gar + bob a?

/apologies have to take resp for the harm done [=comp]

/thanksgiving, blk fr, 29 days till xmas: gifts, decorate hse and tree, cards, parties – office and reg, food, ….new yrs eve, parade, game. ……. [bills, let down, cold]

save wrapping paper, leave gifts out [worse in a shallow family]

/all happens for a reason?

/celebreties who went broke sports stars too

/dinner = lunch and supper = the evening meal

/badass, pissed customer, b.s., filthy rap music added to tik tok babes

/life is boring for many, thus the continual search for more exotic food

/depth: greta garbo [ who lived near me], ann blythe, vicky

/shallow: no emp. Selfish, unreal

/the am. dream –

/dogs on the furn…

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beach culture – Bing

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Tiger Woods Was Clearly Speeding, So Why Didn’t He Even Get a Ticket?

The crash, which occurred after Woods drove well above 80 miles per hour in a 45 m.p.h. zone, raised questions about how law enforcement treated his case.

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Middle of the nite. Reading the front page of NY times, as I do every day. bright, but smart aleck. Too many catchy titles, introspection, bored intellects overinterpreting, counterproductive, negative – typical of Jews? Anything for attention, counter culture, always questioning

/what’s with boating on water? Isn’t their something better to do?

/study found that very happy people are pereceived as naïve, gullable sig

 

/nyt: Inked Mummies, Linking Tattoo Artists With Their Ancestors 7/7/2l. such a profoundly stupid title.

 

 

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7/28/2l economist:

Skateboarding’s ascent to the Olympics has prompted artists ?????? to reflect on the pursuit. “No Comply”, a new exhibition at Somerset House in London, explores how the subversive ????? pastime took hold in Britain in the 1970s. “All The Streets Are Silent”, a documentary released in American cinemas last week, looks at the

 

/ confluence of skateboarding and hip-hop music in Manhattan in the late 1980s and early 1990s. Both subcultures were edgy, dismissive of authority and set off a kind of moral panic in the press. As a result of that rebellious ethos, many skateboarders think the activity is at odds with the rigour of the Olympics. Others are pleased that its athleticism and creativity is being recognised at last.

 

/courage is doing what you’re afraid to do. I’d add diligently discipling yourself to do…..

/objections to women’s volleyball in bikinis at Olympics + 8’21

/ People with Good Hair – Bing images ‘good’?

/fairness doctrine repealed under rr. Thus rush

/ how do out of wedlock kids feel – Bing

/Portland and seattle, thus ok to riot, thus blm, thus jan 6, objectivity way down, fairness doctrine, fox news,

/ Vintage Ads You Won’t Believe Existed (gazillions.com)

/the old crowd here: tennis, golf, vacations, food, some service clubs

/ what do americans think of the graffiti on new york subway – Bing

/graffiti and guardian angels taki 183

/road rage, guns, crime?, profanity, dirty rap, saggy clothes, baseball cap backwards, tatoos, unruly airline passengers,

/more threats now on lawmakers. L0/2l

/TAKI 183 – Wikipedia TAKI 183

/ tattoos before after removal – Bing images

 

/you’re judged by the way you treat ‘little’ people.

/each birthday is a gift

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I guess she was educated by woke, existential, crt, politically correct, social justice warriors

/ Sorry—playing music in public areas while you’re moving is prohibited.

/ why do people wear baseball caps backwards – Bing

/

Treasure Hunter Who Got Lost in Yellowstone Must Repay Cost of Rescue

/don’t ever complain to a shallow

/the south I big on mil

/pull your pants up

/ Ingratitude is the cardinal sin. Link it to emp

/frizzy hair

/tj and scot have to have extreme pleasure

/tattoos

/ 1 extra line at Costco, then another

/ 2/22 nyt One Menacing Call After Another: Threats Against Lawmakers Surge

A review of such threats shows how a mainstreaming of violent political speech has prompted a growing number of Americans to target elected officials.

/ Face Mole Removal – Bing images

/honorary degree for m Tyson

/Florence or Beverly penrod worked at lq. Hope she didn’t get her feelings hurt. Her folks fault.

/also that wig girl who worked at mc sch. i found her yr bk in the trash. Sad.

Also stephanie bad legs. Doug winton, swimmer with bad leg

/resp nec for self-respect

/rel….brings lack of resp. like with btenants, and shallows in vic

/25 yrs with k and it evolved into this

/ Greg Gutfeld Cast – Bing images

/DAVID BROOKS

Some People Turn Suffering Into Wisdom

/hair, before, after kinky, hippy, wild

/ Gallery reveals hair-raising images of people who have been arrested (msn.com)

/bending the rules: Nimitz, caine mutiny, prof sailor, somebody up their likes me,

/ring thru nose – disgusting and dangerous – name for middle part of nose rings are put – Search (bing.com)

/one thing to have a bad hair style; another to flaunt it. are mullocks those spikes?

/wash your mouth out with soap

/best birthday present for me is 0. xmas just shows ….. it’s the litt and big things throughout the yr.

/we never let pets on the furniture

/peta’s position on rodeos

/catching a greased pig

/ peta’s position on rodeos – Search (bing.com)

/ rodeo cruelty – Search (bing.com)

/ prison rodeos must be the worst – Search (bing.com)

/ american bohemia – Search (bing.com)

/your rel beliefs are in the sky; you econ beliefs are practical

/ bbl – Search (bing.com)

/ brazilian butt lift – Bing images not worth it?

/ cruises are brainless – Search (bing.com)

/d said in mex: down on div, gays, they call mh locos which makes it worse. it’s disease. and they’re down on pills for suicide, saying you’ll go to hell. but all gattin better

/ow, illegit.., bastard, other son

/do the british walk on the left side – Search (bing.com)

/

The Nuns Who Left Brooklyn

It’s hard to be a devotee of prayer and silence when parties with thumping music gather outside your walls.

/ examples of hair banned – Bing images vs no bans on tatoos?

/ where are tattoos banned – Search (bing.com)

/the brits are totally hung up on titles, symbols, status, medals, robes,

/5/23 – https://www.nytimes.com/2023/05/16/style/polyamory-somerville.html sig

/ ingratitude in the cardinal sin – Search (bing.com) – truman ingratitude in the cardinal sin – Search (bing.com)

/What Masturbation Does to Your Brain (msn.com)

/ Giant Food takes drastic measures to stop rampant theft in its 165 supermarkets (msn.com)

and food deserts

/ Orange County Supervisors Adopt Limited Flag Policy (msn.com) 6/23

/ hip hop definition – Search (bing.com) 50 yrs of it. 50 yrs of thuggery? hip hop is thuggery – Search (bing.com)

/ ingratitude is the cardinal sin – Search (bing.com)

/ The 50 greatest moments in hip-hop history

As hip-hop celebrates its 50th anniversary on Aug. 11, The Times looks back at the artists, songs and innovations that changed the course of popular culture.

/nyt mag:

How Hip-Hop Conquered the World is it mostly black?

 Hip-hop’s 50th anniversary shines a light on its New York City birth (economist.com)

/remember how to ape the ignorant ?

Search hip hop is thuggery

/ The Hottest Jay-Z Merch: Limited-Edition Library Cards – The New York Times (nytimes.com)

Our rush to the bottom , says ag

/ nyt 9/l3/23 : No One Wants to Be a Teacher Anymore. Can You Blame Them?

/ There’s Still Overwhelming Cultural Pressure to Get Married and Have Kids 9/23

/farm kids have superior work ethic, vals?

/nyt l0/l8/23 disgusting:

Getting Dressed With Beenslackin

A fit pic provocateur, full-time flaneur and occasional stylist, Menelik Demissie, 24, has made a name as a street-level avant gardist in New York.

/ Professional wrestling – Wikipedia

/ who refused oscars awards – Search (bing.com)

/Death by Doctor May Soon Be Available for the Mentally Ill in Canada

The country is divided over a law that would allow patients suffering from mental health illnesses to apply for assisted death.

/tradval to barker 1/24

/ 21 American Stereotypes That Are Incorrectly Accepted Globally (msn.com) – so so

Stuck in the 60s: 10 Things Baby Boomers Refuse To Let Go Of – Because Mom Says

 

Stuck in the 60s: 10 Things Baby Boomers Refuse To Let Go Of – Because Mom Says

 

 

/ 24 expressions with racist origins you should stop saying (msn.com)

/ center part of nose that people put a ring thru – Search (bing.com) – septum